Here's the story; this Virgo guy and I started off as friends however he used always complement on my looks,the way I act pretty much had a crush on me. After some time I started to fall for him too.we dated for about 6 months and he was the most sweetest,kind guy I ever encounter,always checking on me,making sure I was safe,because I kept things from like how I was feeling about certain things,my sister told him and he got upset and broke up me saying how we're not compatible he's likes to go out while I'm more of home body, he did however asked could we still be friends I said sure since then we been hanging out together more and I feel my feelings are getting more stronger for him, when I tell him how I feel about him, he's says I love you too just not like that but more like family. He has a new girlfriend yet he still want hang out, make plans for future for us. I feel like I'm going crazy because I love him so much it's hurts The question at hand, is should i keep pursuing him or make the harder decision and let go of this guy p.s I'm an Aquarius
Should I let him go ?

Posted by Likethewind1
broke up me saying how we're not compatible he's likes to go out while I'm more of home body,
he's says I love you too just not like that but more like family. He has a new girlfriend yet he still want hang out
I'd say BACK UP PLAN
He's telling you he loves you like his family as in? Sister? He's got a gf yet hangs out with you? Not cool!
He broke up with you because of something you didn't share with him...was it too important to share? I don't know a guy who had crush on you leaves you because you didn't share something, has a gf, likes you as family...Total confused guy he is!

In my opinion, lovers can't be friends.
He got upset that I wasn't telling him how the things he was saying was hurting me. He can have a smart mouth sometimes) I had a lot of insecurities when we were dating which I'm still battling. I guess he got upset that he was making me feel less than what I was unintentionally. If I'm being honest the more I write about I understand why he broke up me with. Maybe the reason why I'm having trouble letting go is because im still in love when I see him tomorrow I'm going to confess my feelings to him maybe something comes out it,

Something seems very off here.
For him to be so upset, and for your own sister to feel compelld to rat you out ... suggests something pretty big went down besides just you just keeping feelings to yourself. Secondly, your talk about loving him so much sounds out of contrast with how careless you describe the situation.
How do you go from - keeping secrets enough to have your own sister turn on you to loving so much it hurts.
You don't sound sincere.
Lastly, why would you consider not letting him go when he has a girlfriend? You appear to have no concept of boundaries. Are you seriously asking us if you should continue holding on to a man who doesn't want to be with you?
For him to be so upset, and for your own sister to feel compelld to rat you out ... suggests something pretty big went down besides just you just keeping feelings to yourself. Secondly, your talk about loving him so much sounds out of contrast with how careless you describe the situation.
How do you go from - keeping secrets enough to have your own sister turn on you to loving so much it hurts.
You don't sound sincere.
Lastly, why would you consider not letting him go when he has a girlfriend? You appear to have no concept of boundaries. Are you seriously asking us if you should continue holding on to a man who doesn't want to be with you?

Title: Should I let him go
Direct quote, "He has a new girlfriend now"
You seriously cannot comprehend what you are saying/living
Direct quote, "He has a new girlfriend now"
You seriously cannot comprehend what you are saying/living

Posted by Likethewind1
tomorrow I'm going to confess my feelings to him maybe something comes out it,
in the OP you said that you told him how you feel, so you haven't told him?
why would you have expectations on his reactions to your feelings when he has a girlfriend?
That sounds like a game. A woman of integrity would step away.
He was my first love and due to my upbringing which isn't an excuse I wasn't sure how to express things that are upsetting me my sister told him because she knows I will keep it to myself I will confess I was very immature at the time thankfully I out grow that, and about the girlfriend part your absolutely right but before he met her, we went out clubbing together, dinner together out the Country together I met his parents the only mistake I made was saying ok to all of this. It's hard to logically when your feeling are involved
@p ange your right l I'm just a stupid girl in love
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