Taurus-Virgo in the need of your deep wisdom :(

Well I think it is the first time in my life that I felt the virgo magic.
I have been with Leos, Cancer and Aries in a rinse and repeat manner for my great frustration, untill now.

I met him in a bar, he was one of the most discreet guys in there but I felt drawn into him like a magnet. Commented it with my friends (we are pretty close and my bff is a cancer guy) and less then a minute (when I was back to my normal self)after my cancer friend went to him and told him that I had something to tell him.

He tapped my shoulder I was in awe not understanding what happened but I went outside. We barely talked I just kissed him, I couldn't help myself...

Neither of us had our phones so I told him that if he really wanted to see me again that he had to memorise my number (I was a bit to drunk), he ran home and texted me 20 minutes later saying: I got it! We should hang out soon🙂

He is not much of a texter (even though I feel like I want to text him all the time just to keep contact I carry on with my life and wait) or that good at keeping contact but when we are together it is amazing!

He took to me dinner twice, I couldn't help myself and slept with him the first night for some reason I was completely at ease, no embarrassment, no shyness, nothing, everything felt natural and smooth.

How should I pursue this relatioship? We are both very successfull at work, cultured and well travelled but, I am not from the same country and English is not my first (or second for that matter) language.

I have no idea of what to do...
He is a september 11 78 virgo.

thank you, I am sorry for the wall of text and the bad english.

I am very gratefull for your reply.

I am phone shy (I always think that my accent isn't good enough) so we don't comunicate much except to setup where and when he is going to take me out.

I don't know if there are real obstacles or if I am creating them. Just the fact that dating in europe and in the US is so different kinda scares me.

LOL hot! I am pretty confident myself, I like to keep my body extremely fit with a bit of meat in the right places and my unusual face and eyes usually also work well.

I think he was shocked with the first dinner, he probably thought that I was gonna dress up like crazy and I just present myself casual (my casual is very groomed though). He kept saying how cute I was (and later on something about sexy and cute is not a myth?!).

It is still weird, in my country animals or kids are cute, not women closing 30.

should I let him take the lead for the contacts though? I don't even know that much about my own sign lol

or, should I just wait for him to contact me instead of doing wtv I want?

whats your birthday and time of birth and whats your first language if you don't mind me asking.

may 19 83 I was born 00:10

yes lol

go easy. taureans tend to take good touches as a sign of something more. if something feels good, it's very easy for taurus to fall deeply and the reality is, the current state of the relationship may not warrant that level of dedication/infatuation.

i say, pretend it never happened. hit the reset button on your heart and mind then begin evaluating his merit based on something other than touch.

well, I wasn't fully honest on my post.
I never meet people looking for relationships, I meet people because it is fun, it eases down the lustfull me and specially because I always learn something, I really treasure that.

Sometimes my flings just turn into something else. I am not a relationship person, but when I am in one I give my self completely, and they are never short term. I always break up in good terms and we always stay friends.

I just want to learn more from him, he is fascinating!

Posted by 69virgo

Posted by skyrocket
should I let him take the lead for the contacts though? I don't even know that much about my own sign lol

See,I can tell you're use to dealing with cancers..with virgos,we don't care if a woman is sassy and want to take the lead sometimes,its boring leading all the time...so be aggressive woman and get what you want..sometimes women who wait around on the man,end up losing out too a woman that swooped right down and took what she was waiting on..😉

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yup, the bad part is that man are not used to find women like me and they tend to end up with their emotions all over the place.


Why did virgoking ask for my time of birth?

Posted by caligula
go easy. taureans tend to take good touches as a sign of something more. if something feels good, it's very easy for taurus to fall deeply and the reality is, the current state of the relationship may not warrant that level of dedication/infatuation.

i say, pretend it never happened. hit the reset button on your heart and mind then begin evaluating his merit based on something other than touch.

LOL I am atracted to brains, he has an awesome one, and for once I am engaged with someone that is at least at my success level so no inferiority complex from him and no superiority from me...

dude, you hardly know him so wtf are you talking about?

this is typical taurus. you're dickmatized is all. the sooner you snap out of it, the better chance you have at actually getting to know him and possibly progressing forward.

progress forward to what? I didn't understand, I am sorry, snap out of what?

you've had TWO dates with him, fucked him on the first and you're asking him how to progress in this "relationship."

WHAT "relationship?" be happy if he doesn't consider you a whore or relegates you to a fuck buddy.

so if you want to move forward, ie, doing something other than sucking his dick, wake the fuck up and realize that in order to transition into a "relationship," you need more than superficial good feeling.

ok, went to check urban dictionary lol.

Posted by caligula
you've had TWO dates with him, fucked him on the first and you're asking him how to progress in this "relationship."

WHAT "relationship?" be happy if he doesn't consider you a whore or relegates you to a fuck buddy.

so if you want to move forward, ie, doing something other than sucking his dick, wake the fuck up and realize that in order to transition into a "relationship," you need more than superficial good feeling.

sorry, I explained before, something got lost in translation, for us relationship does not mean bf and gf at all (it goes from hook up, get together, dating, marriage, wtv) what I meant was in terms of compatibility how easy is it to just enjoy it without having to put labbles to it and to just take it as it comes.

(The whole dating thing in the US is just a black box for me, even more with a type of person that never crossed my life, aries, leos and cancer are just easy to read, not this one)

ok I see you having a cap rising tell me if this you There's a seriousness to Capricorn rising people that is unmistakable. Even when they're joking around, it's of the deadpan variety. In fact, plenty of very humorous people have Capricorn Ascendants. It's all in the timing...and the fact that they don't giggle before the joke is over. Capricorn Ascendant people project competence. They simply ooze it. They're generally very image-conscious people--the clothes they wear and their manner are a big deal to them. They want to appear successful, and they generally succeed! Often the Ascendant persona is the one that was forced upon us by family conditioning. For example, parents may label their Libra Ascendant child the "nice" one; their Aries Ascendant child the "independent" one; and their Pisces Ascendant child is generally the space cadet of the family. We adopt these roles as familiar ones, and often carry them with us as our defense mechanisms, in some way or another, for the rest of our lives. In the case of Capricorn Ascendants, these were the children who were considered the responsible ones. Sometimes, it was they themselves who looked around them and felt the need to be the structured, dependable, and responsible members of the family. So, often, Capricorn rising people adopted a strong sense of tradition, family, and responsibility at a very young age.

Capricorn rising people are generally big on family, and forever worry about security--for themselves and their dependents. They come across to others as hard-working, competent, and dependable people. What others may not see under that cool, even suave, exterior, is an inner struggle: they often ask themselves, "Am I doing enough?", "Do I deserve all of this?", "How can I make things better?" They worry a lot about the future. If success seemed to have come easy to these folks, it hasn't. They just made it look that way with a patient, hard-working, driven personality. Some Capricorn rising people practice some form of self-denial. They know how to do away with the frivolous. Still, they'll spend money on the clothes they really want (the ones with the right labels, that is), and other status symbols. Although they're rarely showy, their quiet air of success is often a result of conscious effort. More often than not, Capricorn rising individuals are success stories. Their childhoods may have been difficult, but they slowly but surely turn their lives around. Saturn rules this Ascendant, and this generally means a kind of backwards way of living--as children, they are serious and bear a lot of responsibility; and as they grow up, they age beautifully, learning how to loosen up.

I ask for your time of birth and place so I can find your rising sign I need in order to see why you was so attracted to him. You have a gem mars and that can be lusty planet. Here is your chart

diac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Taurus 27.24 Ascendant Capricorn 1.13
Moon Leo 18.31 II Aquarius 11.42
Mercury Taurus 17.58 R III Pisces 24.18
Venus Cancer 10.32 IV Aries 27.27
Mars Gemini 1.27 V Taurus 21.53
Jupiter Sagittarius 7.12 R VI Gemini 11.56
Saturn Libra 29.11 R VII Cancer 1.13
Uranus Sagittarius 7.31 R VIII Leo 11.42
Neptune Sagittarius 28.40 R IX Virgo 24.18
Pluto Libra 27.21 R Midheaven Libra 27.27
Lilith Aquarius 6.57 XI Scorpio 21.53
Asc node Gemini 25.14 XII Sagittarius 11.56

what's not lost in translation your taurean bull's shit.

so you want to fuck him? that's it? you want to know how you can continue seeing him and fucking him?

that's easy...continue taking your panties off.

his chart


Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Virgo 18.05
Moon Capricorn 1.41
Mercury Virgo 2.05
Venus Scorpio 3.29
Mars Libra 24.13
Jupiter Leo 1.06
Saturn Virgo 5.49
Uranus Scorpio 13.26
Neptune Sagittarius 15.37
Pluto Libra 15.31
Lilith Cancer 26.22
Asc node Virgo 26.46

*is your

OMFG virgoking LOL
yes, I think that's me rofl

how did you do that—?

Posted by 69virgo
Caligula,what difference do it make,if you get wrapped all up in a person then get dickmatized,or if you get it before your feeling are all warped...its all the same,and us guys can tell the difference between jump off,as the basketball wives call it ..and a hot blooded woman that knows what she wants,and is actually about something..😉

she's a taurus and that's what makes it different.

he touched her and she didn't cringe. we have a very high threshold for good/bad touch. when we meet someone who's touch pleases us, it's very easy to put a stamp of approval on them without knowing much about them. conversely, we tend to reject people whose touches are bad.

taurus responds positively when things "feel" good and reality is, what is feeling when you hardly know someone?

wtf!

*whose

Well It seem his Jupiter is in your 8th house I think this is why you was so drawn to him

When your Jupiter is in your romantic partner??s eighth house, you feel drawn into a very deep personal relationship where you experience the desire to merge resources, talents, and energies. You can both benefit financially by living together. When your relationship partner??s Jupiter is in your eighth house, you will experience an intense personal bonding and will find it very hard to view yourself as separate from your relationship or your partner because of the material and emotional abundance you feel and achieve together.

Posted by 69virgo
Caligula,what difference do it make,if you get wrapped all up in a person then get dickmatized,or if you get it before your feeling are all warped...its all the same,and us guys can tell the difference between jump off,as the basketball wives call it ..and a hot blooded woman that knows what she wants,and is actually about something..😉

I was just surprised, when I was sneaking out the first night he woke up stashed my clothes under his bed and pulled me back into bed, he said: so I will have to be awake so you don't leave? we talked for 4 hours, untill I fell asleep, when I woke up he wasn't there so I ran arround to get my shit together and GTFO but he came back with breakfeast for me (we ended up skipping work that morning)

Posted by skyrocket
OMFG virgoking LOL
yes, I think that's me rofl

how did you do that—?

Here I got a country close were you live but to be sure I need the city you was born in.

but check this out. http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal?member=&recalc=&name=&sex=t&d1day=19&d1month=5&d1year=1983&d1hour=0&d1min=10&citylist=Portugalete% 2C+Spain&lang=en

Posted by virgoking
Well It seem his Jupiter is in your 8th house I think this is why you was so drawn to him

When your Jupiter is in your romantic partner??s eighth house, you feel drawn into a very deep personal relationship where you experience the desire to merge resources, talents, and energies. You can both benefit financially by living together. When your relationship partner??s Jupiter is in your eighth house, you will experience an intense personal bonding and will find it very hard to view yourself as separate from your relationship or your partner because of the material and emotional abundance you feel and achieve together.

this sounds so foreign to me! but kinda true

Caligula, I have way better bed in my life (it is only normal it takes time to get to know a person in bed) there is just something different about him...

wow!

she was "sneaking out."

does her chart say that she has self-esteem issues? oh wait, she has mercury in taurus...slow-witted as fuck.

His mercury the planet of communication is in virgo and yours is in Taurus so you should have good talks with each other. You have cancer Venus so you like all the passiveness that he shows for you.

Posted by caligula
wow!

she was "sneaking out."

does her chart say that she has self-esteem issues? oh wait, she has mercury in taurus...slow-witted as fuck.

I am a creature of habits I like to sleep in my own bed wake up to my coffee and have my silence in the morning.

what is mercury in taurus?

Your mars is in gem so you like a lot of change that could be a problem in this relationship because gem and virgo don't mix well. But He has a libra mars so the sex should be good.

does "google" translate?

Posted by virgoking
His mercury the planet of communication is in virgo and yours is in Taurus so you should have good talks with each other. You have cancer Venus so you like all the passiveness that he shows for you.

that would explain it, I get bored with people very easely (to the point I just wanna french exit the fucking scene) and I don't get that with him.

Mercury in Taurus

He is faithful to his ideas, unchangeable and quietly opinionated, persistent, but discreet. Likes all the pleasures life can offer. Careful in speech, deliberate, intelligent. Learns best through the senses, not through the traditional educational system. He possesses plenty of common sense, and his simplicity makes it easy to get from point A to point B in as few steps as possible!

Weaknesses: stubborn, obstinate, withdrawn. Slow to react.

lol so it seems like you can have part of yourself lined up in the interwebs
thank you virgoking, this is quite amusing lolol

I was a little lazy so I did a snarty on both of you guys chart.


Inter-planetary aspects

The following aspects between planets concern the possible relationships between two charts: especially the emotional and romantic relationship, but also aspects on social, intellectual and spiritual levels.

209 Trine Sun - Mercury

Positive aspect: They are able to solve problems when they put their heads together. Respect for each other's intelligence. Good understanding between the two persons and intellectual interests in common, the same type of curiosity.

-155 Square Mercury - Mars

Negative aspect: They can interrupt each other often. Problems can arise when one or the other finds their partner too blunt or too critical. When involved in a conversation, they can compete for the microphone.

-98 Square Jupiter - Saturn

Negative aspect: Difficult relationship as a couple, the two being too different even to complement each other.

-80 Square Jupiter - Saturn

Negative aspect: Difficult relationship as a couple, the two being too different even to complement each other.

-78 Square Saturn - Uranus

Negative aspect: Challenging in terms of perspectives. There can be distinct times when they argue about restrictions on freedom.

78 Conjunction Mars - Pluto

Positive aspect: Enormous physical passion. The sexual attraction is intense and insistent. They want to be around each other as much as possible. Their sexual relationship evolves with time, instead of dissolves.

74 Sextile Mars - Jupiter

Positive aspect: This is an excellent aspect. They boost each other's confidence and fill each other with enthusiasm. They make plans together, and they are realistic enough to fulfill.

wow caligula, you sure are damaged, someone isn't being rubbed the right way rofl

74 Conjunction Venus - Saturn

Positive aspect: This union could be favorable and lasting, if Venus is really looking for a mature person to be with. There can be a certain level of self-consciousness together that is always present, no matter how long they are together. There is a lot of loyalty between them, and a feeling of responsibility for one another.

74 Conjunction Mars - Saturn

Positive aspect: A life together with few problems, love will develop into friendship, they will understand each other and go well together. It can be a little routine at times, and there is some self-consciousness with each other.

An indication that they will both be faithful.

57 Trine Venus - Uranus

Positive aspect: Union or love will be very strong, not at all intellectual, but sensual and full

sorry Synastry lol

so overral my own chart is ok or am I a true clusterf*ck? I feel like I don't fit or belong so often!

Umm your fine just click on this http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal?member=&recalc=&name=&sex=t&d1day=19&d1month=5&d1year=1983&d1hour=0&d1min=10&citylist=Set% C3% BAbal% 2C+Portugal&lang=en">Link to read about your self.

Posted by 69virgo
Taurus gemini Cusp girl....anybody that wants to keep up with this girl,betta put on their nikes ..because she is full of energy..😉

I just realised I read a lot of your posts before I registered, you are like the go to person for Virgos lol

the whole love for the good stuff makes us look so vain!

ahahaha the epic sulking!

Posted by skyrocket
wow caligula, you sure are damaged, someone isn't being rubbed the right way rofl

you fuck on the first "date" and apparently do so often and i'm the one who's "damaged?"

gotcha 😉

Posted by caligula

Posted by skyrocket
wow caligula, you sure are damaged, someone isn't being rubbed the right way rofl

you fuck on the first "date" and apparently do so often and i'm the one who's "damaged?"

gotcha 😉

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I didn't know that taming my hornyness was a sign of damages rofl

I just hate games and play pretend, if I feel like doing something I'll do it (as long as it doesn't cause hurt to anyone and it doesn't clash with other peoples freedom) 🙂)))

Posted by 69virgo

Posted by skyrocket

Posted by 69virgo
Taurus gemini Cusp girl....anybody that wants to keep up with this girl,betta put on their nikes ..because she is full of energy..😉

I just realised I read a lot of your posts before I registered, you are like the go to person for Virgos lol

I'm just one of many,that's the good thing about our board..you can good advice from virgo guys ranging from age 19 up into the 50's 😉

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I never realised how clarifying this is. It is on the dot so frequently that it is scary! (I am a science person so it does shock me a bit)