Tell me more Virgos being uncomfortable w/emotion

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Ok so it's been said that Virgos are unemotional and uncomfortable with emotional displays. Can you elaborate? For instance, I'm an aqua sun/Scorpio moon. I have a hard time sharing private things until I'm totally comfortable. But I'd like to open up more with this Virgo but some things I may share, well, they are emotional. Should I expect him to be uncomfortable? Or is it only when it's emotions TOWARDS them that make them uncomfortable?
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Control yourself. Of course, I spoke, so now you won't control yourself, will you?

You'll go blabbering some bullshit because you can't control yourself.

Let him see that ... and you're done. I don't think you have a choice in the matter. I don't think you are capable. Just look at history in here in how when you hear something you don't like, you act like some entitled brat who cannot handle anything other than your expectations.

If you can't handle differing words, other than what your hears can handle .... then you aren't Virgo material.


again .... control yourself
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Posted by kaqual75

things I may share, well, they are emotional







If you need to share emotional feelings, then you aren't Virgo material .... you're probably not male material.

If you are in need of doing this ... then you're needy.


You don't even have this guy, according to everything you've written in here ... and here you are talking about wanting to lay your emotions on him.


What? like baggage?
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Awe P Angel, did you remember me? Or did you have to click my profile and read my older posts? That's so sweet.

Not baggage, just confide in him about things I'm dealing with. He comes to me to talk about things that bother him and I want to trust him the same way. It's called building a friendship/foundation for our relationship.

I don't mind differing opinions/words. We talk about all kinds of things and don't always have the same opinion. God, I'd hate to live a life with someone who thought 100% like me, that'd be quite boring.

Thanks for the laugh today, P Angel. _??
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Posted by kaqual75
Ok so it's been said that Virgos are unemotional and uncomfortable with emotional displays. Can you elaborate? For instance, I'm an aqua sun/Scorpio moon. I have a hard time sharing private things until I'm totally comfortable. But I'd like to open up more with this Virgo but some things I may share, well, they are emotional. Should I expect him to be uncomfortable? Or is it only when it's emotions TOWARDS them that make them uncomfortable?



How's it going with him? Has it still been smooth sailing?
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m...lol. No it's been good. We talked. He is a typical Virgo to a tee. So it's just been about learning each other. We tend to look at things from the perspective of how we would do things. The more I learn about him the more I understand why he does the things he does and what it really means. I think more relationships would be successful if people tried to step outside of themselves and just tried to see things from a different perspective.


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Posted by kaqual75
Ok so it's been said that Virgos are unemotional and uncomfortable with emotional displays. Can you elaborate? For instance, I'm an aqua sun/Scorpio moon. I have a hard time sharing private things until I'm totally comfortable. But I'd like to open up more with this Virgo but some things I may share, well, they are emotional. Should I expect him to be uncomfortable? Or is it only when it's emotions TOWARDS them that make them uncomfortable?



How's it going with him? Has it still been smooth sailing?
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To some extent, yes. But I have a Scorpio moon. So how I deal with emotions are a little different. I don't like to show a ton of emotions to just anyone but at the end of the day I do want to be with someone I can let a little steam loose with. That doesn't mean unload on them. But someone who will listen when I want to open that door.

Posted by magma
Correct me if I'm wrong, but like Virgos, Aquas tend to intellectualize their emotions, so does my Gemini wife. And that works for me, I know what words mean, and I know what emotions are behind them. I love my wife, I want to hear what she has to say, no matter what it is. Of course, she's a very strong woman, so she doesn't fall apart anyway.

How he takes what you say will depend on how into you he is, but if you're his whole world, he'll want to hear it. You could go a bit easy until you know if you aren't sure. I don't know how long you've been together but I would think you know him better than we do.