The Idea Man

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So, My Virgo considers himself the "idea man" - me? I'm the detail oriented doer and decision maker of all (that's why I'm the best, he says).

I thought Virgos were, in general, detail oriented like Caps... I will go all out in researching something and give him every possible solution, option, path imaginable BUT that drives him nuts and he wants simplicity in solutions. "Just give me the best one!" he tells me. I, in turn, respond with "What do you think is best for you?"... what do I get in return "You decide" Aaaargh!!!
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@LS: Mercury, Mars and in the 12th house (although Mercury & Mars are in the 11th —)

@Shaks: Thanks hon! He does seem to trust me to no end (and says so), even on a major purchase he wanted me to handle the business end of it (work my magic, as he put it - he didn't even want to be in the room, which I thought was nuts, it's his money after all). BUT, your statement about taking more things into consideration is wrong, I cover every possible option and weigh them accordingly (which is why we Caps can't make a quick decision, we're too busy weighing options to determine the best possible outcome! or maybe that's just me LOL). He's more of a here and now kinda guy, "what can we do to make money NOW?"; I think more so in the long term, "how/will this be beneficial to us down the road?" (regardless of what it can do for us now). Not that his thinking isn't long term, he wants us to be financially stable in the long run, and his ideas are great, he just wants instant gratification. But, yeah, together we are a force to be reckoned with and business wise I think we play easily off each others strengths. I manage the money end, he manages the business end.
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Virgo men are NOT the ideal men. They just fucking think they are.



Im quite sure you'll hide your comment the moment you read the title of this thread again plus the original post.



Who soured her grapes?

Any woman can bring me her list of qualities she wants in a man, and I'm sure Virgo men outclass other signs by vast margins.

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libra in mercury - people pleasing dialect, indecisive - so to not "rock the boat"
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My Mercury is in Libra. I would'nt call myself indecisiveness, jut open minded.
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Posted by VirgoVixxxen
Virgo men are NOT the ideal men. They just fucking think they are.



Im quite sure you'll hide your comment the moment you read the title of this thread again plus the original post.



Who soured her grapes?

Any woman can bring me her list of qualities she wants in a man, and I'm sure Virgo men outclass other signs by vast margins.

Posted by ellessque
libra in mercury - people pleasing dialect, indecisive - so to not "rock the boat"



My Mercury is in Libra. I would'nt call myself indecisiveness, jut open minded.
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I'm sure you do outclass many men in the zodiac. Don't take offense. Surely you're not all this way. Virgo men do have class but I think you guys could be running a close second in comparison to the most debonair...the Cap man. Something about that Cap boy.
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Posted by VirgoVixxxen
Virgo men are NOT the ideal men. They just fucking think they are.



Im quite sure you'll hide your comment the moment you read the title of this thread again plus the original post.
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Oh I see. You can dish but you can't take. Aren't you the one always ragging on the Virgals? Just for kicks? Oh get off the rag already.
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I'm sure you do outclass many men in the zodiac. Don't take offense. Surely you're not all this way. Virgo men do have class but I think you guys could be running a close second in comparison to the most debonair...the Cap man. Something about that Cap boy.



Hahahahaa, aaawww, is shumbody sprung? 🙂
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Nah. So hard to be sprung on someone who's so hard to crack. Those cap men are teflon tough. They actually remind me quite a bit of you Virgo men. They appear very suave on the outside but I know that they are quite the ball of emotions on the in. The only man in the zodiac who can have me sprung without getting to know him is a Cancer. Those crab boys are like voodoo to us Virgo dolls. It's like I lose all of my sensibilities. It's sad really because we usually never lose our cool.
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Nah. So hard to be sprung on someone who's so hard to crack. Those cap men are teflon tough. They actually remind me quite a bit of you Virgo men. They appear very suave on the outside but I know that they are quite the ball of emotions on the in. The only man in the zodiac who can have me sprung without getting to know him is a Cancer. Those crab boys are like voodoo to us Virgo dolls. It's like I lose all of my sensibilities. It's sad really because we usually never lose our cool.



I believe it was Candeh who was telling us about why Crab men win Virgettes. She said their openly emotional and vulnerable presentation is what wins you all over.

What do you suspect it is?
Cause I'd really like to be considered competition to a Cancer man for a Virgo girl's affection, seriously. I have never stood a chance, haha!
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Nah. So hard to be sprung on someone who's so hard to crack. Those cap men are teflon tough. They actually remind me quite a bit of you Virgo men. They appear very suave on the outside but I know that they are quite the ball of emotions on the in. The only man in the zodiac who can have me sprung without getting to know him is a Cancer. Those crab boys are like voodoo to us Virgo dolls. It's like I lose all of my sensibilities. It's sad really because we usually never lose our cool.



I believe it was Candeh who was telling us about why Crab men win Virgettes. She said their openly emotional and vulnerable presentation is what wins you all over.

What do you suspect it is?
Cause I'd really like to be considered competition to a Cancer man for a Virgo girl's affection, seriously. I have never stood a chance, haha!
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You Virgo men are so full of it. Keep in mind Caj that I'm only half an idiot. lol. We hear how you all rant and rave about the water girls (mainly the scorps) and the other two earth girls but never the virgettes. You really want me to believe that you Virgo men are interested in us? Ha! I mean come on. Funny enough, I think the virgettes on this site have made it quite clear that for the most part, the feeling is mutual...

Moving right along...ah the Cancer man. If you're really serious about what you say (and I'll give you the benefit of the doubt), then you have to be more open emotionally. Can ya do that? Each sign is blessed with their own set of talents and believe you me, the water boys have got it in the emotions dept. Contrary to our stoical facades, virgettes want to be stirred from the inside out and nobody can do that better than a water boy. Earth and earth is great but earth and water is even better. It's like a magnetic surge of energy running between the two that's just oh so sick. I've felt it and it was like heaven on earth. Cancer men in particular need only give us a look and we're putty. I don't know what it is and I can't really explain it and I guess that's what makes it so beautiful. It's other-worldly really. Pink the singer (Virgo) put it best about her Cancer husband Carey Hart when it comes to the physical; "did somebody ever touch you so softly that it made you cry".

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You Virgo men are so full of it. Keep in mind Caj that I'm only half an idiot. lol. We hear how you all rant and rave about the water girls (mainly the scorps) and the other two earth girls but never the virgettes. You really want me to believe that you Virgo men are interested in us? Ha! I mean come on. Funny enough, I think the virgettes on this site have made it quite clear that for the most part, the feeling is mutual...



Oh my gosh, you have no idea!
I've been pining for a Virgal for years and I have mentioned it several times on DXP.

LeGendary, Shaks and virgoking can attest!

Moving right along...ah the Cancer man. If you're really serious about what you say (and I'll give you the benefit of the doubt), then you have to be more open emotionally. Can ya do that? Each sign is blessed with their own set of talents and believe you me, the water boys have got it in the emotions dept. Contrary to our stoical facades, virgettes want to be stirred from the inside out and nobody can do that better than a water boy.
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I've done it with a Virgal before... but, I dunno.
We have racial boundaries here and in the end, her logic told her it wasn't feasible, I'm guessing.

I probably can't do it to a Cancer's extent but it is very possible.
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Oh my gosh, you have no idea!
I've been pining for a Virgal for years and I have mentioned it several times on DXP.

LeGendary, Shaks and virgoking can attest!

Moving right along...ah the Cancer man. If you're really serious about what you say (and I'll give you the benefit of the doubt), then you have to be more open emotionally. Can ya do that? Each sign is blessed with their own set of talents and believe you me, the water boys have got it in the emotions dept. Contrary to our stoical facades, virgettes want to be stirred from the inside out and nobody can do that better than a water boy.



I've done it with a Virgal before... but, I dunno.
We have racial boundaries here and in the end, her logic told her it wasn't feasible, I'm guessing.

I probably can't do it to a Cancer's extent but it is very possible.
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Well I'm sorry you didn't get your Virgal. I'm sure there can be alot of passion between two suppressed pent-up souls like a Virgo M/Virgo W. If the love is there and both parties are willing to let go of inhibitions, why not? We do have emotions and if we, the seemingly cold, emotionless souls of the zodiac can meet the raw fiery passion of the Cancer then why can't we have it with one another?
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Nah. So hard to be sprung on someone who's so hard to crack. Those cap men are teflon tough. They actually remind me quite a bit of you Virgo men. They appear very suave on the outside but I know that they are quite the ball of emotions on the in. The only man in the zodiac who can have me sprung without getting to know him is a Cancer. Those crab boys are like voodoo to us Virgo dolls. It's like I lose all of my sensibilities. It's sad really because we usually never lose our cool.



I believe it was Candeh who was telling us about why Crab men win Virgettes. She said their openly emotional and vulnerable presentation is what wins you all over.

What do you suspect it is?
Cause I'd really like to be considered competition to a Cancer man for a Virgo girl's affection, seriously. I have never stood a chance, haha!
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Lol, it might just be me, Caj. Half the virgo girls don't seem to even like cancers 😢 I think it's because of my scorp moon. I'm really emotional with this hard outer shell; I'm tough but really sensitive at the same time. Some signs don't seem to cater to that at all, so it while I may be attracted, I feel kind of lost because I try hard not to show that emotional side. With cancers, they kind of allow me to let go a little. They can read me, so I don't feel so lost all the time.

I don't hate virgo men at all. In fact, I think I could work with them. I think like with some virgo guys, I can be oblivious to their advances (kind of like some virgo guys are oblivious lol)
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You Virgo men are so full of it. Keep in mind Caj that I'm only half an idiot. lol. We hear how you all rant and rave about the water girls (mainly the scorps) and the other two earth girls but never the virgettes. You really want me to believe that you Virgo men are interested in us? Ha! I mean come on. Funny enough, I think the virgettes on this site have made it quite clear that for the most part, the feeling is mutual...



Oh my gosh, you have no idea!
I've been pining for a Virgal for years and I have mentioned it several times on DXP.

LeGendary, Shaks and virgoking can attest!

Moving right along...ah the Cancer man. If you're really serious about what you say (and I'll give you the benefit of the doubt), then you have to be more open emotionally. Can ya do that? Each sign is blessed with their own set of talents and believe you me, the water boys have got it in the emotions dept. Contrary to our stoical facades, virgettes want to be stirred from the inside out and nobody can do that better than a water boy.



I've done it with a Virgal before... but, I dunno.
We have racial boundaries here and in the end, her logic told her it wasn't feasible, I'm guessing.

I probably can't do it to a Cancer's extent but it is very possible.
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You know im the expert on virgo women if I know they are a virgo I got them, I'll tell you every thing you have to do first you must be confident at all times never falter. No matter how much it seem the virgo girl doesn't like you she dose. Trust me she is, if she is talking to you she like you. You really have to take the lead if you want to have her, give her the virgo stare they love that sh it. Romance the hell out of them and to seal the deal f u ck the s h it out of them and there yours forever. This formula also work on virgo men lol, In short just do what you would like a women to do to you caj and you have it
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You Virgo men are so full of it. Keep in mind Caj that I'm only half an idiot. lol. We hear how you all rant and rave about the water girls (mainly the scorps) and the other two earth girls but never the virgettes. You really want me to believe that you Virgo men are interested in us? Ha! I mean come on. Funny enough, I think the virgettes on this site have made it quite clear that for the most part, the feeling is mutual...



Oh my gosh, you have no idea!
I've been pining for a Virgal for years and I have mentioned it several times on DXP.

LeGendary, Shaks and virgoking can attest!

Moving right along...ah the Cancer man. If you're really serious about what you say (and I'll give you the benefit of the doubt), then you have to be more open emotionally. Can ya do that? Each sign is blessed with their own set of talents and believe you me, the water boys have got it in the emotions dept. Contrary to our stoical facades, virgettes want to be stirred from the inside out and nobody can do that better than a water boy.



I've done it with a Virgal before... but, I dunno.
We have racial boundaries here and in the end, her logic told her it wasn't feasible, I'm guessing.

I probably can't do it to a Cancer's extent but it is very possible.


You know im the expert on virgo women if I know they are a virgo I got them, I'll tell you every thing you have to do first you must be confident at all times never falter. No matter how much it seem the virgo girl doesn't like you she dose. Trust me she is, if she is talking to you she like you. You really have to take the lead if you want to have her, give her the virgo stare they love that sh it. Romance the hell out of them and to seal the deal f u ck the s h it out of them and there yours forever. This formula also work on virgo men lol, In short just do what you would like a women to do to you caj and you have it
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AHAHAHAHA. How did you know!
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You Virgo men are so full of it. Keep in mind Caj that I'm only half an idiot. lol. We hear how you all rant and rave about the water girls (mainly the scorps) and the other two earth girls but never the virgettes. You really want me to believe that you Virgo men are interested in us? Ha! I mean come on. Funny enough, I think the virgettes on this site have made it quite clear that for the most part, the feeling is mutual...



Oh my gosh, you have no idea!
I've been pining for a Virgal for years and I have mentioned it several times on DXP.

LeGendary, Shaks and virgoking can attest!

Moving right along...ah the Cancer man. If you're really serious about what you say (and I'll give you the benefit of the doubt), then you have to be more open emotionally. Can ya do that? Each sign is blessed with their own set of talents and believe you me, the water boys have got it in the emotions dept. Contrary to our stoical facades, virgettes want to be stirred from the inside out and nobody can do that better than a water boy.



I've done it with a Virgal before... but, I dunno.
We have racial boundaries here and in the end, her logic told her it wasn't feasible, I'm guessing.

I probably can't do it to a Cancer's extent but it is very possible.


You know im the expert on virgo women if I know they are a virgo I got them, I'll tell you every thing you have to do first you must be confident at all times never falter. No matter how much it seem the virgo girl doesn't like you she dose. Trust me she is, if she is talking to you she like you. You really have to take the lead if you want to have her, give her the virgo stare they love that sh it. Romance the hell out of them and to seal the deal f u ck the s h it out of them and there yours forever. This formula also work on virgo men lol, In short just do what you would like a women to do to you caj and you have it



AHAHAHAHA. How did you know!
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im a virgo women expert lol my girl now is a virgo to
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Posted by ellessque
maybe indecisive is the wrong word.

accomodating

What would YOU like to do?
Where would YOU like to eat?
How would YOU approach this concept?

yeah, like that.

not that you can't make a decision, you don't want anyone's opinion to be unheard.

*shrugs*



Exactly! 😄

Why the shrug?

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You know im the expert on virgo women if I know they are a virgo I got them, I'll tell you every thing you have to do first you must be confident at all times never falter. No matter how much it seem the virgo girl doesn't like you she dose. Trust me she is, if she is talking to you she like you. You really have to take the lead if you want to have her, give her the virgo stare they love that sh it. Romance the hell out of them and to seal the deal f u ck the s h it out of them and there yours forever. This formula also work on virgo men lol, In short just do what you would like a women to do to you caj and you have it
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The bolded portion has more or less been my issue with the rest. They are hesistant to give anything away it seems.