The Virgo Consensus : A Woman's Scorn

I have been at the forefront of many tongue lashings in my time.

Having a Libra ex who fell back in love with me and I denied the opportunity to rekindle a relationship with caused her to scorn me. She went around telling a lot of people that I am a "player" and "I can't be trusted" and I "slept with this one and that one". Basically a whole crock of crap that is not true.

My first Scorpio ex is possibly the worst offender, having cursed me many times. Using foul languages and making jeering comments in her tantrums. Hurting my feelings with callous words I can't even bother to remember. "You're effing mad" and things like that.

My last ex, the Sag told me "My whole family is glad I broke up with you, My friends too. No one asked why I broke up". "The sight of you disgusts me, I don't want you around, I don't want you touching me". She also jeered at me and used foul language to convey her points.

What amazes me, is women set out to rip out your heart then trounce on your feelings and expect you to "be friends" or "take them back" or "behave as though it never happened". As if us men don't have feelings.

I try so hard to make things nice for them. Never cursing or using foul language, never saying such intentionally callous things to hurt their feelings.

This kind of immaturity really is degrading and I stand behind my notion that I should not entertain such people in my life.

Do other Virgos tolerate this?
Or worse yet, find it acceptable?

Posted by seavixen
yep, without a doubt a scorpio tongue lashing is the worst...vicious! But a Gemini one can be brutal as well...just for the pure fact that they are condesending and sometimes you can't tell if they are serious are being facetious...

geminis are crazyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy i kno 2 many of them and we always battle with words if ur not careful they can destroy u with words i seen my gemini sister shut someone down like a cpu i was like damn dats harsh but i laugh cuz it was funny.

Posted by Cajunspirit
I have been at the forefront of many tongue lashings in my time.

Having a Libra ex who fell back in love with me and I denied the opportunity to rekindle a relationship with caused her to scorn me. She went around telling a lot of people that I am a "player" and "I can't be trusted" and I "slept with this one and that one". Basically a whole crock of crap that is not true.

My first Scorpio ex is possibly the worst offender, having cursed me many times. Using foul languages and making jeering comments in her tantrums. Hurting my feelings with callous words I can't even bother to remember. "You're effing mad" and things like that.

My last ex, the Sag told me "My whole family is glad I broke up with you, My friends too. No one asked why I broke up". "The sight of you disgusts me, I don't want you around, I don't want you touching me". She also jeered at me and used foul language to convey her points.

What amazes me, is women set out to rip out your heart then trounce on your feelings and expect you to "be friends" or "take them back" or "behave as though it never happened". As if us men don't have feelings.

I try so hard to make things nice for them. Never cursing or using foul language, never saying such intentionally callous things to hurt their feelings.

This kind of immaturity really is degrading and I stand behind my notion that I should not entertain such people in my life.

Do other Virgos tolerate this?
Or worse yet, find it acceptable?

idk man it depends what u want 2 find acceptable just is me but i tell people idc who u are i wont let u disrespect me who the fuck are u 2 come out ur face understand what im saying i tell people if u cant' handle my realness kick rocks cuz i wont be a bullshit person and smile up all in ur face and fake it that shit wont ever fly with me lmfao.

virgos dont take stuff maybe virgos with water moons lmfao

heh. you're still so young. it's nice to watch ur documentations as you grow.

indeed. there are differences between men and women. i can only hope that as u continue ur journey through life you will learn to embrace understanding, acceptance, and compassion. i hope u will stay away from the tendency to over-generalize. don't forget to take everyone on a case-by-case basis. remain humble, friend. 😉

Posted by Jason2213
Just continue to be your awesome self and let the others continue to stick false labels on you. So that a woman who truly understands you will slap them in the face for you one day.

Yep! That kind of rubbish just made me see red!

Yes, just do you! I am one of those that it takes a long time to get mad, and if I do it's been provoked. I don't say degrading things (to others) about my exes, etc. Especially now that I am older. First of all, if you made me so mad that I have to cuss at you, etc, then we definitely will not be together ever again, because I get extremely pissed off if I feel a person has made me stoop to their level, and second, if I say degrading things to my friends and family about an ex, and then I go back to them, then I look like the a $ $ hole. Now, that's not to say that some people can't get back together after a fight/breakup, etc, but when you tell your friends and family a whole bunch of damning information about that person whether it's true or not, it just puts you in a poor light (in my opinion).
Example - one of my gf's has a friend who was dating this guy and she told her family very PERSONAL info about him (disease related), because they had broken up, she didn't really care, so they all gathered around her. Well, sure as my name is ____________, she and her boyfriend got back together, and he has NO IDEA that all of these people she's schlepping him around know HIS PERSONAL business, so they are looking at him disgustedly, and they are looking at her like she is stupid & desperate. Now mind you, I don't really know this girl that well, and I don't know her boyfriend AT ALL, yet, I am privy to personal information about him that I shouldn't be. But the ironic thing is, she thought by saying/telling all of his business people would sympathize with her, but my gf (who is friends with the girl) is saying that all of her friends and family talk a lot of stuff about her now, and they she is desperate and crazy. Moral: keep your mouth shut, because the result you THINK you are trying to get, may NOT be the outcome you were expecting.
Cajunspirit, you seem to be an extremely introspective young man for such a young man...maybe it's a Virgo thing, I don't know. But, don't ever feel you have to stoop to others level...always try to rise above it. The truth ALWAYS comes out in the "wash."

fuck them hoes lol im starting to see why other virgos disapear on women.. u try to work things out just for it to blow up in ur face.. i don't know im no the line right now.. but im thinking about just hitting and quiting it.. i don't know... me and u caj are arond the same age we should not be trying to get tied down anyway.. when be when im 30 thats the time when women start acting right..

Posted by virgoking
fuck them hoes lol im starting to see why other virgos disapear on women.. u try to work things out just for it to blow up in ur face.. i don't know im no the line right now.. but im thinking about just hitting and quiting it.. i don't know... me and u caj are arond the same age we should not be trying to get tied down anyway.. when be when im 30 thats the time when women start acting right..

member u got all that virgo in ur chart with the cap moon and Scorpio so u dont give a flying fuck lmfao

i guess thats what differ u from other virgos.

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Posted by virgoking
fuck them hoes lol im starting to see why other virgos disapear on women.. u try to work things out just for it to blow up in ur face.. i don't know im no the line right now.. but im thinking about just hitting and quiting it.. i don't know... me and u caj are arond the same age we should not be trying to get tied down anyway.. when be when im 30 thats the time when women start acting right..

VK..the thing is, I don't think Cajun could ever be the "hit it and quit it" type of guy...seriously. He's too much of a deep thinker that analyzes every angle...he's got the looks of a 21 yr old but the mentality of a 60 year old (Good thing). I haven't met a Virgo player yet come to think of it...

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ur right cajun just have a good heart we leo moons have that lmfao

but i would not allow no one 2 disrespect me cuz ur noe better then me pride and honor integrity is very important 2 me i live by those things.

Cajun your very handsome but you tolerate too much bullshit from women which makes you slightly unattractive, you are not matching up, start learning how to NEXT women when they disrespect you without even talking, some women (not all) want to be punished for being a bitch, women have all kinds of issues, daddy issues, self esteem issues and these kind of women only respond to strong resistance and strong masculine men and most of them that have that quality are the bad boys anti-social types but you can learn how to cultivate that kind of strength which is very attractive by the way into into your persona without being a bad boy jerk.

When women tongue lash a man especially young ones she's testing your masculinity and if you let her do it once it will continue until you feel like a total chump and once that happens she loses all respect for you and will cheat on you and talk to you like your second class.

LOL seavixen yep your so right, some men have huge mama issues

Posted by ninjamu
heh. you're still so young. it's nice to watch ur documentations as you grow.

indeed. there are differences between men and women. i can only hope that as u continue ur journey through life you will learn to embrace understanding, acceptance, and compassion. i hope u will stay away from the tendency to over-generalize. don't forget to take everyone on a case-by-case basis. remain humble, friend. 😉

I'd love to know if you disagree with anything I said or find me at fault.

Posted by virgoking
fuck them hoes lol im starting to see why other virgos disapear on women.. u try to work things out just for it to blow up in ur face.. i don't know im no the line right now.. but im thinking about just hitting and quiting it.. i don't know... me and u caj are arond the same age we should not be trying to get tied down anyway.. when be when im 30 thats the time when women start acting right..

Yeah man, I know those thoughts, but that just is not who I am.
I only get into a relationship if I see marriage potential, I don't see the point in "dating for fun", call me silly but that's just my mentality.
I don't see the point in dating young immature women and vice versa for mature women.

Posted by tiki33
Cajun your very handsome

Thanks 🙂

but you tolerate too much bullshit from women which makes you slightly unattractive, you are not matching up, start learning how to NEXT women when they disrespect you without even talking, some women (not all) want to be punished for being a bitch, women have all kinds of issues, daddy issues, self esteem issues and these kind of women only respond to strong resistance and strong masculine men and most of them that have that quality are the bad boys anti-social types but you can learn how to cultivate that kind of strength which is very attractive by the way into into your persona without being a bad boy jerk.

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Well I grew up thinking that what women want is for a man to understand how they feel... but as much as they do, without strong communication I don't get it.

Love a woman more than you understand her, that's my big lesson this year.

na doggy i was just like you when i was 18-19 im usually more mature than people my age, but never would let a ho get disrespectfull on me like that fam, it takes alot to piss me off, but no and i mean NO female should have the heart to come at me like these chicks are coming at you. You handled it like a man but you atleast had to show her that you dont play around like that. Women dont respect you if you dont stand up for yourself. i Let em yap all they want as i stand there and look at them like their not even there which hurts them i even smile to let em know that i dont take em serious, but i make sure i degrade em more by making them feel like garbage that they are tell TO GET THE F OUT YOUR HOUSE SMUT.

"Well I grew up thinking that what women want is for a man to understand how they feel... but as much as they do, without strong communication I don't get it.

Love a woman more than you understand her, that's my big lesson this year."

It takes a very evolved mature woman to appreciate you, be more SELECTIVE in the way you choose a mate

Dating is to help you learn how to AVOID crazy psycho women and also to build your confidence that you can select a proper mate for yourself when the time comes....Try to just date to date like most men do, you will save yourself from strongly bonding with women that carry dead end issues.

Your attractive but you have some chump tendencies that turn my hormones OFF and most likely turn women off once they get past your looks...get rid of it or date older women. Leave the love stuff to us, just be a man that oozes masculinity and we will do the rest.

Posted by tiki33

Your attractive but you have some chump tendencies that turn my hormones OFF and most likely turn women off once they get past your looks...get rid of it or date older women. Leave the love stuff to us, just be a man that oozes masculinity and we will do the rest.

This is a strange concept that I am coming to terms with.

NYC, much respect.

You will never understand our feelings because they are so complex and always changing minute to minute, you can't go hunt, conquer and take care of me if your nurturing my feelings, nothing gets done when men try to hold and fix our feelings plus he just gets sucked into the vortex and spit out, no energy to do much of anything besides sit there and be a whipping boy. Showing empathy is good, healthy women want to know and see that a man cares but we don't want to turn you into a chump but an unhealthy woman will turn you out quickly then begin to devalue you by talking crap and discard you.

You master your masculinity you will never have to lift a finger in a relationship, I know I will catch heat from other women but look around DXP, the men that have mastered there masculinity have these women howling daily, why he say this, why he do that, why why why, she can't think about anyone but him, she can't breathe without thinking about him, his masculinity (testosterone) got her whipped into a love frenzy, she feels alive, safe and she wants to nest and turn him into her longterm boyfriend/husband immediately. I personally don't believe men have to dog women out in the process but there are men that do it unfortunately.

LOOK AT IT LIKE THIS MY DUDE, REMEMBER WHEN YOU WE WERE CHILDREN THAT WE WOULD WALK IN THE STREETS WITH YOUR DAD OR MALE FIGURE THAT WAS OLDER THAN YOU, YOU WOULDNT BE SCARED, YOU WOULD FEEL PROTECTED NOT WORRIED THAT ANYONE WOULD DO YOU HARM, WELL THATS WHAT FEMALES LIKE TO FEEL WITH THEIR MAN, THEY LIKE MASCULINITY. I MEAN NOT SAYING THAT YOU HAVE TO BE AN ASSHOLE
BUT ITS PART OF A MANS NATURE PLAIN AND SIMPLE WE CANT FIGHT IT ITS ALWAYS THERE TO PROTECT YOU). Lets sAY your always nice to YOUR WOMAN AGREEING WITH EVERYTHING SHE SAYS, SHE WILL GET TIRED OF IT QUICK .SHE WILL THEN TRY TO TEST YOU TO SEE IF YOUR "OTHER SIDE" WOULD COME OUT (YOUR MEAN SIDE/I DONT GIVE A FUCK SIDE). IF THEYVE CROSSED THE LINE AND SEEN THAT YOU DO NOT HAVE THAT SIDE, THEY WILL WALK ALL OVER YOU BECAUSE THEY ALREADY KNOW YOUR NOT MEAN AND YOU NEED TO MAN UP (BEING AN ASSWHOLE IS A TRAIT THAT WOMEN EXPECT TO GET FROM MEN, EVENTHOUGH THEY COMPLAIN ABOUT IT ALL THE TIME, THEY NEED IT).IF A CHICK SAYS SHE GONNA LEAVE ILL BE LIKE OK "B---- THE DOOR IS RIGHT THERE YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO" THEYL COME BACK SAYING NO "IM SORRY IM SORRY" ETC F ATTA HERE. Notice that any chic that has problems with going back with their exes is because the guy is treatin them like s--- not because hes being nice to them. They want to turn bad guys into good guys and if you give em good guy to quick they will figure you out fast(you cant let that happen worry about YOUR self development in a relationship) as long as you deny her from changing you back to that good guy she will keep chasing you trying and trying, she will end up doing every thing you say because it is a MANS job to take charge, make plans aka lead.
for example look at every tv show how the man is always acting like an asswhole yet the wife remains there submitted to it the honey mooners, flinstones, fresh prince etc etc , even any uncles you may have you always notice that the female counterpart is always the one chasing. this theory is how you turn from a boy to a young man and it applies after your first or worst scorn, and it is there so it would never happen again in you life. Men need a scorn to make em become a man women need their period to become a woman

Posted by tiki33
You master your masculinity you will never have to lift a finger in a relationship, I know I will catch heat from other women but look around DXP, the men that have mastered there masculinity have these women howling daily, why he say this, why he do that, why why why, she can't think about anyone but him, she can't breathe without thinking about him, his masculinity (testosterone) got her whipped into a love frenzy, she feels alive, safe and she wants to nest and turn him into her longterm boyfriend/husband immediately.

Hahaha... I have been raised to be the opposite of what you describe.

I do my very best to try and understand a woman, her feelings, to nurture her, make her feel safe and secure and let her know how I feel.

Are you agreeing with my saying then?
"You're either the asshole she complains about, or the Pussy she complains to"

id rather be an asswhole any day of the week and i take pleasure in doing it lol always did, women are the kittens if they want more softness thats why they always have their homegirls or gay friends(dudes that never discover or like to use their man instincts. i was raised to respect women but we liev in a COMPLETELY DIFFERENT GENERATION THAN OUR PARENTS (50'S,60'S,'70'S) THATS JUST HOW THE WORLD IS

Posted by Cajunspirit

Posted by tiki33
You master your masculinity you will never have to lift a finger in a relationship, I know I will catch heat from other women but look around DXP, the men that have mastered there masculinity have these women howling daily, why he say this, why he do that, why why why, she can't think about anyone but him, she can't breathe without thinking about him, his masculinity (testosterone) got her whipped into a love frenzy, she feels alive, safe and she wants to nest and turn him into her longterm boyfriend/husband immediately.

Hahaha... I have been raised to be the opposite of what you describe.

I do my very best to try and understand a woman, her feelings, to nurture her, make her feel safe and secure and let her know how I feel.

Are you agreeing with my saying then?
"You're either the asshole she complains about, or the Pussy she complains to"

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I totally agree which begs the question which one are you going to be?

It takes a bit of mastering to hold onto yourself when dealing with women a huge percentage of women love challenges as well, we love to see if we can turn a bad boy good and will spend an enormous amount of time trying to do it, if we accomplish it we begin to see you as weak, a less desirable mate but if you withstand and out control us and refuse to stop being YOU, we see you as the BEST option to mate with and have babies with, that is why bad boys get all the women, they refuse to ditch there masculinity to be a picket fence dream.

Posted by tiki33

"You're either the Asshole she complains about, or the Pussy she complains to"

I totally agree which begs the question which one are you going to be?

It takes a bit of mastering to hold onto yourself when dealing with women a huge percentage of women love challenges as well, we love to see if we can turn a bad boy good and will spend an enormous amount of time trying to do it, if we accomplish it we begin to see you as weak, a less desirable mate but if you withstand and out control us and refuse to stop being YOU, we see you as the BEST option to mate with and have babies with, that is why bad boys get all the women, they refuse to ditch there masculinity to be a picket fence dream.

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Haha... how sickening. Thank you though, this just reaffirms my beliefs.
I don't believe I am meant for relationships, never have.

I can't be that type of guy... I really can't.

It's just not me.

It's all about balance Cajun, managing YOU instead of trying to manage and control a woman's feelings (your being ass backwards when you do that) I have met men that have managed how to not be assholes and deal with women and are just as attractive if not more attractive than the bad boy assholes but with less of a jaded attitude mean spirited attitude....stop being scary, women are resisilient, if we can spit out an 8 plus pound baby we can certainly handle the BS that comes with dealing with you/men.

i was thinking that too at one point im 23 and ive been observing from other peoples experiences and that statement which she made is just how it is. Im not a relationship type dude either but when i turn 30 or somehting ima be down to settel down but stiil keep in mind that even women at that age want a MAN not a wuss

Posted by tiki33
It's all about balance Cajun, managing YOU instead of trying to manage and control a woman's feelings (your being ass backwards when you do that) I have met men that have managed how to not be assholes and deal with women and are just as attractive if not more attractive than the bad boy assholes but with less of a jaded attitude mean spirited attitude....stop being scary, women are resisilient, if we can spit out an 8 plus pound baby we can certainly handle the BS that comes with dealing with you/men.

I manage ME very well, exceptionally well if I would say so myself.
I don't try to control a woman's feelings, that really doesn't make sense to me.

Posted by nyc125
i was thinking that too at one point im 23 and ive been observing from other peoples experiences and that statement which she made is just how it is. Im not a relationship type dude either but when i turn 30 or somehting ima be down to settel down but stiil keep in mind that even women at that age want a MAN not a wuss

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It discourages me, honestly.

Discouraging well you choose to live in the negative on this issue when there are so many positives i.e things to be gained with a slight attitude adjustment and oh I like how you told me to off about how you manage your own, gosh that's sexy, I almost fell in love, keep it up LMAO and you will not be discouraged for much longer when you see the results of having such an attractive attitude.

Posted by tiki33
Discouraging well you choose to live in the negative on this issue when there are so many positives i.e things to be gained with a slight attitude adjustment and oh I like how you told me to off about how you manage your own, gosh that's sexy, I almost fell in love, keep it up LMAO and you will not be discouraged for much longer when you see the results of having such an attractive attitude.

lol
I have always been good at managing myself. Anger is the only thing that gives me trouble.

I am discouraged because I can't be this "Masculine" type you describe. Virgo is a female sign, Earth is a Female attribute.
I always stay true to myself and that means by fact, I'm not very "Masculine" at all.

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Posted by tiki33
Discouraging well you choose to live in the negative on this issue when there are so many positives i.e things to be gained with a slight attitude adjustment and oh I like how you told me to off about how you manage your own, gosh that's sexy, I almost fell in love, keep it up LMAO and you will not be discouraged for much longer when you see the results of having such an attractive attitude.

lol
I have always been good at managing myself. Anger is the only thing that gives me trouble.

I am discouraged because I can't be this "Masculine" type you describe. Virgo is a female sign, Earth is a Female attribute.
I always stay true to myself and that means by fact, I'm not very "Masculine" at all.

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Do yourself a huge favor and learn or live with the fact that you are going to attract DOMINATE women/bad girl type women that won't mind treating you like a girl, pushing you around and treating you like crap.

If you choose to be the feminine partner in the relationship you will be up on DXP just like all these women howling and crying and feeling confused, bewildered and used.

The good thing about it all is you can learn, there is so many pick up sites that teach men how to tap into that part of themselves and yes there are some user assholes on these kind of sites but there are some genuine men on there as well, depending on your moral compass which seems quite high you will most likely avoid interacting with those kind of men anyway b/c you have a conscious.

ima virgo and i always thought about myself as being masculine (dont know probably a decan or moon sign thing
)they say water signs are feminin yet one of my boys whos a pisces doesnt show any sign of femininity , trust me you will understand us when it hits you.

It's all attitude, change your attitude and you change your experiences with women.

"trust me you will understand us when it hits you."

or when she hits you.

Posted by GeorgiaPeach
"trust me you will understand us when it hits you."

or when she hits you.

LOL! Oh Gp no no no

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Posted by GeorgiaPeach
"trust me you will understand us when it hits you."

or when she hits you.

LOL! Oh Gp no no no

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Hahahaa

Feminine....a thought just popped into my head, I could be absolutely wrong on this but maybe this is why virgo men are so emotionally guarded because they are a feminine sign and have so many experiences with dominate women trying to manage them, controlling them in some way, treating them like crap that it's hard to trust anyone and so they become super guarded on guard for these kind of women so much so it's hard to connect in a relationship with virgo men....this is interesting because I see so many women that have issues with them and I wonder if this feminine issue is a huge part of the problem why so many women struggle.

Posted by tiki33
Feminine....a thought just popped into my head, I could be absolutely wrong on this but maybe this is why virgo men are so emotionally guarded because they are a feminine sign and have so many experiences with dominate women trying to manage them, controlling them in some way, treating them like crap that it's hard to trust anyone and so they become super guarded on guard for these kind of women so much so it's hard to connect in a relationship with virgo men....this is interesting because I see so many women that have issues with them and I wonder if this feminine issue is a huge part of the problem why so many women struggle.

I was thinking something similar.

Interestingly enough, in my last few conversations with my Sag, she said she wanted to slap me.

I would have turned the other cheek if she did...

Or I might have slapped her so hard she would be floored... I dunno

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Posted by tiki33
Feminine....a thought just popped into my head, I could be absolutely wrong on this but maybe this is why virgo men are so emotionally guarded because they are a feminine sign and have so many experiences with dominate women trying to manage them, controlling them in some way, treating them like crap that it's hard to trust anyone and so they become super guarded on guard for these kind of women so much so it's hard to connect in a relationship with virgo men....this is interesting because I see so many women that have issues with them and I wonder if this feminine issue is a huge part of the problem why so many women struggle.

I was thinking something similar.

Interestingly enough, in my last few conversations with my Sag, she said she wanted to slap me.

I would have turned the other cheek if she did...

Or I might have slapped her so hard she would be floored... I dunno

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slap...well hitting is never good but being a woman we sometimes get frustrated in the presence of a man that we want to be more masculine....slapping her back would have straightened that right out LOL

Posted by tiki33
Feminine....a thought just popped into my head, I could be absolutely wrong on this but maybe this is why virgo men are so emotionally guarded because they are a feminine sign and have so many experiences with dominate women trying to manage them, controlling them in some way, treating them like crap that it's hard to trust anyone and so they become super guarded on guard for these kind of women so much so it's hard to connect in a relationship with virgo men....this is interesting because I see so many women that have issues with them and I wonder if this feminine issue is a huge part of the problem why so many women struggle.

This is the reason why I dont usually date Virgo men. Not saying that I wouldnt date another one, but I am not the one to be waiting for the Virgo man or any man who is waiting for me to make the move. I think most of the men I have dated are Aries or have it somewhere in their chart.

"slap...well hitting is never good but being a woman we sometimes get frustrated in the presence of a man that we want to be more masculine....slapping her back would have straightened that right out LOL"

got that right tiki lol

I see what you mean GP, if virgo men are the feminine sign there is no way anything is going to pop off without the woman taking control of the situation, if she doesn't have tons of masculine energy in her chart and doesn't mind being the doer in the relationship it can turn into a problem/power struggle between 2 feminine signs, it can certainly frustrate a woman with more feminine qualities because she will feel like she's forever waiting on her virgo to get a clue and take the initiative, no wonder so many women are frustrated with these men.

cajun is sexy

Posted by trifles light as air*
cajun is sexy

Heeeheehee *blush✨

Posted by tooseriouslol
i find it odd that so many of your exes cursed you canjun.


is it a culture thing? i don't get it. i have never had a hostile breakup i dont get where you get all those girls. that's just strange. tiki has a point that masculinity attracts many women but i don't think you lack of masculinity maybe just too stubborn 😛.

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I seem to attract psycho women, seriously.

he's attracted to psycho bitches because he secretly likes being bossed and pushed around probably won't admit it though, feminine is attracted to masculine so in his case he's embracing that part of himself and will most likely always end up with psycho bitches, once he taps into his masculine energy these kind of women won't come near him or at the most won't stay too long....psycho bitches must rule and bully and push or she's not content.

Posted by tiki33
he's attracted to psycho bitches because he secretly likes being bossed and pushed around probably won't admit it though, feminine is attracted to masculine so in his case he's embracing that part of himself and will most likely always end up with psycho bitches, once he taps into his masculine energy these kind of women won't come near him or at the most won't stay too long....psycho bitches must rule and bully and push or she's not content.

I believe in fulfilling each other, on the same level.
Sure I can lead all the time, but does she like that?

I have never been bossed or pushed around, I always hold my ground take some of theirs in the process.

I'm an Earth boy with a Capricorn Ascendent, immovable.

I hate to go off topic but, Cajun when is your birthday?.....I believe you once mentioned that your a second decan virgo but never mentioned your birth date .....just wondering

Posted by venusrules
I hate to go off topic but, Cajun when is your birthday?.....I believe you once mentioned that your a second decan virgo but never mentioned your birth date .....just wondering

2:25pm, 8th September, 1988.

Posted by trifles light as air*
cajun is sexy

there yall go hyping him up again lmfao

"once he taps into his masculine energy these kind of women won't come near him or at the most won't stay too long....psycho cookiemonsteres must rule and bully and push or she's not content."

My best friend who is a Cancer is like that. But she hooked up with a Cappy who takes none of her bull. She lives with him in his house and one day he sent her butt packing. She called me and said he kicked her out. Then she told me the story. She became angry with him when she told him to take the trash out and he didnt. She kept talking crap and he told her if she didnt like it she could leave. So she left and told everyone he kicked her out. lol

Posted by sortilege85
Cajun why give a shit about these women. You remind me of myself from way back in the day when i began to trust and allow people into my life which were women... Most screwed me over: Cheated behind my back, left me for "better" guys, went to achieve goals, and so forth. Till this day none of them haven't scorned me nor have made me spit at the world all just gave me a more in depth reason why life is unfair.

What amazes me is that tiki and GeorgiaPeach come in here and admit that this is how life is for guys like us.

Honestly, Why give a rat's ass man. You are a young with lots of potential to give to the world like how i didn't... but the case is that if you begin to allow yourself to feel that these chicks are crawling underneath your skin then you fail to the second worst critic which is women whom were potential lovers.

Something a great friend of mine told me a long time ago and even till this day i keep it in my mind and whenever i get crap from people is, "Use what people say against you to better yourself then to destroy yourself". I understand it is very hard for you to take it in but once you do you'll become a building block that will smash down any sort of criticism that any crazy bitch throws at you.

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I don't really take the criticism to heart man... It just gets me wondering...
If I'm the screwed up one or if they are, ya know?

"Sure I can lead all the time, but does she like that?"

I am 36 and I have met men out there who cant even plan a date without asking a million questions, much less lead. If I have to be making all the decisions then I would rather stay home alone with my toy.

They are (answer to who's the screwed up on) and lol! thank you for birthday info however day and month would have sufficed hun! and just to clear up something....having a feminine sign means your receptive in your dealings with people and situations, it most certainly does not make you less masculine of less of a man for that matter....Taurus is feminine sign but you don't see people questioning i.e the rock (Dwayne Johnson) masculinity? Virgo men are the true gentle men of the zodiac (in my opinion), they really are gentle souls.