The Virgo Diaries

hello. i know its been a while since i posted. this is an idea for a post that i have been considering putting out there for a while now. but it was still somewhat a work in progress. essentially, i keep a diary of all my love interests - written by me, a virgo lady - and their signs. so, im gonna share with you good folks the little blurbs of information acquired from each one (i wont do the whole thing, i wrote like several pages on each lol) i hope you enjoy.

aries: this man was a little odd and distant, but could be quite charming and chatty when he wanted to be. i found it difficult to put my finger on him (maybe i just got an aries with an all-over-the-place chart?) later i learned he was gay.

taurus: this one got quite far; almost to the long-term relationship stage. he was very sweet, and talkative, and funny (although mostly unintentionally) VERY physical man. he practically constantly held my hand whenever we were together, even while he was driving. it got to me a bit as im not nearly so physical but i did it for him. eventually he disappeared.

gemini: although sweet and intelligent, this guy had far too many vices. drinking, smoking (cigarettes AND weed) had no direction as far as career and life path goes. he also loved to argue. the only guy i ever dated who thought for sure he was right as often as myself. this got in the way of us advancing our relationship anywhere, and eventually i broke it off

cancer: a nice guy with a good sense of direction and ambition, although a bit moody and VERY sensitive. i dont recall what i said but, one time i offended him so much (unintentionally) he refused to talk to me.

leo: a very funny and talkative guy, had a VERY well developed sense of humor although ironically he was a bit socially awkward lol, but in a cute way. also incredibly sensitive, even much more so than the cancer, and twice as moody as well. i even considered the possibility of a slight case of bipolar disorder, as he often fluctuated so much between being hyper and giddy, to being somber and upset. usually he would be upset over something that happened in his day, that would make me say "how the heck could something like that ruin your day?" i just didnt get it.

p.s. gonna break this into 2 sets for length's sak

virgo: one word .. psychopath! this guy was all over the map, and mroe often it felt like he was holding a conversation with himself than with me. every time he spoke, he would immediately contradict himself right after. i got confused almost every time i spoke with him, but he sure could talk.. he had a lot of underlying insecurity, that was plain to see.. even though we had so much in common and could have had an amazing relationship, i just wasnt prepared to be confused every day.

libra: also a psychopath ... had serious issues. with himself. had himself convinced that he was hyper-logical, ran a social networking site, admitted that 99% of his life was on his computer, was too into partying, and had a very large ego. (thought he was wanted by every girl everywhere) the funny thing is, libra guy thought he was better than everyone else because of very insignificant details about himself, such as the fact he was a vegan (even though i caught him eating domino's pizzza once ......) and considered "humans to be too illogical and ruled by their emotions" this quote is taken directly from his mouth.. it worried me. i got outta there fast as i could lol

scorpio: compulsive liar, always hiding secrets from me (most of them were really pointless secrets not worth hiding) very jealous, possessive, moody .. im almost certain he had a secret drug addiction, although to this day im still not sure. i also ran from that one

sagi: i dont even need to explain this one lol.

capricorn: so far, capricorn is the only sign ive had the longest relationships with. one in particular, was a very great guy, although he also had a lot of personality flaws as well. he was innocent and nice though. relationship lasted a little over 2 and a half years (thats pretty impressive for me hahah) we actually cheated on each other and admitted it at the same time. the funniest part is, we both thought it was kind of funny, but in the end we decided we had to go our separate ways. we're still friends to this day

aquarius: this guy never got to the relationship phase but he's still a good friend. he could have been a good boyfriend, but he was too afraid to move out of the friend zone. seems to me he's the kind of guy who is more comfortable being friends or a friends with benefits type deal than being in a steady relationship. he also admitted he had been confused about his sexuality.

pisces: i wouldnt waste my time

cool, I'm down:

Aries: Never have, and not interested in dating them. One of us would be killed. Hint: it would not be me.

Taurus: Dating one now, and I love it. He's not very outwardly emotional, but I actually love drawing him out. Loves to touch and be touched, incredible lover--very open-minded. Great sense of humor, sarcastic and raunchy (just like me). Very stable, dependable, ambitious, reliable, hard-working. My baby 🙂

Gemini: Never have, and not interested in dating them. One of us would be killed. Hint: it would not be me.

Cancer: He was cling...y! There was actually a point where he wouldn't let go of my hand when he came over, and when I tried to excuse myself to use the bathroom, he got up and followed me (STILL HOLDING HANDS) and ATTEMPTED TO ENTER THE BATHROOM WITH ME! I had it at that point, and screamed, "I'M JUST GOING TO PEE, I CAN DO THAT ON MY OWN!" Very lovey-dovey. He was cute, precocious eyes and a moon face (all the ones I knew had those features). Very...veeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeery kinky. Sex took up about 99% of his brain. Could go for hours. Very selfish in general though, like a big baby. He was 15 years my elder, but cried like he was 15 years my minor. A little too blunt with the comments, and could not take the same blunt treatment back. I'm so glad I cut ties with him.

Leo: Never have, but the cute and funny new guy who started at my job (a Leo) intrigues me to the "what if" aspect of it...

Virgo: Never have, and not sure this would work. I think I'd end up murdering him too. There can only be one (O_O)

Libra: No thanks.

Scorpio: Never have--too similar to me, would be the same outcome as Virgo male.

Sag: No thanks.

Capricorn: We were better as friends. Caps just seem to have this fetish with choosing partners that destroy them, so no wonder he and I never worked out (all I did was lift his ego up to the sun, like baby Simba, lol. He liked the b*tches, and eventually went to find one who stomped on his nuts as well as his heart). He was a loser, in my eyes. Never learned.

Aquarius: Nightmare. Too all-talk-no-action for me/a dreamer. Giving lover though. I decided not to wait around for him to grow up. One of my best decisions ever, because 8 years later, he's still living in someone's basement.

Pisces: Just not a good match for me. There always seems to be so much potential, but they seem scared of success...and reality...and their own shadows...They seem like they really want all the things they say they do, but it's all talk (very much like Aquarius). Not very conscientious of what they do to others, which aggravates me (case in point, my douchebag Pisces landlord thinks I want to spend my Sunday listening to him blasting music. Why not put on headphones if you have to hear it at an earsplitting level? You're home all week, I'm not--I'd like my quiet weekend, ty, you inconsiderate azzhole). Super sensitive to what you say to them, not at all about what they say to you. You have to TELL them what you want, they won't even try to figure it out, it seems. They just seem afraid of life, horrible escapist tendencies. I'd never want one as a husband, I'd deserve the tears I'd cry every night. Bottomline, they seem sweet, but are better from afar (at least in my case).

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taurus: this one got quite far; almost to the long-term relationship stage. he was very sweet, and talkative, and funny (although mostly unintentionally) VERY physical man. he practically constantly held my hand whenever we were together, even while he was driving. it got to me a bit as im not nearly so physical but i did it for him. eventually he disappeared.

I know this is for the Virgals but I wanted to comment: I dated a Taurus who also always held my hand. I actually loved that about him...

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Aquarius: Nightmare. Too all-talk-no-action for me/a dreamer. Giving lover though. I decided not to wait around for him to grow up. One of my best decisions ever, because 8 years later, he's still living in someone's basement.

My Ex Aqua: When I met him, he was living in his mother's basement and she paid all his bills, ironed , cooked for him. He was 28! Red Flag...lol

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Cancer: He was cling...y! There was actually a point where he wouldn't let go of my hand when he came over, and when I tried to excuse myself to use the bathroom, he got up and followed me (STILL HOLDING HANDS) and ATTEMPTED TO ENTER THE BATHROOM WITH ME! I had it at that point, and screamed, "I'M JUST GOING TO PEE, I CAN DO THAT ON MY OWN!" Very lovey-dovey. He was cute, precocious eyes and a moon face (all the ones I knew had those features). Very...veeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeery kinky. Sex took up about 99% of his brain. Could go for hours. Very selfish in general though, like a big baby. He was 15 years my elder, but cried like he was 15 years my minor. A little too blunt with the comments, and could not take the same blunt treatment back. I'm so glad I cut ties with him.

I too, dated a Cancer guy who was like a child. He cried one night for 30 minutes straight, talking about his dog that died the year before. Now, I too have lost pets and they can be like family. But when you are on a date— Biggest baby I ever met.

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Aquarius: Nightmare. Too all-talk-no-action for me/a dreamer. Giving lover though. I decided not to wait around for him to grow up. One of my best decisions ever, because 8 years later, he's still living in someone's basement.

My Ex Aqua: When I met him, he was living in his mother's basement and she paid all his bills, ironed , cooked for him. He was 28! Red Flag...lol

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LMFAO! That is just too sad. I forgot to add that--like the OP, mine was secretely bi too.

Posted by zen
leo: a very funny and talkative guy, had a VERY well developed sense of humor although ironically he was a bit socially awkward lol, but in a cute way. also incredibly sensitive, even much more so than the cancer, and twice as moody as well. i even considered the possibility of a slight case of bipolar disorder, as he often fluctuated so much between being hyper and giddy, to being somber and upset. usually he would be upset over something that happened in his day, that would make me say "how the heck could something like that ruin your day?" i just didnt get it.

LOL..strange enough.. ur leo description fits my virguy

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virgo: one word .. psychopath! this guy was all over the map, and mroe often it felt like he was holding a conversation with himself than with me. every time he spoke, he would immediately contradict himself right after. i got confused almost every time i spoke with him, but he sure could talk.. he had a lot of underlying insecurity, that was plain to see.. even though we had so much in common and could have had an amazing relationship, i just wasnt prepared to be confused every day.

Was he born on august...He sounds like he was born on august.

nope, my virgo's birthdate was 9/9, one day before mine, not to the year though :p

Aries: We were together for a year, and I could never really figure him out. He was very distant and needed too much freedom for me. He also loved chasing women. Needless to say things did'nt work out. Ugh never again.

Taurus: (Aries/Taurus Cusp) We've been together going on 3 years, and have one child together. It was love at first sight. He's very passionate, loves to touch and be touched. Like pp said He has to hold my hand wherever we go. he also a great father.

Gemini: Dated one & will never date another. Can't stand em.

Cancer: First Love. Sweet & sensitive, always wanted to cuddle. Great sense of humor. We had the best conversations and the most in common.

Leo: Never dated one.

Virgo: Boring...Could'nt hold a conversation, always talked about himself. Next!

Libra: Never dated one, never would.

Scorpio: Why do these men stick to me like glue? I dated two for a short period of time, and I think both of them are pyscho!

Sagi: Never.

Capricorn: He was a great guy. Loved to go out and have fun. I ended the realationship because I did'nt think he would be faithful to me. We are still friends.

Aquarius: One word, Crazy! He was so immature. Loved to play games & tell lies. I ended all contact with him, which was the best decision i ever made because now he's in jail for life. Oh and he was Bisexual too. weird.

Pisces: never dated one.

Posted by zen
nope, my virgo's birthdate was 9/9, one day before mine, not to the year though :p

Wow, you've been busy since you have been gone man. Where all these male encounters during the time you have been away from dxp? How long did these short-term relationships last or were they just dates (In my case, Dates = the learning process of a possible new mate; relationship = an agreement that both minds can retain vital information of each other while continuously awakening each other's hidden prowess)

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nope, my virgo's birthdate was 9/9, one day before mine, not to the year though :p

hey, im a 9/10 baby too 😄

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nope, my virgo's birthdate was 9/9, one day before mine, not to the year though :p

Wow, you've been busy since you have been gone man. Where all these male encounters during the time you have been away from dxp? How long did these short-term relationships last or were they just dates (In my case, Dates = the learning process of a possible new mate; relationship = an agreement that both minds can retain vital information of each other while continuously awakening each other's hidden prowess)

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hahah no, these were taken over the course of about the past 5 years of my dating life. as i said, some of them made it to relationships, some of them were just dates. but none of these experiences are based on first dates. the guys stated in the original two posts were guys that made it decently far, meaning to at least 5/6 dates (u know, long enough to at least get them in bed lol)

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nope, my virgo's birthdate was 9/9, one day before mine, not to the year though :p

hey, im a 9/10 baby too 😄

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woo! 😄 we are said to be very no-nonsense and extra controlling haha. must be the cappy influence

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Aries: We were together for a year, and I could never really figure him out. He was very distant and needed too much freedom for me. He also loved chasing women. Needless to say things did'nt work out. Ugh never again.

Taurus: (Aries/Taurus Cusp) We've been together going on 3 years, and have one child together. It was love at first sight. He's very passionate, loves to touch and be touched. Like pp said He has to hold my hand wherever we go. he also a great father.

Gemini: Dated one & will never date another. Can't stand em.

Cancer: First Love. Sweet & sensitive, always wanted to cuddle. Great sense of humor. We had the best conversations and the most in common.

Leo: Never dated one.

Virgo: Boring...Could'nt hold a conversation, always talked about himself. Next!

Libra: Never dated one, never would.

Scorpio: Why do these men stick to me like glue? I dated two for a short period of time, and I think both of them are pyscho!

I like you, LOL!!!!

Seems we all have the same views on the males of each sign! Pretty neat.

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nope, my virgo's birthdate was 9/9, one day before mine, not to the year though :p

hey, im a 9/10 baby too 😄

woo! 😄 we are said to be very no-nonsense and extra controlling haha. must be the cappy influence

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Most def--I do try to scale back on the "controlling" bit though. It's why I could never date a water sign successfully, as they seem very quiet/shy, and it would just instinctively kick in to boss them around, so it's for the best, LOL

I have a Taurus moon, and Scorp rising though, you?

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nope, my virgo's birthdate was 9/9, one day before mine, not to the year though :p

hey, im a 9/10 baby too 😄

woo! 😄 we are said to be very no-nonsense and extra controlling haha. must be the cappy influence

Most def--I do try to scale back on the "controlling" bit though. It's why I could never date a water sign successfully, as they seem very quiet/shy, and it would just instinctively kick in to boss them around, so it's for the best, LOL

I have a Taurus moon, and Scorp rising though, you?

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LOL that is so true about water signs .. my rising and moon are both libra (im gonna get judged so bad for disclosing that info)

p.s. i have an obsession with hermione.. 9/10 thing perhaps ?

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nope, my virgo's birthdate was 9/9, one day before mine, not to the year though :p

hey, im a 9/10 baby too 😄

woo! 😄 we are said to be very no-nonsense and extra controlling haha. must be the cappy influence

Most def--I do try to scale back on the "controlling" bit though. It's why I could never date a water sign successfully, as they seem very quiet/shy, and it would just instinctively kick in to boss them around, so it's for the best, LOL

I have a Taurus moon, and Scorp rising though, you?

LOL that is so true about water signs .. my rising and moon are both libra (im gonna get judged so bad for disclosing that info)

p.s. i have an obsession with hermione.. 9/10 thing perhaps ?

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no u wont i understand member i mercury in libra and venus in libra lol.

how are u btw?

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nope, my virgo's birthdate was 9/9, one day before mine, not to the year though :p

hey, im a 9/10 baby too 😄

woo! 😄 we are said to be very no-nonsense and extra controlling haha. must be the cappy influence

Most def--I do try to scale back on the "controlling" bit though. It's why I could never date a water sign successfully, as they seem very quiet/shy, and it would just instinctively kick in to boss them around, so it's for the best, LOL

I have a Taurus moon, and Scorp rising though, you?

LOL that is so true about water signs .. my rising and moon are both libra (im gonna get judged so bad for disclosing that info)

p.s. i have an obsession with hermione.. 9/10 thing perhaps ?

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well, she WAS a Sept. born Virgo in the book =))

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nope, my virgo's birthdate was 9/9, one day before mine, not to the year though :p

hey, im a 9/10 baby too 😄

woo! 😄 we are said to be very no-nonsense and extra controlling haha. must be the cappy influence

Most def--I do try to scale back on the "controlling" bit though. It's why I could never date a water sign successfully, as they seem very quiet/shy, and it would just instinctively kick in to boss them around, so it's for the best, LOL

I have a Taurus moon, and Scorp rising though, you?

LOL that is so true about water signs .. my rising and moon are both libra (im gonna get judged so bad for disclosing that info)

p.s. i have an obsession with hermione.. 9/10 thing perhaps ?

no u wont i understand member i mercury in libra and venus in libra lol.

how are u btw?

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lol yea you know what its like then .. to have a head so full of air LOL

im good 😄 imissed it here

Hey Folks,here's my take going around the Zodiac;
Aries:always on the go and always on the hunt
Taurus :nice and practical
Gemini :always up for travel and trying new things
Cancer:sweet but few words
Leo :moody , I had to pull his tail off
Virgo :half sociopath ,half pchyco
Libra :all talk
Scorpio : life changer
Sag :on for the game
Capricorn :the best,actions speak louder than words
Aqua : learned alot/bi
Pisces :friends from a distance

Ok, if one more person comes in with a bi Aqua tale...

LOL--dang! That is so weird...

OMG ok CLCNY you gotta stop making ur avatar my favoritest characters everrr lolll SILLY BIRTHDAY TELEPATHY THING

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nope, my virgo's birthdate was 9/9, one day before mine, not to the year though :p

NOoooooooooo!!!!!!

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OMG ok CLCNY you gotta stop making ur avatar my favoritest characters everrr lolll SILLY BIRTHDAY TELEPATHY THING

HAHAH! I love Foxxy 😄

^^ that is what I thought...

Posted by wgamador
Damn, you ladies know some wack Virgo males.

LOL, yeah--I have to admit, with the ones I know, their stereotypically negative qualities surface more than their positive ones. They're still sexy, and intelligent though. I just don't see a Virgo/Virgo relationship working if both aren't willing to relax and kind of crawl out of their comfort zone (which is usually the case)

And hey! Why don't you guys add your assessment of dating the signs?

Let's see what YOU say about Virgo females =))