There is only two types of virgos

Ones that give a f u ck and those who don't give a fu c k i know I don't give a fu ck lol. But I thought it was just me but I have notice this trait in other Virgos to mostly the men I work with this other Virgo Guy he is crazy he really doesn't care what he says but he needs to turn it down. Bc u can't talk like that in work but he is funny LOL. But there is some Virgos that do give a f u k but they seem to have libra or Leo in them makes since to me. They also seem the most depress anyways this is what I notice what about u guys.

Just put me in the "don't give fudge category" 😛


BTW Happy Birthday dude and i don't give a fudge about ur birthday. 😛

Posted by Beergo85
Just put me in the "don't give fudge category" 😛


BTW Happy Birthday dude and i don't give a fudge about ur birthday. 😛

yes LOL I did have u in mind LOL u and q bone and Cajun to a degree anyone else u have in mind.

I personally found August Virgos to be more likely to give a what what.

They always tell me I should'nt be so cold or so unemotional. I just reinforce it by telling them, I don't care about how other people see me.

Posted by Cajunspirit
I personally found August Virgos to be more likely to give a what what.

They always tell me I should'nt be so cold or so unemotional. I just reinforce it by telling them, I don't care about how other people see me.

I'm born in august, and i don't give a fuck.

Ex: I uploaded P-angels husbands picture just for the hell of it!

Man, fuck you and your birthday!

*takes off shirt and walks away*

Posted by wsigaf
type 3:
those who think they don't give a fuck, when in fact they do..

jackpot lmao cuz if u didnt care u wouldnt state that u didnt care owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww lmao.

Or they say they don't to protect themselves, when in fact they do...Which I can relate to

nah, most Virgos don\'t care, you just have to think like one to understand why they don\'t care about people...

Easy. Virgos put themselves in a position of enslaved service to help people, and people take this for granted, so after years of being rejected they start carrying less and that is how astrologers and people say that virgos are negative and sad at people, but they don\'t get it because we find things much more comfortable not carrying, but people think this an escape, but its really freedom.

If a virgo \"cares\" that is because they decide to leave the \"service\" mentality and rule their own life without the judgment, decisions, opinions or the beliefs of others.

^^^^ This is the best option for a Virgo to get over their self-pity and negativity. Once they learn to resist in the proper way, whatever way they perceive it, then they will live a better life without feeling rejected.

😉

Hmmm.... that was an interesting description,are you saying it's all about mind set?

We are mental, brah. 😄

Good, bad, or indifferent, we all take it to the head. 😉

Virgos have nothing but preconceived notions about the world. They often prove themselves true, so that is why they view the world negatively while they live a life positively. A simple contradiction we tend to do over and over again.

Ha you Virgo's and head....Sorry that was uncalled for was off on a tangent!!! So are you saying if you pick up on negativity or rejection you surpress and use your head as it's harder than your heart and easier to deal with?

Yup, a hypothesis would be the correct term to describe it, and if the result were to show up as a rejection the virgo \"disappears\", but for some reason many end up returning because they have to think things over with their heads rather than their hearts.

This explains the confusion as well, but a virgo, who is not mature, but experienced can easily overcome these situations, but most virgos don\'t know how to deal with those sort of situations until they are in their 30s.

In the end, they grow up to learn these rules:

1. To don\'t care for majority rule, besides their own.
2. Stop being of service to those who they know are not returning favors or can be reliable.
3. Understand to use communication effectively, and to become more expressive.
4. Allow failure, and accept the consequences.
5. Understand that people are willing to listen, and they want to help you not control you.

and once they learn these rules they are usually up for grabs...

virgos who are like this aren\'t being talked about on here...People who come here are usually dealing with the problematic virgos, and i crack up when people talk about how fucking stupid virgos can be, but they never realize that people can so far to seek answers when they have the tool to correct their problems and that is...\"COMMUNICATION\".

Communication is the universal device that people need in order to keep the fire burning, but i guess people need more than just words to fix things...the irony.

Interesting answer but when you go on your journey/dissapear/analyse/process....do you actually come back not caring because that can be effective and bury the other stuff somewhere deep ?

I never done that before, I\'m too straightforward, but from observing my cousin\'s and how they were to do this with their ex\'s or wives, they would usually go home, and shut down. They would usually think of the situation, and attempt to figure out the problem that was caused by the person, and what they did that was wrong, and when they put these pieces together they return with a response, and they do this all the time, which is why the whole \"placing somebody on the pedestal\" always puts them on the short-end because nobody wants to deal with somebody who goes hot and cold all the time while being worshiped as a god.

To point out a virgo who is having a hard time, look at how much effort he is putting into his work. A virgo would take his time observing their choirs or task while comfortably talking to people, multi-tasking; yet, if a virgo is paying far too much attention to his task, and is in another realm of thought and doesn\'t even notice you besides the tools in front of him then he is having a rough time...

We all do this at some point or another.

We, i mean virgo.

Sorry Sorti just posted that before I saw your last post....I have three close Virgo friends and they all very different but maybe similar after reading that, just not evolved together at same time and I wouldn't be without one of them, they all challenge me mentally..and ho god do they lol I certainly not here to bash just sometimes I feel you all have bigger hearts than you give yourselves credit for but you bury them deep

What sign are you again?

You seem to be a pisces or a scorpio...

Ha yep I'm Pisces, am i being intuitive or totally off the mark? Virgo's intrigue me because for some reason there's always some in my life somewhere and I respect your honesty, critisism too so long as it's constructive!!! but sometimes you seem to bury your hearts and forget how to use it...that is meant in a nice way

Nah, your name says it all, \"seadream\".

Thanks, and the heart thing...yeah, we forget about that little thing inside us that ticks, but so does every other earth sign. In many ways, that is why we have you guys, to remind us that we are still human...

For a while i thought you were only here because of relationship issues haha.

Hey my relationship issues belong to me myself and I...I know you're human just you guys don't forget that you are not all robots though I can see why some peeps might see why you are it's called body armour, which is carried to shield and protect x

Hmmm that interesting too Pandora but that makes you sound selfish and I don't see you guys that way in my experience you are always there, be it advice/support (for those you have patience/trust in and those willing to take your advice)All I'm saying is the Virgo's that are and have been in my life and I'm not talking relationships all have a heart but choose to bury it, could be insecurity a fear of vulnability hey who knows

Okay...just so I'm clear. Which type is everyone? 😉

Works for this heifer. 😄

=/

Virgo are very hurtful people, users, cold and emotionaless run run run run,

Posted by seadream
Hey my relationship issues belong to me myself and I...I know you're human just you guys don't forget that you are not all robots though I can see why some peeps might see why you are it's called body armour, which is carried to shield and protect x

I actually like the title "robot". I find it great, a new definition for VIRGIN because the term virgin is something i don't want on my tag, doesn't look professional on my part, haha.

Yup, that is why by the time they turn a certain age, whether young or old, they learn that if they want to experience intimacy of any sort then they must be able to open...Some do, many don't. I understand you find this intriguing because this is the complete opposite of how you are, by nature, but we find it great.

On the side note, I am a man who never seeks out people, they seek me *sounds cocky yeah sorry*, and all i have to do is either accept or deny, and for the ones i accept are usually seeing me for who i am...

And i have also met specific Virgos who need people who have to keep up with them on an emotional and physical level and if those expectations aren't meant then the virgos will criticize them by calling them fakes

Other virgos, which are usually the ones that the women turn to this site the most, do not view accepting or rejecting this way, and they toss obstacles at people to see if they are "true" or "trusting", and so far the only sign who is willing to go beyond this are the Scorpios and Aries, and no matter how much the Virgos here complain about them, they always fall back into square one with them, its only a contradiction that Virgos loathe. 😄

In the end, all virgos have a standard, and all will test you to see if you are reliable and if you are then you are in for the kill. Once, they open up, you will notice that they are far more fun-loving than a cancer and are almost as romantic as a leo...

Just from what i have viewed, and if i didn\'t answer your question on us hiding our hearts then the answer is this:

A virgo will only open if you are able to aid him, but not govern him in his decisions for he has his alternatives, and his sources to back his choices.

If a virgo lets go of his or her mental world then you\'ll have one that will automatically hit rock bottom and self-destruct.

Posted by Beergo85
Just put me in the "don't give fudge category" 😛


BTW Happy Birthday dude and i don't give a fudge about ur birthday. 😛

lmao!

virgos seem so complex on the outside but on the inside there not one bit.

Posted by AA
virgos seem so complex on the outside but on the inside there not one bit.

what do u aries know about virgos huh?

ok 25thDecan why do some virgo's men put women on a emotional rollercaster, at one point there very concern about the person the next minute there cold as ice?

@sagten: in your situation, it's because of your irrational, child-like behavior. I'd say, he's done with you!

Posted by sorti-fantastic poney
Just from what i have viewed, and if i didn\'t answer your question on us hiding our hearts then the answer is this:

A virgo will only open if you are able to aid him, but not govern him in his decisions for he has his alternatives, and his sources to back his choices.

If a virgo lets go of his or her mental world then you\'ll have one that will automatically hit rock bottom and self-destruct.

Goddamn--that was on POINT!

Yeah, I have no clue why people are always trying to disarm me--it's like, the same people who would HATE that being done to them will attempt to do it to me; my boss is always telling me I have this imaginary wall built up around myself that he can't break through, and I'm like "mofo, you're not MEANT to break through it. Now go siddown somewhere..."

I've experienced enough in life to know that you are seriously damned if you do or don't--if you give of yourself, are open and honest, you stand a chance of getting f'ed in the A, and if you hold back and stay to yourself, you miss out on opportunities and end up getting f'ed in the A still.

If I had to classify myself, I'd say I'm a Virgo that doesn't give a fuk in general, but will let those I care about know that I do give a fuk about them (but they have to be like >here< with me to know that...and I won't let anyone who's not get close to me anyway, so that goes without saying).

I don't give a fuk what people think--the way I look at it, "if you're not paying my bills, or affecting my bank account, then who gives a chit about your opinion?" I don't have the time or energy to try to please nameless faces in a crowd, life's too short.

I try not to hurt people, but sometimes their desperation to overrule me backfires on them and makes it look like *I* hurt *them*, which is not true at all; I just allowed them to hurt themself; that's not my fault.

Thanks Sorti,that last post was helpful and insightful and Pandora that was interesting. My closest friend is Virgo he has problems with emotions and dealing with them, it's like hands over ears I'm not listening! then buries them deep.I feel he hides behind a mask a lot of the time. I've seen him let go maybe twice and the intensity of his emotions/feelings were overwhelming but the following days he was in denial like WTF I was drunk can't remember a thing? Like he's embarassed for being human.

Yup.

Here is something that no Virgo will ever tell anyone because everyone will take the words they say for a grain of salt or find them to be extremely depressive or cry babies, but they don\'t care too much about anything (given), but they all admire nature, and the animals who inhabit the world. I\'m not saying that all virgos are extreme tree hugging friendly people, but they notice that the only innocence is the world of nature, the world they wish to live...

The only goal is to preserve what is pure of mind, the inhabitant.

Ex: Siddhartha.

Posted by AA
virgos seem so complex on the outside but on the inside there not one bit.

True that, dawg!

Like I said there is only two types of virgos the so called 3rd type is the first type the one who gives a f uck lol he will act like he doesn't care when hurt. The second type will act like this 24 7 they also will have less friend for a distaste for people in there bs. The I don't give fu ck virgo is mr spock in real life, You could die and not one tear will drop. The sec type is also way more aggressive and won't hesitate to punch you, they also are not clean freaks. You will know second type because they are selfish, they were not born with the need to help people. I know because that is me and every other sec type I have seen, when I first got into astrology I thought it was bs because I never have this huge need to help people or serve lol. So I was confuse every thing else I saw was on point to a degree, than I started looking at other virgos maybe I was missing that gene lol and thats when I found out there is only two types. I have seen virgos go all out of their way to help people like my girl she is the first type. But I seen the sec type were you would have to be fam or in a relationship with them for them to help u out lol like me. The relationship is a maybe just to let u guys know lol.

Posted by wsigaf
you're bad ass, virgoking.. I'm impressed..

😉

I only take compliments from myself thank u

Posted by wsigaf

Posted by venusianbull
Okay...just so I'm clear. Which type is everyone? 😉

75% seem to fit in the 3rd category..

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Thank you, I might have tossed and turned all night. 😉

Ok lildol, knowing that I screwed up big time what can I do to fix the situation?

First in foremost I'm not a bully people who know me know I'm very sensitive, my feelings get hurt very easily and further more I'am not IKE TURNER.

25th Decon, Kudos to that, that is in your face (blatant)honesty and why Im still friends with Virgo's. I ask them for advice, put on my crash helmet, then place head between legs lol and wait for the onslaught, sometimes I think ouch that hurt throw my teddy out!!! then rewind it all back (later, on my own cos I don't want you to know I'm actually listening/ digesting) 85% of time you are freaking right and god it pains me to say it lol but I know you are doing it for my own benefit because you care and because I trust you to be honesst(and holy shit are you ever!!!) I love and hate you all:-)x

😄

25thDecan

I send him apology text he hasn't respond to me so the question is, what can I do to win him back?