Thoughts on Aries and Friendship

Sounds like subjective feminine Virgo bullcrap.

If she's one of those spinster critical stand offish types then its that aries bet > the virgo she's not gonna stop being who she is > her friend ok but its a matter about how much she want's to put up with. Aries like any masculine sign does not like or tolerate excesses of Feminine sign subjectivity.

You don't got nothin' nice to say then you a btch heh.

Virgo girls (empty vessels of passion) should ordinarily crave the stripped down and raw passion of aries its a nice combination > but your girl buddy don't got a mate and maybe she's hurting that your friendship with her is deviating > and so maybe you can try and hook her up too! y'know yeah be a little considerate > Virgo being an earth sign probably has an untapped passion far more profound than Aries, and so instead share some she is your friend she needs some too so help her out.

''I was just curious what virgos think of aries?in the friendship way. One of my besties is a virgo and I've been having a REALLY hard time with her. It's been building up for a few years now and I just can't handle how she doesn't have anything nice to say about anyone. I literally cant figure out why she's even friends with me at this point because I've been so noticeably distant. When I talk to her I feel worse because she always has something to say about how she doesn't think the guys I like are attractive or how she would never drive the kind of car I bought or how she thinks I acted too flirty the weekend before and just petty crap like that. I know I shouldn't let it bother me and it feels too stupid to bring up with her. What qualities do you like about aries? And which do you not like?''

ILE i don't think it's jealousy or maybe it is. I think it's a general virgo critical thing. I have Virgo male friend and I find they worry about the most ridiculous things. What I usually try to do is help them address their fears, granted they do have a lot of insights and try to help Aries and everyone become the best they can be, but a lot of them are insecure (especially with being proven wrong).

''Virgo girls (empty vessels of passion) should ordinarily crave the stripped down and raw passion of aries its a nice combination > but your girl buddy don't got a mate and maybe she's hurting that your friendship with her is deviating > and so maybe you can try and hook her up too! y'know yeah be a little considerate > Virgo being an earth sign probably has an untapped passion far more profound than Aries, and so instead share some she is your friend she needs some too so help her out.''

I really agree with this - help redirect her negative energies. Feminine signs seem negative to us masculine signs. I've observed Virgos do the critical thing with husbands, kids, friends, etc...she still hangs around you because of your more positive outlook, just redirect her criticism and don't take it personal.

yeah i dont see it as a jealousy thing either, i just think she's nuts. i say that lovingly but at the same time, i dont understand where the negativity comes from. how do you redirect criticism? you virgos are too complex for me 🙂

Oh sorry, Virgo always has a point with the criticisms but you can help with letting them see 'when' it's ok to be outwardly critical and when it's just too minor to make a fuss.

so the thing is, she's the one with the boyfriend, not me. her boyfriend rocks and i can't believe he's lasted this long lol! she is very competitive with me but i never noticed until another friend pointed it out haha. she's a button pusher though and she wants to get a rise but i pretend not to notice because i know that's what she's doing. i think that's why she pushes harder at it with me but it seems so unnecessary.

effinA, I think our situations were actually quite similar.
she was going through some tough stuff a while ago and that's why i stuck with her. That and i knew everybody was mad at her (and rightfully so!) but i sucked it up. i know virgos are supposed to be critical by nature but i still dont think that makes it ok to voice every imperfection of everyone you meet. be nice to people and if you dont have something nice to say dont say anything at all. that's like, stuff you learn in preschool. i still say virgos are too complex for their own good

i love ewe,

I don't think the VirGirl is your friend at all.

She keeps in contact with you because you'll listen to her bullshit. Also, you may be serving as her yardstick - the person she compares her life to - to boost her own sense of self-worth. I've seen Virgos do this before. It's usually not a conscious act, but that still doesn't excuse it.

OR, it could be a case of what I read on an astrology web site about Aries & Virgo: "Aries is also the type to bring out Virgo's worst habits of nitpicking and nagging."

No matter which, I say either tell her to cut the criticisms, or cool it with her.

so maybe if i start acting like a total biatch she'll recognize her ways 😛

this is a woman on woman relationship so wtf is the point she didn't state that they were lesbians > she should drop her btch ass and go have as much fun as she wants'