Time to Break a Virgo's heart.

I am an Aries and fickle at best, but if I finally land at the heartbreak hotel, what is the best way to let a Virgo down? The only reason I ask is because my Virgo whom I've been taking for some 7 months now hasn't progressed much other than the occasional "I love you", actions remain stale and stagnant leaving much to the imagination. While my heart is heavy, even at this young age I have experienced my share of heartache; it is not something I cannot handle.

We are both equally busy but when a week goes by and I ALWAYS have to initiate conversations I my mind wanders then lingers in some place between happiness and misery.

Hi wow I'm kind of happy to have come across this. I was just about to post something along this line, except I've already done what you're planning on doing. And....well....I was told that he actually was crying all night. This is a VirgoSun with CapMoon, mind you. So yeah I'm pretty taken aback. .... You are so right on about the part when you said: "I ALWAYS have to initiate conversations, my mind wanders then lingers in some place between happiness and misery." ...gosh isn't it such an awful feeling? So damn bittersweet to say the least. 😢 ..... To answer your question, my GUESS is that since they are already so misunderstood and hard on themselves, it's probably best to be as direct and unemotional... and if you're gonna provide reasons as to why-- make sure your points are rational and flows cohesively...Oh! and don't use the "You..." statements since it carries a tone of blame and aggression. ..... If she's not going to go down without a fight, it's going to be in the form of a well structured counter-argument so just saying..be prepared for that as well. And to save face, she will perhaps say "That's fine." ...or give the illusion that it is.

Oh and you know how Virgos are known to have the need to know everything? Otherwise, they will analyze and marinate on their thoughts until their brain explodes... Well, yeah I think it would be great courtesy if you did give her some points to start on for when she retreats into alone time and begins dissecting the last 7 months down to the last 7 seconds of your goodbye conversation. Don't be stingy with crumbs... be specific, but tactful with your delivery. 🙂

Did you ask him where your fling/relationship is heading?

The OP is too adorable. This Virgo will be crying in silence. Just be direct and honest when you break his heart.

I've known the guy I'm dealing with for almost 2 yrs and I'm so in love with him. Yet I never initiate contact unless I absolutely have to. I honestly cannot explain why. I'll be dying to hear from him and still won't reach out. Its a mystery even to me. I'm sure it has something to do with fear & control but it has NOTHING to do with a lack of love or interest. Thats just me though...