Totally weirded out that a Virgo actually...apologized?!

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confusedaries13
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I'm an Aries. Needless to say, not the best match for a Virgo. I've been having sort of a casual thing with a Virgo. Initially, it kinda started that we dated but didn't last even 2 weeks. He was withdrawn, it made me feel lonely. He said he wasn't sure he liked me and didn't want anything serious. I said okay. He ticked me off and I stopped communicating with him but he recontacted me. I told him what I expected and needed from relationships/friendships and he said that was okay and we've been friends/something casual ever since. I've never had any illusion WHATSOEVER that he likes me. I don't thInk he does at all. In some ways, I've looked at this thing with him as kind of a challenge. I realized he's more sensitive than he'll ever let on and so I actually look at it as a challenge for me to learn to better communicate with sensitive people because I'm usually very direct and brash. So in that way, I've been taking it as a learning experience.

Well, we've been hanging out and recently we went to do an outdoor activity that he's not well-versed at and I am. So I taught him and helped him out and it was actually a super fun day. He opened up a lot that day and has even since asked me for advice about things (WEIRD...since we know Virgos think they know everything about EVERYTHING!).

Then the other day he started chatting to me online. It seemed we were having difficulty communicating from the get-go and just weren't on the same page. After a couple of minutes of struggling I just told him that it seemed we weren't understanding one another, perhaps due to the medium, and maybe we should break and I would chat him up later. He said okay. Before I even got back to him a few hours later, he messaged me saying he was sorry about the conversation. That we have had problems in the past because of the medium of communication, but this time it was just him being difficult and for that he was sorry. ??!?!?!??!?!?!??! Of course, I'm pretty easy to forgive people so I said I hadn't realized it wasn't because of the medium but no worries. But I'm SUPER weirded out by that now!?!?! What the heck?! He hasn't ever apologized and it seems odd that he would, it's not the Virgo way. I'm totally thrown off! I still don't have any illusion that he actually likes me. I am not into changing people's minds and I wouldn't hold out hope for anyone ever. But I'm just feeling so weirded out by this! Am I the only one that would feel weirded out by this?
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Greentea
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Don't read too much into it, he may or may not like you in that way but felt a need to apologize. Don't get.your head spinning on whether he likes you or not, that's where all the confusion comes in...hence all these threads aboit virgo being hot/cold and does he like me threads....

It's really so stupid.

If he likes you, he needs to step up his game. Otherwise, you should take it as a simple apology and leave it at that.
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P-Angel
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You have no real understanding of Virgos. You've made claims as to how they are/react, and these claims are false.

the apology, for example .... Virgos always apologize when they are wrong.

You're not going to make it with any person if you are going to react/respond to misconceptions.

If memory serves me right, you are the Aries who fucks men without establishing terms, and then whines about not being taken seriously.


You should check yourself ... you are your own fuck up.