Tread With Caution

idk y i have problems with people when it comings to talking about my feelings i tell people all tha time i dont like digging deep because i dont feel its rule 2 when u dont feel like talking about feelings its annoying telling my friends that ova and ova geez i got enough to deal with my crazy family as it is lmfao


it cuz its all this air in my chart

Aqua rising mercury and venus in libra with dis damn detachment sometimes i wonder if im a superficial person because i don't like to talk about feelings all tha time im a very understanding person and logical lmao

or is it im just being a Annoying virgo


i tell people tread with caution cuz if u dont a storm will be coming at u Lmfao owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

"Digging deep" is new to me too. So I hear you.

Posted by moon_eyes
you guys need some water in your chart.
You virgo boys are so stoic and quiet when it comes to emotions. Its cute and sad at the same time. 🙂
If you dont wanna talk about our emotions ppl need to leave you the hell alone till you need to talk.

i have water in my chart

Jupiter in cancer

Neptune in Capricorn

and Pluto in Scorpio

plus ma mars is sextile pluto and trine Neptune and also have sun trine Neptune so thats enough water aspects for me hahaha 🙂

Posted by moon_eyes
Since when is cap water ?

i was joking on that one but tha neptune side gives tha earth sign water u feel me owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww lmao

Posted by sortilege85
LV try opening yourself to somebody you care and they'll be amazed at what you feel deep down. It's an extreme shock that hardly anyone can grasp besides yourself.

i feel ya trust me i do it daily but people think im weird when i try to talk about ma feelings they never get it lmao so i barely speak about ma feelings i will do it when people really really wanna kno other then that forget about it lmfao

Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

i feel ya trust me i do it daily but people think im weird when i try to talk about ma feelings they never get it lmao so i barely speak about ma feelings i will do it when people really really wanna kno other then that forget about it lmfao

I have exactly the same problem

Posted by Cajunspirit

Posted by LeGendary ViRGo
i feel ya trust me i do it daily but people think im weird when i try to talk about ma feelings they never get it lmao so i barely speak about ma feelings i will do it when people really really wanna kno other then that forget about it lmfao

I have exactly the same problem

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lol me to wow i think this is why i fell in love with my libra bc i showed her all of me and she excepted me unlike others.. she was very exitited about things i care about..

Posted by seavixen
I don't think anyone really has an "easy" time opening up and talking about their emotions. Yes, water signs are sensitive, full of emotions, express themselves but when you're dealing with emotions, that's everyones achilles heel.

Achilles heel or not, Virgos have a harder time expressing it.
I am an infant emotionally, now coming to terms with letting myself feel things. Before I would always shut it out.

Pisces really has to trust someone to really open up. It's a defense mechanism. It's amazing when you get to that point when you're just "open" with someone. We've all been hurt before and it's crushing. You just have to try and maintain positive thoughts, pick yourself up and keep on *L*I*V*I*N* 😄

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The Pisces women whom I have encountered were always cold, mean and aloof when I expressed my emotions to them...

Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

idk y i have problems with people when it comings to talking about my feelings i tell people all tha time i dont like digging deep because i dont feel its rule 2 when u dont feel like talking about feelings its annoying telling my friends that ova and ova geez i got enough to deal with my crazy family as it is lmfao

i dont get you... you're a virgo and you are saying you "dont know" why you have problems talkin about your feelings?
i'm sure you know why.

thats like saying, i'm a pisces and i dont know why i'm so emotional.

Posted by seavixen
I admit, I can turn into a "cold fish" (ignoring someone)...but I only do that after I've tried everything else ie: try to work it out through talking etc. and if my efforts go in vain, or if you've hurt me, then yes , I'll turn my back on you until I decide that I'm ready to deal with the situation again.

Do you let people know when they have hurt you?
I think that Pisces don't do that and this is the cause of most of the problems.

But I get no enjoyment from having to do that, and 9 out 10 times, I feel guilty in having to behave that way to get my point across. Maybe I'm different because I have a lot of Air in my chart, I don't know.

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The ones who were cold to me, seemed to be ecstatic when they learned deep pain was inflicted.

Posted by Sekhmet
Achilles heel or not, Virgos have a harder time expressing it.
I am an infant emotionally, now coming to terms with letting myself feel things. Before I would always shut it out.

With virgos being all about fixing and improving, maybe having emotions out there 'in public' might make you think you need to 'fix' them, instead of just feeling them and moving on....espcially if it's a 'negative' emotion, or one that disrupts your life....

I don't know....just free associating here 😉

I think that was the problem my VG friend had with me. I'd talk about feelings, and ther eisn't much you can do with that. It's like a loose end and/or something unpredictable/uncontrollable. Once you articualte a feeling, it becomes part of the experience of whomever you share that with. So I can see where keeping feelings to yourself preserves that perception of aloofness and control.

If I married a Cancer woman, I pray she has your intellect and intuition.

Astounding, I never looked at it in this point of view. I should probably save this.

Posted by seavixen
Yes I do let people know that they've hurt me... but it's not easy! Sometimes I feel like I'm super wimpy and that I get my feelings hurt too easily so I debate with myself first to make sure I'm valid in thinking they've hurt me before I address it with the person. I agree with you in that fact that a lot of Pisces don't. A lot of women in general don't. Sometimes women think that the man "should automatically just know" that they've hurt our feelings and that just isn't the case. I learned from working in the medical field that my common sense is not someone elses. If you can;t communicate your needs than how can you expect to have your needs met? There are so many different ways to communicate: verbally, body language etc... but hell, telling someone is the easiest

THANK YOU!!!! THANK YOOUUU!!

Oh thank you.... You are a blessing... I wish all the women I deal with could be so wise.

Posted by Imagination

Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

idk y i have problems with people when it comings to talking about my feelings i tell people all tha time i dont like digging deep because i dont feel its rule 2 when u dont feel like talking about feelings its annoying telling my friends that ova and ova geez i got enough to deal with my crazy family as it is lmfao

i dont get you... you're a virgo and you are saying you "dont know" why you have problems talkin about your feelings?
i'm sure you know why.

thats like saying, i'm a pisces and i dont know why i'm so emotional.

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You don't get much, do you? You are always talking about how you don't get anything.

He's so dim, that a child could get him .... wtf is the matter with you?

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by Imagination

Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

idk y i have problems with people when it comings to talking about my feelings i tell people all tha time i dont like digging deep because i dont feel its rule 2 when u dont feel like talking about feelings its annoying telling my friends that ova and ova geez i got enough to deal with my crazy family as it is lmfao

i dont get you... you're a virgo and you are saying you "dont know" why you have problems talkin about your feelings?
i'm sure you know why.

thats like saying, i'm a pisces and i dont know why i'm so emotional.

You don't get much, do you? You are always talking about how you don't get anything.

He's so dim, that a child could get him .... wtf is the matter with you?

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u Pisces people never seize to amaze me especially tha troll angel owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Posted by seavixen
...that is just so weird Cajun. I honestly have never met a cold hearted Pisces, like you Virgos in here. And I really feel bad that you have been tainted by Pisces women. I find that I'm so empathetic and compassionate...that it gets me into trouble sometimes. I find myself listening to everyones problems and literally feeling all their emotions: pain, joy, tears etc...it can be so draining at times. Listening to other peoples thoughts & emotions...is what I do, I'm a Nurse ( I used to work in a mental health facility). I admit, I can turn into a "cold fish" (ignoring someone)...but I only do that after I've tried everything else ie: try to work it out through talking etc. and if my efforts go in vain, or if you've hurt me, then yes , I'll turn my back on you until I decide that I'm ready to deal with the situation again. But I get no enjoyment from having to do that, and 9 out 10 times, I feel guilty in having to behave that way to get my point across. Maybe I'm different because I have a lot of Air in my chart, I don't know.

The Pisces I know outside of this forum do have their own way of perceiving things but they were pretty compassionate from what I remember.

Posted by seavixen
@ VirgoHero...most of us are. Bad manners is a fault of a person and not a specific sign. That's just what I think..

ur so cool thumbs up u make Pisces people look good owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww 🙂

Posted by Cajunspirit
The Pisces women whom I have encountered were always cold, mean and aloof when I expressed my emotions to them...

Posted by Cajunspirit
The ones who were cold to me, seemed to be ecstatic when they learned deep pain was inflicted.

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i think pisces are fine with emotion when it's a normal sort of thing. but if you aren't likely to open up and you only open up because you trust them, that's when they can be awful. it you're just emotional and they happen to be around, they can be very nice. it's when your emotions or expression of emotions has anything to do with them when they are so cruel.

if they feel they are capable of hurting you, they are sharks. otherwise, they are very sweet.

Posted by P-Angel

You don't get much, do you? You are always talking about how you don't get anything.
He's so dim, that a child could get him .... wtf is the matter with you?

lol really? ... show me.

Posted by Imagination

Posted by P-Angel

You don't get much, do you? You are always talking about how you don't get anything.
He's so dim, that a child could get him .... wtf is the matter with you?

lol really? ... show me.

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so p- angel ur tha all seeing Pisces god huh all hail lmfao hahahahahahaha

I have a Cancer moon, so I can wear my emotions on my sleeve at times. I feel things very very deeply and am empathetic to the point of having my mood shift just because someone else in the room is feeling crummy.

There are some Virgo traits I have; like nitpickyness and aloofness- but an inability to show my emotions at all times is not one of them.