What should i do now?

First off, I'm 18 years old. I am a Leo-Cancer cusp.. I display both sun sign characteristics.

Anyways;
I met this guythrough my mom. Apparently he found my mom attractive, so when he found out she had a daughter he was really excited because I was aroundh is age [He is 20 years old]. So we met and he acted pretty shy, but he asked for my number and we began texting. the first day or two If i i didn't respond withing a few minutes of his text he would resend it.. He was very persistent. He called me beautiful alot and kept asking about us hanging out
I messed things up a bit though because of an incident and he almost stopped texting and we would have just stopped out communication But somehow he decided he still wanted to hang out and get to know me.

We went out to eat, and he didn't make any moves. We talked alot, he was very sweet it was great.

And than we went on another date the next day. On this date he came to my house and we watched a movie. During the movie I made the first move by holding his hand and than laying my head on his shoulder, but then he like began caressing my face and messing with my hair and like staring at me.. I would say it is the 'Virgo' stare because it definitely made me melt.. Ah.. anyways aha, He kept staring at me.. and I could tell he wanted to kiss me. So I kissed him first.. just because I could seriously tell that's what he was wanting.

But After that he kinda tok control. He was quite aggressive and told me what he wanted me to do. Sorta like teaching me? Not critisizing exactly.. But he definitely told me what he wanted. We ended up make-ing out.. and he kept staring at me and like being totally mushy.. he would like kiss my fore-head.. and cheek. And after we were kissing he playfully messed with me.

He began the critisizing a bit after aha.. Just noticing things about me and commenting on them. He checked my feet which was odd, and like proceeded to "Check me out" and make sure I was.. like normal? I don't know. And then he started poking my tummy and calling me chubby. [mind you. I'm not chubby. I exercise daily.. I weight like 110 llbs and i'm 5'5 I have agood weight] but he kept messing with me.. and just kept like tickling me.. It was funny..

[Continued]

But yeah.. Anyway I texted him after our date to let him know.. that we moved kinda fast. [I'm 18.. and he would be my first actualy boyfriend..] and told him I normally would not do that. And he said that it was funny, but cute that I was so innocent.

I asked him why he was like checking my flaws, and he said just to make sure nothing was wrong with me. He told me he liked my skin and said he liked my personality because I was smart, cute, and dorky and beautiful.. It was really sweet.

And THEN.. No contact.
Aha.. like the next day nothing.. day after that nothing. i would text a bit and he would respond.. but only with like 2 word answers.. It was totally awkward. But I didn't say anything I just went with it.

it was driving me nuts on the inside but I never showed him any of it.. I talked when he wanted to.. and when he didn't respond I would wait. I would text once and leave it in his court and if he didn't respond I would wait until he texted me the next day or next day.. and some days he would text first. He also said he's not very good at texting.. so i asked if he wanted me to call and he said yes.. so i did.. but he was busy so he said he'd call me back but never did. -_________-; But i didn't let it make me upset.. He apologized the next day and I said it was fine.

But today I asked him if my texting was bugging him and that totally through him off and he said not at all and that he "Finds everything I say interesting." I told him that I found him very interesting too and thanked him and he asked me why and I told him even though I didn't know him well it was because he seemed so caring and such a hard worker and that I'm usually not comfortable around many people but I like hanging out with him. And he said that it made him smile and he seemed happy.. But still.

His reponses are just Blah. If he likes me.. why isn't he showing it? Arg it's frustrating. I wanna see him again but I don't wanna ask.. I keep hinting but he's totally not getting it.

So what do I do now? Just continue how things are going?

Do you think eventually he will make a move/effort to let me know that he wants to be with me..?

Or what?

What are you guy's opinions on this?

Agh please ignore the errors.. Should of gone over this before posting.. but eh.. It's late.

And you think that your story is genuine.? Right..? lol.. what is next..?

Posted by Qbone
And you think that your story is genuine.? Right..? lol.. what is next..?

it's very genuine!.. Well.. i dunno.
I'm tired. I just wanted to post whats going on.. See if I get any responses.

Too long eh?

It is not about the length. It is about the content same familiar story available on internet

Like I said, what is next??

You just popped in today without even introducing yourself, without even make yourself familiar with the board??_!

Just posting your bogus story and expecting to get answer..?

With all due respect??_BULLSHIT..!

relax

Well Excuse me.
I didn't know you needed to do that.

Sorry!

So where would I post an introduction?

dont mind qbone lol. you dont have to but if u want to, leo/cancer or astrology boards. welcome for now heh

or just jump into posts. who gives a shit 😛

Lol Thanks.. I probably should.. Don't wanna come off as rude.

I may as well post an introduction here though because.. I'll be spending most of my time here most likely.~

i'll do one in a second.

dont mind qbone lol

Who the hell are you boy..? A 19 year old crap who claim to be Virgo..? lets see.. when I signed up in this board you were 14 years old..! You were born when I was 30.. Don't you know that I know more than you do, creep..?

Show some respect ..!

AiRiLovee

Why did you hide your post..?

Well I can't delete it. And I figured it would be better to get more accustomed to everyone before posting my problems.. so I'll probably unhide it when I start meeting peole..

relax big guy its gunna be ok

relax big guy its gunna be ok

Gunna be ok what? Do you have any personal problem..?

Posted by Qbone
relax big guy its gunna be ok

Gunna be ok what? Do you have any personal problem..?

nah

then what..?

Why do you tell people you don't know (ignore Qbone)..? do you know her.. or do you know me..?

Posted by Qbone
then what..?

idk pal u tell me

u raid a first poster like its some fake shit. i told you to relax and u got all pissy. dont look at me. i could use u as an attack dog but i dont wanna goto prison 🙂

u raid a first poster like its some fake shit

Of course I did and still do what is your problem.?

i told you to relax and u got all pissy. dont look at me. i could use u as an attack dog but i dont wanna goto prison

I should tell you to (RELAX) boy, this matter is none of your fucking business! To start with have you had any contributions to the OP..?

Nah.. just love to trolling around..

Fucking clown..!

if you read back i did contribute to the OP. learn to read. this is my first 'troll' incident since ive been on dxp, so maybe im not the problem. this is as much my business as it is yours, so dont try to limit other people just because your 49. goto sleep little guy you'll feel better tomorrow.

don't worry 07; troll is qbone's favorite word. 🙂

I do not limiting and I do hate controlling people's thoughts and actions, what you start with was (relax) go back and read! And still you've done nothing but bullshitting around (as usual).

Manipulation is one the weapon of choice by the (virgo wannabe)! I told you that you were born when I was 30!

Keep that in mind boy!

don't worry 07; troll is qbone's favorite word.

ohh you haven't heard of my best word yet..? (forum whore)??_! 07 is just a boy trying to find his (area).

The problem is, he does not realise that I was at his age 30 years ago! So arrogant and ignorant.

Ya know.. All i wanted was advice... ahahaha. Guess that was a mistake.

Thanks for posting though everyone. ^^;

you'll get it just wait till tonight

Okie doke. :]

Posted by AiRiLovee

And THEN.. No contact.
Aha.. like the next day nothing.. day after that nothing. i would text a bit and he would respond.. but only with like 2 word answers.. It was totally awkward. But I didn't say anything I just went with it.

he liked you, and he was analizing you.

His reponses are just Blah. If he likes me.. why isn't he showing it? Arg it's frustrating. I wanna see him again but I don't wanna ask.. I keep hinting but he's totally not getting it.

virgo is not easy to open up. he has to analize you first, see if that's what he wants. THEN he will open up to you.

So what do I do now? Just continue how things are going?
Do you think eventually he will make a move/effort to let me know that he wants to be with me..?

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you're doing fine. and it seems he did like you.
once he's done analizing you, more likely that he will takes it to the next step.
if he doesnt, then you gotta lead him.

Posted by AiRiLovee
Well Excuse me.
I didn't know you needed to do that.

Sorry!

Oh honey, screw whoever told you that you have to post an introduction. Seriously, its sooo not even like that.

For real, its not lol.

*shakes head with utter discontent*