two sides of every sign

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Cajunspirit
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Much like I explained with the Decans, I too have found there are two sides to Virgos.

You have the open ones, who are confident, outspoken, socially retarded, keep to themselves and try to be positive influences.

On the other hand, there are those less confident, talk little, secretive, socialise and lie more and are apathetic to their influence.

The most practical example of this I can relate is with my former best friend, August 24th Virgo. We had moral differences.

We were great buddies, like minded on some things but he was interested in getting sex any way possible, me on the other hand could care less about getting any.

He would lie, deceive and use girls for his own pleasure, and I was more or less forced into being friends with them. They were all Pisces oddly enough. When he "ended" things with them, they sought me out and asked me questions. I am a stern believer in telling the truth and based on what I knew, I answered truthfully.

Which inevitably hurt his "game" and ability to use them. So he stopped talking to me, lied on me to my girlfriend about me cheating and told her everything I did with everyone, acts, spots, reasons.

He was out to get me. I believe these both sides can be mature and immature.

He deceived me a great deal. I told him everything and he told me next to nothing.
I only found out he smokes after being good friends for over a year.
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I took your question to mean something more profound ... like two sides (or more) of the same person. And I whole-heartedly believe that all people are multi-layered.


Virgo ... let's see ..



At home, they are fussy, cranky, irritable .......... in public view, they are quite enjoyable without any traces at all visible on thier social mask that they are actually driven by negative energy. Meaning ....... they fuss and worry about what is wrong, rather than focusing their energies on what is right. And this is hidden quite well to the public, who believe the Virgo is pure.

Take Mother Teresa, for example ..... she spent 3 decades believing she had been abandoned by god, and completely forsaken .. extreme dark energy. Yet, in public view, she was light, love and joy.
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At home, they are fussy, cranky, irritable .......... in public view, they are quite enjoyable without any traces at all visible on thier social mask that they are actually driven by negative energy.

well said. PA you have sharp eyes (or Virgo case is very clear).

My sister loves people, does favors to them and helps them, buys them gifts...but when she talks about them I could be irritated and think she hate them. No, she just sees their flaws all the time.

My father is known as a nice integrated man in public. He was not nice with us at home. but he worked all his youth for us and we could ask him for any support in educational matters.
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...And this isn't tit for tat ofr negativity



some say Virgo is ruled by Chiron.
here a Chiron story:
"he was ultimately wounded with an arrow that was poisoned with the blood of Hydra. The poison was deadly, but Chiron was immortal so he was stricken with a painful injury that would not heal. Through his constant pain and sadness, Chiron became a healer and teacher of others."

maybe they are negative cause they know how it pains.
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Have to agree with the lady P I find that I'm like that too at times. Its not a false face though, I just piss and moan when I get home lol, but when out and about I love it, I actually hate to be home it bores me to tears. But yeah I think us virgs are quite good at showing facets of of self. I'm not one for small talk so it takes a while to peel back the onion layers!! I'd say there were a hell of a lot more than 2 sides.
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I've thought of another .....


Change !!!!


If a person tries to change them .. the Virgo is unyielding, hell would freeze over, their heels would dig in and they won't budge an inch. And this is something I see quite often in here .. a woman will come in and say she's crushing on a Virgo and then she'll proceed to attempt to change him to suit her, and she quickly finds out that no amount of cunning, drama, tears, guilt, ignorance, manipulations ... will get this Virgo to give even acknowledgement of this coercion of being in existence, much less consider it.


Yet .....


..... if this change isn't one-sided of the other person, if it isn't in place for selfish purposes, or for egotism .... if this change that is needed and wanted from the other person is in place out of sincerity for the relationship and for the people involved to be better, and for the relationship to grow and evolve lovingly ... then they will jump through hoops, any hoop, to incorporate whatever change is necessary for the health and prosperity of both people involved.