Kinky Virgo

I stopped by one of the contractor's cubicles yesterday at lunch time to leave him a note. I did not mean to eavesdrop, but I heard guys talking (not whispering!) in a nearby cubicle, and I could not believe my ears...

It took me a little while to figure out who was talking, and their topic, but I recognized the voices - the Player VirGuy I've written about, and one of the young guys who works for him. The Player was giving him advice on how to get his girlfriend to agree to anal sex...

A True Virgo, the Player was detailed, helpful, and practical with his assistance. This is the same guy who's been married forever, and yet will not be faithful to his wife - always has a set of chicks he's banging on the side...

Some of y'all - especially from the Left Coast - are probably thinking: Anal Sex, what's so kinky about that??

But, this is the Bible Belt... and, The Player is a regular church member - used to sing in the choir, too.

Makes me wonder if his cheating is due in part to his wife's refusal to play on the wild side -- I've heard some cheaters use that excuse before...

Kinky Virgos... What's next? An honest Dick Cheney??

I definitely believe we Virgos are fascinated by kinky stuff, it is not our predominant interest but it is still there.

Posted by Prince_Pisces
But, this is the Bible Belt... and, The Player is a regular church member - used to sing in the choir, too. I guess its true when they say those "bible belt" people are closet freaks lol! Virgos are gross though lol. My Virgo brother got drunk once, and when he gets drunk he tells people randomly about all his personal stuff. . and he told me and my friend once, how he likes a girl to lick his ass, and suck on his toes. . .i was so disgusted LOL! He said it out of nowhere too lmao.

To eat ass doesn't sound so disgusting, but what does is ...

.... a dude telling his gay brother !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

😉😉

I'm on the left coast, born and raised on the east coast. Nothing shocks this Virgo and I'm all for kinky! I get the Bible Belt stuff. I tried to discuss stuff openly for example, with my girlfriend in Atlanta (she's catholic, her husband southern baptist). Nuff said.

Some men and women are just raised with that "sex=dirty" drilled into their heads from the time they were old enough to understand it. No wonder so many people dislike their sex lives.

Keep the church out of bed.

Any what's wrong with licking asses and sucking toes? Everyone's got their thing. 🙂

Posted by tondalea
I'm on the left coast, born and raised on the east coast. Nothing shocks this Virgo and I'm all for kinky! I get the Bible Belt stuff. I tried to discuss stuff openly for example, with my girlfriend in Atlanta (she's catholic, her husband southern baptist). Nuff said. Some men and women are just raised with that "sex=dirty" drilled into their heads from the time they were old enough to understand it. No wonder so many people dislike their sex lives. Keep the church out of bed. Any what's wrong with licking asses and sucking toes? Everyone's got their thing. 🙂

tondalea: Any what's wrong with licking asses and sucking toes? Everyone's got their thing.

No way in hell I'd ever kiss a woman after she's licked my asshole!

I think these supposedly heterosexual guys with anal fixations are just homosexuals in denial...

The anus is an exit, not an entrance. Vagina's are for intercourse. Keep it straight & simple, and everyone's much happier and healthier...

Forget uptight religious people!

As a hygienic Virgo, I'd never lick or fuck an asshole, even if the woman showered first...

What sane person wants shit and/or dingle berries on their tongue or dick??

GROSS!

Dy,

While I can understand your preferences. Everyone is different. Heterosexual men who are in a heterosexual relationship and prefer women are not gays in disguise. They are simply hetero men who would like their prostate stimulated to enhance their orgasm or enjoy submitting. Other hetero men enjoy being submissive (giving up control) to a woman and only allow a woman to penetrate. It's a switch of the mind from being the dominant man in society to exploring their feminine side. Every man has one, even you. But not every man explores it. It's called D/s.

To define gay. A man who only has physical and emotionally bonded relationships with men.
To define hetero. A man who only has physical and emotionally bonded relationships with women.
To define bisexual. Anything in between 2 to 9 on a scale from 1 (gay) to 10 (hetero). Bisexual people are attracted to both. Depends on the person and their sexual preferences in terms of oral and/or intercourse with Male or Female.

Homosexuality and heterosexuality are not taught, you are born with it. Anything outside of that is experimentation.

I have a gay brother, my mom has a gay brother and 3 cousins on my mother's side are as well. All from my mom's mother's family growing up in all separate homes. Their parents did hold classes in anal probing and homosexuality.

Tis always best to step outside of Virgo's narrowmindedness (I have learned this myself) and see the bigger picture of the world and its participants.

That includes people who would kiss someone after doing that. Understand the Virgo cleanliness thing as well being Virgirl, however sometimes kink for some Virgos is more liberal.

I'm with Dyar on this one, none of that stuff for me.

tondalea,

I understand about digital stimulation of the prostate.

I was thinking more about men who want to fuck their woman's asshole - a lot. We've had some female posters on DXP who've been concerned that their man prefers their bunghole to their pussy. Those are the guys I think are repressed gayboys...

Prince,

My objections were based on hygiene, not on what the Bible says about homosexuality.

But for the record: Anal sex is abnormal. Homosexuality is abnormal.

ABNORMAL: Not typical, usual, or regular; not normal; deviant.

Up until the APA (American Psychiatric Association) got politically correct in the 1970's, homosexuality was classified as a psychopathology - same as schizophrenia. Way back when I was an undergrad in Psychology, we used to say: Men are psychotic, and women are neurotic. Because their is a very definite gender split between the two categories of mental illness...

Just because the current culture in The West is more tolerant of homosexuality does not make it normal behavior. A few straight guys who like having their asshole licked is not the start of a new sexual revolution, either...

It's just a few kinky guys.

Hey DY, i'm with you on this one...I think it's a bit odd when a guy wants to stick his piece in a woman's ass all the time rather than in the usual place. Maybe the woman has one that's like the grand canyon hahaha and he has trouble touching the sides...who knows, but I do find it odd because in my mind, anal sex is a homosexual behaviour and I always thought that straight guys were terrified of being linked with any behaviour that was considered homosexual??

I don't understand the fetish with it...I've had some experience (no not intercourse), and I personally did not find it pleasurable, it just didn't feel good...So I dunno what's with all the hype. That was years ago now, and now that i'm older my mind just can't get past the fact that it's a shit hole. I don't understand why anyone would wanna go there, it's gross!!...Plus, the muscles are designed only to go the one way (which is why it's supposedly tight). I don't think it's natural...But each to their own. As usual I got no issue with ppl doin their thing, so long as they don't try to push it on me hahaha 🙂

cappygolightly: Everything human beings do is "normal".

So... GENOCIDE is normal? NECROPHILIA (fucking corpses) is normal??

let people live out their lives in their own way.

I do. I'm way more tolerant in the real world than many of you could ever imagine.

In my almost 50 years, I've known homosexual family members, friends, neighbors, and coworkers. Not once have I ever been discriminatory towards any of them because of their deviant sexuality.

Now that to me is a pure virguy mentality.

Purity is a Virgo word.

actually, vaginas are an exit too. one, for peeing, two, and most importantly (in case you may have missed this fact) for children.

Wrong!

Women pee from a urethra. The vagina is an entrance to the womb, and a well-craft sperm receptacle.

The linings of the anus are thin, and susceptible to tearing during intercourse. I've known gay guys who'd wear a maxi pad in their ass crack after rough or too much butt-fucking so their briefs wouldn't get blood-soaked...

Still insist theirs was "normal" behavior??

* well-craft sperm receptacle = well-crafted sperm receptacle *

the fact that this guy is telling another how to psychologically manipulate a woman into doing something she doesn't want to do.

Men talk about seducing women quite often. Is he not simply encouraging "experimentation"??

I don't think it's natural...

It's not, and there's nothing wrong with pointing that out - unless you're an intellectual bigot.

Political Correctness is just another in a long line of ideologies - no more special or sacrosanct than mercantilism.

I guess its true when they say those "bible belt" people are closet freaks lol!

Yes, thats very true lol!!! I have too much proof on how true it is so no one can tell me anything different.

Keep the church out of bed.

lol, I just realized, thats an oxymoron 😄

Keep the church out of bed.

lol, I just realized, thats an oxymoron 😄

I know I'm pretty kinky. Theoretically, always, I can talk kinky stuff even not with my best friends. With best - no problem at all. Never.
Practically, I can be kinky only when I trust someone. But not much taboos there.

Posted by cappygolightly
lol this conversation is hilarious - only on the virgo board.

The point here should not be about whether any particular sexual preference is good or bad (everyone will have a different view on that subject) but the fact that this guy is telling another how to psychologically manipulate a woman into doing something she doesn't want to do. Now that to me is a pure virguy mentality.

YAY! Only a capricorn looks through all the nonsense and figures out with really matters.

I agree, sexuality aside -- people are going to be what they are going to be, regardless to what someone else may believe, its all a matter of biology -- plus its not the point.

Sexual manipulation happens alot unfortunately. People just aren't happy with what they have, they want more.

Yeah, I do agree to the "abnormal" point. Just I'm curious how much percent of women actually feel pleasure during anal sex (if they learn to relax enough not to feel any pain first...). Men are a bit different story.

cappygolightly: What is considered terrible now (say genocide) was considered acceptable during say the crusades...

Please! Don't yak about history to a Virgo who has a Master's degree in it...

The Crusades were not about genocide. The Islamic Empire began restricting access to holy sites that were open to Christian pilgrims when the Byzantine Empire controlled Jerusalem after the fall of Rome...

GENOCIDE: the deliberate and systematic destruction of a racial, political, or cultural group.

The Crusaders actually made treaties with their Islamic neighbors after liberating the Holy Land. Please read some history before fertilizing with your ignorance of it.

pedantic details aside I think you get my point very well.

Pedantic details? Do you mean: overly concerned with minute details or formalisms??

Comparing the Crusades to true episodes of genocide is not concern for minute details. I'm a Virgo - precise language is important.

I think this is because you lot are more intrigued by the anal sex than by the virguy...

My reason for starting this thread is in the title of it.

ummmmm ....

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nevermind lol. This doesn't make any sense, I don't even know where to start.

Prince: Maybe they were too poor to afford some lube...

No, as I recall, the gay guy (or, Bottom) was with a BIG DICKED guy (or, Top), and it was way more than he could handle.

Posted by cappygolightly

Posted by cappysweetie
ummmmm ....

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nevermind lol. This doesn't make any sense, I don't even know where to start.

the guys just want to talk about anal sex lol - it's like little britain when they do the men's locker room scene

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lol, okay. I was like either I'm getting really tired and nothing make sense or its the latter 😛

So what I am saying is that the definition of right or wrong or normal or abnormal really depends on your peers.

So... If my peers say it's okay to butcher gays & lesbians, that's okay with you?? So... Hitler and his Nazi cohorts were free to gas 6 million Jews, and another 6 million Slavs, Gypsies, and other non-Aryans because their ideology said that was proper??

Holy shit! What Koolaid have you been drinking??

Posted by cappygolightly
locker room jocks

OMG! HAHAHAHAHA!!

cappysweetie: I was like either I'm getting really tired and nothing make sense or its the latter...

No, you've just been thinking too much. Take a breather, before your head explodes.

Posted by DyarStra??_e

cappysweetie: I was like either I'm getting really tired and nothing make sense or its the latter...

No, you've just been thinking too much. Take a breather, before your head explodes.

okay, thats what it is. Alright hahahahahahaha!!!!

..... I really need to go home, I'm starting to see spots in front of me ... :/

I just see a little irony in your debate.

And I see you avoiding a debate.

Let me make it simple: There are Absolute Truths. Not all morality is relative. What's popular today will be forgotten tomorrow. Right & Wrong are not always abstracts.

They then accuse this person of being gay for looking at them (at this point naked and in doggy style pose).

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! 😆!!!!! thats great. I would love to see it. Just the pic of the two guys made me laugh lol

OMG Prince_Pisces. I didn't even realize it was you lol. I'm so use to the other avatar pic, not this one.

I was thinking, who is this alien looking dude on here. Then I saw the username LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

admitting that you are a kinky virgo doesnt really contradict anything I'm saying....

I never made that admission.

Since you missed it: The point of this thread was to explore the issue of kinky sexual behavior in Virgos - especially since we have this "virginal" reputation in the Zodiac.

In Cappygolightly's defense, I will say that we do not like to debate much. I guess it has to be in our best interest to want to debate a topic. At least for me thats the case LOL!!! I remember at work a few monthes ago, my co-workers tried to pull me into a debate, they said everything they thought were my tiggers but it didn't work lol.

I think we caps much rather discuss things instead of debating them, you know?

Also, I didn't see her give an opinion about what she thought about thing. I maybe dazed and confused ... but I'm of still somewhat with it lol!! Nope, she was being objective, not subjective. Yup yup yessir.

Damn it! I really want to go home ...

Posted by Prince_Pisces
I was thinking, who is this alien looking dude on here. Then I saw the username LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

alien? lol wtf.

LMAO! I'm sorry, I'm use to the other pic! I guess thats why I've never said anything to you -- at least I don't remember lol

Sorry 😛

So DS would you see the alleged genocide of the armenians by the ottomans in 1915 as a genocide or purely political?

The Ottoman Turks made a deliberate attempt to exterminate the Armenian Christian minority, so yes, that qualifies as genocide.

The Crusades were not genocide. The intent was to return the Holy Land to Christian control.

I think we caps much rather discuss things instead of debating them, you know?

Uh-huh. I'm familiar with CAPS. Goes something like...

I'm not aware of too many things
I know what I know if you know what I mean
Chuck me in the shallow water
Before I get too deep
What I am is what I am are you what you are or what

Posted by DyarStra??_e

I think we caps much rather discuss things instead of debating them, you know?

Uh-huh. I'm familiar with CAPS. Goes something like...

I'm not aware of too many things
I know what I know if you know what I mean
Chuck me in the shallow water
Before I get too deep
What I am is what I am are you what you are or what

haha .. whatever 😛

Posted by Prince_Pisces
you know, i should visit the virgo board more often, seems like theres some entertaining threads on here LOL.

where do you go? You aren't on the pisces board at lol.

What were the gulags if not one major genocide apparently still condoned by the west?

EXACTLY WHO in the West condoned Stalin's gulags?

YOU are tripping!

The Gulags were not a genocidal tool. They were instruments of political oppression.

Prince: you know, i should visit the virgo board more often, seems like theres some entertaining threads on here...

Ahem... Who started this thread??

You're welcome!

cappygolightly: were the english attempting genocide in ireland? Many irish believe this to be the case, what makes it different from the alleged ukranian genocide/imposed famine of the 30s?

You must be going through the Wikipedia article on Genocide - one page at a time...

The original point: You said anything humans do is okay. You were wrong. Live with it.

lol, nevermind the 'caps don't like to debate' thing. I'm sorry CGL, I forgot, you have a moon in Virgo 😉

who in the west tried to prevent it during or after the war?

Do you know what "condone" means??

I thought not.

Failure to start a Third World War with the USSR does not mean that Westerners condoned Stalin's behavior.

This is clearly a clash between two different ideas. Each party learned different things growing up so its a bit of a contrast.

you have a view based on the mores of the society we live in

No, I'm a Virgo. I have a World View based on my own studies, meditations, and life experiences. I don't give a hoot in hell what "everybody" thinks is good, proper, or acceptable...

If 90% of young people thought butt-fucking a sister or brother was okay, I'd still call it sick, deviant, shit.

I do not accept "I'm okay, you're okay" or any other mamby-pamby politically correct bullshit propagated by modern Western popular culture.

Some of you are already living in The Matrix, and you don't even know it...

Prince: this thread went from anal sex, to world wars

That's because few people like to get screwed up the ass...

That separation of a common view is what defines normal to some and abhorrent to others. That is my point.

No, your point was that there is no point. There is no True North on a compass. Anything anyone anywhere wants to do is fine, because it's okay within their own cultural / personal reference...

I disagree. Some attitudes and behaviors are Wrong / Abnormal / Unnatural - regardless of social or personal context.