UPDATE

So for those of you who were following my last post about my virguy dissappearing on me suddenly heres an update.

I was out to dinner on thursday night with my mom and ran into him with his friends. He said hello and was very happy to see me. The next day he called me a couple times and I met him up at the bar with the guys.

I wasn't going to mention a thing but he brought it up by telling me that he heard that I was talking to someone and thats why he left me alone. He said that he did not want to be "played" by anyone so it bothered him. This was not true at all and he did admit that he should have asked me first before he just stopped talking to me all together.

But whats it to him anyway? We already agreed that we are just friends. I think thats the reason why he couldn't question me about it because he really had no right. I did mention that to him and he said that I can talk to anyone I wanted but he didn't want me to lie about it.

Does it sound like to you guys that this guy is trying to have his cake and eat it too or do you guys think he is trying to take things really really really slow by labeling us just friends while getting upset that I may have been talking to someone else. Even now that we cleared the air he is still distant and not as close as we were before. I think thats going to take time to regain the trust that I supposedly lost.

So I guess no one wants to give me there 2 cents on this one. Oh well. Thanks anyways guys.

But I wasn't talking to anyone. It wasn't true!! It was something someone made up and told him. Thats so not fair!!

HappyCrab .. you've been fucking with him all along .. you already know how I feel about your actions .. so, my two cents are pointless to you, for you don't want to have a real relationship with this man .. just to play for attention.

When you learn how to be fair, rather than play .. perhaps, you'll get fairness back from a man.

Were did I play this time? I agree with you about the no games thing and this time I was innocent. Tell me what I did wrong. He was mad at me because of a rumor he heard that was totally false. And now that we've cleared the air hes still not his old self.

Because the light went off in his head that he was being played by you .. there is no more times with him .. you had him believing all this time that you cared about him, and being that he's a Virgo, he's going to be handicapped in this area because they don't look for someone to play them, so they don't recognize it right off-the-bat.

He saw it .. you're history.

There is no 'this time' .. there is NO time .. a person's heart isn't a fucking game.

When you grow up, you'll realize this.

He thought I was playing him by talking another guy and I WASN'T.