Virgo and Cancer: passion or not?

I have read rather contrasting views of astrologers regarding the likely passion level in a Virgo-Cancer relationship, from "there will be no shortage of passion in this relationship" to "you two share a polite passion" (whatever that means!) down to "passion is too scary for this pair" (!) Personally I think that the last one is pretty much of an insult and probably just stems from a supposition that still waters do not run deep and an ignorance of what goes on behind closed doors. Personally I am almost always strongly attracted to Cancer females even if they are not conventionally beautiful (or well-dressed or anything else), so I rather suspect that some astrologers do not know what they are talking about (and other so-called astrologers just cut-and-paste what those ignorant astrologers have said - "because after all it's all just bullshit anyway, isn't it?"(lol!) So obviously I would like to know what those who have had personal experience of these relationships are willing to say about them - particularly Virgo males and Cancer females.

I am a cancer woman and I've dated 3 Virgo males in the last 10 years. The relationships were very different and I can tell you that the attraction was ok in two of them. In one of my relationship the attraction was very little from my part but very high from his part. But I can tell you that if mental attraction does not exist, for the cancer woman will not exist the phisical attraction either. If I know that the relationship will not work I am not attracted to that man and in many cases I am more attracted by that man that attracts me mentaly.

That is encouraging since Virgo and Cancer are signs that are in the sextile relationship to each other, i.e. mental and verbal communication between us is usually very good. It does seem to me unfortunately though that perhaps as you indicate above the Virgo male's (sexual) interest may not be reciprocated by the Cancer female as there have been major instances of this particular disappointment in my life.

I have never been romantically involved with a Virgo except on a few dates.
I didn't like the guy too much, he was into me. If I was into him it would most likely have been passionate.
As we did argue and bicker, which could lead to intense and passionate moments.
The arguing was kind of stimulating actually. He was a bit crude......

Hot hot hot! Arguably the best coupling in the zodiac.

The idea of "scary passion" is some what relatable to me in a sense. For example when we fight it won't be an epic blowout. I know he's super sensitive so I always try to calm down before I deal with an issue with him. I know his anger doesn't come out in a passionate way. It's more calculated. Sexually we are both up for anything that's where I think the wild passion comes in. I think people that I'm not reeeeally close to would be shocked to see what goes on behind closed doors. He loves to indulge all of his senses and I love to be extremely uninhibited. I don't know who else I could be this way with.

Posted by Peanutbutter
Hot hot hot! Arguably the best coupling in the zodiac.

"HOT! HOT! HOT!" is right.

Posted by virgodreamz
The idea of "scary passion" is some what relatable to me in a sense. For example when we fight it won't be an epic blowout. I know he's super sensitive so I always try to calm down before I deal with an issue with him. I know his anger doesn't come out in a passionate way. It's more calculated. Sexually we are both up for anything that's where I think the wild passion comes in. I think people that I'm not reeeeally close to would be shocked to see what goes on behind closed doors. He loves to indulge all of his senses and I love to be extremely uninhibited. I don't know who else I could be this way with.

You said it girl.

Yep... something about those cancers brings the virgin outta her shell. In my experience Passion scale 9 or 10. Communication scale 5. Somehow Cancer's appeal to my mind and senses more than any other sign I have met yet.

@PB&Linda Whats a Virgirl to do with these crabbies huh? sigh 🙂

I have a Virgo girlfriend who is afraid of Cancer men.
She said they always break her heart.
Perhaps I should play match maker when I get the chance. 😉

With my last Virgo the passion was 10 from 10 but we have communication issues. I don't know if he wants me or not because we talk almost every day (he lives in another country) but he never tells me nothing about us or what it means to him. I told him that I want to be just friends and after a week he started talking about our relationship that it will never work because I have my life and he has his life but that he cares about me. I don't know how to read his actions - why is it important to him to talk with me, know about me, etc? Is this tipycal for a Virgo? I know he is single and that he is afraid because he broke up with his ex about 4 moths ago but still - why does he care what I do and how I am?