Virgo and Love !

How do you know when a Virgo loves you?

Me and my man have only ben seeing one another for a month, when leaving me the other night he said "I'll love you and leave you"! I know he said the L... word but does that mean he loves me and is trying to tell me or just saying it cause it sounds good in that particualr sentence cause he was leaving me to go on the train ..... Please help!

what are the signs of when a Virgo male loves you!!!!!

When he yells at you. Pushes you away. Freezes up.

Hey .......
Be careful! He might not be serious about you. If a Virgo cherishes you, he/she won't say that. If one says something like I will leave you, he/she kind of try to warn you what will happen between or he/she has scenced something that will not last long. Virgos are precise when using words.

OK 64.123 ..Does the same also apply to the opposite sex. How do you know when a virgo girl is in love with you

I don't know I am a girl myself.

From my experience, virgos take a long time to love. They are careful and shy. I dont know if he loves you.

Oop, what i meant was, i cant answer your question. I have found them to be careful in love. Maybe just hang out a bit more and see how it goes. Didnt want to interfere in the course of true love!!!

Well it was me who put on the first post. He fell out with me the other night :- We were coming out of the pub and all of a sudden he went in the wee mood and stormed off and would not talk to me for an hour, it was for nothing !! He then apoligised to me, but never had a reason for doing this !!! what does this mean as one of the previous posts said, that if he loves you he freezes up, pushes you away etc, he also tell's me he misses me alot. Please help !

Im a male viro and I go "in the wee mood" when im mad or I don't have anything to say (to a girl) that dosent mean I don't love her, you should talk to him when he dose this (he was probably just troubeld or didn't have what to say). Now maybe you can help me with something (if you are a girl). Something like that hapened to me (I was the guy)and I was talking to a girl that I relly liked (she probably didn't know it)all was going fine till I stoped talking (didn't have or know what to say anymore) then she stoped talking and it relly felt like I messed up. So if something like this happened to you maybe you can tell me if it left a bad impression or you though he dosen't love you—

212. Here are my thoughts. My experience with virgo men is that. 1. They must remain in control of themselves and their emotions in tack at all times. They prefer others to cater to their thoughts and whims and their ideals. I believe that when a virgo man is falling for you. He is in a sense starting to lose some of his inner control. Control freaks have a hard time "missing" someone or realizing that they "need" someone. So apparently this loss of control in viewing your situation is that I think he does have feelings with you. He demonstrated that with his little Mad spell. His lil tantrum. It probably bothers him that he Misses you all of a sudden and that is making him feel vulnerable. I would reccomend acting a bit aloof and sensitive right now. If you make a big deal about his recent behavior it will be so apparent that he Exposed himself (you saw his feelings). Then In his mind he will have no other choice than to retreat or get more defensive. Don't call him on it. Don't confront him about why... Just be patient that is the best virtue I have found in dealing with a virgo man. Be supportive and and use your intuition. When in time if he does feel something let him open up to you.

oh and the "I'll love you and leave you" phrase apparently shows that he has contemplated future scenarios involving the two of you. Or it could be a defense mechanism I do not know his temperment, but it could also mean he is feeling insecure and is afraid to go down that road or that he has been burned in the past in the matters of the heart. Or he might just be possibly gaging you to see your response. Time will tell.

Yeah sometimes people get nervous and just blurt things out.

It all sounds so exhausting to me. Love is good, but gets crazy sometimes!

How do you know when a virgo really loves you.....well one way is the long stare into your eyes and soul that they will suddenly give you..they could be watching tv. and suddenly they will turn to you and and look silently into your eyes for what seems like an eternity (saying nothing!) ...sometimes I have to look away as the honesty is too much in their eyes....you can see into their soul almost..another telling sign is when they ask you lots of little questions....about your mundane life.....or another foolproof way is to get them drunk! very drunk!....under the influence of alcohol, this sign will reveal their inner most hearts like no other sign when they are drunk....the following morning its almost embarrassing for the two people to be together....because Virgo will have revealed so much of himself while under the influence and ther other sign will be blown away by what the virgo has said:-) Go try it - it works:-)

alana - Ive seen that look - I've been the recipient of that look - even long after a breakup with a virgo guy - and I always wondered. Thanks!

Oh my God, I cant belie you people have never heard that phrase before, youre reading lots into absolutely nothing! "I'll love you and leave you" is just a phrase, meaning that you love someone but youre going somewhere i.e. 'leaving' them. It doesnt mean anything bad, theres no need tobe so melodramatic over a simple phrase, i've used it loads of times. I must say, there are some VERY confused people here...

After reading your comments more thoroughly, I can see many of you are misguided. You use these starsigns as a wey of 'templating' people, and if someone deviates from your perception of the norm then you think it must be wrong. Im a very typical Virgo male, but I, and every other Virgo, do not rigidly adhere to a set personality that can be predicted day in day out. If this were true life would indeed be a very dull and shallow thing, and I think many of you need to concentrate on what actually IS, rather than what you think it ahould be.

The man made a harmless comment, one I have myself made many times, a colloquialism, and you are all analyzing it like as though it was a slight, a sign of his anger or something. If you read too much into every thought and action, no matter how trivial, it cannot help but warp your perspectives. Put simply... lighten up!

I'm not taking sides here, at all, mostly because I haven't been keeping up on this conversation enough to feel like I even "have" a side...but I would like to say this: I would think that if someone said to me, "I will love you and leave you", and they were not obviously kidding around when they said it, I would definitely take that as a warning...who wants to be with someone who's blatantly saying they're not going to stick around? I don't know...perhaps I've just never heard it used as a common phrase, a "don't take this seriously" statement...I've also never had it said specifically to me. I'm just trying to put myself in the situation and imagine what I'd think. I would think..."okay, then...I'm leaving first...ta ta..."...because unless it was obvious he was kidding when he said it, why shouldn't I take it seriously? I actually wouldn't even be angry...I would actually be grateful he was decent enough to "tell me" he didn't want a relationship, or couldn't stay in one.

Just thought I would chime in.

Well...look at that...If I'd paid closer attention to the very first posting, I would have noticed it said that he said this "as he was leaving her" . lol, nevermind all that I said; I'm sure he really did just mean it in a somewhat humorous way.

Silly me...I should get all the facts before I make up mah mind. 😛

hehe, the penny drops... 🙂

People are soooo quick to think the worst!

Yes, well.

"Well".

🙂

lol

So Mister Richdog.....you are a hot-blooded virgo male.....tell me what way you behave when you are in love with your lady? Some people say virgos fall in love very quickly....others say it take them ages?? What's it like for you Mister when you are in "fall" mode—
Alana

It takes me AGES to find a girl I really fancy, im very fussy. But when I find someone I really like I fall quite hard to be honest. Saying that, going through a sheltered schooling, then going wild at university, i've never had a serious long-term relationship. However, im more than capable of one, and theres nothing id like better than to find a girl that drives me wild, and who makes me want to stay with her. But I dont often meet girls that fit that description...

Thanks for the insight Richdog....it's great to get a handle on the virgo male psyche....and how it works....I need all the help I can get - am with Virgo guy for over a year now...and when it's good, it's magic but when it's bad...it the pitts.....so am gonna use you as my teaching tool:-) - if you are open to persuasion!!!
Next question I want to ask you.....do Virgos like to be told - I love you - and do they like to be told often? Now we are not talking 24-7!!!, say a couple of times a week or once a week or what?? It's hard to know with them....
And do Virgos have a hard time saying the l word??
Ciao for now RD!!

It's OK using a starsign as a template or BASIC guide, but don't forget that people vary wildly, no matter what their starsign.

If i'm with a girl i'm not too crazy about then obviously i'd feel a little uncomfortable with her saying she loved me as the feelings wouldn't exactly be reciprocated on my part.

However if I was with a girl that I loved, then of course i'd like to hear her say the magic words, it shows that she feels the same you do, and adds to the security needed in a serious relationship.

I wouldn't have a hard time saying it to someone I loved, but i'm sure there are Virgos that do find it hard, and people seem to forget that a personality depends more on it's upbringing and the experiences that shape it, rather than astrology.

I think a couple of times a week if perfectly fine for telling someone you love them, and IF he feels the same way then it should'nt matter how many times you say it...

Richard.

I agree with that last thing said. If you feel it, you should say it as often as you feel it, along with anything and everything else you can think of to make that person smile/happy/otherwise feel better. The only worries are when you aren't sure of the other person's feelings, and usually that's fairly obvious to tell just in how they express their love back, not necessarily even in that taboo sentence "I L___e you." There is more to l___e than just saying it over and over.

And I apologize if everything I say is entirely NOT comprehensible- I got almost no sleep last night after the play and had a 7AM call for a matinee. And I'm going back at it again at 3PM, therefore leaving again for that building in another half hour...wow...*blinkblinkSNORE*

Thanks Dicky:-) - and I do realize that we are not talking templates or clones!!:-) when we talk about virgos/scorps/caps whoever...everyone is so unique and different - but as a basic guiding tool, it's helpful.

Well, don't know whether I will get to use or even hear the L word this weekend as me and Mr. Virgo had a fight and aren't communicating for the moment....one moment I want to smack his face and kick his shins!!....next I just want to be lying in his arms.....anyway, signign off now for weekend - whatever will be, will be...tomoro is another day..as Scarlett O'Hara always says....
Have a good weekend Mr. virgo!!
A x

not true. staring into your eyes doesn't mean we're staring at You. you just happen to be at that spot we're staring at. My father does that, suddenly while watching tv, he'll stare at my mom or anyone of us, that's because he was in his own mind, thinking. We just happen to be at that spot.

Posted by Alana
How do you know when a virgo really loves you.....well one way is the long stare into your eyes and soul that they will suddenly give you..they could be watching tv. and suddenly they will turn to you and and look silently into your eyes for what seems like an eternity (saying nothing!)