WHY ARE YOU VIRGOS SO DAMN CRITICAL?

My mother is a classic Virgo and all my life I have been incriminated and cut down by her sharp remarks. I am a Libra and have found that a few other Virgos I have come across have the same traits--even men...Don't you guys know that some words can hurt?? Please explain to me why this is and...if you do have an explanation, it better be good.

The reason we are critical is we want things to be done right and in a orderly form.It seems irrelevant to other signs like libra and scorpio.But take it or leave 'cause that's the way we are !!

they like to think that they are beening helpful

But you're not being helpful by uttering sharp remarks. You get farther with a kind word as the saying goes.

Virgos can be impatient as well as critical. It's always been a problem for me - I was once almost fired from a job for that.

The truth is- sweet love comes with an attachment. Virgo's try hard to protect themselves from pain. That's why we as Virgo's proclaim to be critical. It's a protection device. Another truth is that we really want a love that cares as deeply as we do. Just my thought.

Wow! I love Virgo's I am a taurus... I think their great... no negative experience. Once again, you get what you expect from anybody.

When my boyfriend broke up with me, He is virgo, I a cancer, the thing that hurt the most was how callous he was about it. No compassion at all - very cold - and very hurtful. I was a great, loving and very emotionally stable. I hurt a very long time after that. Sometimes, I still can't believe it!

No Virgo would break up with an honest and truly loving person. Truth is...

Virgos need to be much more tender.

attn 205...

Yes, this virgo did break up with an honest and VERY trustworthy person. Fact is, he wasn't (come to find out).
He just wanted his cake and eat it too, which doesn't fly with me. There must be various degrees of personality in this "virgo" sign.

I have no sympathy for any ultra-critical Virgo. I've had enough jabbing and ridiculing to deal with in my life by a close Virgo.

i fell sorry for you..but not all virgos are like that ..we deal with hurt with hurtful words ..doesn't mean we don't care!

the only non-critising Virgo I know is my close friend. Every other Virgo I know or have known has been a bit disapproving.

Some Virgos are more critical than others. I'm a Virgo who tries not to complain too much unless I need to.

You're alright!

Scorpio female here.

Virgos can be critical, yes. But how often are they wrong?

I think that virgo's are very transparent the only way they provoke some change or gain some control over other people is to throw stupid little tantrums in order to get their way! IMMATURITY AT ITS BEST THAT IS A VIRGO!

Once again, Scorpio female here.

Immaturity, is immaturity, is immaturity. You'll find it in every sign, from people of both sexes and all ages. It's not limited to Virgos.

I think every sign displays immaturity in different ways, however. Virgos might have one way, while Scorpios have another, and so on with every Zodiac sign. Nobody's perfect, and nobody's the same. If you've had a negative experiece with a particular sign, that's what it's limited to. It's not possible that you've had negative experiences with *every single* Virgo in the world--and even if you think you have, it's still not possible that you've seen the exact same "bad" traits in all of them; there is much more in all of our horoscopes to consider than just sun sign.

Of course no one is perfect--that oes without saying. The issue here is about the biting, cold and criticising remarks that some Virgos display. It's a trait that some Virgos need to work on. Then there's the belief that what comes around--goes around so, any harsh remarks a Virgo has to say may come back to them.