Just wondering on your thoughts on this pairing. I have a virgo friend who has been dating an aqua girl for a few months and it occured to me I hadn't seen this pairing very often. Anyone seen it before?
But if you want to know on a personal Aqua level how I feel in the relationship, I'll tell you.
It's jealousy. Just the fact that the virguy that I liked told me that he was interested in two people made me want to leave him immediately. I didn't care about the fact that I promised I wouldn't leave him no matter what kind of person he is.
I'm sorry, but Aquas don't survive in jealousy, love games etc.
It'll be more than a cold day in hell before we play a love game with you. It just ain't gonna happen. Things are black and white, all or nothing. Not, "Oh I'm interested in TWO people, so play hard to get and try to steal me away from the other girl!"
sorry, bud, just ain't gonna happen.
That's what my virguy was trying to make me do. And I turned into "obsession freak" I didn't know what in the world it was I was suppose to do. So I got scared and gave him all kinds of excuses for my obssession.
That's what jealousy makes Aquas do, obsess until it hurts our well-being. I don't know how to "make" someone like me more than another person? So I make the person my obsession in the hope that I won't lose the war. But that made things worse.
He told me that he was scared of me because I am an obsession freak, and said he didn't want to speak to me for a whole year, and that he was happy with the other girl. Guess what, the other girl is completely compatible with him cause she's capricorn!
lol
That's what happens when an Aqua is not in control. They become "uncontrollable"
Thus, Aquas and Virgs butting heads!!
Honestly, I'm glad a I get year off from complete misery!!
wow Reiniba-Chan. I've never heard of an Aqua dealing s obad with a whole jealousy thing. The virguy I know is super jealous all the time (considering hes had some messed up relationships) but he always says how the aquagirl never gets jealous. I think it almost worries him a little that she isn't maybe a bit more possessive.
lol. hehehe. I actually never told my virguy that I was jealous at first. In fact, he could never ever tell if I even liked him let alone loved him 99% of the time. LOL I had to plain out tell him before it was too late!! lol
But then everything went downhill from there.. because the situation turned into something like this:
(me) Girl seems jealous, don't know for sure. Guy has a gf. Guy has feelings for gf and the other girl. Asks other girl if she has feelings for him. Other girl doesn't lie, so she tells him. (me, back in the picture..this is after sending an e-mail saying I need to "let him go" and not too long after that he hooked up the other girl anyway)
The rule with him is, if you're jealous, show it, if you love him show it, if you have emotion, SHOW it..otherwise he won't even bother.
Yeah, he was forcing me to "sacrifice" myself at the same time saying that he just wants me to be me o_O what the hell?
Showing no emotion IS being me, you idiot!!
Yeah, if I told him somthing like that, after leaving him like I did after I promised I wouldn't....he would cut off contact with me either way.
So EITHER way I was pretty much screwed as soon as I sent the e-mail of doom before we had even become good friends. It was at the beginning that I found out that he had feelings for another. So I tried to cut off contact with him at the beginning.
It's a long story. But that's pretty much the gist of it. I just couldn't be me. And it seemed like he just wanted revenge anyway. 😛
It's very clear to me that this guy is a baby that needs serious coddling. And I'm pretty confidant in the fact that whatever glue brought those two together isn't that sticky. There's too much immaturity on his part, so there's no doubt that she has it too if she was able to survive him this long. lol which reminds me, she did leave him but it was only for a day. lol I left for two months cause I am waaaaaaaay above that. I came back into the picture to offer friendship, but he, unfortunately, could tell I was jealous, and it went downhill from there, cause I couldn't be me!!!!!!
So it's very relieving that I get year off from hell. Very. ^__^;
lol. Yeah, I looked up our charts....it turns out that he and I have practicality have the same psychological make-up. Maybe if we were born with the same parents and had the same life style s we would be one in the same. However, he lives on the opposite side of the US from me with catholic parents and he was adopted. I have pentacostal parents and I wasn't adopted. If we were to merge our lives together we would probably be in sync. We do have different views and he is 3 years older than me. I think we have a lot to learn from each other, really. If we argue, he said we could always AGREE to disagree cause we're both stubborn as hell with our views. hehe lol. We both consider each other to be cool friends though. 😛
When he met me, I remember him saying "I think I'm gonna dirty you down a bit and you're gonna clean me up a bit" Boy was he right!!
As for the control issue: If I said I had to go, I would have to explain to him why etc. If HE had to do something, I wouldn't flipping care! you gotta do what ya gotta do, don't let me get in the way!! but sometimes he would tell me that he wants me to get mad and try to keep him from talking to the other girl, like that would prove something? o_O what the HELL?
talk to who you want to talk to!!! If I'm not satisfying enough or whatever, then it is what it is!!! But he just ends up thinking I most likely don't like him and I'm just a wuss..
This is what happens when you send an e-mail to a virg saying that you want to meet later on in life!!!
Now, I really don't regret it!! He really is immature!! And that's exactly what I told him in the e-mail to begin with!
I make sure that I am not? it was a reminder.. no hard feelings..!
Back in time people tend to separate their differences but the culture.. then race comes along.. now to days..(in new age crap stuff)? star signs is important?.
Not the same as an intimate relationship .. but, relating between these two signs, nevertheless .. my mother (Aqua), lived with a Virgo (my husband) for several years before her death .. and, I have to tell you .. the two clashed in some ways and got along in others, though, 99% of the getting along happened one-sided.
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Aqua wanted to help with providing a comfortable life (fixing meals, laundry) .. Virgo thought this was smothering, for it insinuated to him that Aqua thought Virgo was incapable of fending for self, and thought it was controlling behaviour.
Virgo detested that the Aqua saw her own point-of-view, rather than just being sensible enough to know that his was right.
Aqua didn't care much for having to explain why and plead with Virgo to join 'with' family, instead of remaining isolated within himself.
Virgo didn't care much for the Aqua's way of fasely believing that finding reasons to want to accomplish something was better than finding reasons why it shouldn't happen.
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Aqua liked the Virgo's sense of duty, for it afforded the Aqua more time to spend on thinking of ways to improve life, rather than just existing within it.
Virgo liked Aqua's wicked sense of humor, so long as it wasn't pointed at him.
Aqua liked the way the Virgo remained calm and in control in public, for though the Aqua remained this way - always - at least, the outside world wasn't aware of the true nature and so, "an image" was better than nothing.
Virgo admired the way the Aqua felt a sense of loyalty to him, eventhough he wasn't deserving of it because she wasn't his woman.
u cant blame a whole sun sign for the wrong doing of a particular person... its much more complicated than that...
your thought as same as most of us.. the problem is.. un-intelligent assholes took over the intelligent being.. selling their crap to others in disguise?.
To be an example back in 2005?you'll know how many times that I accused BRAHN isn't VIRGO ..??
Yes, Q .. claiming superiourity over women (or water people) because they possess emotions, where the Virgo has these emotions completely in control, and then spew out irritated sentiments to others, hence: expressing out-of-control emotions .. which is, in reality, a complete contridiction, is ....
A Virgo thing !!
For every other sign comprehends that irritation IS an emotion and the expressing of such, even in dxp, is being emotional.
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