virgo boyfriend

Posted by guiwaterdaymaster

Posted by Lalla
My boyfriend was born on the 16th of sept. we've been together for a year now. Evreything's fine except for 1 thing..how do i stop him being judgmental? also, how do i make him trust me more..

no one is perfect... good luck getting him to change but I doubt you will... sounds like how a normal Virgo will always be... unless other major influences off set...

He is so great then you will not mind dealing with it for the rest of your life right... lol
ks on my shortcomings
Joking... well kinda...
haha yea he's an amazing boyfriend, but can get really critical sometimes.

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Posted by TheMoodyVulcan
What year was he born?

Posted by CluelessCancer
Tell him to back off.

Posted by TheMoodyVulcan

Posted by Lalla

Posted by TheMoodyVulcan
What year was he born?

he was born in 1983 🙂

I got all excited for a minute. Thought I might have another astro twin out there since we have the same b-day.

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Posted by CluelessCancer
No like I'm serious, tell him you don't care what he thinks, and to go fall over a bridge, do it with a smile though,
haha thats funny xD

Posted by TheMoodyVulcan
When is your DoB?

Posted by TheMoodyVulcan
When is your DoB?

Posted by TheMoodyVulcan
Opposition G Mercury / B Jupiter - 01??23'
Transforming this aspect into something positive for a relationship could be difficult, but isn't impossible. The problem is that the two of you view the world from different perspectives which makes actually accomplishing anything difficult. While one of you sees the proverbial forest, the other sees the trees, which makes planning anything effectively can be a problem. Despite the difference in outlook, it is possible for couples to turn this influence into a real gem. The trick is to recognize the benefit of each other's approach and address tasks in a way that allows each of you to use your distinct perspective effectively.

Opposition G Venus / B Jupiter - 03??10'
This aspect often indicates a relationship built upon the ambitions of either one or both the people involved. You're likely to share many of the same interests and goals, which can make this combination seem "charmed," but the fact is there may not be any influences to actually foster friendship or romance. For this aspect to indicate anything genuine it must be in a very favorable chart overall.

Opposition G Mercury / B Uranus - 00??22'
This combination suggests a lively relationship full of mental activities and unusual twists and turns. You're not likely to be ones who hold to schedules or travel through life on a straight path, but you are likely to have a ton of fun and excitement. A disciplined approach to life probably isn't your strong suite, so stability in your relationship may be challenged (in this case that's a euphemism for absent) at times. Still, a free-spirited romp through life may well work perfectly fine for you. Involvement in social issues and the pursuit of esoteric, possibly occult knowledge may be among your shared pursuits. Although these influences may not favor a long term relationship for most, they do work well for you.

Opposition G Venus / B Uranus - 02??09'
While the passions suggested by this aspect can be extraordinarily powerful, they are also likely to fizzle out as quickly as they surged upward. Relationships under this influence are often the product of unusual desires and attractions. Stability, harmony, and long term relationships are not supported by this aspect.

Posted by twinklebluetoes
Moon conjunct Saturn is a bitch.

Posted by Beergo85
Is he judgmental towards you and doesn't trust you? Are you Aqua by any chance. lol

We don't judge without a reason(s) in mind. There's probably some kind issues that made him get upset and judged that person.

My advice to you is to give him a piece of your mind not your emotion. WE CONNECT AND LISTEN A LOT BETTER WITH OUR MINDS THAN OUR EMOTIONS. WE UNDERSTAND THINGS LOGICALLY NOT EMOTIONALLY...

Posted by CluelessCancer
Ok how about this from my perspective, the VIRGO NEVER EVER criticized me.

that was as painful as being criticized. I never knew what he truly thought about me.

i hated it. I wish he criticized me, than i would know not to irk him so much.

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Posted by Lalla
My boyfriend was born on the 16th of sept. we've been together for a year now. Evreything's fine except for 1 thing..how do i stop him being judgmental? also, how do i make him trust me more..

Have you spoken to him about it, Lalla?
About him trusting you, what do you mean by that? Does he not trust you?

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Posted by scorpio24
my boyf has the same sun, moon and merc as yours.

i find when mine is being critical/judgmental unless it's actually good advice i will tell him i dont care what he thinks 🙂 they usually end up respecting you more if when you stand up to yourself.. but also, most of the time they are actually genuinely trying to help u when they critisize/judge.. they usually mean well 🙂 sometimes they can be taken the wrong way, beware of doing that

Posted by scorpio24
I proved to him that i was loyal and trustworthy, he told me he trusts me 100% the other day.. just prove that you are trustworthy and eventually it will come...and do NOT act emotionally to their critism, i USED to now i just understand its how they are, they mean well.. even though they can be pricks about it.. just shrug it off if u dont agree and they will respect u more