Are Virgos really that stubborn?

I had a fight with my virgo boyfriend (1 1/2 month)a week ago, completely not my fault and we haven't spoken or texted in a week. We used to talk and text all day long before the fight. We both have shown each other that we care, we've made plans, we gave each other the right amount of space, etc...
Does a virgo rather be right and lose what we had? I'm an aquarius, so it's very easy for me to be open to another person's opinion, but there has to be a compromise on both parts. I want him back, but he needs to see that he hurt my feelings and that some things have to change. I feel that if I reach out first, I'm accepting his behavior, and he won't try to change.
I'm very sad, I don't know what to do....

Thanks Starlover, it feels so bad to think that I'm not important enough for him to just at least try. For the first time in years I felt a real connection with someone....

Posted by chulamama74
I had a fight with my virgo boyfriend (1 1/2 month)a week ago, completely not my fault and we haven't spoken or texted in a week. We used to talk and text all day long before the fight. We both have shown each other that we care, we've made plans, we gave each other the right amount of space, etc...
Does a virgo rather be right and lose what we had? I'm an aquarius, so it's very easy for me to be open to another person's opinion, but there has to be a compromise on both parts. I want him back, but he needs to see that he hurt my feelings and that some things have to change. I feel that if I reach out first, I'm accepting his behavior, and he won't try to change.
I'm very sad, I don't know what to do....

Its called communicating! who cares if you reach out first (just dont bombard him), and its not necessarily condoning his behavior...you have to actually TALK to him for him to know how you feel...hes a guy! and stop trying to change someone...he is who he is and it wont change to be honest!
and yes we are stubborn...at least I am lol

Actually, what I want from him is to accept me the way I am, or just end things. The fight was exactly about that, him trying to change me. I love everything about him, except him being so critical.

Hes a virgo....he will always be critical, either accept it or dont.
and if he cant accept you the way you are...then you guys are probably not a good match.

Virgos are stubborn and they hold grudges. I think he's waiting for you to make things better or initiate the convo...even tho it's not your fault lol

I would suggest that you surrender. My virgo ex and I broke up in the past because of that. Neither of us would back down. But now that we are exes, when we fight, I just had to agree with what he wants and eventually, he would also adjust to what I want. It's weird, I know. But bottomline is, if you do not want any arguments then don't. You don't have to apologize to the virgo but at least show that you respect their opinion and that your opinion should be respected too--- said in the calmest way possible. They're smart. They will understand that.

Thanks Aria, I really don't like to argue . He's the one that made a little scene at a restaurant, I was a little shock, all I managed to say was "you're self sabotaging". I left him at his house and that was it. I haven't heard anything from him in a week.
I don't want to lose him, if I didn't think he was a good man I wouldn't bother.
You're right, he's very smart
Thank you all so much

Try to reach out. That's what I do now. More peaceful process than expressing who has the bigger ego. Not saying you do it all the time, but you know. In some instances when you feel it?? just a small thing and you can give way.

I'll do it, I know he cares about me just as I care about him, I just hope that his pride doesn't get in the middle.

It will at first. Hahahahhaha. I saw that with my virgo ex. I was reaching out then he start?d ranting at me. Nagging and saying stuff. I totally ignored until he let it all out. 🙂

Can someone help me!!

Thanks Aria....let's see what happens.
I don't want to start a new topic....Dumped by a Virgo :-)

Ok, so I texted him and he answered. Turns out I'm the "bad guy" in this situation and he can't be with me because I make him feel bad. He twisted everything around to make it seem that I'm at fault.
I really love this man , but I'm not going to try to contact him anymore. I might not be perfect, but I'm a good and loving woman. If he can't see that, it's his loss. I miss him terribly though