Virgo man.

Do you think, a Virgo guy will get hurt if you broke up with him?

Or does it depend on how much committed is he in the relationship?

Yeah. I gotcha. So, if you don't communicate as often anymore (that means only getting 'hi' , 'how are u' , ' I miss you' messages EVERYDAY)..and that's just about it. Lol
We no longer talk about anything. What's the use of being in a relationship? Does that mean, the other person is not that committed and maybe, he's just waiting for you to give up?

Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
Are expressing what you feel to "him"?

Yes. He knows I hate it when he does that. When I complain about it, he changes the topic. He ignores it.. or he just doesn't get it?

I'm just scared what happens after :/ He does this push-pull thing.

Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
Fuck em. You said what you had to say already. If he isn't listening, that's his fucking fault. Now follow your intuition...

^I fucking concur. Nicely fucking put. :].

Yeah. I wish I can..

My virgo is the exact same!!!!!

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Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
Fuck em. You said what you had to say already. If he isn't listening, that's his fucking fault. Now follow your intuition...

^I fucking concur. Nicely fucking put. :].

Hey you. 🙂

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Enough reason to dump him. Why care if he gets hurt or not when he does not care about you. Care about how you feel FIRST.

Yes. He knows I hate it when he does that. When I complain about it, he changes the topic. He ignores it.. or he just doesn't get it?

Posted by applemint_fv
Enough reason to dump him. Why care if he gets hurt or not when he does not care about you. Care about how you feel FIRST.

Yes. He knows I hate it when he does that. When I complain about it, he changes the topic. He ignores it.. or he just doesn't get it?

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100% agree with this.

^ that's the reason why I'm torn now because any action/inaction confuses me. Like I said, it's a push/pull thing. And if you were to ask me, I'd wanna stay and understand as much as I can. That's why Im asking for some inputs on my situation.

Posted by Ariangirl

We met a year ago online. Lost touch and talked again last February.

He wanted Friends with Benefits kind of relationship and I didn't want it.

We still talked and flirted though.

One day, after reuniting for weeks, I made him admit he loves me and so he
started to distance himself and ignore me.

But while he is supposed to be ignoring me, I did all the begging and all.

He still tried to distance himself until he said he cannot do it.

Now, we are 'in a relationship' but I just don't get him.

He isn't like any other man who sends good morning text messages and all.

What he sends me everyday is : Hi How are you? I love you. I miss you.

... as a girl, I'm looking for more that sweeps me off my feet. But I am settling for that because I love him.

You've made this thread and failed to tell everyone the entire truth, then encouraged them to answer your question without knowing the truth.

He told you from jump that he wasn't into your feelings and wanted FWB ... you then proceeded to beg him for a relationship.

But then I decided to let go. It's him who went his way to me and told me he cannot do it. Ofcourse, I felt something for him. What do I do when he comes back— Send him away as well ??

And I did not beg him for a relationship. What I meant was begged that he stay and stop ignoring me. I even told his friend it's okay if he's not willing to commit as long as he stays in my life. After he's told me he cannot leave me alone, that's when we had the 'relationship'. We didnt even officially make it. The term boyfriend/girlfriend just came out in the picture in the middle of talking. Ofcourse, commitment follows after.