Virgo Men and The Challenge

So, I read another post here about how to cut a Virgo lose and it kind of reminded me about 2 Virgos I got in a relationship with. One was back when I was 18 (I'm 25 now) and the other was just a year ago.

The first one, I caught him cheating and he never knew about it. I just didn't ask him if it was true. I saw some photos and messages and that was it. I disappeared. Changed my number and vanished online. Fast forward 2 years ago, he found me on Facebook and made contact again. He's been texting me and asking me out over and over, never missed my birthday but I never responded to any of his messages. He expressed his intention of getting back with me despite my NR (no response) status.

Now, the 2nd Virgo ex, we broke up because we got into so much arguments and I couldn't take it anymore. I got in a relationship with an aqua after that and we kind of parted ways a bit. We are officemates and he sees me everyday. After the breakup, we kind of irked each other all the time until recently when my aqua and I had a problem and almost broke up, he sort of came back to the usual, sweet virgo I met. He was once again, repeating the stuff we used to do when we were just dating and even made an effort to make an e-card for me on my birthday. We fought recently about a project since it was both of us handling that in the office. We just couldn't agree which one has the better idea. It even reached our boss.

Posted by Aria
So, I read another post here about how to cut a Virgo lose and it kind of reminded me about 2 Virgos I got in a relationship with. One was back when I was 18 (I'm 25 now) and the other was just a year ago.

The first one, I caught him cheating and he never knew about it. I just didn't ask him if it was true. I saw some photos and messages and that was it. I disappeared. Changed my number and vanished online. Fast forward 2 years ago, he found me on Facebook and made contact again. He's been texting me and asking me out over and over, never missed my birthday but I never responded to any of his messages. He expressed his intention of getting back with me despite my NR (no response) status.

Now, the 2nd Virgo ex, we broke up because we got into so much arguments and I couldn't take it anymore. I got in a relationship with an aqua after that and we kind of parted ways a bit. We are officemates and he sees me everyday. After the breakup, we kind of irked each other all the time until recently when my aqua and I had a problem and almost broke up, he sort of came back to the usual, sweet virgo I met. He was once again, repeating the stuff we used to do when we were just dating and even made an effort to make an e-card for me on my birthday. We fought recently about a project since it was both of us handling that in the office. We just couldn't agree which one has the better idea. It even reached our boss.

Virgos would rather walk through cut glass than fight with a woman. Especially the kind of woman who gets in their face if a conflict arises. Nope...they'll walk first. They won't compete either, especially if they've analzyed and concluded why they are right. Especially if it's work related. Most take their jobs very seriously.

He wanted me to just agree with him but I can't. And he was so angry I told him to relax and talk when he's calm. So, I went home no talking to him but before I left, he sent me a message to get online later that evening to talk. And we did. I agreed to what he wants. Then he said he will adjust as well to things I wanted. Then, he said "we will try again. Although I know you might hate me know but we will make it work." So I was thinking, sure it was just work. The following day, he messaged me again to say "one day we will remember all our arguments and just laugh at it thinking how petty they were. You must hate me now. I was thinking, How about we go out again? 🙂" and I haven't responded yet. Until now. I do not know, but are all these simply because of the challenge that they get? I have never met any man who seemed to "go back" just like this. Or was it because I moved on quickly from them after the relationship that they felt it wasn't really over between us? Please let explain to me more about the virgo mentality. It will really help!

It's simple Aria...it's BUSINESS. You need to separate that from your personal lives. Don't take it personally at work. They are the worker bees of the zodiac, and again take their jobs seriously.

It sounds like he is separating the two while trying to reassure you of the personal side outside of work.

Posted by LetltB
It sounds like he is separating the two while trying to reassure you of the personal side outside of work.

Is that so? Hmmmm if you were in my position though... Would you consider "going out" with your virgo ex again?

Posted by Aria

Posted by LetltB
It sounds like he is separating the two while trying to reassure you of the personal side outside of work.

Is that so? Hmmmm if you were in my position though... Would you consider "going out" with your virgo ex again?

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Oh brother...Mama, mama, mama....They know each other. You work with one. One is still married which you are STILL seeing— Mama, mama, mama. Lots of issues with each. You can always back off both and take some personal time with yourself....Deja vu.... With that being said...I am biased towards the virgo...as you know.

Do they come back...sometimes...however find out why?... No Yoyo🙂

@LIB
Yep, sounds like it.

Can someone help me !!

Im not sure what you are asking. but yes the challenge, ESPECIALLY if it involves an ex is a big factor in my dealings with women. sometimes its purely about the challenge, not as often however as I get older.