Virgo breaking a Leo heart

Hi Virgos.
I never thought that a Virgo could ever get me heartbroken.
Mind you, I am a Leo!
But I've been through HELL trying to get over her.
I (born Aug 3rd) met Her (born Sep 15th) at work.
I found her irresistable! So mysterious and beautiful. We were both single and flirted without getting physical.
In comes Mr. Gemini (born June 9th), and She falls in love with him.
I later understood she thought I was too dramatic in pursuing her.
But I had no idea then that she was a Virgo. I know you guys prefer to
keep it low.

She and Gemini argue a lot, but are currently involved.
I still talk to her, and when she and Gemini went through a hard time
she gave me attention. I was cold since she broke my heart by chosing him.
I couldn't help it!! It was like she stepped all over my Leo pride.
She knows how I feel about her. She even told Gemini, who will probably kill
me one of these days.

She kept being friendly to me. Until she went back to Gemini.
But... She looks at me when she thinks I don't notice.
As soon as I look at her, she turns away to ignore me.

One thing she ALWAYS does is that when he knows I watch her she's being
extremely touchy with her friends. She will hug and kiss them right
before my eyes! I know Virgos are physical by nature, but she's doing it
to make me notice! When we have short talks sometimes she blushes a lot.
She smiles, and she observes me like only a Virgo can do.

On the other hand she told Gemini about my feelings, and he'll probably kill me
soon as it seems. Is she feeling guilty?
She knows she broke my heart.

Is she trying to tell me something with those looks and that behaviour?
I've read that Virgo and Leo rarely get together, but when they do there's usually a third peron involved. So true in this case!

Any wise Virgos who can tell me what she's thinking?
Much appreciated.

"Is she trying to tell me something with those looks and that behaviour?"


Yes, it's to string you along so you won't lose interest just in case things don't work out with Gemini. The touchy/feely only when you are looking is to make you jealous.

You're being played ......

caprigirlwithvirgo

""lobadob:
let me know if i will be able to help in screwing up more, any of the virgo jerks!
that will give me so much peace of mind. Oh well, all them are already screwed up one way or the other.
jerks!""

that's nice! how nice of you to wish harm on others just for being Virgos...... Can I ask why in the hell are you with a Virgo??!?!...if you detest Virgos soo much...all your freaking posts are about Virgos and how much you hate and love them......I think your obsessed with Virgos......Why waste some much energy? ...it makes no sense...

and people call me weird.....sheesh.....it looks like your 5 cents short of a dollar..... and you got some serious issues....lol

Starblue

Come-on now, you must be new around here, the chick is both emotionally/mentally unstable and I don't think anyone around here would ?ever? take her stuff seriously.

She mean no harm, what she is after is attention ?it is a damn boring life? and the needs for yelling and blaming someone/something for the frustration.

Too much testosterones and hormones I guess.

And back to the topic..

Lobadob

Your possessive nature causing this trouble, stop seeing her as a ?trophy to be won and own? then off you go on your way.

It is a damn ?male/female? perspective and point of view rather than star sign stuff and personalities.

She looks at me when she thinks I don't notice.
As soon as I look at her, she turns away to ignore me.

One thing she ALWAYS does is that when he knows I watch her she's being
extremely touchy with her friends. She will hug and kiss them right
before my eyes!

Lmao.. it is a female (general tactics) as playing hard to get, how old are you..??


There are no promises or commitments have been made between you too and you are most probably (in love with your imaginations) rather than her in person.

Leave her alone.. her heart belongs to someone else!

FYI..

Virgoes are not physical..!

lobadob all i have to say is virgo's hate to be ignored if you want to get her back just pay her no mind. You dont have to be an ass but keep everything short and simple. If you see her on your break and she speaks to you simply say hello and keep it moving. Act like you dont even know her i'm telling you this will pissed her off. In her mind she's wondering what's going on with you all of a sudden.

ps. dont do this after she has piss you off just start doing it out of now where.

Hey everyone, thanks for your advice so far.

Qbone: I'm old enough to know she's playing hard to get! What I don't understand is WHY.
If her heart belongs to someone else (as you are strangely certain of), then why bother playing games? As far as I know people play games when they have an interest in someone.
I tought maybe it's a Virgo thing. Obviously I don't know.
That's why I seek advice.
Ok, I assumed Virgos are physical because this girl is, and two old Virgo friends of mine were. So she' not a typical Virgo, for better or worse.

"then why bother playing games?"



Because that's what Players do. They don't care about feelings, or trust, or honor .... players care about head-games to mess with people.

"If her heart belongs to someone else .. "


No, her heart doesn't belong to someone else ... if the Gemini man truly had her heart .. then she wouldn't be leading you on to keep you interested.

"If her heart belongs to someone else (as you are strangely certain of), then why bother playing games?"

Your questioning of those two sentences within the psychology of it is accurate ....... a person who's heart is taken would NOT be playing.

Come-on P..

Ever heard of the expression (test the depth of the water)..??

Me and you are too old for this kind of shit but (my memory still serves me well enough to remember the puzzle thou).

It is ever lasting games between male and female.

Call it part of the rules of attraction?there are simply no female existing in this world that haven't tried this shit once or twice or perhaps trice in their life time.

Let the young generations continue to do the same.. its tradition?!

Lobadab..

Why do you seeking advice from the complete strangers..??

Lack of self confidence..?? Or you are suffering from ?inexperienced lover-wannabe? syndrome? Your questions are immature hence the question (how old are you).

Like I said, you've build an image of your perfect lover in your imagination (in her appearance) and in love with it.

What you have to do is just pressing the ?delete? and off you go.

Unless you like the suffering, that's another story.

"string you along so you won't lose interest just in case things don't work out with Gemini. The touchy/feely only when you are looking is to make you jealous.

You're being played"




I agree with P-Angel.

lobadob, it seems that you would like to hear that the Virgo is doing "whatever" she is doing for you, no?

Qbone:
I don't care for your attitude. You calling my questions immature and questioning me seeking advice from strangers is something I can do without. FYI - people seek advice from strangers all the time online. I clearly annoy you so why do you even bother?

So I'm in love with someone who I KNOW used to have feelings for me.
I'm interested in astrology and know her sign. Why do I ask strangers?
Because I can! I do have friends, and they've given me their advice.
What's strange about wanting opinions from other people?
It's like you have a bad day and need someone to pick on.
How mature is that?

Ocean:
Since I'm in love with Ms. Virgo of course I hope she's acting out some uncontrollable desire for me! LOL. Just curious how a Virgo mind works in these situations.
I know there are no absolute answers because we're all individuals.
But what do I have to lose in asking? Except my temper with certain people...

It's like you have a bad day and need someone to pick on.

None of the above, you've asked for the advice and I gave it to you, it seems that you are the one with the attitude.

Relationship and science of the astrology does not belong together, you guys using this ancient science like a user manual and it's offending, how do you feel about that huh..??

Be what you are and do exactly your ?own? heart and mind telling you to do in your private relationship with the others, more than that? Then you are sir, a hypocrite..!

Lesson number two for you to learn?

Virgos are humble creatures, you want their respect? Then be humble.!

Since I'm in love with Ms. Virgo of course I hope she's acting out some uncontrollable desire for me! LOL.




lol 🙂

Take care, lobadob.

lol

lob, if this is a fantasy then how can people give you any valuable insight?

You want to hear something .. and it's apparant that this something you want to hear is that this woman is only playing because she is head-over-heels in love with you and that's why she is behaving this way.

Any response you get in here from a Virgo is going to shatter your dream for they are too realistic to entertain your fantasy.

She may not be playing games after all.
Virgos give more value to friendship. Maybe she doesn't want to lose you as a good friend. Personally,I would choose a friend over a bf anyday.

Qbone:
I get your point. No hard feelings really. It seemed to me that
you were picking on me for no reason. Now I see you have one and I respect that.
It's true people of today take astrology light-heartedly, and perhaps I follow the sheep on this one. I mean no disrepect, but I gave you me reasons in my last post.

Ocean: Take care of yourself too. 🙂

Martian, and P Angel:
Yeah, friendship is great, but when you're in love with someone you want it all!
I know Virgos are usually very realistic and down to Earth while Leos can aim too high.
But in this case I don't think I'm aiming too high.
That's why I care so much. As I said I just want to understand her in another way, from the astrological way.
I only know hers and my sun sign. I nkow there are many more aspects in astrology.
I thought maybe someone could help me out with that.

selesteemed = self esteemed

Qbone

""Starblue

Come-on now, you must be new around here, the chick is both emotionally/mentally unstable and I don't think anyone around here would ?ever? take her stuff seriously.

She mean no harm, what she is after is attention ?it is a damn boring life? and the needs for yelling and blaming someone/something for the frustration.""

oh no i'm not new here........but Qbone it's annoying ......her posts are annoying .....and I couldn't take it anymore.....yes the know the poor girl is unstable......but still lol

""yes I know the poor girl is unstable"".......damn typos lol

Wow capgirlwithvirgo how can you categorize a whole sun sign? This shows much ignorance on your part. Apparently you have had negative relations with a virgo, don't give poor advice because you have suffered...

Seriously people on this site need to grow the fcuk up, sometimes I feel like I'm conversing with kids in junior high school...

Just because someone screwed you over oesn't mean everyone from the same star sign will do the same...GEEZ it's only astrology. And we have to remember EVERYONE has DIFFERENT signs that make aspects of their personality... (DUH)

"Most of them do not deserve any one's love or care and should be alone for whole life. "

Wow, what a horrible statement. Someone's pretty bitter.

smh... Kids 🙂

Anywho...

lobadob,

I understand that you admire and desire her but she moved onto another person, she already knows how you feel about her and still moved on...
I do believe she may still have some sort of attraction towards you but right now she's with the Gemini. Do you really want someone who would up and leave like that?
Then again, you guys weren't really exclusive so maybe she seen no harm in doing that.
Either way emotions were hurt, it's up to you if you want to try again and let her know how you feel....

(btw I'm a virgo woman currently with a leo male)

i used to do this.. i think it may be that she's trying to get her GEMINI jealous.. virgos rarely get with people they don't like. the fact she told him about you too.. she's just trying to keep you around as a back up plan.. she just likes the attention, from both the men. trust me. if u stop giving her attention and start being cold, it will drive her NUTS

Hey thanks everyone.
Fieryearth: I've really wanted to move on many times.
Cool that some Leos and Virgos go together though!
Lately Ms. Virgo has started to seek my attention.
Very interesting. Seeking eye contact. Small talk. Watching me from a distance like
in the old days.
Still I see her with Gemini, but I've noticed HE is the one approaching her mostly.
I couldn't help but notice that she seems bored with him.
I mean, this guy is constantly talking!
Yeah, gko, she might still use me to get him jealous 'cause he needs to do more than talk to keep her happy I guess.
For being a Leo I'm not that extroverted. I'm not an open book like her boyfriend seems to be. I'm not even sure they're dating anymore because she seems distant to him, and she's approaching me. It makes it so much harder to want to move on.