Virgo-Cancer: Friends? Lovers? Both? Neither?

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It's very rare that I see a Virgo and Cancer in a love relationship... I've had plenty of Virgos as friends but never in the romantic sense. Until... I became very close friends with a Virgo man. Initially, we couldn't view eachother as lovers, not even as bedroom buddies LOL. But low and behold, we are now dating and it is marvelous. I am shocked that I overlooked such a patient, earthy, analytical, considerate, sign... but it brings me to this question: Does this Earth-Water duo make a lasting romantic pair? Or are they better off as friends? Please, share your findings and experiences because there's not many.
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Posted by SensitiveBlues
I know one virgo man crab couple, i don't really know them like that, but they seem happy from the outside, and they're a cute couple



virgo men are tricky, just beware, what's his chart? yours>?
Me: Cancer/Him: Virgo

Moon: Pisces/Him: Leo

Mercury: Cancer/Him: Libra

Venus: Cancer/Him: Libra

Mars: Both Virgo

Jupiter: Sagittarius/Him: Aries

Saturn: Pisces/Him: Sagittarius

Uranus: Capricorn/Him: Sagittarius

Neptune: Both Capricorn

Pluto: Both Scorpio

Rising: Leo/Him: Taurus

And our composite chart

Sun Leo

Moon Taurus

Mercury Leo

Venus Leo

Mars Virgo

Jupiter Aquarius

Saturn Aquarius

Uranus Capricorn

Neptune Capricorn

Pluto Scorpio

Ascendant Gemini
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Mother Moon
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Posted by Nathan912
Yup, it's rare, I have more chance getting hit by lightning than seeing these couples. But yeah, I know one, not personally though. They're both bloggers I believe they been married since 2001 and they have 3 kids already. Taurus, Aries and I think the other one is Libra.
LOL well I'm glad that I'm not the only one who sees the rarity of the pairing. Good to know there's a successful cancer-virgo married couple... they complement eachother in so many ways, I can't believe there's not more couples like this.
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I know couples in both genders

Cancer Man - Virgo Woman with a Sag daughter and an Aries son...married 30+ years.

Cancer Woman - Virgo Man with a Taurus son and a Taurus daughter ....married 30+ years

Joyful peeps, zest of life and all the good stuff.

When it works, it works.

When it doesn't, we go to astrology for an answer to our angst.

When that doesn't work, plenty of other beliefs to draw from, anything to remove the butthurt.

Wish more people in happy pairings would post on this site. Maybe topics wouldn't spiral so fast into projections.

Good luck, OP!
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Posted by Damnata
I know couples in both genders

Cancer Man - Virgo Woman with a Sag daughter and an Aries son...married 30+ years.

Cancer Woman - Virgo Man with a Taurus son and a Taurus daughter ....married 30+ years

Joyful peeps, zest of life and all the good stuff.

When it works, it works.

When it doesn't, we go to astrology for an answer to our angst.

When that doesn't work, plenty of other beliefs to draw from, anything to remove the butthurt.

Wish more people in happy pairings would post on this site. Maybe topics wouldn't spiral so fast into projections.

Good luck, OP!
LOL thank you! That's why I don't respond to the negativity. I didn't ask for a fortune teller, just personal findings and experiences. As much as I look to astrology, it really boils down to the core of a person, their environment, their past experiences/circumstances, how they developed into the person they are today and how they continue to develop as well. I asked the question because the pairing is rare, not because I doubt him. Boy, if I didn't have my leo ascendant, I probably would've ruined our relationship reading this commentary, which I happened to show him. Which we both happened to get a good laugh out of while at the beach 😄
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Posted by Damnata
I know couples in both genders

Cancer Man - Virgo Woman with a Sag daughter and an Aries son...married 30+ years.

Cancer Woman - Virgo Man with a Taurus son and a Taurus daughter ....married 30+ years

Joyful peeps, zest of life and all the good stuff.

When it works, it works.

When it doesn't, we go to astrology for an answer to our angst.

When that doesn't work, plenty of other beliefs to draw from, anything to remove the butthurt.

Wish more people in happy pairings would post on this site. Maybe topics wouldn't spiral so fast into projections.

Good luck, OP!


Shut the fuk up you passive aggressive annoying azz bytch



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Pls cry in silence, prime example of "It's his sun or moon and i'm going to obsess over either/both because I just can't move past it, I am that weak of a pathethic being" dxper.

Cancer and Virgo can work if both people want it to work, same as every pairing. Meanwhile no one will put up with the plethora of issues you display. It's not their chart, it's you.

*smooches*



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Posted by Damnata
Posted by SensitiveBlues
Posted by Damnata
I know couples in both genders

Cancer Man - Virgo Woman with a Sag daughter and an Aries son...married 30+ years.

Cancer Woman - Virgo Man with a Taurus son and a Taurus daughter ....married 30+ years

Joyful peeps, zest of life and all the good stuff.

When it works, it works.

When it doesn't, we go to astrology for an answer to our angst.

When that doesn't work, plenty of other beliefs to draw from, anything to remove the butthurt.

Wish more people in happy pairings would post on this site. Maybe topics wouldn't spiral so fast into projections.

Good luck, OP!


Shut the fuk up you passive aggressive annoying azz bytch




Pls cry in silence, prime example of "It's his sun or moon and i'm going to obsess over either/both because I just can't move past it, I am that weak of a pathethic being" dxper.

Cancer and Virgo can work if both people want it to work, same as every pairing. Meanwhile no one will put up with the plethora of issues you display. It's not their chart, it's you.

*smooches*






bytch if its me then why did a supposed stereotypical non commital CAP ask me to marry him? Huh bytch?>

and why is an foregone Scorpio who i dated coming back to me?

huh bytch.

man no wonder firebunny hated you

you're so full of sheet.

stay off my nuts you ugly fuking donkey

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lmao, you're too easy to rile up.

like taking candy from a baby, only twice as transparent.

*brushes insults off*

perception is reality so if that's what you believe in...good for you. we all need something to get us through the day, fact or fiction. hopefully all goes well for you and you come back a changed woman with a new, positive outlook. because for sure a man will cure you and it has nothing to do with looking at yourself and working on yourself.

i'm sure a cap or a scorpio man would make you so happy all this negativity will be a thing of the past, and you will truly be able to move past the virgo forum. Not like you managed it in 4 years now but i am a believer in humanity, the eternal optimist.

i'm rooting for you!

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Posted by SensitiveBlues
well then if you're a know it all why in the fuk did you ask?

or even login?



i hope it ends in disaster, at it usually does between crabs and virgos

i mean to pretend to actually seek advice and then be like i know this and that and that

we're laughing hahahhaha

what a useless conniving manipulative bytch.

i guess this is the kind of crabs people hate.

thank god i say what i mean and mean what i say.


Sheesh, your username is sensitive blues for a reason. Seems to me like you just need some Virgo penis in your life 😄

Why log in when you can't control your emotional outbursts? You are the stereotypical cancer that us mature cancers steer clear of. Love yourself.
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Posted by SensitiveBlues
Posted by Damnata
Posted by SensitiveBlues
Posted by Damnata
I know couples in both genders

Cancer Man - Virgo Woman with a Sag daughter and an Aries son...married 30+ years.

Cancer Woman - Virgo Man with a Taurus son and a Taurus daughter ....married 30+ years

Joyful peeps, zest of life and all the good stuff.

When it works, it works.

When it doesn't, we go to astrology for an answer to our angst.

When that doesn't work, plenty of other beliefs to draw from, anything to remove the butthurt.

Wish more people in happy pairings would post on this site. Maybe topics wouldn't spiral so fast into projections.

Good luck, OP!


Shut the fuk up you passive aggressive annoying azz bytch




Pls cry in silence, prime example of "It's his sun or moon and i'm going to obsess over either/both because I just can't move past it, I am that weak of a pathethic being" dxper.

Cancer and Virgo can work if both people want it to work, same as every pairing. Meanwhile no one will put up with the plethora of issues you display. It's not their chart, it's you.

*smooches*






bytch if its me then why did a supposed stereotypical non commital CAP ask me to marry him? Huh bytch?>

and why is an foregone Scorpio who i dated coming back to me?

huh bytch.

man no wonder firebunny hated you

you're so full of sheet.

stay off my nuts you ugly fuking donkey


lmao, you're too easy to rile up.

like taking candy from a baby, only twice as transparent.

*brushes insults off*

perception is reality so if that's what you believe in...good for you. we all need something to get us through the day, fact or fiction. hopefully all goes well for you and you come back a changed woman with a new, positive outlook. because for sure a man will cure you and it has nothing to do with looking at yourself and working on yourself.

i'm sure a cap or a scorpio man would make you so happy all this negativity will be a thing of the past, and you will truly be able to move past the virgo forum. Not like you managed it in 4 years now but i am a believer in humanity, the eternal optimist.

i'm rooting for you!

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Emphasis on "too easy" lol how good does it make you feel to "go off" on somebody... on your keyboard?! Lmao
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Posted by Sunsetvirgo
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Happily married to an Aries? Wow. I've never heard of Virgo female/Aries males actually working out in real life.
I've never heard of an Aries working out with anybody in real life! Haha, except for my father whose a Cancer that married my Aries stepmother. Talk about making it work!
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Been married to my Aries for over 14 years now.

Oh! And my mom who's an aries and has been married to my cancer father for over forty years!
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Posted by SensitiveBlues
Posted by Damnata
I know couples in both genders

Cancer Man - Virgo Woman with a Sag daughter and an Aries son...married 30+ years.

Cancer Woman - Virgo Man with a Taurus son and a Taurus daughter ....married 30+ years

Joyful peeps, zest of life and all the good stuff.

When it works, it works.

When it doesn't, we go to astrology for an answer to our angst.

When that doesn't work, plenty of other beliefs to draw from, anything to remove the butthurt.

Wish more people in happy pairings would post on this site. Maybe topics wouldn't spiral so fast into projections.

Good luck, OP!


Shut the fuk up you passive aggressive annoying azz bytch




Pls cry in silence, prime example of "It's his sun or moon and i'm going to obsess over either/both because I just can't move past it, I am that weak of a pathethic being" dxper.

Cancer and Virgo can work if both people want it to work, same as every pairing. Meanwhile no one will put up with the plethora of issues you display. It's not their chart, it's you.

*smooches*


it absolutely blows my mind that a bytch azz Virgo did what he did to me and you're telling me i'm the problem, i swear to god, typical virgo blame everyone else, no self reflection, no real depth, always someone else's fault.

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In my experience with male Virgo's, they CAN reflect. They CAN think about the part they've played. More often than not, however, they abandon that in order to rationalize to themselves why they played said "part," and ultimately justify doing so to themselves. Then, it's the fault of everyone else. They did nothing wrong.

Is it because they can't bear to realize and live with, and forgive themselves for the mistakes they've made? I like to think so. What it seems like more so is they either see themselves as innocent victims, or they're narcissist.
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Virgo men rarely show emotion. Cancers are emotional and it's hard to have a relationship with someone who cannot relate. It just leads up to confusion and hurt feelings. If both ppl work hard to understand each other it may work, but it's going to take A LOT of patience and ALOT of communication. In my opinion, Crabs and Virgins are better off as friends.