What will you do if you are in my case? I have a childhood friend of mine, she is a Virgo. I love this girl very much, she's married before but due to the lack of something she get divorce. After long time didnt talk to her ( because i dont want to ruin her marriage, kinda know my spot ), suddenly he come from nowhere and share about her past to me... I did listen and respond a little. What shock me when she said " will you marry a divorcee?" I then answered " yes" ( honestly i still have feeling for her but i hold back ), things getting more intense until to the point i open up, ut what dissapoint me she said she wasnt serious about it... Yet still i understand maybe because her emotion wasnt stable at that time.. I choose to continue support her.. One day i ask her did she want to share about anything? Suddenly he replied that she already has a boyfriend..It hurt me, it hurt me because she is so important to me.. I feel like open up to her but i know she would dissapear if i come too hard on her. I choose again to support her, i say to her "tell me if you need my help, im listening". Then i stop contact with her, until one day she is suddenly pop out of no where helping me with something, planning an event for me and i feel like i get her, she pursuade me to be better. But i know i cant let my felling out because of her boyfriend, now she invite my to a trip with her friend and without her boyfriend. What should i do?? ( im planning to give her a handcraft item that i made myself, and might be a letter and tell her how i feel ) i feel like living between reality and dreams...with this girl, why is she so nice to me?? BUt when i open up she pulls away... And goes with someone else. (Sometimes she send me random picture of her) , im a pisces male btw.
Virgo Girl
Posted by s_i_e_r_r_a
i think you were too slow for her but awesome synastry and virgo women with sag moon are the best tbh
pisces sun-virgo sun
gem moon-sag moon
aries venus-aries mars
I did say it to her that i want to be with her when she ask "will you marry a divorce?" . And sometimes she just show that she care for me, even tho she already has boyfriend.
Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by Pisceseye88Posted by s_i_e_r_r_a
i think you were too slow for her but awesome synastry and virgo women with sag moon are the best tbh
pisces sun-virgo sun
gem moon-sag moon
aries venus-aries mars
I did say it to her that i want to be with her when she ask "will you marry a divorce?" . And sometimes she just show that she care for me, even tho she already has boyfriend.
how did you respond when she asked you that?click to expand
I just be honest, and not overly dramatic just a simple "yes i do", but when i open to her, she said that it wasnt serious.... In my mind maybe she is just unstable after sharing her feeling...so i didnt say much
Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by Pisceseye88Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by Pisceseye88Posted by s_i_e_r_r_a
i think you were too slow for her but awesome synastry and virgo women with sag moon are the best tbh
pisces sun-virgo sun
gem moon-sag moon
aries venus-aries mars
I did say it to her that i want to be with her when she ask "will you marry a divorce?" . And sometimes she just show that she care for me, even tho she already has boyfriend.
how did you respond when she asked you that?
I just be honest, and not overly dramatic just a simple "yes i do", but when i open to her, she said that it wasnt serious.... In my mind maybe she is just unstable after sharing her feeling...so i didnt say much
tbh she seems very interested in you.. sending you random pics of herself, planning an event for you, wanting to go out with you (even if with a friend).. i think she wants to bring another friend over coz having a boyfriend and knowing you're somewhat interested in her, it wouldn't be appropriate to be alone together and yet.. she's curious
so i conclude that she probably wants to 'feel' you out.. what you feel for her right now and how you might be together.. that's what the trip might be about..
but then again, you've probably been friends with her for years? maybe she's always just been like this with you?click to expand
That exactly what confuse me right now, if i open to her she might dissapear from my life ...., yes we have been friends long time ago but separated when in college live for quite some time. I think i just be myself and genuine toward her. But i know she will find out that i liked her.
Posted by s_i_e_r_r_a
@Pisceseye88
what do you mean about her 'finding out i like her?'
did you not tell her?
I mean i tried to just go with it, and not show my emotion in the trip, i just want her to laugh and forget about unnecessary things for a while. But i know she will find out eventually.
Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by Pisceseye88Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by Pisceseye88Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by Pisceseye88Posted by s_i_e_r_r_a
i think you were too slow for her but awesome synastry and virgo women with sag moon are the best tbh
pisces sun-virgo sun
gem moon-sag moon
aries venus-aries mars
I did say it to her that i want to be with her when she ask "will you marry a divorce?" . And sometimes she just show that she care for me, even tho she already has boyfriend.
how did you respond when she asked you that?
I just be honest, and not overly dramatic just a simple "yes i do", but when i open to her, she said that it wasnt serious.... In my mind maybe she is just unstable after sharing her feeling...so i didnt say much
tbh she seems very interested in you.. sending you random pics of herself, planning an event for you, wanting to go out with you (even if with a friend).. i think she wants to bring another friend over coz having a boyfriend and knowing you're somewhat interested in her, it wouldn't be appropriate to be alone together and yet.. she's curious
so i conclude that she probably wants to 'feel' you out.. what you feel for her right now and how you might be together.. that's what the trip might be about..
but then again, you've probably been friends with her for years? maybe she's always just been like this with you?
That exactly what confuse me right now, if i open to her she might dissapear from my life ...., yes we have been friends long time ago but separated when in college live for quite some time. I think i just be myself and genuine toward her. But i know she will find out that i liked her.
she's a sag moon-leo venus-aries mars so i doubt she'd be shy.. in fact, she once asked you bluntly if you'd marry someone like her.. i think she probably feels the same way about your friendship and so decided to let you down that time but judging by the way she's been acting.. she seems to have changed her mind (i blame virgo sun on this)..
did she still keep sending you random pics of her even after she found out you're interested?click to expand
Yes she does, but when i ask her if she want to share something? She said shealready has boyfriend, meaning she is with him while flirting with me isnt it? Just my feeling thou i dont want to make false accusement
Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by Pisceseye88Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by Pisceseye88Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by Pisceseye88Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by Pisceseye88Posted by s_i_e_r_r_a
i think you were too slow for her but awesome synastry and virgo women with sag moon are the best tbh
pisces sun-virgo sun
gem moon-sag moon
aries venus-aries mars
I did say it to her that i want to be with her when she ask "will you marry a divorce?" . And sometimes she just show that she care for me, even tho she already has boyfriend.
how did you respond when she asked you that?
I just be honest, and not overly dramatic just a simple "yes i do", but when i open to her, she said that it wasnt serious.... In my mind maybe she is just unstable after sharing her feeling...so i didnt say much
tbh she seems very interested in you.. sending you random pics of herself, planning an event for you, wanting to go out with you (even if with a friend).. i think she wants to bring another friend over coz having a boyfriend and knowing you're somewhat interested in her, it wouldn't be appropriate to be alone together and yet.. she's curious
so i conclude that she probably wants to 'feel' you out.. what you feel for her right now and how you might be together.. that's what the trip might be about..
but then again, you've probably been friends with her for years? maybe she's always just been like this with you?
That exactly what confuse me right now, if i open to her she might dissapear from my life ...., yes we have been friends long time ago but separated when in college live for quite some time. I think i just be myself and genuine toward her. But i know she will find out that i liked her.
she's a sag moon-leo venus-aries mars so i doubt she'd be shy.. in fact, she once asked you bluntly if you'd marry someone like her.. i think she probably feels the same way about your friendship and so decided to let you down that time but judging by the way she's been acting.. she seems to have changed her mind (i blame virgo sun on this)..
did she still keep sending you random pics of her even after she found out you're interested?
Yes she does, but when i ask her if she want to share something? She said shealready has boyfriend, meaning she is with him while flirting with me isnt it? Just my feeling thou i dont want to make false accusement
so she doesn't know that you like her? that's the problem.. you should've been clear about that way back
all these things she's doing are just friendship things if she doesn't know you're into herclick to expand
She know it already because i open up and she pull away, now she has boyfriend but still care too me. I never ask, but suddenly she just show me that she care in a good way
Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by Pisceseye88Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by Pisceseye88Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by Pisceseye88Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by Pisceseye88Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by Pisceseye88Posted by s_i_e_r_r_a
i think you were too slow for her but awesome synastry and virgo women with sag moon are the best tbh
pisces sun-virgo sun
gem moon-sag moon
aries venus-aries mars
I did say it to her that i want to be with her when she ask "will you marry a divorce?" . And sometimes she just show that she care for me, even tho she already has boyfriend.
how did you respond when she asked you that?
I just be honest, and not overly dramatic just a simple "yes i do", but when i open to her, she said that it wasnt serious.... In my mind maybe she is just unstable after sharing her feeling...so i didnt say much
tbh she seems very interested in you.. sending you random pics of herself, planning an event for you, wanting to go out with you (even if with a friend).. i think she wants to bring another friend over coz having a boyfriend and knowing you're somewhat interested in her, it wouldn't be appropriate to be alone together and yet.. she's curious
so i conclude that she probably wants to 'feel' you out.. what you feel for her right now and how you might be together.. that's what the trip might be about..
but then again, you've probably been friends with her for years? maybe she's always just been like this with you?
That exactly what confuse me right now, if i open to her she might dissapear from my life ...., yes we have been friends long time ago but separated when in college live for quite some time. I think i just be myself and genuine toward her. But i know she will find out that i liked her.
she's a sag moon-leo venus-aries mars so i doubt she'd be shy.. in fact, she once asked you bluntly if you'd marry someone like her.. i think she probably feels the same way about your friendship and so decided to let you down that time but judging by the way she's been acting.. she seems to have changed her mind (i blame virgo sun on this)..
did she still keep sending you random pics of her even after she found out you're interested?
Yes she does, but when i ask her if she want to share something? She said shealready has boyfriend, meaning she is with him while flirting with me isnt it? Just my feeling thou i dont want to make false accusement
so she doesn't know that you like her? that's the problem.. you should've been clear about that way back
all these things she's doing are just friendship things if she doesn't know you're into her
She know it already because i open up and she pull away, now she has boyfriend but still care too me. I never ask, but suddenly she just show me that she care in a good way
i think you should give her the handcraft item and the letter in that trip
you might as well see how it goesclick to expand
Planning to give it after the trip, i just want her to relax first dont want to ruin her mood. Meanwhile i try to take hint if she give me little clue, may i ask what is your sign and are you m or f?, thanks for sharing
Posted by FishyDudePosted by Pisceseye88
What will you do if you are in my case? I have a childhood friend of mine, she is a Virgo. I love this girl very much, she's married before but due to the lack of something she get divorce. After long time didnt talk to her ( because i dont want to ruin her marriage, kinda know my spot ), suddenly he come from nowhere and share about her past to me... I did listen and respond a little. What shock me when she said " will you marry a divorcee?" I then answered " yes" ( honestly i still have feeling for her but i hold back ), things getting more intense until to the point i open up, ut what dissapoint me she said she wasnt serious about it... Yet still i understand maybe because her emotion wasnt stable at that time.. I choose to continue support her.. One day i ask her did she want to share about anything? Suddenly he replied that she already has a boyfriend..It hurt me, it hurt me because she is so important to me.. I feel like open up to her but i know she would dissapear if i come too hard on her. I choose again to support her, i say to her "tell me if you need my help, im listening". Then i stop contact with her, until one day she is suddenly pop out of no where helping me with something, planning an event for me and i feel like i get her, she pursuade me to be better. But i know i cant let my felling out because of her boyfriend, now she invite my to a trip with her friend and without her boyfriend. What should i do?? ( im planning to give her a handcraft item that i made myself, and might be a letter and tell her how i feel ) i feel like living between reality and dreams...with this girl, why is she so nice to me?? BUt when i open up she pulls away... And goes with someone else. (Sometimes she send me random picture of her) , im a pisces male btw.
A woman who is sending you random pics of herself while having a boyfriend is not worth it, it doesn't matter what her sign is. If you were to eventually hook up with this girl, would you like it if she was sending pics of herself to another guy?
In any case, she has a boyfriend. Rather find a single girl, or a single Virgo woman if you're into Virgo's.click to expand
You got the point here, but its not just random picture , mostly its an activity she does like running, gym, event etc. I cant just assume, maybe she does wanted to start a conversation but dont know how?
Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by Pisceseye88Posted by FishyDudePosted by Pisceseye88
What will you do if you are in my case? I have a childhood friend of mine, she is a Virgo. I love this girl very much, she's married before but due to the lack of something she get divorce. After long time didnt talk to her ( because i dont want to ruin her marriage, kinda know my spot ), suddenly he come from nowhere and share about her past to me... I did listen and respond a little. What shock me when she said " will you marry a divorcee?" I then answered " yes" ( honestly i still have feeling for her but i hold back ), things getting more intense until to the point i open up, ut what dissapoint me she said she wasnt serious about it... Yet still i understand maybe because her emotion wasnt stable at that time.. I choose to continue support her.. One day i ask her did she want to share about anything? Suddenly he replied that she already has a boyfriend..It hurt me, it hurt me because she is so important to me.. I feel like open up to her but i know she would dissapear if i come too hard on her. I choose again to support her, i say to her "tell me if you need my help, im listening". Then i stop contact with her, until one day she is suddenly pop out of no where helping me with something, planning an event for me and i feel like i get her, she pursuade me to be better. But i know i cant let my felling out because of her boyfriend, now she invite my to a trip with her friend and without her boyfriend. What should i do?? ( im planning to give her a handcraft item that i made myself, and might be a letter and tell her how i feel ) i feel like living between reality and dreams...with this girl, why is she so nice to me?? BUt when i open up she pulls away... And goes with someone else. (Sometimes she send me random picture of her) , im a pisces male btw.
A woman who is sending you random pics of herself while having a boyfriend is not worth it, it doesn't matter what her sign is. If you were to eventually hook up with this girl, would you like it if she was sending pics of herself to another guy?
In any case, she has a boyfriend. Rather find a single girl, or a single Virgo woman if you're into Virgo's.
You got the point here, but its not just random picture , mostly its an activity she does like running, gym, event etc. I cant just assume, maybe she does wanted to start a conversation but dont know how?
how long has she been with this boyfriend?click to expand
Like 3-4 month if not mistaken they work in same company , he is her coworker, i think it migjt be because she can get involved physically with him while i cant, because i work in different country
Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by Pisceseye88Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by Pisceseye88Posted by FishyDudePosted by Pisceseye88
What will you do if you are in my case? I have a childhood friend of mine, she is a Virgo. I love this girl very much, she's married before but due to the lack of something she get divorce. After long time didnt talk to her ( because i dont want to ruin her marriage, kinda know my spot ), suddenly he come from nowhere and share about her past to me... I did listen and respond a little. What shock me when she said " will you marry a divorcee?" I then answered " yes" ( honestly i still have feeling for her but i hold back ), things getting more intense until to the point i open up, ut what dissapoint me she said she wasnt serious about it... Yet still i understand maybe because her emotion wasnt stable at that time.. I choose to continue support her.. One day i ask her did she want to share about anything? Suddenly he replied that she already has a boyfriend..It hurt me, it hurt me because she is so important to me.. I feel like open up to her but i know she would dissapear if i come too hard on her. I choose again to support her, i say to her "tell me if you need my help, im listening". Then i stop contact with her, until one day she is suddenly pop out of no where helping me with something, planning an event for me and i feel like i get her, she pursuade me to be better. But i know i cant let my felling out because of her boyfriend, now she invite my to a trip with her friend and without her boyfriend. What should i do?? ( im planning to give her a handcraft item that i made myself, and might be a letter and tell her how i feel ) i feel like living between reality and dreams...with this girl, why is she so nice to me?? BUt when i open up she pulls away... And goes with someone else. (Sometimes she send me random picture of her) , im a pisces male btw.
A woman who is sending you random pics of herself while having a boyfriend is not worth it, it doesn't matter what her sign is. If you were to eventually hook up with this girl, would you like it if she was sending pics of herself to another guy?
In any case, she has a boyfriend. Rather find a single girl, or a single Virgo woman if you're into Virgo's.
You got the point here, but its not just random picture , mostly its an activity she does like running, gym, event etc. I cant just assume, maybe she does wanted to start a conversation but dont know how?
how long has she been with this boyfriend?
Like 3-4 month if not mistaken they work in same company , he is her coworker, i think it migjt be because she can get involved physically with him while i cant, because i work in different country
so you often don't get to see each other?
do you guys live in different countries?click to expand
Yeah, we talk online a lot, i think this is also the problem i cant always there for her
Posted by FishyDude
OP, my Virgo ex girlfriend cheated on me, and since that day, I swore to myself that I would never be with another Virgo woman. I'm married to a Cap lady. I could be happier, but I'm actually quite lucky to have this Cap woman in my life when I think about it.
With that said, you can't always believe that certain signs go better with each other than others. I know a couple (Leo female and Cancer male) who have been married to each other for quite a while. Any sign can be compatible with another sign, or I should say, any guy can be compatible with any girl. I think as long as you share more or less the same interests as each other, have the same sort of outlook on life as each other, and if there's trust and honesty, then I don't think you can go wrong.
Pisces are apparently better off with Cancer, Scorpio and Taurus, but my wife and I both enjoy gaming, working out, running, coffee, and a good comedy film. I think if I ended up marrying a Gemini female who shares the same interests and outlook on life as I do, then I don't think it would have made much of a difference.
Lastly, you say this girl has a boyfriend, so again I say, let it be. Her sending you pics of herself might lead to her cheating on her boyfriend with you, and if that were to happen, then there's a possibility she could cheat on you of you were to hook up with her. In any case, I'm sure quite a few people out there wouldn't like it if their partner was sending random pics of themselves to someone else of the opposite sex.
Yeah, ill keep this in mind thanks for sharing your story.
Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by Pisceseye88Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by Pisceseye88Posted by FishyDudePosted by Pisceseye88
What will you do if you are in my case? I have a childhood friend of mine, she is a Virgo. I love this girl very much, she's married before but due to the lack of something she get divorce. After long time didnt talk to her ( because i dont want to ruin her marriage, kinda know my spot ), suddenly he come from nowhere and share about her past to me... I did listen and respond a little. What shock me when she said " will you marry a divorcee?" I then answered " yes" ( honestly i still have feeling for her but i hold back ), things getting more intense until to the point i open up, ut what dissapoint me she said she wasnt serious about it... Yet still i understand maybe because her emotion wasnt stable at that time.. I choose to continue support her.. One day i ask her did she want to share about anything? Suddenly he replied that she already has a boyfriend..It hurt me, it hurt me because she is so important to me.. I feel like open up to her but i know she would dissapear if i come too hard on her. I choose again to support her, i say to her "tell me if you need my help, im listening". Then i stop contact with her, until one day she is suddenly pop out of no where helping me with something, planning an event for me and i feel like i get her, she pursuade me to be better. But i know i cant let my felling out because of her boyfriend, now she invite my to a trip with her friend and without her boyfriend. What should i do?? ( im planning to give her a handcraft item that i made myself, and might be a letter and tell her how i feel ) i feel like living between reality and dreams...with this girl, why is she so nice to me?? BUt when i open up she pulls away... And goes with someone else. (Sometimes she send me random picture of her) , im a pisces male btw.
A woman who is sending you random pics of herself while having a boyfriend is not worth it, it doesn't matter what her sign is. If you were to eventually hook up with this girl, would you like it if she was sending pics of herself to another guy?
In any case, she has a boyfriend. Rather find a single girl, or a single Virgo woman if you're into Virgo's.
You got the point here, but its not just random picture , mostly its an activity she does like running, gym, event etc. I cant just assume, maybe she does wanted to start a conversation but dont know how?
how long has she been with this boyfriend?
Like 3-4 month if not mistaken they work in same company , he is her coworker, i think it migjt be because she can get involved physically with him while i cant, because i work in different country
so you often don't get to see each other?
do you guys live in different countries?click to expand
Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by Pisceseye88Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by Pisceseye88Posted by FishyDudePosted by Pisceseye88
What will you do if you are in my case? I have a childhood friend of mine, she is a Virgo. I love this girl very much, she's married before but due to the lack of something she get divorce. After long time didnt talk to her ( because i dont want to ruin her marriage, kinda know my spot ), suddenly he come from nowhere and share about her past to me... I did listen and respond a little. What shock me when she said " will you marry a divorcee?" I then answered " yes" ( honestly i still have feeling for her but i hold back ), things getting more intense until to the point i open up, ut what dissapoint me she said she wasnt serious about it... Yet still i understand maybe because her emotion wasnt stable at that time.. I choose to continue support her.. One day i ask her did she want to share about anything? Suddenly he replied that she already has a boyfriend..It hurt me, it hurt me because she is so important to me.. I feel like open up to her but i know she would dissapear if i come too hard on her. I choose again to support her, i say to her "tell me if you need my help, im listening". Then i stop contact with her, until one day she is suddenly pop out of no where helping me with something, planning an event for me and i feel like i get her, she pursuade me to be better. But i know i cant let my felling out because of her boyfriend, now she invite my to a trip with her friend and without her boyfriend. What should i do?? ( im planning to give her a handcraft item that i made myself, and might be a letter and tell her how i feel ) i feel like living between reality and dreams...with this girl, why is she so nice to me?? BUt when i open up she pulls away... And goes with someone else. (Sometimes she send me random picture of her) , im a pisces male btw.
A woman who is sending you random pics of herself while having a boyfriend is not worth it, it doesn't matter what her sign is. If you were to eventually hook up with this girl, would you like it if she was sending pics of herself to another guy?
In any case, she has a boyfriend. Rather find a single girl, or a single Virgo woman if you're into Virgo's.
You got the point here, but its not just random picture , mostly its an activity she does like running, gym, event etc. I cant just assume, maybe she does wanted to start a conversation but dont know how?
how long has she been with this boyfriend?
Like 3-4 month if not mistaken they work in same company , he is her coworker, i think it migjt be because she can get involved physically with him while i cant, because i work in different country
so you often don't get to see each other?
do you guys live in different countries?click to expand
Yes we live on different country, only sometimes i make time to met her ( after she got divorced ).

I have the opposite view to Sierra.
To me she is obvious about not being into you and you'll hurt yourself if you choose to pursue this.
To me she is obvious about not being into you and you'll hurt yourself if you choose to pursue this.
Posted by Damnata
I have the opposite view to Sierra.
To me she is obvious about not being into you and you'll hurt yourself if you choose to pursue this.
Yeah there is a chance this might happen, i knew it but she is my childhood friend, all i can do now is help her relax and just be casual. Dont expect for anything are better right?
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