Virgo woman denied my kiss, still hope?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by CancerAriesVirgoMess on Sunday, November 4, 2018 and has 10 replies.

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@CancerAriesVirgoMess
7 Years

I am a male cancer sun with a virgo rising and an aries moon. For a few years I've been heavily crushing on this virgo girl, who's got a lot of leo in her natal chart.

For years she's been seeking and holding eye-contact a lot, even though we didn't really know us back then. And when she smiles at me, I saw in her eyes, that she is into me.

Six months ago, when I pretty much confessed my love to her. I think I overwhelmed her, because she said that she really likes me, but she's only interested in friendship. I lied and replied, that I also see us as friends.

In the last few months we met a few times and we connected on such deep level, that I was literally blown away.

Yesterday I leaned in for a kiss, and she rejected my politely, by saying, that she already told me, that she's only interested in friendship.

Sure, I should probably move on, but both from experience and astrology I am convinced that we are the perfect match.

My theory is that being a virgo, I scared her by confessing my love. And then by saying I also see us as friends she didn't even see me as a potential partner.

Do you think, that if I would befriend her now, and give her time to get to know me a little better, there is still a chance for us?

What's your opinion?

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@Pisceseye88
7 Years

From now on, just respect her be her friend, keep supportive, and expect nothing. I know its hard virgo comes slow, because for them opening is a big thing, they need to make sure its 100% , juat keep it casual, self improvement and dont be needy. You did good already.

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@LibraSupreme
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by CancerAriesVirgoMess

I am a male cancer sun with a virgo rising and an aries moon. For a few years I've been heavily crushing on this virgo girl, who's got a lot of leo in her natal chart.

For years she's been seeking and holding eye-contact a lot, even though we didn't really know us back then. And when she smiles at me, I saw in her eyes, that she is into me.

Six months ago, when I pretty much confessed my love to her. I think I overwhelmed her, because she said that she really likes me, but she's only interested in friendship. I lied and replied, that I also see us as friends.

In the last few months we met a few times and we connected on such deep level, that I was literally blown away.

Yesterday I leaned in for a kiss, and she rejected my politely, by saying, that she already told me, that she's only interested in friendship.

Sure, I should probably move on, but both from experience and astrology I am convinced that we are the perfect match.

My theory is that being a virgo, I scared her by confessing my love. And then by saying I also see us as friends she didn't even see me as a potential partner.

Do you think, that if I would befriend her now, and give her time to get to know me a little better, there is still a chance for us?

What's your opinion?

Dude she don't like you because you act like a girl and not a mofo who excites her. Talking about being connected because your charts match sounds gay as butter. Dude she's not into you and your game in 6 months has resulted into not even a kiss. Pathetic. Pm for manly tips

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@Endless
8 Years1,000+ Posts

she already told you.

you're projecting stuff, is not mutual.

"holding eye-contact a lot"

no, you're looking at her too much.

"I saw in her eyes, that she is into me"

JFC talking about projecting much?

"we connected on such deep level"

clearly you didn't, cuz you haven't realize she don't want you that way

you should probably move on, yes

"but both from experience and astrology I am convinced that we are the perfect match"

but she's convinced she don't want you that way

she's only interested in friendship.

she's only interested in friendship.

she's only interested in friendship.

she's only interested in friendship.

she's only interested in friendship.

be a grow man and good friend, accept her choice, move on....

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@wokeAF90
7 Years

Ofc there's hope.

However, chances are you'll be bored of her after you 👌👈 her.

Idk, your call whether you want to waste your time or just move on.