Posted by sierra_I only lied to her once and I made sure that everything was cleared.
well, you lie to her about stuff... maybe she's not sure what to think of you yet
like could she trust what you have to say?
Posted by EarthgoddessPosted by chris19My advice let her contact you
I am a Pisces-Aries cusp, Pisces basically. I need help with a female Virgo. I met this Virgo girl on an online dating app about 3 months ago. We have so much in common even though she's Virgo. Sometimes she ignores my texts. Especially if I lie about something. I recently confessed my love for her and she has been cold lately. How many days should I give her to analyse this situation or get back to talking with her?
If she’s interested she will contact u and act like nothing happened
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Posted by LostinmyMind11
Um for starters...don't lie to her anymore.
What is she wanting to confess? That she loves you too, she killed someone, she ate the last pizza slice? Need more info to give half way decent advice.
Anyway, general advice it is:
We take things slow...she analyzing the situation...yeah yeah not romantic but it's what we do. Give her time, get to know one another, try again at a later date?
Hope that helps?...
Posted by chris19It sounds to me like she starting to feel the same. Not quite on your level yet but she is having some feels for you.Posted by LostinmyMind11
Um for starters...don't lie to her anymore.
What is she wanting to confess? That she loves you too, she killed someone, she ate the last pizza slice? Need more info to give half way decent advice.
Anyway, general advice it is:
We take things slow...she analyzing the situation...yeah yeah not romantic but it's what we do. Give her time, get to know one another, try again at a later date?
Hope that helps?...
So I made that love confession about two weeks ago. Then 3 days later she replied saying that she noticed the way I talked to her and figured it out that I had feelings for her. She also said that she was surprised by everything and that I had the courage to admit it. Then she said " I might as well speak your truth". That's the confession I was talking about. Now after that confession I have been trying to get to know her.
I haved opened to her on many occasions and she has also done the same. We are still communicating now. Its now two weeks after the love confession.
I wanted to find out what this statement means, "I might as well speak your truth"; from a Virgo perspective view after that love confession.
Last but not the least, I wanted to move our communication away from the dating app. Now, the last time I tried to do that she got angry and said we should get to know each other on the dating app first. She said she was not ready to move to another platform. That was one month ago. What's you advice on this?
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Posted by VirgalLuvsCoffeePosted by chris19Hmmm, you lie about things & expect her to be okay & act normal?! You know why she’s not answering texts & ignoring it’s obvious. 🤦♀️
I am a Pisces-Aries cusp, Pisces basically. I need help with a female Virgo. I met this Virgo girl on an online dating app about 3 months ago. We have so much in common even though she's Virgo. Sometimes she ignores my texts. Especially if I lie about something. I recently confessed my love for her and she has been cold lately. How many days should I give her to analyse this situation or get back to talking with her?
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Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by chris19It sounds to me like she starting to feel the same. Not quite on your level yet but she is having some feels for you.Posted by LostinmyMind11
Um for starters...don't lie to her anymore.
What is she wanting to confess? That she loves you too, she killed someone, she ate the last pizza slice? Need more info to give half way decent advice.
Anyway, general advice it is:
We take things slow...she analyzing the situation...yeah yeah not romantic but it's what we do. Give her time, get to know one another, try again at a later date?
Hope that helps?...
So I made that love confession about two weeks ago. Then 3 days later she replied saying that she noticed the way I talked to her and figured it out that I had feelings for her. She also said that she was surprised by everything and that I had the courage to admit it. Then she said " I might as well speak your truth". That's the confession I was talking about. Now after that confession I have been trying to get to know her.
I haved opened to her on many occasions and she has also done the same. We are still communicating now. Its now two weeks after the love confession.
I wanted to find out what this statement means, "I might as well speak your truth"; from a Virgo perspective view after that love confession.
Last but not the least, I wanted to move our communication away from the dating app. Now, the last time I tried to do that she got angry and said we should get to know each other on the dating app first. She said she was not ready to move to another platform. That was one month ago. What's you advice on this?
As far as moving to another platform...I was like that when I tried online dating before. Everybody is so quick to give and get your number...I'm not comfortable moving that fast plus I don't like to just give my number to anyone (scorp rising). This time around for me...I said fuck it, I can always block them. So maybe she is having that same anxiety about it. The other end of that is.. something fishy (no pun intended) is going on.
You're just gonna have to find a clever way of going about it. Maybe tell her the app is eating up all your phone data or what happens if you both can't log in etc. She how she responds to that....
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Posted by sierra_Posted by chris19from what she said, it seems like she feels the same wayPosted by VirgalLuvsCoffeePosted by chris19Hmmm, you lie about things & expect her to be okay & act normal?! You know why she’s not answering texts & ignoring it’s obvious. 🤦♀️
I am a Pisces-Aries cusp, Pisces basically. I need help with a female Virgo. I met this Virgo girl on an online dating app about 3 months ago. We have so much in common even though she's Virgo. Sometimes she ignores my texts. Especially if I lie about something. I recently confessed my love for her and she has been cold lately. How many days should I give her to analyse this situation or get back to talking with her?
I only lied to her once and I made sure that the same lie would never happen again by revealing the truth. For that I am shameful of that act. I apologized to her. Note that it was never my intention to lie to her.
but she doesn't wanna rush and still wants to get to know you better
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Posted by ufo
idiot, you lie to virgo one time she try to catch you in the lie, lie to her again she gone leave your ass
WHY WOULD SHE BELIEVE YOUR WORDS OF LOVE IF YOU LYING ALREADY
Posted by chris19You're welcome and I hope it works out for you.Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by chris19It sounds to me like she starting to feel the same. Not quite on your level yet but she is having some feels for you.Posted by LostinmyMind11
Um for starters...don't lie to her anymore.
What is she wanting to confess? That she loves you too, she killed someone, she ate the last pizza slice? Need more info to give half way decent advice.
Anyway, general advice it is:
We take things slow...she analyzing the situation...yeah yeah not romantic but it's what we do. Give her time, get to know one another, try again at a later date?
Hope that helps?...
So I made that love confession about two weeks ago. Then 3 days later she replied saying that she noticed the way I talked to her and figured it out that I had feelings for her. She also said that she was surprised by everything and that I had the courage to admit it. Then she said " I might as well speak your truth". That's the confession I was talking about. Now after that confession I have been trying to get to know her.
I haved opened to her on many occasions and she has also done the same. We are still communicating now. Its now two weeks after the love confession.
I wanted to find out what this statement means, "I might as well speak your truth"; from a Virgo perspective view after that love confession.
Last but not the least, I wanted to move our communication away from the dating app. Now, the last time I tried to do that she got angry and said we should get to know each other on the dating app first. She said she was not ready to move to another platform. That was one month ago. What's you advice on this?
As far as moving to another platform...I was like that when I tried online dating before. Everybody is so quick to give and get your number...I'm not comfortable moving that fast plus I don't like to just give my number to anyone (scorp rising). This time around for me...I said fuck it, I can always block them. So maybe she is having that same anxiety about it. The other end of that is.. something fishy (no pun intended) is going on.
You're just gonna have to find a clever way of going about it. Maybe tell her the app is eating up all your phone data or what happens if you both can't log in etc. She how she responds to that....
Thank you for the advice. I will look for clever way to ask her and see how it goes.
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Posted by Confused_She is 27 and I'm 29. Well, I have tried asking her out for a couple of times. She says we have to get to each other first.
after 3 months of knowing each other online confessing love ? ugh, a bit unreasonable
how old are you both?
Posted by sierra_Posted by chris19do you guys videochat?
Update:
So I talked to her last night. She seemed so happy to hear from me.
Then she said she thought she saw someone like me that today when she was walking. He looked at her. She said she was spooked. I was surprised and shocked because we currently in two different locations, about 200 miles apart.
Then I told told her about the issue if the dating stops log in. I gave the example of the fall out Facebook, and if it affects the dating app how we are going to communicate.
She replied that its not going to happen and if it happens its going to take some time before the app fails to login.
Then I also replied by telling her that the story is big and its possible that the dating app might stop working soon. Then she disappeared.
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Posted by chris19People I need your help. She has n't been responding to my texts for a week now.
Sorry for the late update but she replied that she was shocked but said she might also as well confess. We have been chating for a while now.What does this mean?
Posted by chris19Did she finally give you her phone number?Posted by chris19People I need your help. She has n't been responding to my texts for a week now.
Sorry for the late update but she replied that she was shocked but said she might also as well confess. We have been chating for a while now.What does this mean?
I'm getting worried that she might leave for good. Should I give her some more days to be alone? Is she still processing what I said?
I am currently in her town for my work related duties for a few days. I wanted to ask her out but since she is not responding to my texts. I am thinking of waiting till she texts back. Should I ask her directly text hoping she'll reply this time?click to expand
Posted by chris19
Update:
So I talked to her last night. She seemed so happy to hear from me.
Then she said she thought she saw someone like me that today when she was walking. He looked at her. She said she was spooked. I was surprised and shocked because we currently in two different locations, about 200 miles apart.
Then I told told her about the issue if the dating stops log in. I gave the example of the fall out Facebook, and if it affects the dating app how we are going to communicate.
She replied that its not going to happen and if it happens its going to take some time before the app fails to login.
Then I also replied by telling her that the story is big and its possible that the dating app might stop working soon. Then she disappeared.
I figured she was not ready. I don't want to seem pushy.
Posted by sierra_Posted by chris19what did you text her?Posted by chris19People I need your help. She has n't been responding to my texts for a week now.
Sorry for the late update but she replied that she was shocked but said she might also as well confess. We have been chating for a while now.What does this mean?
I'm getting worried that she might leave for good. Should I give her some more days to be alone? Is she still processing what I said?
I am currently in her town for my work related duties for a few days. I wanted to ask her out but since she is not responding to my texts. I am thinking of waiting till she texts back. Should I ask her directly text hoping she'll reply this time?click to expand
Posted by sierra_Posted by chris19what did you text her?Posted by chris19People I need your help. She has n't been responding to my texts for a week now.
Sorry for the late update but she replied that she was shocked but said she might also as well confess. We have been chating for a while now.What does this mean?
I'm getting worried that she might leave for good. Should I give her some more days to be alone? Is she still processing what I said?
I am currently in her town for my work related duties for a few days. I wanted to ask her out but since she is not responding to my texts. I am thinking of waiting till she texts back. Should I ask her directly text hoping she'll reply this time?click to expand
Posted by Gemitati
I am confused about nowadays dating.
If someone tells me something I don’t get - I say please explain. I didn’t get it!
So after ‘I will speak your truth’ what happened? You both stopped talking? And next time even - could you ask her what she meant by saying that?
You can’t attribute everything she says to her sign and run to Dxp asking what does it mean if she said this or that. Just ask her. Why torture yourself wondering?
Posted by puhleezePosted by chris19
Update:
So I talked to her last night. She seemed so happy to hear from me.
Then she said she thought she saw someone like me that today when she was walking. He looked at her. She said she was spooked. I was surprised and shocked because we currently in two different locations, about 200 miles apart.
Then I told told her about the issue if the dating stops log in. I gave the example of the fall out Facebook, and if it affects the dating app how we are going to communicate.
She replied that its not going to happen and if it happens its going to take some time before the app fails to login.
Then I also replied by telling her that the story is big and its possible that the dating app might stop working soon. Then she disappeared.
I figured she was not ready. I don't want to seem pushy.
Does she have your phone number? Since you said you guys talked or was it on chatting app? It might be hard for her to share her personal info soon, she will get there if you are serious about each other. If you are worried the app will stop working and there is no other way to contact, maybe give her your number so she can reach out if she wants to. Do you know her name? Then you can find her on social media.
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Posted by TotiThe only problem is that she hasn't blocked
Don't bother. She is gone.
Posted by chris19*High five* Fellow leo mooner!
I explained to her that I am a Pisces-Aries cusp. So I have Aries characteristics such as being stubborn, impatient and others. I also have a Gemini rising, Leo moon, Mercury Pisces, Venus Pisces, Mars Gemini and Jupiter Gemini. She only told that she has Mercury in Gemini and she doesn't know her other placements.
Posted by sierra_Posted by chris19is this the longest she's ever gone not texting you back or replying?Posted by Gemitati
I am confused about nowadays dating.
If someone tells me something I don’t get - I say please explain. I didn’t get it!
So after ‘I will speak your truth’ what happened? You both stopped talking? And next time even - could you ask her what she meant by saying that?
You can’t attribute everything she says to her sign and run to Dxp asking what does it mean if she said this or that. Just ask her. Why torture yourself wondering?
So after ‘I will speak your truth’. We kept on texting each other every day for about 2 weeks. I think before that. She was trying to tell me that I need to learn how to love. Because I explained how my previous relationships failed. She said Pisces like to hide their feelings that's when I confessed.
Fast forward, after ‘I will speak your truth’. The communication continued. We were texting about our interests astrology, her favorite music ( we even exchanged our playlists), her other favourite hobby (keeping plants like flowers and she was trying to teach me that).'
Then there is this one time she texted me that she was not feeling well. She said she had suicidal thoughts. Then she texted that she is going to be fine.
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Posted by chris19Posted by sierra_Posted by chris19is this the longest she's ever gone not texting you back or replying?Posted by Gemitati
I am confused about nowadays dating.
If someone tells me something I don’t get - I say please explain. I didn’t get it!
So after ‘I will speak your truth’ what happened? You both stopped talking? And next time even - could you ask her what she meant by saying that?
You can’t attribute everything she says to her sign and run to Dxp asking what does it mean if she said this or that. Just ask her. Why torture yourself wondering?
So after ‘I will speak your truth’. We kept on texting each other every day for about 2 weeks. I think before that. She was trying to tell me that I need to learn how to love. Because I explained how my previous relationships failed. She said Pisces like to hide their feelings that's when I confessed.
Fast forward, after ‘I will speak your truth’. The communication continued. We were texting about our interests astrology, her favorite music ( we even exchanged our playlists), her other favourite hobby (keeping plants like flowers and she was trying to teach me that).'
Then there is this one time she texted me that she was not feeling well. She said she had suicidal thoughts. Then she texted that she is going to be fine.
So I sent her a text that I would like to see her, grab a cup of coffee since, I'm in her town for a few days. I even left my phone number in the text and told her that she should let me know if she would like to hangout.
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