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I have no questions to ask or advise to seek. I just wnna share this little bit of information, this story. Maybe astrology is right, maybe aries and virgos aren't meant for one another. I fell in love with this guy. I love this guy. He is strong, funny, sweet, smart, he takes care of all of his family.. hes thier go to guy for any problem. He loves his kids like no other. hes considerate, sexy, knows how to give good sex. He knows how to cuddle and everything. we'e had this kind of relationship, that is perplexing and fun and protective. Its been on again and off again, never ending badly, and never really ending. I am the kinda gal to throw logic to the wind, jump in heels and heart first. He is not like that, He thinks, he acts, I react. thats me, thats who he is. I love that about him. We are not on right now, but I hope and I pray that he will be mine again. I know that we share something awesome. I dont care what anyone else thinks on this forum. I love him, and if you find a virgo man, if you can feel his love, een though things aren't right, not right time, what ever. Don't let them go. I love him in a way that een if we were never to kiss, never to hold hands or laugh together, I will still love him. He has always help me up, even when we have been down. I dont know, I just wanted to share this. I can't tell him this right now, but I promise, next time, and I know there will be a next time, I will tell him all this myself. I won't let it pass me by.
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Posted by raerae2one8
I have no questions to ask or advise to seek. I just wnna share this little bit of information, this story. Maybe astrology is right, maybe aries and virgos aren't meant for one another. I fell in love with this guy. I love this guy. He is strong, funny, sweet, smart, he takes care of all of his family.. hes thier go to guy for any problem. He loves his kids like no other. hes considerate, sexy, knows how to give good sex. He knows how to cuddle and everything. we'e had this kind of relationship, that is perplexing and fun and protective. Its been on again and off again, never ending badly, and never really ending. I am the kinda gal to throw logic to the wind, jump in heels and heart first. He is not like that, He thinks, he acts, I react. thats me, thats who he is. I love that about him. We are not on right now, but I hope and I pray that he will be mine again. I know that we share something awesome. I dont care what anyone else thinks on this forum. I love him, and if you find a virgo man, if you can feel his love, een though things aren't right, not right time, what ever. Don't let them go. I love him in a way that een if we were never to kiss, never to hold hands or laugh together, I will still love him. He has always help me up, even when we have been down. I dont know, I just wanted to share this. I can't tell him this right now, but I promise, next time, and I know there will be a next time, I will tell him all this myself. I won't let it pass me by.



I really do hope you get to tell him 🙂

You reminded me of this old very cliche saying but feels so right at this moment "It is better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all"... so true
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Posted by LilyTree
" I love him in a way that een if we were never to kiss, never to hold hands or laugh together, I will still love him."

If he ever left me I wouldn't even be sad, no
'Cause there's a blessin' in every lesson and I'm glad that I knew him at all

~ lyrics from a song by India Arie, 'The Truth'

I feel the same way. Only, it was time for us to let go, and I'm now in the process of trying to move on. I have no regrets regarding knowing him, and I am thankful for what we shared. If we're meant to be, we'll find each other again. Nothing good gets away, and no one ever gets what is destined for you. Remembering this is helping me accept things graciously and look forward. I am not there yet, by any means. It's much too soon. By I see the road I have to take, and I will get there.



aaa.... seems like a lot of us Aries gals have been burned by a Virgo man... we should start a club 😉
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Posted by raerae2one8
I have no questions to ask or advise to seek. I just wnna share this little bit of information, this story. Maybe astrology is right, maybe aries and virgos aren't meant for one another. I fell in love with this guy. I love this guy. He is strong, funny, sweet, smart, he takes care of all of his family.. hes thier go to guy for any problem. He loves his kids like no other. hes considerate, sexy, knows how to give good sex. He knows how to cuddle and everything. we'e had this kind of relationship, that is perplexing and fun and protective. Its been on again and off again, never ending badly, and never really ending. I am the kinda gal to throw logic to the wind, jump in heels and heart first. He is not like that, He thinks, he acts, I react. thats me, thats who he is. I love that about him. We are not on right now, but I hope and I pray that he will be mine again. I know that we share something awesome. I dont care what anyone else thinks on this forum. I love him, and if you find a virgo man, if you can feel his love, een though things aren't right, not right time, what ever. Don't let them go. I love him in a way that een if we were never to kiss, never to hold hands or laugh together, I will still love him. He has always help me up, even when we have been down. I dont know, I just wanted to share this. I can't tell him this right now, but I promise, next time, and I know there will be a next time, I will tell him all this myself. I won't let it pass me by.
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I really do hope you get to tell him 🙂

You reminded me of this old very cliche saying but feels so right at this moment "It is better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all"... so true

Btw, what you wrote was really beautiful... and I believe it's the romantic in us Aries... something I hope I never lose or else I'll be jaded
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Posted by LilyTree
" I love him in a way that een if we were never to kiss, never to hold hands or laugh together, I will still love him."

If he ever left me I wouldn't even be sad, no
'Cause there's a blessin' in every lesson and I'm glad that I knew him at all

~ lyrics from a song by India Arie, 'The Truth'

I feel the same way. Only, it was time for us to let go, and I'm now in the process of trying to move on. I have no regrets regarding knowing him, and I am thankful for what we shared. If we're meant to be, we'll find each other again. Nothing good gets away, and no one ever gets what is destined for you. Remembering this is helping me accept things graciously and look forward. I am not there yet, by any means. It's much too soon. By I see the road I have to take, and I will get there.



I am gonna have to check out that song. The hard part is, nothing bad happened between us, I have no anger towards him, I just know that he is not ready. hes scared, hes reeling from a bad relationship, that this woman just scared the shit outta him. He just found out last week, that his youngest child withthis woman isn't even his, he found a letter in the diaper bag she was writing to the natural father. Hes hurting. I hope he can find peace and happiness, but, if it isn't with me, at least he will have found it.
But, I feel for ya, it is such a loss, like a mourning of this relationship, woww.. I have had relationships, I have loved men, but, not like this. I think that it is as hard as it is, cause, I finally know what love is and know the love I want, and getting a glimpse of it isn't enough. But right, What ever is meant to be will be.
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I have no questions to ask or advise to seek. I just wnna share this little bit of information, this story. Maybe astrology is right, maybe aries and virgos aren't meant for one another. I fell in love with this guy. I love this guy. He is strong, funny, sweet, smart, he takes care of all of his family.. hes thier go to guy for any problem. He loves his kids like no other. hes considerate, sexy, knows how to give good sex. He knows how to cuddle and everything. we'e had this kind of relationship, that is perplexing and fun and protective. Its been on again and off again, never ending badly, and never really ending. I am the kinda gal to throw logic to the wind, jump in heels and heart first. He is not like that, He thinks, he acts, I react. thats me, thats who he is. I love that about him. We are not on right now, but I hope and I pray that he will be mine again. I know that we share something awesome. I dont care what anyone else thinks on this forum. I love him, and if you find a virgo man, if you can feel his love, een though things aren't right, not right time, what ever. Don't let them go. I love him in a way that een if we were never to kiss, never to hold hands or laugh together, I will still love him. He has always help me up, even when we have been down. I dont know, I just wanted to share this. I can't tell him this right now, but I promise, next time, and I know there will be a next time, I will tell him all this myself. I won't let it pass me by.



I really do hope you get to tell him 🙂

You reminded me of this old very cliche saying but feels so right at this moment "It is better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all"... so true

Btw, what you wrote was really beautiful... and I believe it's the romantic in us Aries... something I hope I never lose or else I'll be jaded
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Right? i don't hink other realize the softer side of us Aries. Yeah, I don't want to be a jaded ole spinster.. not that theres anything wrong with that..lol
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Posted by LilyTree
"You reminded me of this old very cliche saying but feels so right at this moment "It is better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all"... so true



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Posted by LilyTree
It's a very beautiul song.

Yes, I relate in that nothing bad happened between us, and I was told on a thread that healing happens quicker when it's a respectful separation. It does sound like he has a lot going on that he needs to figure out. Give it time and space and, if it's meant to be, you will find each other again.

Being a jaded ole spinster is looking very tempting, actually. _??_
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You will get back one day and when you do you will be stronger than ever. Trust me I know. There was even a point in my life where I thought I would be alone forever and not because I could not relate with anyone (though I deluded myself into that fact) but because I was scared of being hurt... and now I am a bit stronger... not fearless but on the way to gaining more courage.

If I had the chance to do everything over I would do everything the exact same because it lead me to where I am now... I'm growing stronger and stronger everyday. Like Steve Job said "Yo
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I have no questions to ask or advise to seek. I just wnna share this little bit of information, this story. Maybe astrology is right, maybe aries and virgos aren't meant for one another. I fell in love with this guy. I love this guy. He is strong, funny, sweet, smart, he takes care of all of his family.. hes thier go to guy for any problem. He loves his kids like no other. hes considerate, sexy, knows how to give good sex. He knows how to cuddle and everything. we'e had this kind of relationship, that is perplexing and fun and protective. Its been on again and off again, never ending badly, and never really ending. I am the kinda gal to throw logic to the wind, jump in heels and heart first. He is not like that, He thinks, he acts, I react. thats me, thats who he is. I love that about him. We are not on right now, but I hope and I pray that he will be mine again. I know that we share something awesome. I dont care what anyone else thinks on this forum. I love him, and if you find a virgo man, if you can feel his love, een though things aren't right, not right time, what ever. Don't let them go. I love him in a way that een if we were never to kiss, never to hold hands or laugh together, I will still love him. He has always help me up, even when we have been down. I dont know, I just wanted to share this. I can't tell him this right now, but I promise, next time, and I know there will be a next time, I will tell him all this myself. I won't let it pass me by.



I really do hope you get to tell him 🙂

You reminded me of this old very cliche saying but feels so right at this moment "It is better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all"... so true

Btw, what you wrote was really beautiful... and I believe it's the romantic in us Aries... something I hope I never lose or else I'll be jaded



Right? i don't hink other realize the softer side of us Aries. Yeah, I don't want to be a jaded ole spinster.. not that theres anything wrong with that..lol
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Posted by HungVirgo
shut up and leave it on his voicemail. we dont want to hear it.



lol.. why would i want to shut up about it and leave it on his voicemail? I think that is what these forums are for? say things yo need to say, ask questions, seek advise, give advise based on someone astrological sign? Thats the great thing about the internet, if you don't wanna hear it, yo udon't have to read it🙂 thanks
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Posted by raerae2one8
I don't think female Aries are known as the spinsters of the zodiac, I think that is a female Virgo thing.. js



HHhmmm... I associate a spinster, in the modern sense, to be a very independent woman--at least one that CHOOSES to be a spinster. Because the definition of a spinster is a childless unmarried woman, who has never been married. So in our modern time to choose not to be married or not to have children you have to exert a sense of independence.... back in the day being a spinster wasn't always a choice... I guess same as today. But I think spinster could be applied to any zodiac sign... maybe least likely Cancer or Libra but you get my gist 😉.