Should I go for this Virgo guy? Help me pls.

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by dragongolden on Saturday, January 18, 2014 and has 16 replies.

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@dragongolden
12 Years

My crush born in Sept 6
I know my crush for 2 months in the lab last semester, and we don't have any classes together this semester.
We are not close.
He is a hockey player in my college.
I am a hockey fan. And we like the same NHL team.

I'm always the one who initiate the conversation and text.
I'm always the one who keeps the conversation going via text.
He didn't text me back 4 times.
He NEVER texts me first.
He offered me a hockey stick for my halloween costume. He actually borrowed the stick from his friend for me.
He gave me a hockey puck. (I asked for it). He showed up 20mins late which I felt fine because he needed to celebrate the wining game with his team.
I asked him for pictures. My friend who took a picture of us told me he was so shy!
He avoided to walk after the lab with me twice.
He was very blush when I flirted with him once.
He looked at me once or twice during the lab.
We texted an hour once and 4 hours 3 days ago.. but I started the conversation first in both time.
I texted him "good luck" on game days for a month. The only thing he texted me back is "Thank you!"
I followed him on twitter for a month, but he hasn't followed me back.
We talked in person 3 times last semester after class. It went pretty well. But it was 2 months ago. I don't know that he might lost interested to me.

He has many male/female friends
He broke up with his ex 7 months ago.
But he's kinda quiet guy in the lab.

So.. Do you think he likes me? Should I ask him to get coffee or just leave him alone?
I'm Libra

Thank you very much

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@dragongolden
12 Years

He looked at me in the hockey games before. I didn't notice until my friends and sister told me he kept looking at me.
And I don't know if I think too much, but every time we talked in person. I can feel that he might be interested in me.
But both were from a month ago before school break.

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@dragongolden
12 Years

Yes, he's in science major and an athlete in college.
I know that I seem a bit in hurry.. I waited him after class so we can walk and talk together.
And I think I was too forward so I stepped back.
I didn't text him everyday for sure. I only text him good luck on the game days (once a week).
That's all I do right now.

He doesn't use Facebook a lot, but twitter. Therefore, I tried to follow him on twitter. But he doesn't follow me back.

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@dragongolden
12 Years

I just want to know if these signs are the signs that Virgo guy doesn't like me?
Is it worth to ask him to get coffee?

I tell you guys the truth. This is my first time crushing on guy. So I don't have ANY experience about this kind of thing

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@dragongolden
12 Years

😢 I wish I could go and ask him...
But I'm not that brave. And I don't want to lose him as a friend.

I will tell him when I see/know that he gives me a green light that he likes or is interested me also.
So can you guys tell me, judging from these signs that I list, does he like or interested in me?

Thanks!!!

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@dragongolden
12 Years

I just want to get some ideas that these signs are normal for Virgo guy or not.
My friend ( virgo girl) told me that these signs could still mean he likes me! I mean, I don't understand at all.
I am libra. If I like someone, I will give them hints by trying to talk with them, showing I care for them and etc.
But he doesn't even text/call me first at all. And he even ignored me before 😢

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@justagirl
12 Years25,000+ Posts

Was curious as to your age, because you do come across as a teenager, not saying that to be rude to you, it's just how it reads. 🙂

Like others have suggested, ask him out to coffee or just ask him if he has any interest in you. We cannot tell you if there is any interest. What's the worst that can happen? He says no thanks? You mentioned being worried about losing a friend. If you are afraid to ask him to coffee, are you really friends? Something to think about. Again no one else can tell you what he thinks or feels as none of us is him, only he can tell you that, but you have to ask 🙂