Virgo guy broke up with me. I miss him

The scenerio:
Boy & Girl been friends since they where young, one day something says "click" and they fall in love
Lots of loving words, heartwarming feelings and kisses making us soar high. after 2 months , i feel like something is wrong. After 4 weaks we break up.

This is about me and my exboyfriend, we broke up 3 days ago. He's a virgo and i'm a sagittarius. He is 2 years younger than me

It was a very peacefull breakup, he said we needed to talk over the phone, we talked a long time. He gave the suggestion we should break up, because he felt like he didn't have enough time for me. He said he didn't treat me the way i deserved. He said he liked me, that i was a fantastic girlfriend , but that i was more grown up than him - that i where more fit to be in a relationship than he was at this point. He said he had a hard time explaining his feelings, and that's why he didn't want me to suffer for that. He said he wanted to start over again after 1 monts maybe, he wanted to stay in touch, and maybe get a new start.
but i honestly don't know if i want to be in a relationship with him again. He was an awesome boyfriend, but i felt like i gave more than i got back.

After breaking up with him, i felt so alive. Like if i was finally free again. But then came the breakdown. I miss him so much. He was awesome in bed, (seriously you virgo's got mad skills!) But then again - when i was in an relationship with him i felt so prisoned. I changed so much about myself just so that he would be happy. I even said " I love you " to him.. yuk. I'm not a person that misuses the words "i love you" because i think it's only ment to one person... I had sex with him (in the tempo he wanted, he hated when i asked about sex so i had to cuddle with him a looong time before he asked "do you want to have sex?") i was quiet when he wanted to sleep, i drove around with him, i meet his pals, i laughed when he wanted me to laugh...

He is a good boy, and i'm sure he never understood the big changes i made to make this relationship work.

So i'm left with questions that i hope you virgo's can help me solve:
- is he sad? He hasn't shoved any form of sadness, matter of fact, right after we broke up he sent me messages on facebook saying things like "How are you? 🙂" and "You are an amazing girl, please, put the blame on me , cause i'm the one who broke up"
- Is he honest when he said that he maybe want us to start over again in a while?

And may i say again - Sex with a

After 4 monts we break up*

Oh sweetie, I am sorry your Virgo broke up with you. I think you should move on and find a guy who you can be YOURSELF with. You should not have to do try to do/say things that you think HE will like. You have to be yourself naturally and your next guy will love you for you. And don't worry, you will find a guy just as sexy (or better!) that you can relax and have fun with.

Posted by luvsagittarius
The scenerio:
ut then again - when i was in an relationship with him i felt so prisoned. I changed so much about myself just so that he would be happy. I even said " I love you " to him.. yuk.

I went through the same thing, with my ex Sag.
She changed herself for me, because she was more or less, everything I did not approve of.

1 year 1 month later, she abruptly ends the relationship. Claims she is happy and wants to be free and doesn't want a boyfriend.

1 month later she claims she hooked up with another Virgo who I know, I see hypocrisy, become infuriated and tell her leave me alone.

4 months later, through the grapevine, I'm finding out she's getting married to him lol
Wedding's due for December.

He is a good boy, and i'm sure he never understood the big changes i made to make this relationship work.

He would only understand if you both explained and demonstrated to him.
The fact you had to change was bad enough

So i'm left with questions that i hope you virgo's can help me solve:
- is he sad? He hasn't shoved any form of sadness, matter of fact, right after we broke up he sent me messages on facebook saying things like "How are you? 🙂" and "You are an amazing girl, please, put the blame on me , cause i'm the one who broke up"
- Is he honest when he said that he maybe want us to start over again in a while?

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He is sad and he means what he says.
Virgos say what they mean and mean what they say.

We don't show emotion much, we keep it under control, especially in these "troubling" circumstances.

You miss him telling you, that you are fat, and your pour water wrong?!?! lol

Sikkario you are a fucking trip! You made me LOL! We need more funny & less-uptight Virgos like you around here. Please stay!

^^^What about me brah? Aren\'t I tightly unsecure 😄


Well, he broke it up maturely, and i bet he must have felt sad about it. If anything he probably noticed you were not being yourself and he was probably feeling hurt because you were changing yourself to him, which he didn\'t want in the first place...

I guess if you miss him that much, you should say something...

Awww...*blows a kiss in sorti's direction* You're stupid cool. You make me laugh always and I love how easy-going you are. Just had to give sikkario some props because I think he's one of the newer Virgos to join the site? A little newer than folks like myself and CLNY30? So, just wanted to make him feel comfortable so he would stick around. He's funny.

I love your posts -- You guys really keep it real!

I love your posts -- You guys really keep it real!