Saggy Girl needs tips

Hello!!

I've met a Virguy 3 weeks ago, have seen him only once the day we met.
Since then we've only been texting and calling each other. He sends me sms through out the day and when he's on the phone he talks for hours and doesn't wanna get off.
Now since I really like the guy and hoping for something to happen I do not want to commit the same mistake I've done with previous Aries. I just wanna know if it is okay to keep talking and texting or will he soon lose interest?
Do I have to also be "unavailable" for Mr. Virgo like I should have been with Mr. Aries—

He also doesn't seem to be taking things slow, he doesn't really talk about anything serious but in an indirect way he does. Aren't Virgo guys not like that? Very sweet talker too.

Now when I see him do I have to keep my distance? I will not sleep with him that's for sure but do they get turned off if the girl accepts hugs n kisses?

My last Aries has really confused me cause he pusued me for months and when he started getting my attention he pulled out.
So now I just wanna be safe with this virgo guy especially that I am a Sagittarius and according to the stars we're NOT a good match.

Thanks in advance for your advice n tips!

I think you need to stay grounded given the circumstance: you just met the guy and haven't even seem him since....

1. get out and start having fun, hang out with friends (male & female), do stuff, go to the gym, start a new hobby.

2. next time he calls, wait 5 minutes, then politely let him know that you need to get off because you have plans to go _____________ (be careful not to imply you're going out with another guy, because virgo men usually pull out when they feel rushed or pitted against another male).

3. don't expect anything: if he makes his move, great. if not, move on.

He's enjoying the consistency.

Your smiles and bubbliness draw him near.

He will start to slow down when he realises you're serious.
Hardly call, hardly text.

I am this way too, I start hot and heavy, then ease off the gas when I realise I've "caught you".

The "real problem" will rare itself later.

Ah Cajun, I soooo disagree, My Virgo declared that he "has me" (of course, this was in response to me fishing and saying something to the effect of "don't you wish you had a girl like me" when I was rubbing his back - but, you know by fairy tale as it so stands 🙂).

But, OS, do take it slow, don't push and let things flow as they will. Don't play games, like 'be unavailable' he will pick up on it in a heartbeat, and he isn't going to want to play silly games. I'm not saying run to the phone when it rings, if you're in the middle of something (even if it's curling your hair) let it go and call him back. It's been less than a month, continue to let him direct the pace. As far as the hugs and kisses, as long as he's being respectful and you don't mind, why not? Doesn't mean you can't throw in a few here and there yourself, but I suggest not in public unless he has shown otherwise that it is ok.

And if you are out and he calls, take the call, let him know you're w/ a gf or whatever and that you'll call him back AND DO! He'll know that you have a life, he'll know that you do what you say and he'll know that you are interested!

You've been talking for 3 weeks and he never asked to see you again? Is distance, work an issue?

By now, he should be planning to see you again.

Posted by LovelyScorp
I don't have anything to add except I think the title of this thread is a bit funny. *giggles*

I was thinking exactly the same thing lol.

I really appreciate all your replies!!

I know it's kinda funny seeing someone once then developing a relationship over the phone.
Actually he lives a few kilometers from my place but now it's "Ramadan" and out of respect we're avoiding actual meet ups I think I've gotten you guys more confused lol Anyway Ramadan will be over within the next two days and we can then meet up as often as we wish.

I just got confused at how he's been opening up and the many calls which I have actually been enjoying. He knows I have a life and many friends that I hang out with but not a Virgo trait as I've understood.

Anyway I am just so bored of having guys pursue me for so long and once I feel that I am ready and realize I am interested and return the attention they BACK OFF!!! happened with Gemini, Aquarius and then Aries whom are supposedly good matches for me lol I am about to reach the conclusion that there is something I do wrong that scares them off.

It's way too early to decide if I want anything going on with this Virgo but since I find him HOT and Interesting I want to remain cautious just in case I plan to take it further I don't want to scare him away 😄

Again Mucho gracias everyone. I am gonna stick to this forum 😄

Ohhhhh Hahaha the title!!!!

God forbid I ever become Saggy!!! Sadgy might be better 😄