Virgo Man, so cute....

Ok, so after a bad scenario with a roving Taurus man, I recently met a virgo man close to my age. Although he was never married, he lived with a woman for 15 years. After chatting on the phone for about 10 days , he asked me out for coffee. We ended up going out for a few drinks, and talked for 4 hours straight.(he loves to talk!). Since it was the day after his birthday, I said I owe him a birthday kiss and hug. He walked me to my car and we kissed. He is a great kisser. I drove home and later he called me to make sure I got home ok. How cute! So unlike the Taurus guy who "disappeared" after we were together. I definitely want to move slower with this virgo man. He texts me every day. Calls me almost every night. E We are going out again tomorrow night. Oh, I did insist on paying half towards our drinks last week since the bill was very high and I didnt feel he should pay that much on a first meeting. I am a Sag with Virgo rising, I think so far he is so worth my time and effort. Any suggestions for me?

aww 🙂

Sounds like you're doing just fine. Just take it easy, enjoy getting to know each other, and if it's meant to be it's going to happen on it's own.

Rooting for you guys 🙂

Be prepared to be asked a lot of questions.

Initially he will be a bit skeptical and untrusting of your friendly and flirtatious nature. Once he is comfortable, things will be much more relaxed.

Until then, expect him to be quite cautious.

Stay smiling and perky, like you naturally are. Let him know how you feel and please don't lie or deny him knowledge of how you feel about him.

We Virgo men can tell when something is stirring in you and denial, which Sagittarius women do, is something that frustrates us.

Thank you both so much. I will definitely make sure he knows I like him. H is funny though, shy when I flirt with him..again, so cute...

Posted by TheLadySagittarius

I did insist on paying half towards our drinks last week since the bill was very high and I didnt feel he should pay that much on a first meeting.

No comment on the two of you, for the connection is either there or not there, and nothing we can say will change that.

I do want to comment on the above, though. The modern woman of this day and age, is adamant on being treated completely equal, and refuses to tolerate anything that even suggests that a man is superiour than her, or that he should recieve anything more than her.

The modern woman demands to be just as right, and just as a man in every way ....

... so, why would this same woman think that a man is suppose to carry her tab?

And I'm not actually referring to you personally, rather, this mind-set in itself .... if you are equal, then you cannot then expect a man to carry your wieght for you.

A woman would get upset if a man thinks she is suppose to give him sex, and if he has this on his mind as if it is expected of her.

Is this same woman expecting him to pay for her?

Can she not put two-and-two together to comprehend why he is expecting?

Can she not comprehend that if she expects him to pay for her, and she allows him to pay for her then .... it's the same thing as whoring in his mind?

If you are planning on being WOMAN ... then more goes with the territory of actually being one than just the title.

TheLady .... I'm not meaning you specifically, rather just analyzing on your thread.

At the risk of straying away from the Virgo topic, I don't think the modern woman wants to be totally equal to a man in every way. You have to agree that if a man asks a woman out, he should pay for that first date. Now after that, it depends on the couple. In my case with my Virgo man, we originally were going for a cup of coffee, so 5 hours later, the drink tab was (for me) too high for an average working guy to have to dish out. Now, if he had pulled up in a Mercedes, I might've thought twice about offering..lol

Hey, that\'s cool. Hopefully, the next date is even better. I liked how you insisted on helping him out 🙂

oh no, he's suffocating u

Ok, update on my Virgo guy. We went to the movies on our second date. We held hands in the theater and he didn't say anything then, but later said he was in a trance watching the movie...lol. This past saturday we went by the bay and watched the boats. So romantic but he still didn't say too much. We had lunch and I got him lost on our way home but he didn't seem to mind. The thing I like the most about him is that he keeps in touch with me. I never realized how important that is to me. He calls me every night even just to say good night. And during the day he will text me from work so that I know he is thinking about me. We both love music and movies and talk about those things a lot. I like paranormal stuff, he doesnt and teases me about it. We laugh at each other (not in a mean way). He is different in the fact that I love all new technology and he hasnt used his DVD player yet. (yes, VHS ). I sense a loneliness in him too. One question to the Virgo men , What is this WHITE HEAT I keep hearing about? I dont want to push this relationship too fast but I am ready for some of that...lol

MMmmm, that is good then..thanx!

No, because I don't necessarily have to talk non stop when we are together. I do enjoy comfortable silences at times. He seems to be thinking a lot.

DY- "Don't take his courtesy and pampering for granted. If you like what he does (calling, etc.), tell him."

Thank you I definitely tell him when I like something...

Haha it's like ur tellin my story with my new virgo man!
Met him shortly after a few months wasted with aries! A day before his birthday.
He's talkative yet pretty shy, i dono how he kissed me on the first date.
I try to make sure i pay as much as he does on a different occasion & i have concluded that he respects me for that, not a gold digger obviously.
He calls me regularly also, unlike mr busy aries that never had time for me..
Oh and he's got dreamy gorgeous eyes 🙂
Anyway i got a little excited because when i read your posts it felt like i am reading my story. Also you being a sag and him a virgo excited of cause the stars say we're not a good match.
Best of luck with your virgo!

@Obsessed...So glad to hear a fellow sag girl doing well with a sweet Virgo man! My biggest problem is to SLOW down and not rush things. But the calling and texting to let me know he is thinking of me is so refreshing isnt it? Good luck with your Virgo too!

Update: Met the cousin! He still sweetly calls me every night and texts me good morning every day. We have spent the night at his place and he plays soft music (love songs) and things get so hot with this man! No flowery speeches, he is quiet and unassuming yet he sure shows me how he feels. Just his consistency alone make me feel secure. *sigh* Could it be love? lol

Posted by 25thDecan
Love? Maybe or it could simply be that sovfar you are compatible. Enjoy yourself. Mature, sane people who appreciate each other and care for one another and remain faithful in the boundaries of their relationship are capable of falling in love and enjoying each other regardless of zodiac sign.....

Yes Decan, you are right of course, remember, Sag has to keep her head out of the clouds sometimes..