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Virgo man FWB
Posted by zFlavorHi, I would think that too but both of my girlfriends have boyfriends and are happy with them. His eyes were on me the whole time but was very nervous but was trying to seem cool. Both of my girlfriends who know him as well were like what's up with him. He's usually not like this. Why is he acting like this. One knows that I'm having sex with him and the other who doesn't looked at me and asked me whats going on between us cause that was weird. He got like that once before when i ran into him at the gym and he actually ran into a machine cause he got so nervous. I'm surprised cause he's usually such a play boy with girls.
Only time maybe a virgo guy would get nervous is when hes fucking one of you girlfriends and you an them are all together and shit might hit the ceiling fan.
Posted by zFlavorI didn't state that i want sex once a week because I thought thats what he would want since he's got a high sex drive. I don't want to be breaking any FWB rules by asking for sex once a week?
Did you tell him you wanted sex once a week?
Nervous in front of your friends? Time to check him....
Posted by MiZLeoI'm not falling for him but want more sex. I just don't like approaching him for sex cause I don't want his ego inflated. I figure maybe he's just taking some time to sort out his feelings and than we can get back to sex like it works for you. I'm very good at inflating his ego but not over texts or phone cause i don;t want him to think i'm chasing him cause we live in a small town so I don't want him to assume i want more because i don't. Just wondering if i need to find another guy and if he has found someone else and just decided to not tell me. But he was looking down my shirt yesterday and basically undressing me with his eyes.
lol, I love my virgo fwb. He does get weird every once in a while and seem a bit clingy to where I feel bad so I talk to him, but then I might not see him for a few weeks and then he's back at me. He also has a huge ego so I do not inflate it to much. I'll complement him on occasion and he does the same. Your fwb not gf/bf he doesn't have to talk to you all the time and neither do you. Why don't you hit him up and ask him for bootie if you want it. Shut off your Leo emotions. I know it's hard. I've falling for guys who were suppose to be fwb b4.
Posted by SensitiveBluesNail on the head
Ahh Virgos are very sensitive beings and can be easily embarrassed, they like to keep their friends, partners, etcs compartmentalized
you're taking him out of what he's comfortable with just seeing you when you're sleeping together.
Posted by DMVSo how do I deal with this? When i asked him for FWB only he was surpirised and told me that I seem like the type who's looking for a husband and I said i am but i never saw you as that. Than he continued to tell me he;s not ready for a realtionship and how every girl tries to get him to be her bf. I said hmmm ok but that's not what i expect from him because I'm into older guys and not younger. After that we talked for couple of hours and than he went home until i saw him in public.Posted by SensitiveBluesNail on the head
Ahh Virgos are very sensitive beings and can be easily embarrassed, they like to keep their friends, partners, etcs compartmentalized
you're taking him out of what he's comfortable with just seeing you when you're sleeping together.click to expand
Wait for him to call for sex. Have sex. Then go bout your business.
Stop kissing, stop cuddling, stop spending the night.
Catch a nut and go home.
Stop kissing, stop cuddling, stop spending the night.
Catch a nut and go home.
Posted by zFlavorHe's got a big ego and I see girls falling all over him so my leo ego is having a hard time being so direct with him as to ask him why he's shy/nervous around me. I feel he'll never admit to it.Posted by beautifuldaybut if thats what you want, tell him....talk to him about it.Posted by zFlavorI didn't state that i want sex once a week because I thought thats what he would want since he's got a high sex drive. I don't want to be breaking any FWB rules by asking for sex once a week?
Did you tell him you wanted sex once a week?
Nervous in front of your friends? Time to check him....
the nervous problem is strange....maybe ask him why he seems nervous in public around you. but it could also be he just likes you more than hes telling you also.
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Next time (if he calls I'll ask him about his thoughts of having sex once a week). Thank you.
Posted by DMVHe comes over to my place and I try to do all those things but he looks into my eyes during sex which when i notice i close my eyes and has major make out sessions. I will try and stop that next time. I don't think he'll like not kissing-I don't cuddle with him but he sits around and talks to me forever. Last time i actually started putting my clothes away after sex hoping he'll leave but he stayed in bed for me to come back to talk. I have a hard time being rude.
Wait for him to call for sex. Have sex. Then go bout your business.
Stop kissing, stop cuddling, stop spending the night.
Catch a nut and go home.
We have good sex + convo together so i don;t wanna lose this FWB thing with him.
Posted by zFlavorI do know he's been trying to get with me for a long time. I just kept ignoring him. I actually made out with him like 8 months ago and left something of mine at his house and he kept messaging me to meet up so he can bring it over for me. I said oh don't worry about it until recently when we had sex and he brought it back for me. I think he might have a crush on me. I also used to be in a relationship with one of his now friends who still has feelings for me but we don't talk. Small town complications.
if a female that i liked in a way i want to like date or marry approached me with a fwb situation, i would be turned off at first maybe...thats woman dependant though..
give it some time and talk to him.
What do you suggest I say when i have this "talk"
Posted by beautifuldayHmmm. So youre stuck after sex.Posted by DMVHe comes over to my place and I try to do all those things but he looks into my eyes during sex which when i notice i close my eyes and has major make out sessions. I will try and stop that next time. I don't think he'll like not kissing-I don't cuddle with him but he sits around and talks to me forever. Last time i actually started putting my clothes away after sex hoping he'll leave but he stayed in bed for me to come back to talk. I have a hard time being rude.
Wait for him to call for sex. Have sex. Then go bout your business.
Stop kissing, stop cuddling, stop spending the night.
Catch a nut and go home.
We have good sex + convo together so i don;t wanna lose this FWB thing with him.click to expand
I usually have a friend call me so i can fake leaving.
He likes your friendship.
You may have to cut him loose. Hes attached and it sounds like you dont want that.
Posted by DMVI think you might be right. I actually have decided right now that if he doesn't contact me to have a shag by next friday-I'm done and finding someone else (sadly slim pickings here 😢 )
You may have to cut him loose. Hes attached and it sounds like you dont want that.
He won't come out and say that he's attached. Yesterday I was walking down the street engrossed in my friends convo for 15 mins and that look up and see him hanging with people so I smile and he pretended like he didn't see me when i actually saw him looking directly at me ogling me. Later when i saw him at another place he came over to me and my friends and asked me if i went to the other event (he saw me there but why pretend when i caught him staring at me). So weird. I think cause i'm older and have my shit together he gets attimidated a bit.
Posted by SensitiveBluesShes right you know.
Virgo men never fight for leo women. Leo women want a man who'll fight for them. Leo woman want a man who will value them, virgo men won't...they need a man who'll show love consistently..virgo men don't....
good luck.
He cant even be upfront of his real intentions cause he got rejected b4 he could even ask.
So he's in a tough spot?
Posted by SensitiveBluesAgain. Nail on the head
I would cut him loose or up the stakes asking him you want more sex, but he's emotionally involved, yet not there yet in terms of commitment, look you're 32 years old, you're not getting any younger, do you really want to waste time like this?
you can do much better then a 25 year old virgo whose probably looking for a mother....seriously leo loves to give...virgos love to take
Posted by SensitiveBluesThank you for the advice. i think your right. I'll give him till next friday to either give me more sex or cut ties. I'm actually looking for someone else in the mean time (someone more marriage material). He knows that-I've told him that.
Also don't you have the same topic you created like a month ago?
why the double topic...
I was wondering why he's all of a sudden not contacting for sex anymore and is getting nervous in public...I gave background info again so people don't have to go look back again and again. Thanks for your insight sensitive...what's your sign?
Posted by beautifuldayNow that would piss me off. Ive been ducked b4 and im still not over that.Posted by DMVI think you might be right. I actually have decided right now that if he doesn't contact me to have a shag by next friday-I'm done and finding someone else (sadly slim pickings here 😢 )
You may have to cut him loose. Hes attached and it sounds like you dont want that.
He won't come out and say that he's attached. Yesterday I was walking down the street engrossed in my friends convo for 15 mins and that look up and see him hanging with people so I smile and he pretended like he didn't see me when i actually saw him looking directly at me ogling me. Later when i saw him at another place he came over to me and my friends and asked me if i went to the other event (he saw me there but why pretend when i caught him staring at me). So weird. I think cause i'm older and have my shit together he gets attimidated a bit.click to expand
He's trying to keep some sort of control over.contact because he knows deep.down hes insecure about the arrangement.
Plus, if he isn't consistent now, he probably wont ever be.
Its not the theme of the relationship.
Posted by DMVThank you guys...I've gone 3 years without sex in the past so I just wanted to have sex while I look for my prince charming who is not showing up grrrrr. Small town limited fish kinda thing and he just kept persuing me and is the best looking guy around. I am keeping my options open to other more stable men for dating. I just want sex until i find the one. I do really appriciate the inputPosted by SensitiveBluesAgain. Nail on the head
I would cut him loose or up the stakes asking him you want more sex, but he's emotionally involved, yet not there yet in terms of commitment, look you're 32 years old, you're not getting any younger, do you really want to waste time like this?
you can do much better then a 25 year old virgo whose probably looking for a mother....seriously leo loves to give...virgos love to takeclick to expand
Posted by DMVYou are so right. I have a tendency to doubt myself and tell myself that i'm reading too much into things but your right he's insecure about this arrangement so he's trying control the situation. You are so right...light bulb moment for me. I'm not going to message him at all. Wait till friday and if nothing than goodbye it is.Posted by beautifuldayNow that would piss me off. Ive been ducked b4 and im still not over that.Posted by DMVI think you might be right. I actually have decided right now that if he doesn't contact me to have a shag by next friday-I'm done and finding someone else (sadly slim pickings here 😢 )
You may have to cut him loose. Hes attached and it sounds like you dont want that.
He won't come out and say that he's attached. Yesterday I was walking down the street engrossed in my friends convo for 15 mins and that look up and see him hanging with people so I smile and he pretended like he didn't see me when i actually saw him looking directly at me ogling me. Later when i saw him at another place he came over to me and my friends and asked me if i went to the other event (he saw me there but why pretend when i caught him staring at me). So weird. I think cause i'm older and have my shit together he gets attimidated a bit.
He's trying to keep some sort of control over.contact because he knows deep.down hes insecure about the arrangement.
Plus, if he isn't consistent now, he probably wont ever be.
Its not the theme of the relationship.
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OP, if you want to leave after sex, you should go to his place...... or is he living with his parents?
why is he not marriage material? is he not working or didnt have an education or?
why is he not marriage material? is he not working or didnt have an education or?
Posted by beautifuldayAlso, you are not going to find your prince charming in a small town, where everybody knows you are sleeping with himPosted by DMVThank you guys...I've gone 3 years without sex in the past so I just wanted to have sex while I look for my prince charming who is not showing up grrrrr. Small town limited fish kinda thing and he just kept persuing me and is the best looking guy around. I am keeping my options open to other more stable men for dating. I just want sex until i find the one. I do really appriciate the inputPosted by SensitiveBluesAgain. Nail on the head
I would cut him loose or up the stakes asking him you want more sex, but he's emotionally involved, yet not there yet in terms of commitment, look you're 32 years old, you're not getting any younger, do you really want to waste time like this?
you can do much better then a 25 year old virgo whose probably looking for a mother....seriously leo loves to give...virgos love to takeclick to expand
and you dont know what he is telling other (i.e. you approached him with the fwb offer)...
I would move to some bigger city, what is your job, could you possibly transfer somewhere? so you will have more options.....
if you didnt have sex for 3 years before it means your small town is really small..... just move away if its possible
Posted by beautifulday
Hi guys, So I have a FWB situation with a virgo man. He's been after me for 1.5 years and couple of months ago I finally decided that sex would work with him. I was very clear that thats all i want. He's 25 and I'm 32 (leo). I'm educated, driven and very kind. We have similar career goals so we have tons to talk about. Anyways, FWB situation was going really well for me but last time he seemed offended when i rolled over and said i'm going to sleep to a point where i felt bad and got up and chatted with him for few hours until he left.
He left for vacation and is not back but no word as to when we are going to be meeting again. I saw him in public and he got all nervous talking to me and my friends asked me whats up because he came up to say hello but was almost not making sense due to the nervousness and he's a confident/outgoing guy who is a big flirt and a ladies man.
I want sex but i don't wanna feed into his already inflated ego either so just wondering why he's not messaging for a meet up to have sex? We made a deal that once we meet someone else that we will next eachother out of respect and to protect us from disease. My friend said that he might be sleeping with someone else but it he's pretty direct so I feel he would've said something.
Anyways, what are your thoughts? Should i just find someone else or this is a virgo thing? I know he likes his space but I was expecting sex atleast once a week especially from a 25year old with a high sex drive.
Also, he was practically drooling over me with his eyes yesterday in public.
You sound very sure...when you're not.
Please stop.
Posted by Pandora101Hi Pandora, He has a roommate who i know so i don't want him to hear us having sex...kinda weird to me at this stage of my life. I'm from a big city and only here for another year or so and than moving back to big city. We have a deal to not share with anyone (as much as possible) but actually lots of people come and go from here often due to work so its very transient.Posted by beautifuldayAlso, you are not going to find your prince charming in a small town, where everybody knows you are sleeping with himPosted by DMVThank you guys...I've gone 3 years without sex in the past so I just wanted to have sex while I look for my prince charming who is not showing up grrrrr. Small town limited fish kinda thing and he just kept persuing me and is the best looking guy around. I am keeping my options open to other more stable men for dating. I just want sex until i find the one. I do really appriciate the inputPosted by SensitiveBluesAgain. Nail on the head
I would cut him loose or up the stakes asking him you want more sex, but he's emotionally involved, yet not there yet in terms of commitment, look you're 32 years old, you're not getting any younger, do you really want to waste time like this?
you can do much better then a 25 year old virgo whose probably looking for a mother....seriously leo loves to give...virgos love to take
and you dont know what he is telling other (i.e. you approached him with the fwb offer)...
I would move to some bigger city, what is your job, could you possibly transfer somewhere? so you will have more options.....
if you didnt have sex for 3 years before it means your small town is really small..... just move away if its possible
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I didn't have sex for 3 years because I was getting over a very intense relationship and just didn't wanna be with anyone in anyway and than i realized i miss sex (ofcourse).
Since its a small pool of people to date I think people are alot more forgiving here than they would be in a city cause it can get lonely for some without partners. He might say that to people re: FWB and I do think about that and worry about that but so far i haven't heard anything. OMG i hope he doesn't go crazy and turn into a rumour mill on me. Do Virgo men do that? He's got a good job and we both work and have similar educational back gorund which he loves cause we talk about work stuff a lot.
Posted by DMV
Wait for him to call for sex. Have sex. Then go bout your business.
Stop kissing, stop cuddling, stop spending the night.
Catch a nut and go home.
basically.
But when you want more but lie to yourself...these questions happen
Posted by beautifuldayPosted by happyface1Actually the reason I posted was because I'm not sure about it. If i was I wouldn't be asking the online world. thank you for your comment though.Posted by beautifulday
Hi guys, So I have a FWB situation with a virgo man. He's been after me for 1.5 years and couple of months ago I finally decided that sex would work with him. I was very clear that thats all i want. He's 25 and I'm 32 (leo). I'm educated, driven and very kind. We have similar career goals so we have tons to talk about. Anyways, FWB situation was going really well for me but last time he seemed offended when i rolled over and said i'm going to sleep to a point where i felt bad and got up and chatted with him for few hours until he left.
He left for vacation and is not back but no word as to when we are going to be meeting again. I saw him in public and he got all nervous talking to me and my friends asked me whats up because he came up to say hello but was almost not making sense due to the nervousness and he's a confident/outgoing guy who is a big flirt and a ladies man.
I want sex but i don't wanna feed into his already inflated ego either so just wondering why he's not messaging for a meet up to have sex? We made a deal that once we meet someone else that we will next eachother out of respect and to protect us from disease. My friend said that he might be sleeping with someone else but it he's pretty direct so I feel he would've said something.
Anyways, what are your thoughts? Should i just find someone else or this is a virgo thing? I know he likes his space but I was expecting sex atleast once a week especially from a 25year old with a high sex drive.
Also, he was practically drooling over me with his eyes yesterday in public.
You sound very sure...when you're not.
Please stop.
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You're honestly welcome.
But people don't usually look this deep into answers if it's just sex.
Posted by MiZLeoI love this MizLeo
Posted by SensitiveBluesSensitiveblues, of course not, I personally dont mind the education part, I do mind the working part (my man must work, even as a dustbin-cleaner, I dont care what, but working🙂 ) And of course good and noble heart (this is a must, maybe a priority)Posted by Pandora101So that's what makes a man marriage material, that he works and has an education?
OP, if you want to leave after sex, you should go to his place...... or is he living with his parents?
why is he not marriage material? is he not working or didnt have an education or?
How about the fact he doesn't have the balls to make his intentions clear.
who wants that?
His behavior is clearly immature.
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good heart means not how is treating me romantically, but how he is treating his parents (visiting them? helping them?), how he is behaving with staff (like waiters or busdrivers), etc.
Maybe he (this Virgo who is this thread about) has no balls to make his intentions clear, but the OP told him, she wants a FWB.... and OP said, he was shocked.... so we dont know...
but the truth to be told (OP, to you!) it sounds like a highschool situation (he saw me, he told me he didnt, we said hello, etc etc) a bit immature
but its a small town, so I understand, our big village, where I come from is the same
And romance is really what get the OP attached, she is a Leo after all (or are you, OP?) nice courting, flowers, restaurants, grand gestures of expressed love...... the thing is, most Virgos are not like this, unfortunately..... they can love you, but they cannot do the socalled "courtship" thing proprely..... 🙂
So, you realize that he has fallen for you, and you recognize that he wanted you much more than fwb before you ever started this ..... and you don't share the sentiments while trying to encourage him to come at you.
In other words, you're just leading him on to fuck with his head so you can get attention.
In other words, you're just leading him on to fuck with his head so you can get attention.
Posted by SensitiveBluesHi, Here is what the chart told me-I'm not sure about his birth time.Posted by SensitiveBlues
Courting and Romance. LOL i just died.
Good luck girl.
bahahhahahahhahahahhahahhahahahahhaha
From a VIRGO? what are his placements? do you know date of birth?
go on cafe astrology and pull his chartclick to expand
Zodiac : Tropical
Sun Virgo 20°39'
Moon Cancer 14°34'
Mercury Virgo 10°41' R
Venus Virgo 7°53'
Mars Gemini 6°02'
Jupiter Leo 5°18'
Saturn Capricorn 18°46' R
Uranus Capricorn 5°36' R
Neptune Capricorn 11°50' R
Pluto Scorpio 15°41'
Lilith Sagittarius 4°56'
Asc node Aquarius 6°26'
Not sure what this means though.
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He left for vacation and is not back but no word as to when we are going to be meeting again. I saw him in public and he got all nervous talking to me and my friends asked me whats up because he came up to say hello but was almost not making sense due to the nervousness and he's a confident/outgoing guy who is a big flirt and a ladies man.
I want sex but i don't wanna feed into his already inflated ego either so just wondering why he's not messaging for a meet up to have sex? We made a deal that once we meet someone else that we will next eachother out of respect and to protect us from disease. My friend said that he might be sleeping with someone else but it he's pretty direct so I feel he would've said something.
Anyways, what are your thoughts? Should i just find someone else or this is a virgo thing? I know he likes his space but I was expecting sex atleast once a week especially from a 25year old with a high sex drive.
Also, he was practically drooling over me with his eyes yesterday in public.