Im a virgo male 21 and i hate my life.

I'm so sick of wanting to be like them. So sick of being depressed and empty even when I'm full. I hate feeling lonely when there's so many people around. I hate being conscious I hate being awkward weird and the outsider. The stand of ish person that's doesn't say anything. And I hate relationship trying to true and be sceptically IM JUST SICK OF IT ALL AND I HATE IM A VIRGO

I had feelings of this whenever I was younger. I had to take on a IDGAF attitude and outlook to overcome this. Let go of being "good" and perfect and live life carelessly for a while. Being self conscious can be paralyzing.

Mind you, I only got the nerve to do it once I went off to college and was living on my own though.

Try not to be so hard on yourself Virgo.

I've had the idgaf on me for years that's how I got by high school but I'm so sick of being strong how strong do a person gotta be until they turn into stone there damn self

Treetrunk around.

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Try not to be so hard on yourself Virgo.

This.

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If only it was that easy

What about going to Australia with a working holiday visa?

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Try not to be so hard on yourself Virgo.

This.

If only it was that easy

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It can be. I was like you at your age. Caps and virgos get the shitty end of the stick when it comes to this. You have to learn to be happy and content. Get out of your own head, it can get real dark in there.

Yes, you both need a warm hug. Virgo guy and Shashka. It's not the end guys!

Happiness and well-being comes from within. Don't rely on anyone... explore the beauty in the world in all its forms, enjoy yourself! Even in sorrow, something nice can unexpectedly happen. Many people feel as you do... it's life! You're sad and depressed? Well whatever, you're still awesome the way you are!!

Do you have one close friend? One is enough! Talk to them! Do you have a decent relationship with one parent? Ask them for support!

If not...

change the direction of your life. Find something to do that brings you pleasure...

Don't let the self-hatred prevail. You'll be alright : )

Posted by Fragrance
Yes, you both need a warm hug. Virgo guy and Shashka. It's not the end guys!

Happiness and well-being comes from within. Don't rely on anyone... explore the beauty in the world in all its forms, enjoy yourself! Even in sorrow, something nice can unexpectedly happen. Many people feel as you do... it's life! You're sad and depressed? Well whatever, you're still awesome the way you are!!

Do you have one close friend? One is enough! Talk to them! Do you have a decent relationship with one parent? Ask them for support!

If not...

change the direction of your life. Find something to do that brings you pleasure...

Don't let the self-hatred prevail. You'll be alright : )

All sounds nice but right no in this moment these words seems make believe and impossible

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Posted by Fragrance
Yes, you both need a warm hug. Virgo guy and Shashka. It's not the end guys!

Happiness and well-being comes from within. Don't rely on anyone... explore the beauty in the world in all its forms, enjoy yourself! Even in sorrow, something nice can unexpectedly happen. Many people feel as you do... it's life! You're sad and depressed? Well whatever, you're still awesome the way you are!!

Do you have one close friend? One is enough! Talk to them! Do you have a decent relationship with one parent? Ask them for support!

If not...

change the direction of your life. Find something to do that brings you pleasure...

Don't let the self-hatred prevail. You'll be alright : )

All sounds nice but right no in this moment these words seems make believe and impossible

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I know... I've been through thousands of stages of all "kinds" of sad and when a friend was trying to be positive, I'd always think "yeah right nevermind". But after some time I realized I reacted in this way because I didn't want to listen to them.

Never forget there are people who care...

You know how many people here would give you a sandwich hug right now, no wait, more like collective hug

You're not alone... try to relax for a moment

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Posted by Fragrance
Yes, you both need a warm hug. Virgo guy and Shashka. It's not the end guys!

Happiness and well-being comes from within. Don't rely on anyone... explore the beauty in the world in all its forms, enjoy yourself! Even in sorrow, something nice can unexpectedly happen. Many people feel as you do... it's life! You're sad and depressed? Well whatever, you're still awesome the way you are!!

Do you have one close friend? One is enough! Talk to them! Do you have a decent relationship with one parent? Ask them for support!

If not...

change the direction of your life. Find something to do that brings you pleasure...

Don't let the self-hatred prevail. You'll be alright : )

All sounds nice but right no in this moment these words seems make believe and impossible

I know... I've been through thousands of stages of all "kinds" of sad and when a friend was trying to be positive, I'd always think "yeah right nevermind". But after some time I realized I reacted in this way because I didn't want to listen to them.

Never forget there are people who care...

You know how many people here would give you a sandwich hug right now, no wait, more like collective hug

You're not alone... try to relax for a moment

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OMG thank you cause I felt very much like I didn't belong on this earth but I'm going to try day by day

You overthink, don't you?

Posted by aksdrama

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Posted by aksdrama

Posted by Fragrance
Yes, you both need a warm hug. Virgo guy and Shashka. It's not the end guys!

Happiness and well-being comes from within. Don't rely on anyone... explore the beauty in the world in all its forms, enjoy yourself! Even in sorrow, something nice can unexpectedly happen. Many people feel as you do... it's life! You're sad and depressed? Well whatever, you're still awesome the way you are!!

Do you have one close friend? One is enough! Talk to them! Do you have a decent relationship with one parent? Ask them for support!

If not...

change the direction of your life. Find something to do that brings you pleasure...

Don't let the self-hatred prevail. You'll be alright : )

All sounds nice but right no in this moment these words seems make believe and impossible

I know... I've been through thousands of stages of all "kinds" of sad and when a friend was trying to be positive, I'd always think "yeah right nevermind". But after some time I realized I reacted in this way because I didn't want to listen to them.

Never forget there are people who care...

You know how many people here would give you a sandwich hug right now, no wait, more like collective hug

You're not alone... try to relax for a moment

OMG thank you cause I felt very much like I didn't belong on this earth but I'm going to try day by day

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🙂

Ah how familiar these feelings are to me my fellow Virgo. To some extent it will get better with age, but we must also make a strong to grow into ourselves.

I still feel this way frequently. A constant sense that what I do isn't as good as it should be and that I'm not up to the standards of others.

Meditation helps quite a bit. Taking 5 to 10 minutes to just sit and be alone, not doing anything. Only deep breathing and allowing your mind to empty. Power pose exercises are also useful. I used to sit in a chair or my car, alone, and just spread my arms around like I was sitting on a throne. I told myself that it was MY space and no one else could ever own it but me. Simple, and perhaps a bit silly, but also empowering.

Posted by aksdrama
I'm so sick of wanting to be like them. So sick of being depressed and empty even when I'm full. I hate feeling lonely when there's so many people around. I hate being conscious I hate being awkward weird and the outsider. The stand of ish person that's doesn't say anything. And I hate relationship trying to true and be sceptically IM JUST SICK OF IT ALL AND I HATE IM A VIRGO

Good Lord, man. You're only 21. You haven't even experienced life yet. There's much better to come up the turnpike. Take it one day at a time.

Posted by aksdrama
I've had the idgaf on me for years that's how I got by high school but I'm so sick of being strong how strong do a person gotta be until they turn into stone there damn self

Maybe the IDGAF lifestyle isn't working out for you. Find something to care about. Volunteer at a homeless shelter or animal shelter or something.

Virgo energy to me seems to be overly self critical of the world and ourselves, introvert, realist and sometimes insensitive or too sensitive.

The negative things at least. It takes alot of energy to push those things aside.

Maybe I'm wrong, I'm not a Virgo Sun I just have my chart full of sixth house Virgo energy

Join a club, get out there and do activities. Be brave and try new things.

Focus on your career. Lower your standards and ask someone out on a date.

tsk

You are in transition to being a great comedian.