Hi, I am a 38 year old Capricorn. And I have been in a long distance relationship with a 38 year old Virgo man for 3 years. We have always been close and our relationship has always been good. Since I left in October he got his daughter to stay with him. She normally lives with her mother and he gets her every other weekend. And since October she lives with him until further notice, still till this day. She has autism and has seizures and he is a overly protective father. She convinced him that she gets armcramps that can cause a seizure when she has to be with her mother. And that is why she is with him now. Since that happened our contact is way less. I am happy when I receive 1 little text. He is disables and actually taking care of her is much to ask for him. Normally when he had her in the weekend he needed a couple of days to get well to function normally. And she once said on audio months ago that she hoped I would break up with him. And she says a of things she hears somewhere else. And probably something her mother said. When I stayed with him in September and October his daughter wasn't allowed to stay with us, saying that when we are married it was okay. But now, the following problem is arising. I asked him if I could come in June, and he kind of said he didn't want me to come, that he would not be allowed to see his daughter that his ex would keep their daughter away from him for 2 months. And since he has his daughter he has no time for me. And I miss him terribly. And I am a Capricorn and being one I am an emotional woman. And I tell him I lover him and that I don't think it is fair that I can't come. That everybody can have their life and I can't come and I don't know when and if ever. He tells me he loves me everyday when he text me or the rare occasion we call. His daughter demands full attention. And he is disabled and I have anyways accepted him in every life situation. Even when he lived in his car. The first time I came to America and being together he became depressed when I needed to leave. He started to not look after himself and he ended up living in his car. His family loves me and I am totally accepted. His daughter looks up to me, and lately he doesn't ask me how I an doing, not asking about my day etc. And yesterday we had an argument through text. His daughter has seizures, but recently she has seizures that seem to happen during specific circumstances. Example when she needs to go back to get mum. And I know from my work that there is something called pnes. Those are panic attacks that look like seizures. And we had worda. And he even calles me a dumb ass and an idiot. And that he is her father so he knows everything and that I think I know it all and I am not a mother etc. Very hurtful. I have never ever called him a bad name. I told him I needed a break because I miss him. Who can help me shed some light on my story? ?
