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Virgos
Posted by starwars
there's great and immediate attraction between virgos and crabs, but I don't think it work, not for me. id always choose an aqua over cancer!
Same. Yet i havent managed to meet an aqua thats made me feel as comfortable as he did
Posted by magnetoreborn
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How do you describe the feeling you get when you hold someones gaze for so long that you almost feel like you know everything that persons heart & mind is bearing that moment...
I feel like despite all the bs thats happened between me & the Virgo guy, we cant deny the connection we feel when were standing infront of each other , which is hard, because we both feel as if its the other ones fault & we are both hoping we can either forget that weve met or for the other person to take a step & discover why we have been feeling that way for so long and why is it so hard to fight it...
Anybody been in a situation like this before?
What were you mostly afraid of ?I fall so hard for Cancer girls...I mean the rapport is just too strong I kid you not.
I can always pick out Cancer girls - I feel like Cancer is the #1 sign I'm compatible with as a Virgo.
And to answer your question: no, I don't think iIve been in a situation where I resisted whatever feelings I had for a girl - I usually succumb to it lol especially when it comes to Cancers.
The only problem I run into is when they sometimes tell me while having a deep conversation with me, "yeah, my boyfriend thinks x y z" or "my boyfriend, my boyfriend, my boyfriend, etc. etc. etc."
Then I get crushed and uninterested. :/But I guess my question to you is, why are you fighting the urge to be together? Are you guys "friends"?
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Ehh. Its like a really long story... Lets just say he felt dissappointed & so did I . Weve tried to be friends but it hasnt worked ... one of us always ends up messing things up . Tbh i just really miss his company and i cant seem to get over it.
Posted by starwars
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Posted by starwars
there's great and immediate attraction between virgos and crabs, but I don't think it work, not for me. id always choose an aqua over cancer!
Same. Yet i havent managed to meet an aqua thats made me feel as comfortable as he did
if you're still not over him why don't you talk to him and follow your gut?
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Im insecure af. Its the truth. Though when it comes down to it he seems to feel the way i do... Im scared of getting hurt - all these questions come to mind like - he felt that way last time but what if hes over it now? Am i gonna make myself look desperate or stupid?. I guess you could say im a coward. But last time i made up my mind after talking to some guy on here , i saw him , he walked past me and didnt even look at me. & though there was a high chance he didnt see me i just made myself twice as insecure by telling myself he chose to ignore me
Posted by SingASong41
Tell! How can we help if we don't know the full story? Come on, don't be so vague.In any case, you could always be honest with him. Being assertive isn't easy because it's forcing you out of your "comfort zone" (fear) but it makes things go along a lot quicker.
The more you keep feelings to yourself, the deeper they become and the harder it is to move past them.
Then again, I don't know the story. So, do tell. 🙂
It really is a long story which involves disappointment confusion and distance.
"The more you keep feelings to yourself, the deeper they become and the harder it is to move past them" < words of wisdom.
I appreciate it , but id rather hear your own experience if you have one to share & would like to cause ik that deep down, no matter what you tell me ill be too insecure to do anything about the situation
Posted by magnetoreborn
Posted by notafollower
Posted by magnetoreborn
Posted by notafollower
How do you describe the feeling you get when you hold someones gaze for so long that you almost feel like you know everything that persons heart & mind is bearing that moment...
I feel like despite all the bs thats happened between me & the Virgo guy, we cant deny the connection we feel when were standing infront of each other , which is hard, because we both feel as if its the other ones fault & we are both hoping we can either forget that weve met or for the other person to take a step & discover why we have been feeling that way for so long and why is it so hard to fight it...
Anybody been in a situation like this before?
What were you mostly afraid of ?I fall so hard for Cancer girls...I mean the rapport is just too strong I kid you not.
I can always pick out Cancer girls - I feel like Cancer is the #1 sign I'm compatible with as a Virgo.
And to answer your question: no, I don't think iIve been in a situation where I resisted whatever feelings I had for a girl - I usually succumb to it lol especially when it comes to Cancers.
The only problem I run into is when they sometimes tell me while having a deep conversation with me, "yeah, my boyfriend thinks x y z" or "my boyfriend, my boyfriend, my boyfriend, etc. etc. etc."
Then I get crushed and uninterested. :/But I guess my question to you is, why are you fighting the urge to be together? Are you guys "friends"?
Ehh. Its like a really long story... Lets just say he felt dissappointed & so did I . Weve tried to be friends but it hasnt worked ... one of us always ends up messing things up . Tbh i just really miss his company and i cant seem to get over it.
Wellll 🙂 If you can't have that Virgo, you can always have this Virgo (me).
🙂 🙂 🙂
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Lol . (:
Posted by SingASong41
Tell! How can we help if we don't know the full story? Come on, don't be so vague.In any case, you could always be honest with him. Being assertive isn't easy because it's forcing you out of your "comfort zone" (fear) but it makes things go along a lot quicker.
The more you keep feelings to yourself, the deeper they become and the harder it is to move past them.
Then again, I don't know the story. So, do tell. 🙂
Would a virgo go out of their comfort zone to do that?
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Posted by starwars
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Posted by starwars
there's great and immediate attraction between virgos and crabs, but I don't think it work, not for me. id always choose an aqua over cancer!
Same. Yet i havent managed to meet an aqua thats made me feel as comfortable as he did
if you're still not over him why don't you talk to him and follow your gut?
Im insecure af. Its the truth. Though when it comes down to it he seems to feel the way i do... Im scared of getting hurt - all these questions come to mind like - he felt that way last time but what if hes over it now? Am i gonna make myself look desperate or stupid?. I guess you could say im a coward. But last time i made up my mind after talking to some guy on here , i saw him , he walked past me and didnt even look at me. & though there was a high chance he didnt see me i just made myself twice as insecure by telling myself he chose to ignore me
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Does he have a cancer venus
Posted by Greentea
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Posted by starwars
Posted by notafollower
Posted by starwars
there's great and immediate attraction between virgos and crabs, but I don't think it work, not for me. id always choose an aqua over cancer!
Same. Yet i havent managed to meet an aqua thats made me feel as comfortable as he did
if you're still not over him why don't you talk to him and follow your gut?
Im insecure af. Its the truth. Though when it comes down to it he seems to feel the way i do... Im scared of getting hurt - all these questions come to mind like - he felt that way last time but what if hes over it now? Am i gonna make myself look desperate or stupid?. I guess you could say im a coward. But last time i made up my mind after talking to some guy on here , i saw him , he walked past me and didnt even look at me. & though there was a high chance he didnt see me i just made myself twice as insecure by telling myself he chose to ignore me
Does he have a cancer venus
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Leo Venus like myself & scorpio moon
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Posted by Greentea
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Posted by starwars
Posted by notafollower
Posted by starwars
there's great and immediate attraction between virgos and crabs, but I don't think it work, not for me. id always choose an aqua over cancer!
Same. Yet i havent managed to meet an aqua thats made me feel as comfortable as he did
if you're still not over him why don't you talk to him and follow your gut?
Im insecure af. Its the truth. Though when it comes down to it he seems to feel the way i do... Im scared of getting hurt - all these questions come to mind like - he felt that way last time but what if hes over it now? Am i gonna make myself look desperate or stupid?. I guess you could say im a coward. But last time i made up my mind after talking to some guy on here , i saw him , he walked past me and didnt even look at me. & though there was a high chance he didnt see me i just made myself twice as insecure by telling myself he chose to ignore me
Does he have a cancer venus
Leo Venus like myself & scorpio moon
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Ah, so fixed fixed fixed.
Posted by Greentea
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Posted by Greentea
Posted by notafollower
Posted by starwars
Posted by notafollower
Posted by starwars
there's great and immediate attraction between virgos and crabs, but I don't think it work, not for me. id always choose an aqua over cancer!
Same. Yet i havent managed to meet an aqua thats made me feel as comfortable as he did
if you're still not over him why don't you talk to him and follow your gut?
Im insecure af. Its the truth. Though when it comes down to it he seems to feel the way i do... Im scared of getting hurt - all these questions come to mind like - he felt that way last time but what if hes over it now? Am i gonna make myself look desperate or stupid?. I guess you could say im a coward. But last time i made up my mind after talking to some guy on here , i saw him , he walked past me and didnt even look at me. & though there was a high chance he didnt see me i just made myself twice as insecure by telling myself he chose to ignore me
Does he have a cancer venus
Leo Venus like myself & scorpio moon
Ah, so fixed fixed fixed.
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What does that mean? Lol
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Posted by Greentea
Posted by notafollower
Posted by Greentea
Posted by notafollower
Posted by starwars
Posted by notafollower
Posted by starwars
there's great and immediate attraction between virgos and crabs, but I don't think it work, not for me. id always choose an aqua over cancer!
Same. Yet i havent managed to meet an aqua thats made me feel as comfortable as he did
if you're still not over him why don't you talk to him and follow your gut?
Im insecure af. Its the truth. Though when it comes down to it he seems to feel the way i do... Im scared of getting hurt - all these questions come to mind like - he felt that way last time but what if hes over it now? Am i gonna make myself look desperate or stupid?. I guess you could say im a coward. But last time i made up my mind after talking to some guy on here , i saw him , he walked past me and didnt even look at me. & though there was a high chance he didnt see me i just made myself twice as insecure by telling myself he chose to ignore me
Does he have a cancer venus
Leo Venus like myself & scorpio moon
Ah, so fixed fixed fixed.
What does that mean? Lol
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Fixed takes longer to let go.
Ya just going to have to take a giant shot of whiskey and go for it.
Posted by SingASong41
Posted by Greentea
Posted by SingASong41
Tell! How can we help if we don't know the full story? Come on, don't be so vague.In any case, you could always be honest with him. Being assertive isn't easy because it's forcing you out of your "comfort zone" (fear) but it makes things go along a lot quicker.
The more you keep feelings to yourself, the deeper they become and the harder it is to move past them.
Then again, I don't know the story. So, do tell. 🙂
Would a virgo go out of their comfort zone to do that?
Yes. I wouldn't give that type of advice if I hadn't done it myself. It makes life so much easier.
We aren't meant to stay in our "comfort zone" aka bubble of fear. How do we evolve if we aren't willing to take risks and put ourselves out there?
Do you know how many problems could be avoided, how many situations would be solved, if we were all open with each other?
I used to be just as scared and insecure, sometimes I still get that feeling. However, life can never go on when you stay in such a state. That is such a sad way to live, really.
First time is the hardest. Then you realise "Hey, I'm still here. Breathing, alive, and (eventually) stronger than before!" Perhaps that won't be the immediate reaction, but it will come. Especially when you think to do it more for the EXPERIENCE and EVOLUTION rather than being in a negative mind state of fear of the unknown, which in actuality, is fear of what you are applying to the outcome.
No matter the outcome, you push yourself forward and obtain new wisdom that betters you as a human being. Not only that, the outcome could be exactly what you wanted all along, if you focus on it.
I'd rather have a life of "oh wells" than "what ifs"
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Well what if you don't, what are the reasons behind that?
Posted by SingASong41
Posted by Greentea
Posted by SingASong41
Posted by Greentea
Posted by SingASong41
Tell! How can we help if we don't know the full story? Come on, don't be so vague.In any case, you could always be honest with him. Being assertive isn't easy because it's forcing you out of your "comfort zone" (fear) but it makes things go along a lot quicker.
The more you keep feelings to yourself, the deeper they become and the harder it is to move past them.
Then again, I don't know the story. So, do tell. 🙂
Would a virgo go out of their comfort zone to do that?
Yes. I wouldn't give that type of advice if I hadn't done it myself. It makes life so much easier.
We aren't meant to stay in our "comfort zone" aka bubble of fear. How do we evolve if we aren't willing to take risks and put ourselves out there?
Do you know how many problems could be avoided, how many situations would be solved, if we were all open with each other?
I used to be just as scared and insecure, sometimes I still get that feeling. However, life can never go on when you stay in such a state. That is such a sad way to live, really.
First time is the hardest. Then you realise "Hey, I'm still here. Breathing, alive, and (eventually) stronger than before!" Perhaps that won't be the immediate reaction, but it will come. Especially when you think to do it more for the EXPERIENCE and EVOLUTION rather than being in a negative mind state of fear of the unknown, which in actuality, is fear of what you are applying to the outcome.
No matter the outcome, you push yourself forward and obtain new wisdom that betters you as a human being. Not only that, the outcome could be exactly what you wanted all along, if you focus on it.
I'd rather have a life of "oh wells" than "what ifs"
Well what if you don't, what are the reasons behind that?
Don't what?
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Go out of their comfort zone to reach out?
Posted by SingASong41
Posted by notafollower
Posted by SingASong41
Tell! How can we help if we don't know the full story? Come on, don't be so vague.In any case, you could always be honest with him. Being assertive isn't easy because it's forcing you out of your "comfort zone" (fear) but it makes things go along a lot quicker.
The more you keep feelings to yourself, the deeper they become and the harder it is to move past them.
Then again, I don't know the story. So, do tell. 🙂
It really is a long story which involves disappointment confusion and distance.
"The more you keep feelings to yourself, the deeper they become and the harder it is to move past them" I appreciate it , but id rather hear your own experience if you have one to share & would like to cause ik that deep down, no matter what you tell me ill be too insecure to do anything about the situation
Ah okay. I respect that.
I'll message you. Is that okay?click to expand
Do you think if, like the OP said, that there's disappointments, confusion amd distance involved it would male the virgo reclusive? @SingASong41
Posted by SingASong41
Posted by notafollower
Posted by SingASong41
Tell! How can we help if we don't know the full story? Come on, don't be so vague.In any case, you could always be honest with him. Being assertive isn't easy because it's forcing you out of your "comfort zone" (fear) but it makes things go along a lot quicker.
The more you keep feelings to yourself, the deeper they become and the harder it is to move past them.
Then again, I don't know the story. So, do tell. 🙂
It really is a long story which involves disappointment confusion and distance.
"The more you keep feelings to yourself, the deeper they become and the harder it is to move past them" I appreciate it , but id rather hear your own experience if you have one to share & would like to cause ik that deep down, no matter what you tell me ill be too insecure to do anything about the situation
Ah okay. I respect that.
I'll message you. Is that okay?click to expand
That would be nice (:
Posted by kissmygrits
Ya just going to have to take a giant shot of whiskey and go for it.
Lol . I dont drink
Posted by notafollower
Posted by kissmygrits
Ya just going to have to take a giant shot of whiskey and go for it.
Lol . I dont drink
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I said a shot not the bottle. Stay with me crab cousin.
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Posted by kissmygrits
Ya just going to have to take a giant shot of whiskey and go for it.
Lol . I dont drink
I said a shot not the bottle. Stay with me crab cousin.
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Hahahahaha . I dont drink though
How else can you be brave?
Posted by kissmygrits
How else can you be brave?
Well when i finally decide to do something that takes a lot of courage i just hide my hands . They shake like crazy lol
Posted by notafollower
Posted by starwars
Posted by notafollower
Posted by starwars
there's great and immediate attraction between virgos and crabs, but I don't think it work, not for me. id always choose an aqua over cancer!
Same. Yet i havent managed to meet an aqua thats made me feel as comfortable as he did
if you're still not over him why don't you talk to him and follow your gut?
Im insecure af. Its the truth. Though when it comes down to it he seems to feel the way i do... Im scared of getting hurt - all these questions come to mind like - he felt that way last time but what if hes over it now? Am i gonna make myself look desperate or stupid?. I guess you could say im a coward. But last time i made up my mind after talking to some guy on here , i saw him , he walked past me and didnt even look at me. & though there was a high chance he didnt see me i just made myself twice as insecure by telling myself he chose to ignore me
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Do you guys talk at all? ..are you still social media friends or anything?
Posted by Greentea
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Posted by starwars
Posted by notafollower
Posted by starwars
there's great and immediate attraction between virgos and crabs, but I don't think it work, not for me. id always choose an aqua over cancer!
Same. Yet i havent managed to meet an aqua thats made me feel as comfortable as he did
if you're still not over him why don't you talk to him and follow your gut?
Im insecure af. Its the truth. Though when it comes down to it he seems to feel the way i do... Im scared of getting hurt - all these questions come to mind like - he felt that way last time but what if hes over it now? Am i gonna make myself look desperate or stupid?. I guess you could say im a coward. But last time i made up my mind after talking to some guy on here , i saw him , he walked past me and didnt even look at me. & though there was a high chance he didnt see me i just made myself twice as insecure by telling myself he chose to ignore me
Do you guys talk at all? ..are you still social media friends or anything?
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Nothing. I changed my number after the last thing that happened & since then we havent talked
Posted by magnetoreborn
Oh wow, I just realized the OP is a Cancer Sun and Cancer Moon.
Lmao!
Just my luck...
What do you mean? & how did you know? Lol
Sound like OP has a new virgo to help her get over the old one. Lol
Posted by magnetoreborn
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Posted by magnetoreborn
Oh wow, I just realized the OP is a Cancer Sun and Cancer Moon.
Lmao!
Just my luck...
What do you mean? & how did you know? Lol
Oh hehe 😛 I did some investigative work by um...looking through your old posts and doing Control F "Sun" or Control F "Moon"
Please excuse my natural Scorpio Rising inclination.click to expand
Haha . What are your other placements?
You might be able to help me figure this lad out. 🙂
Posted by Greentea
Sound like OP has a new virgo to help her get over the old one. Lol
Tough task.. Haha
Posted by Westsidekodak
Posted by notafollower
How do you describe the feeling you get when you hold someones gaze for so long that you almost feel like you know everything that persons heart & mind is bearing that moment...
I feel like despite all the bs thats happened between me & the Virgo guy, we cant deny the connection we feel when were standing infront of each other , which is hard, because we both feel as if its the other ones fault & we are both hoping we can either forget that weve met or for the other person to take a step & discover why we have been feeling that way for so long and why is it so hard to fight it...
Anybody been in a situation like this before?
What were you mostly afraid of ?I totally feel this when I order a in and out double double with grilled onions. Them feels overwhelm the senses you know?
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No cheese? Oh . Okay
Posted by magnetoreborn
Posted by notafollower
Posted by magnetoreborn
Posted by notafollower
Posted by magnetoreborn
Oh wow, I just realized the OP is a Cancer Sun and Cancer Moon.
Lmao!
Just my luck...
What do you mean? & how did you know? Lol
Oh hehe 😛 I did some investigative work by um...looking through your old posts and doing Control F "Sun" or Control F "Moon"
Please excuse my natural Scorpio Rising inclination.
Haha . What are your other placements?
You might be able to help me figure this lad out. 🙂
Leo Moon/Venus and Libra Mars/Mercury/Jupiter
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You are joking . Thats exactly like his , except he has a Scorpio moon - so when are you free? Lol
Posted by notafollower
How do you describe the feeling you get when you hold someones gaze for so long that you almost feel like you know everything that persons heart & mind is bearing that moment...
Delusion.
Posted by Westsidekodak
Posted by Westsidekodak
Posted by notafollower
Posted by Westsidekodak
Posted by notafollower
How do you describe the feeling you get when you hold someones gaze for so long that you almost feel like you know everything that persons heart & mind is bearing that moment...
I feel like despite all the bs thats happened between me & the Virgo guy, we cant deny the connection we feel when were standing infront of each other , which is hard, because we both feel as if its the other ones fault & we are both hoping we can either forget that weve met or for the other person to take a step & discover why we have been feeling that way for so long and why is it so hard to fight it...
Anybody been in a situation like this before?
What were you mostly afraid of ?I totally feel this when I order a in and out double double with grilled onions. Them feels overwhelm the senses you know?
No cheese? Oh . Okay
Cheese is standard missy. Like my love.
I LOLed when I wrote that, so I had to commit to it. haha
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I was gonna say.. All that onion lol
Posted by magnetoreborn
Posted by notafollower
Posted by magnetoreborn
Posted by notafollower
Posted by magnetoreborn
Posted by notafollower
Posted by magnetoreborn
Oh wow, I just realized the OP is a Cancer Sun and Cancer Moon.
Lmao!
Just my luck...
What do you mean? & how did you know? Lol
Oh hehe 😛 I did some investigative work by um...looking through your old posts and doing Control F "Sun" or Control F "Moon"
Please excuse my natural Scorpio Rising inclination.
Haha . What are your other placements?
You might be able to help me figure this lad out. 🙂
Leo Moon/Venus and Libra Mars/Mercury/Jupiter
You are joking . Thats exactly like his , except he has a Scorpio moon - so when are you free? Lol
Oh wow, his birthday must be between September 13-19 then and he must be born in 1993.
And I'm free whenever if you need someone to talk to in order to understand Virgos 🙂 - except for New Years that isclick to expand
Exactly Sep 19th '93 - & i tried messaging you but It wont allow me
Posted by Damnata
Posted by notafollower
How do you describe the feeling you get when you hold someones gaze for so long that you almost feel like you know everything that persons heart & mind is bearing that moment...
Delusion.
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Yup, wishful thinking
Posted by starwars
Posted by notafollower
Posted by magnetoreborn
Oh wow, I just realized the OP is a Cancer Sun and Cancer Moon.
Lmao!
Just my luck...
What do you mean? & how did you know? Lol
are you though? ive always thought you were an aquarius!
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I get that a lot for some reason & yes I am
Posted by starwars
Posted by notafollower
Posted by starwars
Posted by notafollower
Posted by magnetoreborn
Oh wow, I just realized the OP is a Cancer Sun and Cancer Moon.
Lmao!
Just my luck...
What do you mean? & how did you know? Lol
are you though? ive always thought you were an aquarius!
I get that a lot for some reason & yes I am
shit im sorry, I've mistaken you with flowingwater! shes an aquarius! -I guess lol-
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Thats ok lol
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How do you describe the feeling you get when you hold someones gaze for so long that you almost feel like you know everything that persons heart & mind is bearing that moment...
I feel like despite all the bs thats happened between me & the Virgo guy, we cant deny the connection we feel when were standing infront of each other , which is hard, because we both feel as if its the other ones fault & we are both hoping we can either forget that weve met or for the other person to take a step & discover why we have been feeling that way for so long and why is it so hard to fight it...
Anybody been in a situation like this before?
What were you mostly afraid of ?