Hairazor
@Hairazor
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Virgo Man MIA!!!—
Another one bites the dust...j/K! 😛
There's alot of threads in this section to shed light on your situation. I don't know what to tell ya hun, sometimes we just go MIA...doesn't mean we don't care though. That's just the way it is... *shrugs*
There's alot of threads in this section to shed light on your situation. I don't know what to tell ya hun, sometimes we just go MIA...doesn't mean we don't care though. That's just the way it is... *shrugs*
Lol I've been reading them 😉
The dependability and the need for space is throwing me for a loop...
He's either contemplating on the relationship or he has moved on.
it's either you wait for him or try and contact his friends/affiliates
it's either you wait for him or try and contact his friends/affiliates
Yes, I would never call his friends or affiliates as this would invade his privacy and I would look needy and clingy.
Or stalkerish...
Hairazor, I've been married to a Virgo since 1982 ... and here's a bit of insight for you. Take it the way you want to, leave what isn't applicable.
First, the Virgo tries really hard not to be emotional, not to be overly expressive, not to surround themselves with the emotional part of life ... because it freaks them the fuck out, for the most part. They are so fucking logical and controlled, while emotions are pure chaos ... they tend to forsake the acceptance of this part of humanity.
while being human
So, with all things in life in which there is to react to, which is nearly everything since mankind has their fingers in all things ... this trait of pulling away from the emotional part of life becomes apparant in everything.
however, he is human, which means he cannot escape acting like it when touched.
When they are touched, the back off .. everything in life where their feelings may turn their organized life into chaos.
Take your situation ... he forgot that he was supposed to be a well-maintained machine, precise, logical .. and reacted to you according to how he feels. Suddenly he woke up from his bliss and realized that he, himself by virtue of "acting" emotional with you, threw a wrench into his own gears, and he showed feelings to you.
So he now has to pull away to analyze what the fuck just happened. During this time away, if he truly wants you and cares about you, he will make the assessment of whether it is ok to let you in, if it's ok to trust you with this emotional side of him in which he guards vehemently.
The best part of all of this is that once the Virgo does indeed trust you with being able to handle how he feels .. then you'll have a partner for life, so long as you continue to allow him to be worried about his feelings because he needs to do this, and if you don't push him to express the things he can't because he'll throw the wrench in his gears again and freak the fuck out over them causing him chaos.
First, the Virgo tries really hard not to be emotional, not to be overly expressive, not to surround themselves with the emotional part of life ... because it freaks them the fuck out, for the most part. They are so fucking logical and controlled, while emotions are pure chaos ... they tend to forsake the acceptance of this part of humanity.
while being human
So, with all things in life in which there is to react to, which is nearly everything since mankind has their fingers in all things ... this trait of pulling away from the emotional part of life becomes apparant in everything.
however, he is human, which means he cannot escape acting like it when touched.
When they are touched, the back off .. everything in life where their feelings may turn their organized life into chaos.
Take your situation ... he forgot that he was supposed to be a well-maintained machine, precise, logical .. and reacted to you according to how he feels. Suddenly he woke up from his bliss and realized that he, himself by virtue of "acting" emotional with you, threw a wrench into his own gears, and he showed feelings to you.
So he now has to pull away to analyze what the fuck just happened. During this time away, if he truly wants you and cares about you, he will make the assessment of whether it is ok to let you in, if it's ok to trust you with this emotional side of him in which he guards vehemently.
The best part of all of this is that once the Virgo does indeed trust you with being able to handle how he feels .. then you'll have a partner for life, so long as you continue to allow him to be worried about his feelings because he needs to do this, and if you don't push him to express the things he can't because he'll throw the wrench in his gears again and freak the fuck out over them causing him chaos.
Posted by P-Angel
Hairazor, I've been married to a Virgo since 1982 ... and here's a bit of insight for you. Take it the way you want to, leave what isn't applicable.
First, the Virgo tries really hard not to be emotional, not to be overly expressive, not to surround themselves with the emotional part of life ... because it freaks them the fuck out, for the most part. They are so fucking logical and controlled, while emotions are pure chaos ... they tend to forsake the acceptance of this part of humanity.
while being human
So, with all things in life in which there is to react to, which is nearly everything since mankind has their fingers in all things ... this trait of pulling away from the emotional part of life becomes apparant in everything.
however, he is human, which means he cannot escape acting like it when touched.
When they are touched, the back off .. everything in life where their feelings may turn their organized life into chaos.
Take your situation ... he forgot that he was supposed to be a well-maintained machine, precise, logical .. and reacted to you according to how he feels. Suddenly he woke up from his bliss and realized that he, himself by virtue of "acting" emotional with you, threw a wrench into his own gears, and he showed feelings to you.
So he now has to pull away to analyze what the fuck just happened. During this time away, if he truly wants you and cares about you, he will make the assessment of whether it is ok to let you in, if it's ok to trust you with this emotional side of him in which he guards vehemently.
The best part of all of this is that once the Virgo does indeed trust you with being able to handle how he feels .. then you'll have a partner for life, so long as you continue to allow him to be worried about his feelings because he needs to do this, and if you don't push him to express the things he can't because he'll throw the wrench in his gears again and freak the fuck out over them causing him chaos.
He's baaaaack! Lol! High 5 to all that you said. I think...He had just realized that I truly wasn't a drama queen when his "work" 😉 kept him longer and he thought I would be upset and I wasn't. Disappointed...yes...and so was he... and he let me know it. Will see him tomorrow night!! 😄
Some good points were made. Sometimes when a Virgo dates, they just want it to be casual. They want to flirt, talk, whatever, be in the moment. If the words, I love you, or any sign of you wanting to be in a relationship happen too early, it's like whoa! Wait a minute. We start thinking to ourselves that we didn't plan on moving too fast or asking, what was wrong with how things were going this far? Usually when a Virgo disappears that means that they are not interested or maybe somebody else has come into their life. Hopefully that is not the case here.
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