Virgo man with Virgo moon and Scorpio female Aries moon compatibility

So the love of my life is a Virgo! He is 38 and I’m 29. We started off pretty good he let me know from the start what he wanted which was someone who knows how to take care of a man and help with his children while he works hard. I am former stay at home mom going through a divorce so I really was focusing on my career and really didn’t want to dedicate my life to another man in that way plus he wanted me to move to another state with him. We talked for hours on the phone I mean talking all day! While I’m at work, lunch break and my ride home only to talk all night but we keep separating. It’s like we are good for 2 to 3 months then we have a disagreement and he stops talking to me. Then I call him after a few months and everything is back to normal only for us to stop talking again. The last time we stop talking is after disagreements and arguement because I missed him and I’m mean when I miss someone I feel like he acts out when we feel like I don’t care but I’m not actually sure we are great together the sex is amazing and he always say stuff like “we are a great team” and “how comfortable he is with me”, “ who is going to go through all I did to make him comfortable” he showed me his home to prove that he was single and asked me to visit but I declined but he came to see me every week end and stayed at my house weeks at a time. We went on horse carriage rides and a day trip but i was guarded and depressed. He cooked for me helped me when I needed it he was my best friend but he left me for the third time after I requested to be friends. I didn’t mean platonic friends but I had a pregnancy scare and wanted to slow down we talked about marriage and told each other everything on one occasion he said I was too volatile and needed to let him hook me but now he is gone again and I now I’m forced to look at the role I played and now I’m sorry he reads my messges but doesn’t respond I’m just wondering if he finally got tired of me and found somebody else. I felt like he was kind of a liar he promised me stuff but didn’t deliver sometimes it seem like he wanted to give me what I wanted he brought me small gifts everytime he came over he learned what I liked and we would hid together in my house having sex and eating lol. He wanted to go out but I didn’t I work during the week so the weekend is when I’m off so i prefer to relax other than that we were okay. Now after explaining all that I want to know are we just not meant to be? It’s hurts me to type that but I’m scared. I told him all my fears and what I want but he does not reply he just reads my messeges. I’m going to his city this weekend and I’m scared but also very excited, should I be or will he continue to ignore me? I need help

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Mines

Moon: Aries, Mercury: Scorpio, Venus: Libra Mars: Aries, Jupiter: Gemini , Saturn: Capricorn, Uranus: Saggittarius, Neptune: Capricorn, Pluto: Scorpio

His

Moon: Virgo, Mercury: Libra, Venus: Libra, Mars: Cancer, Jupiter: Leo , Saturn: Virgo, Uranus: Scorpio, Neptune: Sagittarius , Pluto: Libra

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Mines
Moon: Aries, Mercury: Scorpio, Venus: Libra Mars: Aries, Jupiter: Gemini , Saturn: Capricorn, Uranus: Saggittarius, Neptune: Capricorn, Pluto: Scorpio

His
Moon: Virgo, Mercury: Libra, Venus: Libra, Mars: Cancer, Jupiter: Leo , Saturn: Virgo, Uranus: Scorpio, Neptune: Sagittarius , Pluto: Libra
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I don't have the degrees so it won't be as exact, but at first glance I see his Uranus is connected to your sun and mercury which is the reason why your conversations are so good he is able to make you think in new ways. Your Venuses are connected meaning that your romantic style s are the same hints the horse and carriage ride. The big problem is both of your mars are at odds with each other, your arise mars is too pushy and inpatient. He has a cancer mars that likes to take things slow and really gets offended easily

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Mines
Moon: Aries, Mercury: Scorpio, Venus: Libra Mars: Aries, Jupiter: Gemini , Saturn: Capricorn, Uranus: Saggittarius, Neptune: Capricorn, Pluto: Scorpio

His
Moon: Virgo, Mercury: Libra, Venus: Libra, Mars: Cancer, Jupiter: Leo , Saturn: Virgo, Uranus: Scorpio, Neptune: Sagittarius , Pluto: Libra
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I don't have the degrees so it won't be as exact, but at first glance I see his Uranus is connected to your sun and mercury which is the reason why your conversations are so good he is able to make you think in new ways. Your Venuses are connected meaning that your romantic style s are the same hints the horse and carriage ride. The big problem is both of your mars are at odds with each other, your arise mars is too pushy and inpatient. He has a cancer mars that likes to take things slow and really gets offended easily click to expand

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So do you think our differences are too much! I agree on the sensitive part he got offended because he offered me his Range Rover to drive but I playfully said it didnt have a back up camera and I needed one. I apologized but I can tell he was affected. What do you recommend since you are a Virgo do you think he will come back to me

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I uploaded the both of our charts click to expand

Mines
Moon: Aries, Mercury: Scorpio, Venus: Libra Mars: Aries, Jupiter: Gemini , Saturn: Capricorn, Uranus: Saggittarius, Neptune: Capricorn, Pluto: Scorpio

His
Moon: Virgo, Mercury: Libra, Venus: Libra, Mars: Cancer, Jupiter: Leo , Saturn: Virgo, Uranus: Scorpio, Neptune: Sagittarius , Pluto: Libra
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I don't have the degrees so it won't be as exact, but at first glance I see his Uranus is connected to your sun and mercury which is the reason why your conversations are so good he is able to make you think in new ways. Your Venuses are connected meaning that your romantic style s are the same hints the horse and carriage ride. The big problem is both of your mars are at odds with each other, your arise mars is too pushy and inpatient. He has a cancer mars that likes to take things slow and really gets offended easily click to expand

So do you think our differences are too much! I agree on the sensitive part he got offended because he offered me his Range Rover to drive but I playfully said it didnt have a back up camera and I needed one. I apologized but I can tell he was affected. What do you recommend since you are a Virgo do you think he will come back to me click to expand

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Its possible I would need the time of birth or just give me both of your full b days this way I can do a chart to see how bad or good it is.

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Posted by virgoking22
need the whole chart

I uploaded the both of our charts click to expand

Mines
Moon: Aries, Mercury: Scorpio, Venus: Libra Mars: Aries, Jupiter: Gemini , Saturn: Capricorn, Uranus: Saggittarius, Neptune: Capricorn, Pluto: Scorpio

His
Moon: Virgo, Mercury: Libra, Venus: Libra, Mars: Cancer, Jupiter: Leo , Saturn: Virgo, Uranus: Scorpio, Neptune: Sagittarius , Pluto: Libra
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I don't have the degrees so it won't be as exact, but at first glance I see his Uranus is connected to your sun and mercury which is the reason why your conversations are so good he is able to make you think in new ways. Your Venuses are connected meaning that your romantic style s are the same hints the horse and carriage ride. The big problem is both of your mars are at odds with each other, your arise mars is too pushy and inpatient. He has a cancer mars that likes to take things slow and really gets offended easily click to expand

So do you think our differences are too much! I agree on the sensitive part he got offended because he offered me his Range Rover to drive but I playfully said it didnt have a back up camera and I needed one. I apologized but I can tell he was affected. What do you recommend since you are a Virgo do you think he will come back to me click to expand

Its possible I would need the time of birth or just give me both of your full b days this way I can do a chart to see how bad or good it is. click to expand

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11/21/88 and 09/21/79

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Posted by virgoking22
need the whole chart

I uploaded the both of our charts click to expand

Mines
Moon: Aries, Mercury: Scorpio, Venus: Libra Mars: Aries, Jupiter: Gemini , Saturn: Capricorn, Uranus: Saggittarius, Neptune: Capricorn, Pluto: Scorpio

His
Moon: Virgo, Mercury: Libra, Venus: Libra, Mars: Cancer, Jupiter: Leo , Saturn: Virgo, Uranus: Scorpio, Neptune: Sagittarius , Pluto: Libra
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I don't have the degrees so it won't be as exact, but at first glance I see his Uranus is connected to your sun and mercury which is the reason why your conversations are so good he is able to make you think in new ways. Your Venuses are connected meaning that your romantic style s are the same hints the horse and carriage ride. The big problem is both of your mars are at odds with each other, your arise mars is too pushy and inpatient. He has a cancer mars that likes to take things slow and really gets offended easily click to expand

So do you think our differences are too much! I agree on the sensitive part he got offended because he offered me his Range Rover to drive but I playfully said it didnt have a back up camera and I needed one. I apologized but I can tell he was affected. What do you recommend since you are a Virgo do you think he will come back to me click to expand

Its possible I would need the time of birth or just give me both of your full b days this way I can do a chart to see how bad or good it is. click to expand

11/21/88 and 09/21/79 click to expand

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Well if the info is right you and him have different moon signs his is 0 libra and your is in 3 degree taurus. And looks like your saturn in cap is squaring his moon, mercury and venus. Thats not good he feels like you are nagging him.

but I found another thing your chiron is connect to his mars.

here is a break down.

Chiron-Mars: Harmonious aspects indicate healing through sex and joint action. Past hurts in regards to sexuality and aggression are healed through this union. Hard aspects between Chiron and Mars in synastry can be difficult to handle. Through conflict, Mars person may (inadvertently) re-open Chiron’s past wounds and hurts. Chiron may feel the Mars person is unsympathetic and cruel, while the Mars person may find the Chiron person overly-sensitive. Chiron may also (inadvertently) re-open Mars’ wounds, as they relate to sexuality, drive, and action

Okay who is mars

By the way your neptune is negativly effecting his venus here the break down.



When Venus meets Neptune in synastry, a soul connection is indicated. You probably met each other when you were looking for the relationship of your dreams. We all have an idea of our perfect match, our knight in shining armor with whom we will share a fairy-tale love story. When someone’s Neptune makes an aspect to your Venus, you feel as though your dreams have come true.



With this aspect comes the tendency to view each other in the best light possible. The little, or big, characteristics that would normally bother you about someone are glossed over in favor of their better qualities. The Venus person tends to project her fantasies onto the Neptune person, assigning him the qualities of her ideal match. The Neptune person may or may not actually possess these qualities, but tends to play along to please the Venus person.



The couple gets caught up in the other-worldliness and fantasy the relationship offers. This can cause major problems later on, as Neptune is bound to err in some way or another, which leads to disappointment on the part of the Venus person. Venus’ refusal to see Neptune for who he really is lends itself to self-defeating behavior; in reality, no one is perfect, so Neptune will eventually fall off the pedestal Venus holds him so highly upon.



Another danger of this aspect is outright deception. Yes, Neptune feels pressure to fulfill the fantasies of the Venus person. Like Venus, Neptune aims to please. This desire to keep Venus’ fantasy alive could lead Neptune to lie and deceive the Venus person. While on some level, Venus may feel something is not quite right, she subconsciously chooses to overlook these inconsistencies, thereby ignoring the truth to keep the dream alive. Usually, Venus eventually realizes Neptune is human, and he isn’t perfect, which can lead to disappointment and a broken heart.



Another manifestation of this aspect involves a victim-savior scenario. Venus may be drawn to Neptune because he needs “help”. Perhaps he is an alcoholic. Perhaps he is a drug addict. Perhaps he has unresolved issues from the past which he is dealing with. Neptune draws out Venus’ compassion and sensitivity, stimulating her desire to “save” him. This can be dangerous, as the relationship can become unhealthily co-dependent.

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Okay who is mars

He is mars

Okay