@Redbull33
8 Years
Scorpio women please help!! Whats she doing to me? Sex then cold
Understanding Scorpio Women’s Emotional Behavior
Scorpio women often experience intense emotions and can be unpredictable due to past relationship trauma. Their mood swings and distant behavior may reflect vulnerability and a need for emotional security. Respect her boundaries while showing consistent care. Building trust takes time, and patience is key to understanding her deeper feelings.
Do you Scorpios just tell your treetrunk buddies that you love them when you've had too much to drink
Sounds like she has been seriously hurt in the past
She sounds wounded
She sounds hurt, IDK but she seems like she was mistreated in the past by an ex lover maybe? But that’s just me talking from little to no knowledge of the situation.
Posted by Geniass
She sounds hurt, IDK but she seems like she was mistreated in the past by an ex lover maybe? But that’s just me talking from little to no knowledge of the situation.
I would say you are dead on
I've been like this in the past.....it isn't game playing, it's due to huge vulnerability
How come so many attempts at leaving you? What did you do to cause her to want to leave you? We’re there arguments?
Without hearing more. Her behavior sounds as if she is not satisfied with the relationship and wants out, but for whatever reason (maybe boredom, loneliness, you seduce her etc) she keeps coming back.
Posted by Geniass
She sounds hurt, IDK but she seems like she was mistreated in the past by an ex lover maybe? But that’s just me talking from little to no knowledge of the situation.I would say you are dead on
I've been like this in the past.....it isn't game playing, it's due to huge vulnerability
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Oh yeah, I’ve been too. It affected me very much and changed several parts of me that I still discover till this very day. One day we will forgive and forget, not for anybody but for ourselves.
Yea shes been hurt by 2 different people.. last one was abusive. But I try to show her i care by always being there. I want to reach out to her but don't want to come off as needy since her replies are short. Just not sure why she'd say i love you when drunk since shes never crossed that line before
Posted by Geniass
She sounds hurt, IDK but she seems like she was mistreated in the past by an ex lover maybe? But that’s just me talking from little to no knowledge of the situation.I would say you are dead on
I've been like this in the past.....it isn't game playing, it's due to huge vulnerability
Oh yeah, I’ve been too. It affected me very much and changed several parts of me that I still discover till this very day. One day we will forgive and forget, not for anybody but for ourselves.
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I get that totally
You a Scorp .. where is your moon?
Posted by Redbull33
Yea shes been hurt by 2 different people.. last one was abusive. But I try to show her i care by always being there. I want to reach out to her but don't want to come off as needy since her replies are short. Just not sure why she'd say i love you when drunk since shes never crossed that line before
Did the *I love you* happen when you were having sex, Redbull?
Posted by CreativeCap
How come so many attempts at leaving you? What did you do to cause her to want to leave you? We’re there arguments?Without hearing more. Her behavior sounds as if she is not satisfied with the relationship and wants out, but for whatever reason (maybe boredom, loneliness, you seduce her etc) she keeps coming back.
At first it was because she was in a relationship with the abusive ex, and said she never does stuff like that (cheating). But after they broke up she said to leave her alone because she thought I wanted a relationship. Then comes back 7 months later. Never pushed me away from arguments or anything of the sort..
Posted by Redbull33
Yea shes been hurt by 2 different people.. last one was abusive. But I try to show her i care by always being there. I want to reach out to her but don't want to come off as needy since her replies are short. Just not sure why she'd say i love you when drunk since shes never crossed that line beforeDid the *I love you* happen when you were having sex, Redbull?
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No it happened afterwards when we were going to sleep and completely out of nowhere.
Posted by Redbull33
Yea shes been hurt by 2 different people.. last one was abusive. But I try to show her i care by always being there. I want to reach out to her but don't want to come off as needy since her replies are short. Just not sure why she'd say i love you when drunk since shes never crossed that line beforeDid the *I love you* happen when you were having sex, Redbull?
No it happened afterwards when we were going to sleep and completely out of nowhere.
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I mainly trying to decipher if it was genuine or if it was just drunk talk. Not sure if you Scorpios let out true emotions when you're drunk or what
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
Have you ever talked to her directly about her hot and cold behavior before?
No I haven't I just figured she needs some space so I gave her it
Posted by Redbull33
Yea shes been hurt by 2 different people.. last one was abusive. But I try to show her i care by always being there. I want to reach out to her but don't want to come off as needy since her replies are short. Just not sure why she'd say i love you when drunk since shes never crossed that line beforeDid the *I love you* happen when you were having sex, Redbull?
No it happened afterwards when we were going to sleep and completely out of nowhere.
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Sounds like she needs time to heal from the abuse
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
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Have you ever talked to her directly about her hot and cold behavior before?No I haven't I just figured she needs some space so I gave her it
Well after her space period is over, you should talk to her about this
Tell her how you feel and show her your vulnerability
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It seems like every time I tried to be vulnerable to her invoice my genuine interest she backs away in fear of the thought of becoming too attached. Maybe unsure if I'll hurt her again or what. She's told me I treat her better than any man has ever treated her so I don't know
Do Scorpio say I love you like that to just anyone when they've had too much to drink!? I never in a million years would have thought I would hear her say that. That's why I ask
I think you just need to keep showing her that you are there for her. She sounds like she really likes you and as others have pointed out she is very afraid to trust you and we all know how hard it is for a Scorpio to trust never mind a very wounded one. If you really want this you will need to reassure her as much as possible. If you can't see this through for the long haul it's best to walk away now to not cause further hurt and damage to her. If you love het, keep showing her as you are already doing.
I hope you two find love and happiness x
Remember also Scorpios connect through sex. If she been in an abusive relationship it could be her struggling with something that could of happened to her in the past. A painful memory but being with you in that beautiful way is causing all sorts of emotions.
Shrug hard to say in these situations when you don't know someone personally
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
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Have you ever talked to her directly about her hot and cold behavior before?No I haven't I just figured she needs some space so I gave her it
Well after her space period is over, you should talk to her about this
Tell her how you feel and show her your vulnerability
It seems like every time I tried to be vulnerable to her invoice my genuine interest she backs away in fear of the thought of becoming too attached. Maybe unsure if I'll hurt her again or what. She's told me I treat her better than any man has ever treated her so I don't know
These are deep psychological wounds
She needs therapy
You can’t fix her
She probably had an abusive or mean father figure
She will stick around you if you are abusive and controlling because that is what feels comfortable to her
Me for example, anybody who treats me well—I don’t like
Anyone who treats me like shit—I go crazy for him
I see my pattern and am trying to give nicer guys a chance
She needs to see this and want to change from within
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Well that's why she broke up with her ex because he was abusive. Her father was not abusive either
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
I think you just need to keep showing her that you are there for her. She sounds like she really likes you and as others have pointed out she is very afraid to trust you and we all know how hard it is for a Scorpio to trust never mind a very wounded one. If you really want this you will need to reassure her as much as possible. If you can't see this through for the long haul it's best to walk away now to not cause further hurt and damage to her. If you love het, keep showing her as you are already doing.I hope you two find love and happiness x
Remember also Scorpios connect through sex. If she been in an abusive relationship it could be her struggling with something that could of happened to her in the past. A painful memory but being with you in that beautiful way is causing all sorts of emotions.
Shrug hard to say in these situations when you don't know someone personally
Im in it for the long haul.. Ive invested too much to quit now. And i want to be there for her cause i feel like she needs someone to be. But then acts as if she doesnt by being so distant. She was sexually abused to. Just trying to figure out how to get closer without being annoying
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
I think you just need to keep showing her that you are there for her. She sounds like she really likes you and as others have pointed out she is very afraid to trust you and we all know how hard it is for a Scorpio to trust never mind a very wounded one. If you really want this you will need to reassure her as much as possible. If you can't see this through for the long haul it's best to walk away now to not cause further hurt and damage to her. If you love het, keep showing her as you are already doing.I hope you two find love and happiness x
Remember also Scorpios connect through sex. If she been in an abusive relationship it could be her struggling with something that could of happened to her in the past. A painful memory but being with you in that beautiful way is causing all sorts of emotions.
Shrug hard to say in these situations when you don't know someone personally
Im in it for the long haul.. Ive invested too much to quit now. And i want to be there for her cause i feel like she needs someone to be. But then acts as if she doesnt by being so distant. She was sexually abused to. Just trying to figure out how to get closer without being annoying
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Have an open and honest conversation with her
Wow a Scorpio not caring about your feelings, and crushing your emotions almost to death?
Sumthin ain't right 😂😂😂😂😂
I mean they're usually all strawberries and puppies in waterparks.
Posted by bricklemark
Wow a Scorpio not caring about your feelings, and crushing your emotions almost to death?Sumthin ain't right 😂😂😂😂😂
I mean they're usually all strawberries and puppies in waterparks.
Lol literally
Posted by Redbull33
Do you Scorpios just tell your treetrunk buddies that you love them when you've had too much to drinkWe can be good liars when we want to, if she trully loved you then she wouldn't go on and off all the time. But Taurus is too blind to see this.
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Sure. You're just full of negative energy. I see all your depressing posts. You probably got slits all across your wrists and havnt been fucked in years. I don't want your emo advice
Posted by Impulsv
No not a testShe wants you to man up
Tell her you love her n initiate constantly like a normal man would in prrsuit
I have initiated constantly, but do not want to come off as desperate because im not. Shes also is the type that gets non stop attention from other guys. 1k likes on photos etc. I'm just trying to understand the mindset behind this Behavior
Posted by Redbull33
Do you Scorpios just tell your treetrunk buddies that you love them when you've had too much to drinkWe can be good liars when we want to, if she trully loved you then she wouldn't go on and off all the time. But Taurus is too blind to see this.
Sure. You're just full of negative energy. I see all your depressing posts. You probably got slits all across your wrists and havnt been fucked in years. I don't want your emo advice
Oh boy, this girl your frothing all over is trying to get away from you for a good reason by the looks of things bucko.
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Well then why doesn't she stay away? And I actually showered her with attention in the beginning.. almost too much. Then began backing off a bit when she did. No one likes a Stage 5 Clinger
Posted by Impulsv
Ok she told you she loved youIf you didn’t return it
I got my answer n try to move on
Of course I returned it. And thanks for your insight
Posted by Redbull33
Do you Scorpios just tell your treetrunk buddies that you love them when you've had too much to drinkWe can be good liars when we want to, if she trully loved you then she wouldn't go on and off all the time. But Taurus is too blind to see this.
Sure. You're just full of negative energy. I see all your depressing posts. You probably got slits all across your wrists and havnt been fucked in years. I don't want your emo advice
Oh boy, this girl your frothing all over is trying to get away from you for a good reason by the looks of things bucko.
Well then why doesn't she stay away? And I actually showered her with attention in the beginning.. almost too much. Then began backing off a bit when she did. No one likes a Stage 5 Clinger
Then why doesn't she stay in your bed every other night and cook you waffles in the morning and do your laundry?
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Because I make my own waffles and do my own laundry
Posted by Redbull33
Do you Scorpios just tell your treetrunk buddies that you love them when you've had too much to drinkWe can be good liars when we want to, if she trully loved you then she wouldn't go on and off all the time. But Taurus is too blind to see this.
Sure. You're just full of negative energy. I see all your depressing posts. You probably got slits all across your wrists and havnt been fucked in years. I don't want your emo advice
Yeah, you should totally run out and find you a Scorpio woman. Your tact and manners are so to die for!
You should have them crawling all over you.
True colours much?
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Not at all I've just seen enough of her posts to know she brings nothing but negative energy to everything she comments on.
Posted by Redbull33
Do you Scorpios just tell your treetrunk buddies that you love them when you've had too much to drinkWe can be good liars when we want to, if she trully loved you then she wouldn't go on and off all the time. But Taurus is too blind to see this.
Sure. You're just full of negative energy. I see all your depressing posts. You probably got slits all across your wrists and havnt been fucked in years. I don't want your emo advice
Lmao what "negative energy" ? My life is good. However you sound like you were hurt. Only the truth hurts. That scorpio chick doesn't give a fuck about you, you're her toy and now I understand why she's manipulating you, you're a sensitive bitch. Grow some balls and move on.
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Manipulating me by treetrunking me everytime? Haha I guess I'll take that manipulation all day then..
Posted by Redbull33
I just need some serious insight please..Im a taurus, shes a scopio sun/moon. We met about a year ago. When we first met she used to text me every day like i was the best thing that ever happened to her. Shed tell me how much she liked me. She's had a few bad relationships in the past. I was very sweet and caring and still am. When we had sex she would have a an emotional breakdown and tell me to lose her number. We would end up hanging out a few months later, sex again. Then she would tell me leave her alone. Blocked me from social media. Met up a month later, had sex again... told me to 'seriously leave her alone' so i did. We went 7 months without talking, i initiated contact and we hung out again for the first time recently. We had a good time, she stayed over we had sex again and then she told me she loved me for the 1st time.. but was drunk. Now shes acting distant
What is this. A test? I actually love her, and i think she knows it.. But i give her her space when she does this. I just don't know if I should keep pursuing or whats going thrunthat beautiful little mind of hers.
No one does anything to you that you don't actively participate in as well. You can get off the roller coaster at any time.
She's using you. All she wants right now is sex from you hence why she tells you to leave her alone after and doesn't talk to you for a while. Once she gets what she wants at that time she's out. The whole I love you thing is just to keep you near. Her defense will be she was drunk. Move on
Posted by Redbull33
Do you Scorpios just tell your treetrunk buddies that you love them when you've had too much to drinkWe can be good liars when we want to, if she trully loved you then she wouldn't go on and off all the time. But Taurus is too blind to see this.
Sure. You're just full of negative energy. I see all your depressing posts. You probably got slits all across your wrists and havnt been fucked in years. I don't want your emo advice
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i think you should be open to what this scorpio is saying
redbull
guard your heart a little more
hurt people hurt other people
she might just be using you for emotional comfort / stringing you along and might be in denial about it
or maybe not be in denial about it
all the scorpio women i know knew when they truly loved someone vs those they used to soothe insecurities that came from rejection or childhood trauma
Posted by Impulsv
No not a testShe wants you to man up
Tell her you love her n initiate constantly like a normal man would in prrsuit
I have initiated constantly, but do not want to come off as desperate because im not. Shes also is the type that gets non stop attention from other guys. 1k likes on photos etc. I'm just trying to understand the mindset behind this Behavior
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you can pay for likes and follows you know?
thats a thing just fyi
don't let infatuation blind you
Posted by Redbull33
Do you Scorpios just tell your treetrunk buddies that you love them when you've had too much to drinkWe can be good liars when we want to, if she trully loved you then she wouldn't go on and off all the time. But Taurus is too blind to see this.
Sure. You're just full of negative energy. I see all your depressing posts. You probably got slits all across your wrists and havnt been fucked in years. I don't want your emo advice
Yeah, you should totally run out and find you a Scorpio woman. Your tact and manners are so to die for!
You should have them crawling all over you.
True colours much?
Not at all I've just seen enough of her posts to know she brings nothing but negative energy to everything she comments on.
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not into negative energy?
you sure you want to date a scorpio?
Posted by Redbull33
Do you Scorpios just tell your treetrunk buddies that you love them when you've had too much to drinkWe can be good liars when we want to, if she trully loved you then she wouldn't go on and off all the time. But Taurus is too blind to see this.
Sure. You're just full of negative energy. I see all your depressing posts. You probably got slits all across your wrists and havnt been fucked in years. I don't want your emo advice
Lmao what "negative energy" ? My life is good. However you sound like you were hurt. Only the truth hurts. That scorpio chick doesn't give a fuck about you, you're her toy and now I understand why she's manipulating you, you're a sensitive bitch. Grow some balls and move on.
Manipulating me by treetrunking me everytime? Haha I guess I'll take that manipulation all day then..
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lol
women's number one tool for manipulation is sex
both giving and withholding
everyone knows that
dude come on!!
Posted by xoxscorpio
She's using you. All she wants right now is sex from you hence why she tells you to leave her alone after and doesn't talk to you for a while. Once she gets what she wants at that time she's out. The whole I love you thing is just to keep you near. Her defense will be she was drunk. Move on
Agreed.
It’s sounds like she feels very insecure in this situation
Posted by Redbull33
Do you Scorpios just tell your treetrunk buddies that you love them when you've had too much to drinkWe can be good liars when we want to, if she trully loved you then she wouldn't go on and off all the time. But Taurus is too blind to see this.
Sure. You're just full of negative energy. I see all your depressing posts. You probably got slits all across your wrists and havnt been fucked in years. I don't want your emo advice
Lmao what "negative energy" ? My life is good. However you sound like you were hurt. Only the truth hurts. That scorpio chick doesn't give a fuck about you, you're her toy and now I understand why she's manipulating you, you're a sensitive bitch. Grow some balls and move on.
Manipulating me by treetrunking me everytime? Haha I guess I'll take that manipulation all day then..
Take it, choke up with it and stop whinning. Also don't date a scorpio if you don't like "negativity".
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No ones whining* Just not seeking advice from a depressed invidivual who cant even spell..
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I just need some serious insight please..
Im a taurus, shes a scopio sun/moon. We met about a year ago. When we first met she used to text me every day like i was the best thing that ever happened to her. Shed tell me how much she liked me. She's had a few bad relationships in the past. I was very sweet and caring and still am. When we had sex she would have a an emotional breakdown and tell me to lose her number. We would end up hanging out a few months later, sex again. Then she would tell me leave her alone. Blocked me from social media. Met up a month later, had sex again... told me to 'seriously leave her alone' so i did. We went 7 months without talking, i initiated contact and we hung out again for the first time recently. We had a good time, she stayed over we had sex again and then she told me she loved me for the 1st time.. but was drunk. Now shes acting distant
What is this. A test? I actually love her, and i think she knows it.. But i give her her space when she does this. I just don't know if I should keep pursuing or whats going thrunthat beautiful little mind of hers.