Is she interested?

Hi Guys! Soo, met scorp girl at a club last Wed night. We danced all night (really sexually), kissed quite a bit and she kept putting my hands on her a.ss. We exchanged #s and added each other on snapchat.

I left before her and text her once I got home to see she was safe. We continued to text all Thursday. Her replies were fast within the same min or a few mins later. Thursday 6pm I turned my phone off until Friday 6pm. When I turned it back on I saw she had whatsapped me Thur night and sent me a sexy snap of her dancing in lingerie Fri morning. I called her Friday night wanting to see her but she was already out. She suggested Wednesday instead as she had the day off. We left it at that. Later on she texts "are you awake". I say yes of course. Hour later she texts again "im on my way home". I didn't know what to say so replied "OK thanks for letting me know lol ". We send 1 text back and forth. Sat I text her and she's short and takes forever to respond. She calls me Sat arvo when she finished her shift. We speak for about 20mins. Good chat and we have a laugh. Didn't speak rest of Sat or Sunday but watched each others snap stories.

I text her this morning as I saw on snapchat she couldn't sleep last night. She replied an hour later. Question to you all is, how can I make sure to land a date on Wed for sure? I feel I need to make progress in person as texting doesn't seem to be getting anywhere. Also, does she even seem interested? It's just moving so slow. I've never had a scorp girl before.

She said to me when we spoke on the phone on Sat 2 things she really likes about me is that I'm intelligent and strong. She also remembers EVERYTHING I've said and done since the night we met.

Also update. We sent a few texts this morning then she called me. She said something to know about her is that she doesn't like texting she prefers calling as through texting sometimes you cannot get your point across or the tone of what you're trying to say. Anyway we chatted for about 10mins as she was at work then she said she called because she wanted to hear my voice. I asked whether I shouldn't text her then and she said that I should but she will take long to reply.

So far so good. I think if I ask her for dinner this week she'll say yes. Any advice?

Yes, she's interested lol

she saved her wednesday for you.

Your communication style s are different so its best you begin adjusting and you can also reach out more frequently so she can adjust to you.

No matter what, don't get upset with the lack of needing to talk 24/7

some people aren't wired that way and she was clear about that.

Seems like all is good, Good luck! 🙂

Another point, I never realized that people take lack of 24/7 contact as a sign of possibly not being interested.

I do this alot, Im terrible at texting but can talk on the phone for hours

Advice?

If you keep texting instead of face-to-face talking, you'll end up wanking instead of having real sex!

Posted by wildflower
Yes, she's interested lol

she saved her wednesday for you.

Your communication style s are different so its best you begin adjusting and you can also reach out more frequently so she can adjust to you.

No matter what, don't get upset with the lack of needing to talk 24/7

some people aren't wired that way and she was clear about that.

Seems like all is good, Good luck!

Appreciate your response 🙂 well thing is I feel like nowadays people just say "yeah yeah we'll catch up on this day" and then the day comes around and they've made other plans. Perhaps I'm just used to dealing with a wishy washy Pisces. Like I said this is my first Scorp girl experience and I have no clue how they are. Your comments make me feel a little more secure lol

Posted by nano
"Are you awake"

Followed by

"I'm on my way home"

Lmao that girl was thirsty af for your D and you were oblivious!

lol to be honest I originally thought she was implying "come over" but in a very subtle way. As a Gemini I'm not very good at subtlety. If you want something, you literally need to spell it out. Suppose I need to start picking up subtle hints then. I also didn't want to ask what she mean't by that as in case she wasn't implying to come over and I made myself look like a fool. I was just so confused because she made it clear she couldn't that night and then like 2 hours later she's like "im on my way home" lol

Following on, after the call we sent about 4 texts back and forth and my last one to her said "let me ask you something, I get the feeling you're a very private person. As in, you don't let too many people get close to you. Am I right?"

No response. No nothing. She hasn't looked at my snapchat story and she hasn't posted anything either which she seems to have done every morning since last week. Is it the scorpio new moon? I thought I'll let it go for today and I'll call her after work. Thoughts? Thanks guys.

OK but why ignore my texts? Bloody women! I guess she said she doesn't like it. Perhaps I'll call her at lunch. I've just been trying to play it cool not wanting to bother her or contact her too much. But OK I'll go in for it and call her and try land the dinner date for Wednesday. In person I know we'll do much better.

OK just rang her. She sounded happy to hear from me. We had a laugh again (we always seem to giggle?) lol anyway. I asked her when she was free hopefully Wed as I was busy Thur and Fri she was like "we can meet at the club" (the one we met at last Wednesday). She said she was already going to be in that area. I said "naah let's have dinner". She was like "dinner? OK" Anyway I told her I'd send her the details of the place and we confirmed for 8pm.

Then told her I'd let her go since we were both at work and she was like OK see you tomorrow and we hung up. Woohoooo! Thanks for the advice guys!

Why does she sound so "whatever" though? Is it a Scorpio thing? Have I just not triggered her interest enough yet?

Posted by Gemi13
Why does she sound so "whatever" though? Is it a Scorpio thing? Have I just not triggered her interest enough yet?

lol you are thinking too much.....

you made the right move to get dinner, set a time and date. Just go and have fun lol

also Im very nonchalant too, so stop thinking so much lol

She rang me last night at 11pm and was like I need to ask something. I said OK and she asks "is tomorrow a date?" I laughed and asked why she was even asking me that and said I don't know. She said she was on the phone to her best friend (who was at the club when we met) and was telling her her and I were having dinner and I had made reservations. Then the best friend apparently drilled into her head that this was a date.

Anyway the scorp was like I just need to be clear and honest I don't want a relationship. I was like OK relax. It's not a date and I'm not looking for a relationship at all. You and I are on the same page. Then I said so you're just after sex? And she said "no. I'm not that girl" I responded with OK good. Anyway we chit chatted for a bit but I calmed her concerns.

She had previously told me during our initial texting that she isn't gf material and doesn't want a relationship. She said its because at first its all nice and exciting and then she gets bored and ends it and the other person ends up upset and feeling used. She re itterated this all last night.

I explained to her my side that I have only been single just under 2 years after having a long term relo (5 yrs) and the last thing I was after is another serious relo. So anyway, we got off the phone but dinner is still on. As we were getting off the phone she asked twice if dinner was still on I was just like yes I guess so.

Go out for dinner and have a laugh together.....see how it goes......what's wrong with that?

Nothing wrong with it and that's all I'm in for. She's super attractive and sexy. We had a good vibe the night we met. I'm not after a relo either but I don't mind 'dating' people non exclusively and in a non serious manner (she seems to be the same). Yes I do want to get her into bed but outside of that, I'd actually like to get to know her

Posted by Gemi13
Nothing wrong with it and that's all I'm in for. She's super attractive and sexy. We had a good vibe the night we met. I'm not after a relo either but I don't mind 'dating' people non exclusively and in a non serious manner (she seems to be the same). Yes I do want to get her into bed but outside of that, I'd actually like to get to know her

Enjoy getting to know her 🙂

I'm a Scorpio and Gemini men always make me laugh my socks off

It doesn't have to be ALL about sex. Go for dinner and then go dancing ....

👍

Posted by nano

Posted by Gemi13
Nothing wrong with it and that's all I'm in for. She's super attractive and sexy. We had a good vibe the night we met. I'm not after a relo either but I don't mind 'dating' people non exclusively and in a non serious manner (she seems to be the same). Yes I do want to get her into bed but outside of that, I'd actually like to get to know her

Why? She literally just wants sex and told you that. And lol @ her saying she's "not that girl". You met in a club.... and she was immediately DTF. She's exactly "that girl". click to expand

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She seems like a nice person? Well she never actually said she just wanted sex. When we met at the club she was quite sexual in her dancing and the way she was acting toward me. Then 2 days later was when she said "I'm on my way home". We'll see what comes of tonight. Perhaps it will just be a hit and quit situation but we'll see.

Posted by Gemi13
Hi Guys! Soo, met scorp girl at a club last Wed night. We danced all night (really sexually), kissed quite a bit and she kept putting my hands on her a.ss. We exchanged #s and added each other on snapchat.

I left before her and text her once I got home to see she was safe. We continued to text all Thursday. Her replies were fast within the same min or a few mins later. Thursday 6pm I turned my phone off until Friday 6pm. When I turned it back on I saw she had whatsapped me Thur night and sent me a sexy snap of her dancing in lingerie Fri morning. I called her Friday night wanting to see her but she was already out. She suggested Wednesday instead as she had the day off. We left it at that. Later on she texts "are you awake". I say yes of course. Hour later she texts again "im on my way home". I didn't know what to say so replied "OK thanks for letting me know lol ". We send 1 text back and forth. Sat I text her and she's short and takes forever to respond. She calls me Sat arvo when she finished her shift. We speak for about 20mins. Good chat and we have a laugh. Didn't speak rest of Sat or Sunday but watched each others snap stories.

I text her this morning as I saw on snapchat she couldn't sleep last night. She replied an hour later. Question to you all is, how can I make sure to land a date on Wed for sure? I feel I need to make progress in person as texting doesn't seem to be getting anywhere. Also, does she even seem interested? It's just moving so slow. I've never had a scorp girl before.

She said to me when we spoke on the phone on Sat 2 things she really likes about me is that I'm intelligent and strong. She also remembers EVERYTHING I've said and done since the night we met.

I think in general highly scorpio influenced love to take their time

to know who you are. Because in time, well.. knowing who you

are both inside and out is best lol. I'm not the right one to say

what you should do next buut... don't you even THINK

about lying to her. Scorpio Sun or Moon...Don't. Don't. Don't.

I had a few dates with a Gemini man

He was very keen lol.....much younger, told me he always wanted to go with a witch 😛

I liked him because he was funny and light but his insistence on sex bored me and I decided to let him go

Sometimes it's good to take it easy and slow instead of jumping into sex

Well at least learn each other's names for fecks sake 😆

Just got home from the date. It was good. I was late as usual but she was understanding of it and didn't mind at all. She was impressed with my driving skills lol? And said I drive better than most men and "ex boyfriends". Anyway she commented on my appearance. Asked if she looked the same as the first night we met I said yes and asked her the same and she said "you look much better". Anyway dinner was good. We left the restaurant and she grabbed my hand lol and we held hands for the rest of the night when we got a chance to do so.

Went to a bar after dinner. Talked some more then went to the club we met at last week and a fkn capricorn girl I used to see was there and came up to us and the scorp didn't seem impressed. She kept asking if I liked her (cap girl was also there first time we met and we danced that night also and scorp asked me that night if I liked her also). Anyway so I explained to her the history between myself and cap and re itterated it was in the past.

We danced and drank a bit but called it early both have work tomorrow and early starts. I drove her back and when she was getting out of the car we kissed and we didn't want to stop. She turns me on! 😂 and she kept coming back for more but then we finally were like 'ok ok no more otherwise we'll never leave!" And she was like I knooww I just want to take you home with me! So she got out and blew me a kiss then text me not long after thanking me for the night saying she had a really good time. Throughout the night she said more than once how "intelligent" I was and that I was so "strong" and she liked my "smell" lol. All in all a good time. I think we'll def be seeing each other again.

Appreciate the replies and tips guys

Posted by Gemi13
Just got home from the date. It was good. I was late as usual but she was understanding of it and didn't mind at all. She was impressed with my driving skills lol? And said I drive better than most men and "ex boyfriends". Anyway she commented on my appearance. Asked if she looked the same as the first night we met I said yes and asked her the same and she said "you look much better". Anyway dinner was good. We left the restaurant and she grabbed my hand lol and we held hands for the rest of the night when we got a chance to do so.

Went to a bar after dinner. Talked some more then went to the club we met at last week and a fkn capricorn girl I used to see was there and came up to us and the scorp didn't seem impressed. She kept asking if I liked her (cap girl was also there first time we met and we danced that night also and scorp asked me that night if I liked her also). Anyway so I explained to her the history between myself and cap and re itterated it was in the past.

We danced and drank a bit but called it early both have work tomorrow and early starts. I drove her back and when she was getting out of the car we kissed and we didn't want to stop. She turns me on! 😂 and she kept coming back for more but then we finally were like 'ok ok no more otherwise we'll never leave!" And she was like I knooww I just want to take you home with me! So she got out and blew me a kiss then text me not long after thanking me for the night saying she had a really good time. Throughout the night she said more than once how "intelligent" I was and that I was so "strong" and she liked my "smell" lol. All in all a good time. I think we'll def be seeing each other again.

Appreciate the replies and tips guys

Good for you 😊

Guys it's me again and this scorp has left me somewhat scratching my head lol. She's called me everyday after she finishes work since our date on Wed night (inc wknd). Yesterday she called but I didn't answer. Didn't get back to her at all but watched her snapchats. This morning she text twice saying she had called but she guessed I wasn't in the mood and then another saying to call her once I saw her messages.

I text her about 5 hours later saying id call after her shift. Anyway we ended up speaking before and she tells me that she really really likes me (said this about 5 times throughout our 45min hour call) and that she really loves my personality and that I'm so funny and then she says she was telling her best friend that she wants to be really good friends with me, best friends and we can do everything together (lol tf?) Then she tells me ifwe have sex it will be 1 or 3 times and then she'll be bored and it will kill our friendship. Then she's like I can't wait for you to sleep over (again lol tf?) I tell her I can't sleep next to her for obvious reasons then ask since were friends does it mean we can't kiss and she says we can? Then i was like naah were friends we can't do that Lol then I asked if she liked to kiss me and she timidly said yes and asked me the same back I said "naah not really" (as a joke) and she straight away snapped "ok fuck you" then we laughed about it.

Anyway I'm confused af. Sounds like she friend zoned me big time. Is this typical behaviour 🤔

Lol that was 1 time. But what's this about the friends thing? I did her chart before and she called me and and was stressing out because now I'm going to know about her before she knows me and that she doesn't allow 'anyone' to do that. She said its usually always her reading people not in the reverse and she kept telling me to close the website. I asked her why she's so concerned and she said also because "i like you".

Shes

Scorp sun, moon, merc and venus. Libra mars

Take it slow then, get her intrigued more.

She's probably still observing you since majority of the men will jump at the chance.

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Posted by nano
This gem doesn't want to see. He's gonna get hurt.

Poor guy. Go easy on him, scorps

He will be back later

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I am. I just haven't been bothered to correct anyone on here. Don't see the diff in whether I was male or female. The scorp is also a female. We're both gay.

She's contacted me everyday and multiple times a day since that conversation. It's her initiating the contact not me.

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Posted by nano
This gem doesn't want to see. He's gonna get hurt.

Poor guy. Go easy on him, scorps

He will be back later

i thought gemi13 was a woman? click to expand

I am. I just haven't been bothered to correct anyone on here. Don't see the diff in whether I was male or female. The scorp is also a female. We're both gay.

She's contacted me everyday and multiple times a day since that conversation. It's her initiating the contact not me. click to expand

i don't know i do think it changes the dynamic of the relationship cuz everyone is assuming you're approaching as a male instead of a woman ya know so maybe get that perspective up in here click to expand

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Yes but what does it matter if we're the same sex when we're both gay? I don't think someone's feelings change if they're gay. Same feelings, same actions. How would me being a man differ 🤔. You'd make a valid point if I were a gay woman and she was a straight woman but considering she's also a gay woman.. same same.

Posted by blackphaze
Ummmm??

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/do-i-reach-out-or-stay-silent--10772657/?checkpg=1

Yes I know. I love the pisces and I just met the scorp 2 wks ago. Not playing either of them. Is there an issue with me dating and getting to know more than one person?

Posted by Toti
Scorpio Venus 🙈

Libra mars🙈🙈🙈

Are those your placements 🤔

There's more to it with the Pisces. It's more complicatad than just loving each other. It's like 'right person, wrong time'.. I don't want to let Pisces go but I'm also keeping my options open.

Hi guys. I need a little help pleasee.

Scorp and I hung out last night. Dinner then bowling and arcade games. We hung out at hers for a while between these activites. She kept saying she feels like she's known me for years and feels really comfortable. At one stage she was like next time we'll hang out all of us (as in her, I and her friend who I met the night we met). Anyway after it all we drove back to hers and I stopped in front of her building and I was like ok bye and she was confused and said you're not coming up? I said no I'll get home too late if I do. Anyway she was like 'i hate you' and we joked in the car for a min or 2.

She leaned over and gave me a kiss on the cheek and a hug. The kiss was really close to my mouth too. Anyway she went to get out and I said wait, come here and we kissed (she's a really good intense kisser).

Then she went to get out of the car and was really clumsy and seemed nervous and frazzled and dropped all her things lol and she seemed like she couldn't wait to get out of there 😂 anyway I was like what's wrong why are you nervous and she laughed and was like "I don't know!!!". Anyway I said once more before she walked off 'wait come here' and she did and we kissed again and then she said I dont know how we're going to travel together! (We had discussed when we first met about travelling together with her friends since its something we both love).

I said why? She said because we're supposed to be friends! I was like we are friends!!. Anyway she got out and I was about to drive off and she came back and knocked on my window. Opened the door and said "drive safe". I then told her again, wait wait come here for a second and she did and again and we kissed then I said OK OK bye bye don't come back this time (we laughed) and she left and I did too. We haven't spoken since.

Have I fucked up? Should I bring up the kiss? I wanted to text her today and apologise in case I made her uncomfortable but not sure if I should... 😣

So I sent her a message through snapchat just before wishing her a happy mothers day since she's a mother to her fish and said I hope she had a good day at work. Usually she calls me everyday before work, during work and after work.

She wrote "hahaha" then sent me a voice clip which sounded cold and she was like 'yeah I'm almost finished then going home I'm busy I have some stuff to do so I'll talk to you later'. I don't plan on replying.

What's going through her head scorps?!

Posted by Gemi13
So I sent her a message through snapchat just before wishing her a happy mothers day since she's a mother to her fish and said I hope she had a good day at work. Usually she calls me everyday before work, during work and after work.

She wrote "hahaha" then sent me a voice clip which sounded cold and she was like 'yeah I'm almost finished then going home I'm busy I have some stuff to do so I'll talk to you later'. I don't plan on replying.

What's going through her head scorps?!

You dont PLAN on replying? Isnt replying something you don't plan, like, just reply ffs 😄

Anyways, I've read all of what you shared, she likes you for sure, and all this "lets be best friends, sleepover, I' m not that girl, I'm not relationship material blabla" it's all shit. You kissed her and she tried to get out of the carand was all clumsy? She's deff head over heels. That's what happens with me when I have a make out sess or even 3 kisses with someone I'm deep into, I forget where I am and I start falling and dropping stuff while i'm trying to get up and go away 😄 I'm pretty sure we've all done that at some point.

Anyway, try to go easy on her, keep it all chill and laid back, you two say you're not looking for relationships but obv you likeeach other, whats the problem in hanging out and being togther, and who knows, maybe itss gonna come naturally when yall dont expect it at all 🙄 Just at least you try to be straight forward and not saying stuff you dont mean, like lets be bff..

And btw sun moon venus in scorp 😥 hard shit I guess

Not good when she finds out you love another girl. That's just how scorpio works.

Appreciate all the replies! I'm not going to respond to her voiceclip because she already said she was busy and she's talk to me later so I don't want to bug her. Whether that was bullshit or not, I'm listening to what she's said.

I will contact her tomorrow instead and yes I agree with the poster who said she'll give hints out and I'll need to pick up on them. I just hope she doesn't freak out given she said lets only be friends and then we kissed last night after we were supposed to be "friends"