Too much of a good thing can prove rather banal if both parties are honoring only the needs of the other. Virgo is a service sign and tends to put much attention on their mate (remember Mother Theresa). The problem is somewhat complex...Virgo is a mutable sign and that means they have 2 distinct parts. Within a relationship one of those parts is claimed and the other is easily projected. So in a Virgo relationship one of the partners will act out the nun and one will act out the whore. It sounds strange but you'll notice it if you look at the rapport between them. One is attentive and servile and one is critical and seeks alone time. It's an inevitable push pull that exists in all relationships but is more readily defined when the signs are the same. The Worst of Virgo is the Martyr syndrome, feeling that much has to be sacrificed to have what they really want. The more dissatisfied they are the more critical or unhappy they become and the more unhappy a Virgo is the more they may become critical or cynical. Remember there are rules that each partner is following and rules by their very nature are constantly being rewritten. At worst, this connection may fall into a sterile trap with each person following their own desire for isolation and personal time. Within the routine of comfort the conversations may be short and without respect.
Virgo with Virgo my god this is funny
I was married with a Virgo woman and my god these people are ancients. Now look at how a virgo with virgo relationship would be on the description above and it is all true. I have experience it myself although I am not a virgo but I fuond it intresting to find out where it will lead. their relationship ended in isolation. I did not love her but felt sorry for her and helped her a lot and I still do. Anyway now she wants to get back with me and denning that it ever happen and the funny thing is that she told me herself while she was married to me that she had sex with this other virgo guy. They met at the office where they worked and knowing that the woman was married the guy still went after her. Now he was the whore and she was the nun. Look how stupid this people are. They have not got a clue about relationships. Disgusting people. They are supposed to be intellectuals but when it comes to relationships they are a bunch of idiots and very insecure.
By the way the woman was hurt. I don't know what he told her but she was hurt and I still feel sorry, I don't know why I do tho
Wanted to add that never trust virgos. They are a bunch of idiots who should live by and with themselves. Read all over astrology and it never states that they are loyal. They lei a lot.

Virgos & Loyalty
1. People look up to Virgo for friends because they are straight thinkers and solve problems logically. They are truthful, loyal and determined. [http://zodiac-signs-astrology.com/zodiac-signs/virgo.htm]<BR>
2. Individuals born under this sign are thought to be highly intelligent, logical, practical, realistic, nurturing, devoted, uninhibited, caring, loving, self-sacrificing, quiet, considerate, protective, and loyal. [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virgo_(astrology)]<BR>
3. It's one lover at a time for the loyal Virgo, who reveres a relationship blessed with total honesty lest jealousy and feelings of inadequacy come to the fore. [http://love.astrology.com/Lswheelvirgo4.html]<BR>
* Just to cite a few....
http://zodiac-signs-astrology.com/zodiac-signs/virgo.htm<BR>
does not state that virgoes are loyal
Virgo Strength Keywords:
- Analytical
- Observant
- Helpful
- Reliable
- Precise
Virgo Weakness Keywords:
- Skeptical
- Fussy
- Inflexible
- Cold
- Interfering
does not state that virgoes are loyal
Virgo Strength Keywords:
- Analytical
- Observant
- Helpful
- Reliable
- Precise
Virgo Weakness Keywords:
- Skeptical
- Fussy
- Inflexible
- Cold
- Interfering
http://zodiac-signs-astrology.com/zodiac-signs/virgo.htm<BR>
Check out some other signs and it clearly state that they are LOYAL, once they commit to a relationship or marriage. I am not a loyal person myself so I know your intentions
Check out some other signs and it clearly state that they are LOYAL, once they commit to a relationship or marriage. I am not a loyal person myself so I know your intentions
All I would advice to other people that are dating a virgo is to not to trust them and to be careful and pay attention what they say and you'll see exactly what they mean or what they are trying to say indirectly... and don't feel sorry for their asses

Linda Goodman, Sun Signs, on Virgos: "Virgos are utterly loyal and they dislike destroying family ties intensely, but when their sense of decency has been finally outraged they won't hesi_tate to make a cold, clean break in the divorce court."
"Virgo's honesty and careful attention to details make him a favorite choice to grade papers when the teacher needs help. As a class monitor, he'll be ethical and alert."
Go grind your axe somewhere else.
Individuals born under this sign are thought to be highly intelligent, logical, practical, realistic, nurturing, devoted, uninhibited, caring, loving, self-sacrificing, quiet, considerate, protective, and loyal.
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IF I MAY ADD TO SELF FLATTERY:::
considerate, protective, and loyal AND B...O...R..I..N..G...........
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IF I MAY ADD TO SELF FLATTERY:::
considerate, protective, and loyal AND B...O...R..I..N..G...........

Well, my Virgo is pretty loyal ... he honors his word if possible. Sometimes, circumstances may prevent him, but, it's not intentional.
My biggest grind, though not the only .... would be the inability to hold himself accountable for his negative feelings within himself. If these negative feelings are for other people, he'll surely be forthcoming .... but, if they are about how he's feeling about himself, he'll put the responsibility on me to deal with them for him.
If he's feeling insignificant or unworthy about something, he would say, "Why won't you talk to me?".
I never said I wouldn't talk to him, I always talk to him ... what happened here is that by saying this, it's an attempt to make me feel sorry for him because he feels like he needs to talk about whatever has made him feel small, and if he poses the question this way, then I'll feel bad, as though I've been guilty of something, so then I would boost his ego because I would think I've been neglecting him.
He does this sort of thing all the time ..... if he's feeling small, or needs attention, or has something to talk about, or is feeling neglected, or any kind of insecure emotion ... instead of owning it for himself and saying, "I want to talk", or "I have something I need", or "I need to go to" .... he instead says, "Why won't you .." or, "Why don't you let me go .."
Drives me absolutely nuts, it does ... you'd think after 25 years of marriage that it would get through his thick head that I won't participate with this kind of unawareness to the self. If I'm feeling bad about myself, I say, "Gosh, ___ I feel so stupid .. I did (this)". No way in hell would I say, "Why don't you ...". It's not his fucking fault that I'm feeling bad .... and when he does this to me, I completely ignore him until he has the fortitude to accept his own feelings of insecurity.
When it comes to grasping this .. it escapes him, apparantely, since all this time later, he still does it.
My biggest grind, though not the only .... would be the inability to hold himself accountable for his negative feelings within himself. If these negative feelings are for other people, he'll surely be forthcoming .... but, if they are about how he's feeling about himself, he'll put the responsibility on me to deal with them for him.
If he's feeling insignificant or unworthy about something, he would say, "Why won't you talk to me?".
I never said I wouldn't talk to him, I always talk to him ... what happened here is that by saying this, it's an attempt to make me feel sorry for him because he feels like he needs to talk about whatever has made him feel small, and if he poses the question this way, then I'll feel bad, as though I've been guilty of something, so then I would boost his ego because I would think I've been neglecting him.
He does this sort of thing all the time ..... if he's feeling small, or needs attention, or has something to talk about, or is feeling neglected, or any kind of insecure emotion ... instead of owning it for himself and saying, "I want to talk", or "I have something I need", or "I need to go to" .... he instead says, "Why won't you .." or, "Why don't you let me go .."
Drives me absolutely nuts, it does ... you'd think after 25 years of marriage that it would get through his thick head that I won't participate with this kind of unawareness to the self. If I'm feeling bad about myself, I say, "Gosh, ___ I feel so stupid .. I did (this)". No way in hell would I say, "Why don't you ...". It's not his fucking fault that I'm feeling bad .... and when he does this to me, I completely ignore him until he has the fortitude to accept his own feelings of insecurity.
When it comes to grasping this .. it escapes him, apparantely, since all this time later, he still does it.

Actually, I see two components at work here:
1. The Man Part - not wanting to talk about / admit to our feelings because it makes us look weak (we think).
2. The Virgo Part - playing the martyr to garner your sympathy.
I would say you could shape one or both components, but at his age, it may not be possible - or simply not worth the effort.

"Marriages don't break up on account of infidelity. It's just a symptom that something else is wrong."
My apologies for the cheesy movie quote but there is some truth to the statement. I'm really sorry your wife cheated on you. That's something I wouldn't wish on anyone. Hell, if infidelty could be pinpointed to ONLY Virgo's, then take the lot of us out and shoot us. In reading your words, I would ask that you think about what was going on prior to your wife cheating. This isn't about putting fault on either you so much as acknowledging it just didnt "magically" happen.
"I did not love her but felt sorry for her and helped her a lot and I still do."
"Look how stupid this people are." "Disgusting people." "...they are a bunch of idiots..."
I can only assume these bitter words came from the aftermath but we're you feeling this way about your wife prior? Again, think about what got your marrage to that point.
While I can only speak for myself as a man, Dy's description is pretty right on for me.
"Virgos are utterly loyal and they dislike destroying family ties intensely, but when their sense of decency has been finally outraged they won't hesi_tate to make a cold, clean break in the divorce court.". I'm pretty fucking picky about who I keep close. Even pickier when it comes to someone I care about. But those I do have in my life, I'm fiercly loyal and protective of.
Pain and suffering are a given but misery is optional. I honestly do hope you find some peace with what you're going through.
My apologies for the cheesy movie quote but there is some truth to the statement. I'm really sorry your wife cheated on you. That's something I wouldn't wish on anyone. Hell, if infidelty could be pinpointed to ONLY Virgo's, then take the lot of us out and shoot us. In reading your words, I would ask that you think about what was going on prior to your wife cheating. This isn't about putting fault on either you so much as acknowledging it just didnt "magically" happen.
"I did not love her but felt sorry for her and helped her a lot and I still do."
"Look how stupid this people are." "Disgusting people." "...they are a bunch of idiots..."
I can only assume these bitter words came from the aftermath but we're you feeling this way about your wife prior? Again, think about what got your marrage to that point.
While I can only speak for myself as a man, Dy's description is pretty right on for me.
"Virgos are utterly loyal and they dislike destroying family ties intensely, but when their sense of decency has been finally outraged they won't hesi_tate to make a cold, clean break in the divorce court.". I'm pretty fucking picky about who I keep close. Even pickier when it comes to someone I care about. But those I do have in my life, I'm fiercly loyal and protective of.
Pain and suffering are a given but misery is optional. I honestly do hope you find some peace with what you're going through.
VERY VERY BORING....
The same OLD songs!! I need to change the track!!!
The same OLD songs!! I need to change the track!!!
I never loved her and I still don't. I think I made a mistake by marring her and the reason I married her was because I felt sorry at that time and I was happy she taking care of all the home stuff and I was free....i never found her attractive sexually and she never initiate anything in the bedroom. I was married to her for almost 6 years and all this time she just kept pissing me off all the time when I got home, nit picking, criticising etc. Thank god I was all the time out and about.
"Marriages don't break up on account of infidelity. It's just a symptom that something else is wrong."
Would you touch your woman if you new that someone else has gone there and has had sex with her for almost 2 years. Not only that but if your woman has sex once with someone else and you find out about it, would you still want to be with her? it would make me feel sick thinking about it. That drives me FAR away from her. I don't even want to see her face but I just feel sorry, that's all.
Would you touch your woman if you new that someone else has gone there and has had sex with her for almost 2 years. Not only that but if your woman has sex once with someone else and you find out about it, would you still want to be with her? it would make me feel sick thinking about it. That drives me FAR away from her. I don't even want to see her face but I just feel sorry, that's all.

Don't get it..
What is so funny..??
What is so funny..??
"Pain and suffering are a given but misery is optional. I honestly do hope you find some peace with what you're going through."
I have not gone though any pain or sufferingat all. I just feel sick for being with her for all these six years.
I have not gone though any pain or sufferingat all. I just feel sick for being with her for all these six years.
You guys are cold

Human beings are subject to change and the change means challenge, are you challenging the life or your stupid personal pastime?
You have only two choices here.
Get around or forget it..
What seems to be problem here..??
You have only two choices here.
Get around or forget it..
What seems to be problem here..??

I just feel sick for being with her for all these six years.
Ok? lol
Then what is the problem..?? live your life as the way you like it and forget about the past.
Ok? lol
Then what is the problem..?? live your life as the way you like it and forget about the past.

You guys are cold
Yes we are cold. and you are warm.. anything else..??
Yes we are cold. and you are warm.. anything else..??

I never loved her and I still don't.
Then what the fuck are you complaining about dude..??
Lmao?
Then what the fuck are you complaining about dude..??
Lmao?

Virgogotme
Save your breath.. the dude is living in the limbo ?his perfect life?.
Usual bullshits around the Virgo board..!
Save your breath.. the dude is living in the limbo ?his perfect life?.
Usual bullshits around the Virgo board..!
I love virgos
My grandma is a virgo
My grandma is a virgo
Morons here is another Virgo who is destroying another marriage. There you go (arias loves virgo and virgo loves arias)
Hello my favourite desperate ancients. v...lyda is back and I have run out of ideas of how to toy with her. Pleaseeeeeee looking for some help. Shall I destroy her or should I just toy with her for awhile and send her to a mental hospital and dump her in the bin.
Qieueu my friend, I can take on 5 of your kind at the same time.
Hit me baby!!!!!!
Qieueu my friend, I can take on 5 of your kind at the same time.
Hit me baby!!!!!!

🙂 I say this with a smile 🙂
May you find what you deserve and I hope she finds something worthy of her time.
Cheers
May you find what you deserve and I hope she finds something worthy of her time.
Cheers
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