Virgo Woman that has captured my heart!! Any suggestion?

This beautiful and sweet Virgo girl has captured my heart. I can't stop thinking about her daily as I go through my daily routine. I daydream of what I would tell her, or how I would make her laugh, or try helping her or being with her. All these thoughts run through my head.

A little background.

I know her for 3 months or so, we hung out 2 times for a scene study. Both times I found out a little bit about her.

I have been texting her every few days, not to over do it. I know Virgo loves their open space and not being rushed in. Once I texted her, I analyze my own thoughts of what she will think or when she will reply? I wait in anticipation since I'm just thinking her text is like me spending time with her, well hoping to spend time with her. I become a sort of Virgo myself, analyzing everything about it. Lol

Anyways, I texted her yesterday for a project. She told me she was sick and had a fever. I texted her an image of flowers in a message, "I hope these make your morning when you wake up and hope you feel well. Wishing you lots of positive energy."

I haven't received a reply from her.

Do you think she knows I like her with my interactions and trying to get closer to her? Should I slow down my approach and stop giving her attention?

Any help would be much appreciated from lovely Virgo women/ladies. 🙂

I'm Cusp of Gemini/Cancer (Brain acts like Gemini - Heart is like Cancer), my moon is Scorpio if any of that matters.

Posted by AdmiraI

Haha love the gif, that's my heart when I have to do scene with her in acting class or just being around her.

The flower image may have been too much. I can't see a girl not reading that as romantic.

She may just like you as a friend. When my female friends are sick, I'll send them texts saying I know they're faking to get out of work lol. No pictures of flowers.

Unless she's a shitty texter. Could also be that she's sicker than a dog. Maybe she's laid up in bed and not in the mood to talk.

If I were you, no more flowers. Be friendly. Maybe say or do something mildly flirtatious, but that could go either way. That way, if she isn't feeling it, she won't know for sure and maybe won't be creeped out. I have my own formula. Not sure if it can be adopted by others lol.

Posted by Bricks195
The flower image may have been too much. I can't see a girl not reading that as romantic.

She may just like you as a friend. When my female friends are sick, I'll send them texts saying I know they're faking to get out of work lol. No pictures of flowers.

Unless she's a shitty texter. Could also be that she's sicker than a dog. Maybe she's laid up in bed and not in the mood to talk.

If I were you, no more flowers. Be friendly. Maybe say or do something mildly flirtatious, but that could go either way. That way, if she isn't feeling it, she won't know for sure and maybe won't be creeped out. I have my own formula. Not sure if it can be adopted by others lol.

Bricks my man, thanks for message. I agree but remember I do want to show her I like her subtlety. This is why I'm sending her flowers message. Yeah but you are right, everyone perceives it differently. Man I wish I can be in front of this girl for like few hours and just talk. Lol **wishing**

Hmm what is your venus sign ? mars sign ?



I think you shoud not over doing it . In terms of affection , I don't think we like that in the beginning especially if we like you .

Just show that you care about her - but the overly romantic aspect might make her feel uncomfortable .

Invite her for a coffee during the day ! so that you can talk and get to know each other better .

Posted by Already-use
Hmm what is your venus sign ? mars sign ?



I think you shoud not over doing it . In terms of affection , I don't think we like that in the beginning especially if we like you .

Just show that you care about her - but the overly romantic aspect might make her feel uncomfortable .

Invite her for a coffee during the day ! so that you can talk and get to know each other better .

Agree with this. Maybe the girl needs to ease her way into relationships and you might have to settle for showing you care without showing you're interested. Occasionally showing some interest, while keeping a friendly demeanor, may work. You can gauge her response to the more romantic stuff, but stay friendly enough to keep her from freaking out if she's someone who panics in those situations.

Thanks for all your reply. Yeah I'll try to slow it down and just be "friendly" but be there for her.

I loved Already-use idea about inviting her for coffee, so it's all nonchalant at first while trying to get to know her.

I mean, I know her for 3 months but not really well but I don't want to be like doing this for a year and half just to get to know her either.

This is why I'm confused, I thought Virgo women love a guy who is honest and upfront but I'm getting all conflicting messages here. I wish some Virgo woman would give her input but I appreciate all your opinions and input as well.



Haha, the video about guy proposing, haha even I'm not that crazy to move that fast.

So an update about the flower text message.

She replied last night. She said,"Thanks (name). Hope you had a productive day and have a good night. 🙂 ".

I think that was sweet in a way but maybe that scared her off a little bit, coming from a virgo i would warm up to it, we value taking our time because If its special we want to make sure it will last longer.

Virgo gal here.

We appreciate honesty, but forwardness is a grey area.

If you want subtlety, mix humor with a compliment/gesture.

Your picture message method itself was on point, but choosing flowers made it too forward. You could use the same method, but replace the image with a meme or something with light humor. It gives off a friendly vibe, but also a sense that you care for my well-being. The “sending positive energy your way” is original, keep that.

Thanks all for the input and advice. Yeah, I can't bring her soup since I'm not that close to her nor do I know where she lives. We aren't besties yet..lol. We are just in class together but we chat in class and met up for rehearsal couple times outside of class where we were alone. I think that's when I started falling for her. I told her I work as a Biomedical Engineer, Invest in properties, I read, and my hobbies as well as spending time rehearsing. I just really connect with her, I feel but again I could be looking through biased lens since I'm falling for her..lol

Anyways, we chat over text messages about classes or upcoming classes and in class for few minutes. However, it's talking about classes or acting related stuff and nothing on a personal level or getting to know her. This is why I try to make effort to initiate texting her for some silly reason about a class or taking a class in the city and asking for her opinion. This way I can learn more about her. When she told me she had a fever and wasn't feeling well, hence I sent a few uplifting messages with a flower image that said "Good morning" to her. But like you guys said, I'll try to stay away from flowers in future unless we go on a date then I'll bring her real flowers.

Anyways thanks for hearing my bantering and forgive the grammatical errors since I'm at work speed typing. lol

Vrigorean or any Virgo woman - When do you think is a good time to ask someone out for coffee/casual date? After 4 months of getting to know them, 5,6—

Posted by joe_somebody247
Thanks all for the input and advice. Yeah, I can't bring her soup since I'm not that close to her nor do I know where she lives. We aren't besties yet..lol. We are just in class together but we chat in class and met up for rehearsal couple times outside of class where we were alone. I think that's when I started falling for her. I told her I work as a Biomedical Engineer, Invest in properties, I read, and my hobbies as well as spending time rehearsing. I just really connect with her, I feel but again I could be looking through biased lens since I'm falling for her..lol

Anyways, we chat over text messages about classes or upcoming classes and in class for few minutes. However, it's talking about classes or acting related stuff and nothing on a personal level or getting to know her. This is why I try to make effort to initiate texting her for some silly reason about a class or taking a class in the city and asking for her opinion. This way I can learn more about her. When she told me she had a fever and wasn't feeling well, hence I sent a few uplifting messages with a flower image that said "Good morning" to her. But like you guys said, I'll try to stay away from flowers in future unless we go on a date then I'll bring her real flowers.

Anyways thanks for hearing my bantering and forgive the grammatical errors since I'm at work speed typing. lol

Vrigorean or any Virgo woman - When do you think is a good time to ask someone out for coffee/casual date? After 4 months of getting to know them, 5,6—

It sounds like you guys see each other enough to be considered friends. Just ask whenever she feels better. But ask in person. But yes start out with coffee first and don't refer to it as a date. Ask casually lol.

Posted by Virgorean

Posted by joe_somebody247
Thanks all for the input and advice. Yeah, I can't bring her soup since I'm not that close to her nor do I know where she lives. We aren't besties yet..lol. We are just in class together but we chat in class and met up for rehearsal couple times outside of class where we were alone. I think that's when I started falling for her. I told her I work as a Biomedical Engineer, Invest in properties, I read, and my hobbies as well as spending time rehearsing. I just really connect with her, I feel but again I could be looking through biased lens since I'm falling for her..lol

Anyways, we chat over text messages about classes or upcoming classes and in class for few minutes. However, it's talking about classes or acting related stuff and nothing on a personal level or getting to know her. This is why I try to make effort to initiate texting her for some silly reason about a class or taking a class in the city and asking for her opinion. This way I can learn more about her. When she told me she had a fever and wasn't feeling well, hence I sent a few uplifting messages with a flower image that said "Good morning" to her. But like you guys said, I'll try to stay away from flowers in future unless we go on a date then I'll bring her real flowers.

Anyways thanks for hearing my bantering and forgive the grammatical errors since I'm at work speed typing. lol

Vrigorean or any Virgo woman - When do you think is a good time to ask someone out for coffee/casual date? After 4 months of getting to know them, 5,6—

It sounds like you guys see each other enough to be considered friends. Just ask whenever she feels better. But ask in person. But yes start out with coffee first and don't refer to it as a date. Ask casually lol.

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Thanks Virgorean for your advice. I'll definitely do that and of course I'll ask in person.

I'll ask for casual coffee or lunch date but not call it a date. ? Yeah we talk often and I try to spend time trying to find out more about her but I hate I just can't sit down and look in her eyes and talk to her. Hoping the coffee date solves that. Btw, in class I always dress impeccably, since Virgo woman love men who are dressed nicely. ?

Don't bring her flowers on the coffee date. That will freak her out. Expect it to take many many many months. If you're not prepared for that, maybe back off. 3 months, 6 months later and she could just flat out reject you. Honestly, they are not worth it.; Too paranoid, They won't bend for you at all. You will do it their way or walk. Basically, you have to throw away any self-respect you have into a garbage can. Your choice. I'm always attracted to virgos too. It's annoying.

I'm a Virgo sun.

The flower image was way too much and unnecessary. They come off as fake. I'd think it's sweet but overdone.

Definitely don't slow down your approach or stop giving her attention. That'll just come off as inconsistent.

To be honest, it sounds like you need to step your game up. Just texting each other and working together doesn't really do much.

Hey Lilianni

Thanks for the info. So you are suggesting, I ask her for a coffee/casual date and tell her face front that I like her? (In your response to step up my game). Don't worry, no flowers..lol I won't.

Virgo is confusing me...lol Should I ask her out for a coffee date and not call it a date or just say "I really like you for these reasons...would you like to go out to get coffee for me?

I wish there were more guys like you - really trying to understand and get to know us . We are not that complicated , we are cautious we are taking our time . We see if you could be worthy or not . We might even like you a lot and you won't even know about it , unless we decide to " show you " . So be consistent , I don't think we like flaky people . By doing " too much" it does not seem genuine . Show that you like her - don't just tell her , show her but not in a way that we would freak us out . Let her know that somehow she has some control and she is not obligated

Posted by joe_somebody247
Hey Lilianni

Thanks for the info. So you are suggesting, I ask her for a coffee/casual date and tell her face front that I like her? (In your response to step up my game). Don't worry, no flowers..lol I won't.

Virgo is confusing me...lol Should I ask her out for a coffee date and not call it a date or just say "I really like you for these reasons...would you like to go out to get coffee for me?

Use your judgement. She responded to your text did she not? If you feel she can take the forward approach then go for it, but if you feel she is reserved be more casual.

Be prepared, however, when you confess you like a person and the feeling is mutual you are indicating to that person a potential relationship in the future.

Good luck and keep us up to speed.

Thank you "Already-use" and Ms. Virgorean. lolo

So here's the update from text messages after I had sent her a Flower image that said good morning since she was feeling sick:

Her " Thank you Joe, Hope you had a productive day and have a good night 🙂 " - Wed night (she never sends smiley face before)

Me "Hey Katie, sorry for late reply. I did have a great day yesterday. How's your day and how are you feeling now? It's so Gorgeous outside, I want to go for a walk..lol" - Yesterday afternoon (It was abnormally warm in NE USA)

Her "Hey Joe, yeah it's warm out. enjoy it before it snows this weekend. I'm not going to be in class today..still sick, but with rest I'll be okay.. have fun tonight in class. " - yesterday afternoon.

Me "Oh that's terrible that you are still sick. Hope you feel rested tomorrow. Yeah I'm going to HB studio (School in NY for readers) tomorrow evening, so hope weather isn't bad. Well you enjoy your evening, I'll see you later. Feel better 🙂 " Yesterday evening.

Her " Thanks! I have a feeling you'll enjoy learning at HB, they've helped me a lot. Who are you taking classes with?

Me "I do enjoy learning acting so yeah I'll enjoy it so far..just taking acting I. I went on Monday as well to audit. Many people thought I was a regular student. I said no I'm new. I'm taking Friday classes with Pyrce on Friday since Monday classes are full. I"m looking in to dance classes for weekend as well. Lol Shouldn't you be resting miss Alfreid? 🙂 " - yesterday evening (See I'm just talking about acting..oh god)

Her "Oh Nice! I've never taken with him. Let me know how it goes. Dance helps acting for sure. Looks like you're headed in the right direction. I'll prob see you on TV this year! Yeah resting is good for me" yesterday evening.

Me "Yeah I'll definitely let you know about the class. Yeah I'll take dancing, I mean I dance with my nephew who is 3, most of the time when we play dinosaur but that doesn't count. Lol oh thanks for the encouragement but I think you'll make it on TV before me since you are very beautiful, talented and sing, all the essentials for the TV. I'll be very proud when you make it. 🙂 Well as much as I enjoy talking to you, I'll let you rest. You have a good evening dear 🙂" yesterday night before class

Her " Haha, you're very funny. We should both make it together and then it would be so cool to have a friend in the industry that we took classes together and know! It's a great support. Have a good class and a good night" last night

Me "You always make me smile! 🙂 Thanks though for the compliment. That's very sweet of you. Yeah that would be really awesome if we both made it together. You are right about having support, it's so true, someone that knows you from your beginning days and being there for you is very important. That's why I always cherish your advice and tips, little things matter to me. Lol anyways class was fun. Well I hope you get plenty of rest and great night sleep and feel better tomorrow. Sweet dreams miss Katie. 🙂"

So that's where we left off as if you wanted the update. I get a feeling she knows that I might like her..lol but you Virgo are very confusing. Some say Virgo likes to be told straight up that you like them before they get a clue, some say woman knows when a guy likes her.. haha

Well I'll still ask her for coffee/casual date to gage her interest when she feels better and not call it a date when I ask her. Yeah and no flowers, before you all bash me again with no flowers message..haha

Looks like you’re continuing with the direct approach.

There is no ‘think,’ she knows now:

-You called her dear (Why? Now she’s thinking he probably refers to all his female friends as such…)

-You complimented her

-This bit right here: Me "You always make me smile! 🙂 Thanks though for the compliment. That's very sweet of you. Yeah that would be really awesome if we both made it together. You are right about having support, it's so true, someone that knows you from your beginning days and being there for you is very important. That's why I always cherish your advice and tips, little things matter to me. Lol anyways class was fun. Well I hope you get plenty of rest and great night sleep and feel better tomorrow. Sweet dreams miss Katie.🙂"

What are her responses?

No response yet for the last message. I sent that message to her last night after class around 10 pm, so I didn't expect any response. I didn't want to overdo it by texting. Plus I'm used to her replying late so yeah!

I use "dear" here and there even to older women but I don't think I ever called her that or used it in front of her.

Well, I complimented her since I felt what was right in the moment and in my heart without being obvious. It was all done in a context of her giving me acting advice/tips which I do cherish. Also, her looking beautiful, can sing (I sing like a dying crow), and talented is all in respect to what is true about her.

Oh man I'm so like enchanted by her..haha (I'm at work, writing messages about her on dxpnet, need I say more?)

Posted by joe_somebody247
No response yet for the last message. I sent that message to her last night after class around 10 pm, so I didn't expect any response. I didn't want to overdo it by texting. Plus I'm used to her replying late so yeah!

I use "dear" here and there even to older women but I don't think I ever called her that or used it in front of her.

Well, I complimented her since I felt what was right in the moment and in my heart without being obvious. It was all done in a context of her giving me acting advice/tips which I do cherish. Also, her looking beautiful, can sing (I sing like a dying crow), and talented is all in respect to what is true about her.

Oh man I'm so like enchanted by her..haha (I'm at work, writing messages about her on dxpnet, need I say more?)

Start calling then. I'm more responsive via the phone then through text. Sometimes I forget to reply, I mean no harm by it.

Well, lay off the pet names for now. If she feels you refer to most of your female friends as dear then you're taking away the feeling of her being special and she'll start to pull back.

You're a Gemini correct? My ex was a Gemini we dated for about a year. He was a complete sweetheart at best. I hope it works out for you.

Thanks and that's my next phase to call her but we haven't done it so I'm nervous but I'll try.

Yeah I'm Cusp of Gemini/Cancer (6/21) with moon in Scorpio. I said earlier, my intelligent, energy, witty humor is attributed to Gemini. My emotional feelings and wanting to care/do nice things for other is my Cancer side. I don't know anything else about Astrology but I'm learning it for the sake of this beautiful warm hearted girl..lol

Posted by Already-use
Hmm what is your venus sign ? mars sign ?



I think you shoud not over doing it . In terms of affection , I don't think we like that in the beginning especially if we like you .

Just show that you care about her - but the overly romantic aspect might make her feel uncomfortable .

Invite her for a coffee during the day ! so that you can talk and get to know each other better .

My:

Venus sign is Leo

Mars sign is Gemini

Moon in Scorpio

Sun Gemini/Cancer Cusp

Hope that helps!