@GeorgiaPeach
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Virgos and Caps
I have a Gem rising, Scorp moon, Venus in Libra, Mars in Taurus and Jupiter in Aqua.
I click most with Leos and Libras. Theyre so much fun and lovable.
I definitely agree. I've never been fully attracted to one. Maybe physically, but I just don't really understand them. Oddly enough though I can usually pick them out of the crowd and they always seem to be able to pick me out also. I've had a few attracted to me. My cap cousin believes I'm the only person who understands her, so platonically I can deal with caps but otherwise? Nothing's really clicked. Maybe because I'm a fiery Virgo?
Posted by SuperMercurial
Bossiness I can take, controlling is fine, mean-spirited - fine, but the secretiveness and whorish nature isn't cool.
Yes, I experienced this with my Cap ex husband who cheated on me while we were married, initiated the divorce, married his mistress, and then became upset when I went on with my life.
Posted by SuperMercurial
Bossiness I can take, controlling is fine, mean-spirited - fine, but the secretiveness and whorish nature isn't cool.This is rich coming from a Virgo
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Posted by Sunsetvirgo
I definitely agree. I've never been fully attracted to one. Maybe physically, but I just don't really understand them. Oddly enough though I can usually pick them out of the crowd and they always seem to be able to pick me out also. I've had a few attracted to me. My cap cousin believes I'm the only person who understands her, so platonically I can deal with caps but otherwise? Nothing's really clicked. Maybe because I'm a fiery Virgo?
Maybe so. I really think my Gem rising can't deal with them overall. They are dependable workers, but in their personal life they are kind of boring.
Idk. I like the Caps I know. I can see their stereotypical "bad qualities", but theirs don't bother me as much as other signs "bad qualities". If that makes sense.
Posted by SuperMercurial
Caps are so slowwww in everything they do. I think the only signs I'm compatible with are aries and one taurus lol. Aries and virgo just click on everything. It makes me kind of mad because I wanted the trine to work so badly.Aries men are a joke, good luck
How so? Aries transform into the perfect spouses for virgos, and the conversation never ends.
really? idk, they seem to love talking about themselves, alot.
but okay maybe its true
i dont know
They do! And virgos like to talk about other people instead of themselves! It works lol.
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Lol This is true
Posted by SuperMercurial
Caps are so slowwww in everything they do. I think the only signs I'm compatible with are aries and one taurus lol. Aries and virgo just click on everything. It makes me kind of mad because I wanted the trine to work so badly.Aries men are a joke, good luck
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I get along with Aries women pretty well. Aries men seem to be reckless beyond measure.
Posted by Andalusia
Idk. I like the Caps I know. I can see their stereotypical "bad qualities", but theirs don't bother me as much as other signs "bad qualities". If that makes sense.you're just butthurt at the complexity of a crab....we are way better than boring azz caps
anyday... we actually make you feel...thats life...emotions
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I actually like Crabs. 3 of my 4 little sisters are Crabs as are several of my best friends. But they're all female. Maybe that's where the disconnect comes into play?
Posted by Andalusia
Idk. I like the Caps I know. I can see their stereotypical "bad qualities", but theirs don't bother me as much as other signs "bad qualities". If that makes sense.you're just butthurt at the complexity of a crab....we are way better than boring azz caps
anyday... we actually make you feel...thats life...emotions
I actually like Crabs. 3 of my 4 little sisters are Crabs as are several of my best friends. But they're all female. Maybe that's where the disconnect comes into play?
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And I'm fine with feeling emotions. Being dismissed and/or patronized when I try to share them is what I take issue with.
Posted by SuperMercurial
Bossiness I can take, controlling is fine, mean-spirited - fine, but the secretiveness and whorish nature isn't cool.Yes, I experienced this with my Cap ex husband who cheated on me while we were married, initiated the divorce, married his mistress, and then became upset when I went on with my life.
its because CAPS never respect Virgos. Ever. They use and discard you.
i've seen this play out...virgos love my Cap brother...but he see's them as too easy
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This is is true, even when my ex husband told me he wanted to divorce I still served him dinner with a smile. It unnerved him, because he wanted me to break down. He later told me that I was raised hardcore.
The whole "caps don't appreciate virgos" thing is so true. Even on the astrology websites about cap/Virgo pairings it's talked about, specifically with cap males/Virgo females. On one website the blogger mentions that later on in life many of the cap males regret using the Virgo and then later writes something like "many Capricorn males will believe the Virgo is too good to be true and instantly doubt their purity of heart. That is where the end begins." Not sure if that's the reason why this pairing doesn't work too well but it's sad because I've seen that happen too many times.
Virgo female/cap male: 4/10 at best.
Not sure about cap female/ Virgo male though.
Posted by SuperMercurial
Bossiness I can take, controlling is fine, mean-spirited - fine, but the secretiveness and whorish nature isn't cool.Yes, I experienced this with my Cap ex husband who cheated on me while we were married, initiated the divorce, married his mistress, and then became upset when I went on with my life.
its because CAPS never respect Virgos. Ever. They use and discard you.
i've seen this play out...virgos love my Cap brother...but he see's them as too easy
True. Caps are so dumb lol. They always pass us up when we're like the best pawn they could ever hope for.
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Right. We are easy, but we are loners by heart, so it's a dumb ploy to let us go when you really want to be with us or are expecting us to try to reconcile.
Posted by cheekyfaerie
Dude... I'm *right* here! 😛
Lol, who was this for?
Posted by TrueFantasy
Oh wait...I forgot to ask..What sign is your Venus, Mars and Jupiter?
Your Venus is desire and Mars hint the sign you might date but the Jupiter sign hints the sign you might marry..
No way am gonna marry a Taurus
Being my Jupiter in the 2nd house in Taurus am gonna marry money! That's for sure!
btw... am already married but she's Virgo 😄
Posted by SuperMercurial
Bossiness I can take, controlling is fine, mean-spirited - fine, but the secretiveness and whorish nature isn't cool.This is rich coming from a Virgo
virgos are secretive only because there's nothing for you to worry about. We like to do all of the worrying for you 😄
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I think its the same with Caps :p
Posted by Sunsetvirgo
The whole "caps don't appreciate virgos" thing is so true. Even on the astrology websites about cap/Virgo pairings it's talked about, specifically with cap males/Virgo females. On one website the blogger mentions that later on in life many of the cap males regret using the Virgo and then later writes something like "many Capricorn males will believe the Virgo is too good to be true and instantly doubt their purity of heart. That is where the end begins." Not sure if that's the reason why this pairing doesn't work too well but it's sad because I've seen that happen too many times.Virgo female/cap male: 4/10 at best.
Not sure about cap female/ Virgo male though.
4/10 at best is right. They're the 4 and we are the 10. ?
Posted by GeorgiaPeach
This is supposed to be a perfect match. I don't get along with most Caps. They're bossy and don't know how to talk to people, but if you treat them the way they treat you they get upset. And if they work for you they seem to be insubordinate. Is it just me?Do you have a problem ?
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Hey that's why I asked if it was just me. Lol
Posted by cheekyfaerie
Dude... I'm *right* here! 😛Lol, who was this for?
Just lifting the mood. 😄
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Cap males love my Virgo sister.
My sister's Virgo friend was with a Cap and she was probably the first girl he's ever been faithful to. She just had a major drinking problem and he had issues selling drugs on the side. Neither one of them could stop doing what they do so they broke up.
My mother's old Cap coworker was in love with a Virgo, but he wasn't closed to cheating.
Cheating is just something many of the males do. If you look past it you have a decent guy lol.
This match reminded me of Taj Mahal😛 let me begin my narration..*aahhhemmm*
Considered a symbol of love.
The king who built this was a Capricorn in memory of his beloved wife -a Virgo. It's their resting place. The king was devastated by her death.. 😢
It is said that the King was so depressed that he shut himself away from everyone for several days...refused to eat and all.. His hair turned grey in just 8 days(if I remember correctly) 😢 and it is said he was never a same man again.. His health also failed. But he had a daughter who nursed him back to health and became his only solace and support until death..
~ Fin ~
:p
Posted by GeorgiaPeach
This is supposed to be a perfect match. I don't get along with most Caps. They're bossy and don't know how to talk to people, but if you treat them the way they treat you they get upset. And if they work for you they seem to be insubordinate. Is it just me?My Cap sisters are like this. LOL. You have to dish it back to them. Caps seem to always like me when they meet me because I'm a straight shooter. They will try it with me once. But once I correct them, we never have that misunderdtanding again.
I've always found virgos to be bossy :0
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Very bossy and more controlling imho.
I'd be scared to date a Virgo male.
From what I see, it's always the Virgo males that hurt the Cap women deeply.
Posted by lnana04
Cap males love my Virgo sister.My sister's Virgo friend was with a Cap and she was probably the first girl he's ever been faithful to. She just had a major drinking problem and he had issues selling drugs on the side. Neither one of them could stop doing what they do so they broke up.
My mother's old Cap coworker was in love with a Virgo, but he wasn't closed to cheating.
Cheating is just something many of the males do. If you look past it you have a decent guy lol.
Lol
Posted by TrueFantasy
Oh wait...I forgot to ask..What sign is your Venus, Mars and Jupiter?
Your Venus is desire and Mars hint the sign you might date but the Jupiter sign hints the sign you might marry..
No way am gonna marry a Taurus
Being my Jupiter in the 2nd house in Taurus am gonna marry money! That's for sure!
btw... am already married but she's Virgo 😄
😄 that was meant to apply to women. For you, cause you're a male, you would check your Venus and Neptune signs. I didn't make this up, it's some astrologers theory. So in my case I'm either marrying a Leo (Mars Leo), Capricorn (Jupiter Capricorn), Pisces(Jupiter in 12th) or Sagittarius because my 12th is ruled by Sagittarius.
I could be completely wrong. (Most likely am)
There are so many other suggestions like your Juno. My Juno is in Aries so I might look for an Aries. Then there's the argument that we end up with our 7th house sign. So I'll be with cancer. Or be with someone who has their planets in my 7th... There are sooooooooo many possibilities.
So for now I'm just chilling.
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Jupiter in Scorpio, mars in Pisces., 5th house scorpio(Jupiter in 5th) , Juno in Libra(4th house)
So... Scorpio, Pisces, Leo, Scorpio, Libra, Cap??
Atleast Capricorn is there!
I want Capricorn or Leo or Libra😢
Posted by Shadowcat
Anyhow, the only person I ever went on a date with was a Virgo. We continued our close friendship instead 🙂. He is pretty great 😄.I think many Virgos have an issue respecting themselves
Like many of the virgos That I've met are super critical of themselves and put themselves down. Not only that but I've noticed The tendency to give themselves low ratings 😡. Or harp on flaws about yourself that nobody except for you knows exists, while completely ignoring your good qualities 😡. That's bait for anyone to take advantage of you, zodiac sign aside. But I won't lie that many Caps have the tendency to take advantage of opportunities instead of appreciating them. Especially if it's freely given.
I totally agree! Maybe Caps are better off with Scorps or a nice little Gemini. Lol
Posted by Chance_11
Virgo girls are great. After both realize the futility of constantly trying to bridge the gap in learning from complete opposites, they'll have a much greater appreciation for each other. Nothing wrong with cozy fun and a bright future where things only get better.
Thank you for this, you're my little ray of sunshine. ?
Posted by SuperMercurial
Bossiness I can take, controlling is fine, mean-spirited - fine, but the secretiveness and whorish nature isn't cool.
Virgos are by far more secretive than Caps imo.
LoL
^^ Scorps are definitely a good pair for Capricorn. Scorps can keep them on their toes. Although apparently statistic wise, cap makes usually marry pisces females more. Which are a virgos opposite. So I guess it works out then.
Posted by SuperMercurial
Bossiness I can take, controlling is fine, mean-spirited - fine, but the secretiveness and whorish nature isn't cool.This is rich coming from a Virgo
virgos are secretive only because there's nothing for you to worry about. We like to do all of the worrying for you 😄
I think its the same with Caps :p
Lol exactly 😆. I think this goes back to virgo having issues with being the only one that's right 😆
Its not the same. Virgo is a martyr sign. We serve and put others first. Caps are more so looking out for their best interest and how to get ahead in life. Can you really tell me I'm wrong about that?
Well, yeah. You know the dangers of generalizing by sun signs. I agree with Peeves that Caps generally come off bossier than Virgos, while trying to be helpful tho. Virgos tend to let it lie and Caps have a tendency to take it as a personal affront that their advice isn't good enough for you.
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My Cap ex mother in law is exactly like this! If you don't go along with what she says, all heck will break loose. But what do I know, my mom is a Virgo and she's no different. They're both undercover hellcats. Lol
@cheekyfaerie
Oh I see. Well If it isn't pisces or Scorp male, I highly doubt it'll be a Virgo male 😄 lol
@cheekyfaerie
But it ended hasn't it? Or are you both still together?
Posted by SuperMercurial
Bossiness I can take, controlling is fine, mean-spirited - fine, but the secretiveness and whorish nature isn't cool.This is rich coming from a Virgo
virgos are secretive only because there's nothing for you to worry about. We like to do all of the worrying for you 😄
I think its the same with Caps :p
Lol exactly 😆. I think this goes back to virgo having issues with being the only one that's right 😆
Its not the same. Virgo is a martyr sign. We serve and put others first. Caps are more so looking out for their best interest and how to get ahead in life. Can you really tell me I'm wrong about that?
Well, yeah. You know the dangers of generalizing by sun signs. I agree with Peeves that Caps generally come off bossier than Virgos, while trying to be helpful tho. Virgos tend to let it lie and Caps have a tendency to take it as a personal affront that their advice isn't good enough for you.
My Cap ex mother in law is exactly like this! If you don't go along with what she says, all heck will break loose. But what do I know, my mom is a Virgo and she's no different. They're both undercover hellcats. Lol
My oldest daughter is a Virgo and we would butt heads alot, by the end of it. Sorry, chica. Only one setta pants in this house. Teenagers aren't the best example tho. The fella and I have much better luck in the conflict resolution dept. It's all about leaving ego at the door, but that's not always a Cap's strong suit, sadly.
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I can agree with that. Even though I disagreed with her a lot, I never disrespected her. Still don't. My son is a Cap and is definitely Grandmas boy. My Leo daughter is another story. I have to get on to her and let her know that regardless that's still her Grandma and she can't let her mouth write a check that her a** can't cash.
Posted by Sunsetvirgo
@cheekyfaerieBut it ended hasn't it? Or are you both still together?
I didn't use past tense. 😄
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Sweet!
@cheekyfaerie
Ah.
I thought you used "been" instead of "is" for past tense.
Posted by Sunsetvirgo
^^ Scorps are definitely a good pair for Capricorn. Scorps can keep them on their toes. Although apparently statistic wise, cap makes usually marry pisces females more. Which are a virgos opposite. So I guess it works out then.Ugh. Scorpios should work. It makes sense. Our values are so similar. Never been able to do it though. Great friends!, just doesn't live up to the hype in the romantic relationship dept.
I can see Cap men and Pisces women working out better than the other way around. I'm too much for a Pisces. The dreamy ones anyway. I'll accidentally steam roll the poor things. Cap women need a man who can respectfully put them in check.
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Def true. I can see a Cap man making Pisces woman feel protected.
Posted by palehorse
cap here and I like working Virgo always stressed out though.I usually boss the crabs around they're like little minions
Lol Those crabs are going to pinch you. If you're lucky they'll pinch your derrière.
Virgos can always try an Aries!
An Aries... Why?
Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman seems to work great, I don't know the other way around. Virgo Women seems to work great with Taurus Men.
Posted by GeorgiaPeach
This is supposed to be a perfect match.
This is the worst mindset to have in just about anything, especially astrology. Quote unquote.
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This is supposed to be a perfect match. I don't get along with most Caps. They're bossy and don't know how to talk to people, but if you treat them the way they treat you they get upset. And if they work for you they seem to be insubordinate. Is it just me?