Met this Virguy about to years ago. I'm a Pisces btw, and intially had no romantic interest in him whatsoever. He consistently pursued me, and after several failed attempts, I finally gave in to a date. And did he use the opportunity to his complete advantage. Just totally wooed me in every sense of the word. The relationship progressed very fast and took off like a rocket. We went from just casual convo and dinner dates once a week to endlessly talking on the phone for hours at end and being inseparable, seeing each other every day. The attraction was magnetic and so intense. Me being a Pisces and hopeless romantic, I just soaked it all up like a sponge. Then....... He began to display a totally different person than the one i had grown to love. Almost as if he sent his representative to all the prior encounters i had shared and experienced with him and his true self finally decided to surface. And with a vengeance! We went from talking and texting all throughout the day sending sweet emojis to maybe sending a dry short text once a day and all of a sudden wanting space....What the what— Now i know what you're thinking...for every reaction is an action right? So i must have done something to aid in his sudden change in behavior.... No... He said "We were getting to close" . Hell i thought that was the #goal. But here again, every time i would attempt to give him space and took a step back he would only come back taking 2 steps forward as if this chase was a secret sexy game that he enjoyed playing with me. If u know anything about Pisces then u know we hate nothing more than being toyed with and sent on an emotional safari. This started to become stressful and mentally draining for me. Pressure bursts pipes... I eventually exploded with an emotional out pour. O remember when i said he changed.. Then he went into personality number 3. From distant to disappering all together for days at end. Developed communication constipation and just closing up all together saying i was to sensitive and emotional however it was okay for him to play on my emotions with the mind games but God forbid i react to it after built up pain and frustration. Imagine someone madly in love with u one day and literally the next day dissappear. And when I didn't call to check on him and acted unbothered by the ghost acts(as i started to notice a pattern in him doing this so over time it didn't affect me the same) He would come back even stronger like white on rice. Later on down the line he confessed that he started sleeping with someone else because he didn't want to get any more attached to me than he already was and it was his way of protecting his heart..wtf... At this point i was out done, though still in love with him, i was slowly backing away because of the up down hot cold emotional roller coaster he was forever taking me on. But he still wants to call and talk to me and see me on occassions. W/o sex... I just cant figure out why?
