Virgos and security

Are Virgos obsessed with the feeling of being secure in a relationship? I tend to become very upset when feeling otherwise and then I scare away cute boys. Only Earth signs can guarantee that great feeling from the beggining (I don't need anything stupid like "i love you" on the second date, I just want to know for sure my company is great for someone with no doubts)?
Or maybe this is a girly thing and men are not capable of warrantying anything.
I feel doomed.
Help.

No it's not just u... even us males like it to but when were in relationship mode. if its fwb who care but it's a earth thing to. whats ur moon sign

Libra.

or maybe this is a girly thing and men are not capable of warranting anything.
I feel doomed.

Yes this is girly thing and if you believe in it then you are doomed too...

Hehe. ;D
Just my male friends happen to be those who do not care at all about having true relationships. Young though.

Posted by esmerine
Libra.

O ok so u have a need to be in a relationship and ur sun sign sign virgo wants security. it worth noting that men go into relationship base on there moon sign. i have a cap moon thats y i feel like u. it's an earth sign.. 4 u i would suggest staying away from air and fire moons. unless they have heavy earth in there chart. but u should also follow ur gut it will never fail u =)

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Posted by esmerine
Libra.

O ok so u have a need to be in a relationship and ur sun sign sign virgo wants security. it worth noting that men go into relationship base on there moon sign. i have a cap moon thats y i feel like u. it's an earth sign.. 4 u i would suggest staying away from air and fire moons. unless they have heavy earth in there chart. but u should also follow ur gut it will never fail u =)

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Thats what it is! You have a cap moon. Why on earth couldn't I have figured that out. My soon-to-be roommate has a cap moon too!

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Posted by esmerine
Libra.

O ok so u have a need to be in a relationship and ur sun sign sign virgo wants security. it worth noting that men go into relationship base on there moon sign. i have a cap moon thats y i feel like u. it's an earth sign.. 4 u i would suggest staying away from air and fire moons. unless they have heavy earth in there chart. but u should also follow ur gut it will never fail u =)

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Hey i'ma Virgo sun with moon in Leo with air signs in my chart mercury in Libra and Venus in Libra and I'm loyal with my relationships i hate clingy people dats all people with fire moons wants loyalty and independence and fun.


Virgo king you should take that statement back i think people with moons in fire and air are fun people to be with.

Personally speaking, yes I need security and when I feel as though I do not have it, I become flustered and worrisome.

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Posted by esmerine
Libra.

O ok so u have a need to be in a relationship and ur sun sign sign virgo wants security. it worth noting that men go into relationship base on there moon sign. i have a cap moon thats y i feel like u. it's an earth sign.. 4 u i would suggest staying away from air and fire moons. unless they have heavy earth in there chart. but u should also follow ur gut it will never fail u =)

Hey i'ma Virgo sun with moon in Leo with air signs in my chart mercury in Libra and Venus in Libra and I'm loyal with my relationships i hate clingy people dats all people with fire moons wants loyalty and independence and fun. Virgo king you should take that statement back i think people with moons in fire and air are fun people to be with.

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u just prove my point ur moon doesn't like clingy people... my moon would not view it as clingy i would view it as love. but let me break it down fire moons wants freedom aka u. air moons want great communication, water moons want emotinal connection, and earth loyalty so clingy in my point of view would appear as loyal.

Posted by hikoro
VirgoKing What is your venus sign? Because in men, both moon and venus count. So....that changes things a little bit. A male with an earth moon and fire moon may feel attracted to someone that is a little bit of both.

i have a virgo venus a stellim of virgo, sun mercury mars and venus. but a mans venus is the type of women a man is attracted to i had a whole article about it. a womans is the mars. but yeah i think that is why im so attracted to virgo females or women with virgo rising

Don't worry I know exactly what you are going through at the moment. I have been on and off with an aquariun man now for about a month and a half and where us Virgo's need the Security and the feeling of safeness and contentment in a relationship the Aquarius man seems to be quite Aloof and distant which is hard for me, he can go days without contacting me. In those days I drive myself nuts thinking he just isn't that into me.... Then he pops up again like nothing ever happened. Although I am fine with giving him space, but just keep me in the loop thats all I ask.
I wonder if there is any other Virgo Woman - Aquarius Man relationships out there.... some advise would be great!

Hold up, your Venus determines who you are attracted to?

I have a Venus in Leo, and Scorpio women still do things to me.
I love my Sagittarius a lot though.

actually Venus shows you what kind of things your attracted to or what you u consider in your eyes beautiful it shows your social side your taste and the type of friends you have or like to keep. venus is basically ur style of expression like how i like to put it.


i got this from a website


Keywords:
romance, relating, friendships, art & beauty, harmony, attraction, passions
The Meaning of Venus in Astrology:

The realm of Venus is love and the emotions, and in astrology her influence is felt in all our relationships. The sign and house position of your Venus shows the kinds of atmospheres in which those connections are likely to happen. It also sheds light on what makes you attractive to others.

In friendships, Venus shows how you mingle, and what kinds of people you like to be around. Your —friendship style ?? has the nuances of your Venus, and determines things like how close you like to be emotionally, how you stay in touch, and how you —break-up?? with a friend. Clashing Venus signs can lead to misunderstandings because of different expectations about what it even means to be friends.

Venus guides our romantic lives since the sign and house position influences our tastes and attractions, and this leads to choosing a mate. It also determines how you experience good feelings, and in what situations these are brought out. If your Venus is in harmony with a potential romantic partner, you can create happy moods, and possibly an enduring relationship.

In the birth chart, look to Venus to reveal how you experience, and share beauty. Quite simply, Venus acts as a muse, leading you toward your passions. Through her eyes, you see the poignancy and color in life, and in return, may offer a personal expression of it, through an art form. But beyond that, it is how you pass on and integrate what you??ve absorbed of the meaning of life through your all-important and ever evolving web of relationships.