dayssunny
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Posted by dayssunny
Spin off from mind games post. Me and my girls just had a gab fest just now, literally like 20 mins. ago.
And I need some objective views in no way is this an attack. It's kind of cool if it's true because everyone including me had you pegged as innocent and fragile.
So they of course told me of all the wild things or negative things about Libras (me) and all of the many flaws and mind games that we can play.
But we went to my other girlfriend, let's call her "Sue". She's a virgo. A friend blurted out that Sue was really an evil puppet master and that all Virgos seem kind but underneath they are masterful manipulators. Now Sue seems so innocent and fragile. And all of these years we've all taken turns being the protector when people tried to mess with her.
But the way she gave us, this I don't know, grin I am not so sure how far off my other friend was. If she's a puppet master, I'd laugh my ass off. And I'd be happy that there was another layer to her innocent mask. Lawd, after a few drinks they even referenced Beyonce as a puppet master virgo kicking out the rest of the Destiny Child group. This is supposed to be cool and fun post.
Do we have you all wrong? Lol


Posted by OP3CRIMSIN
LV's right. Not all of us are like that and even then you have to check a Virgo's evolvement. Initially I feel we all have that manipulative trait where everything is about my gain, but we do change, becuase we analyze. I have pushed most of the way through that horrible tendency and try to act selflessly.

Posted by OP3CRIMSIN
I think every sign has a role in life. In fact I wanna put up a thread regarding this in depth but I need help LV. I need a positive descriptive word (1 word) for each sign as long as you feel that that positive word describes them more accurately over any negative describing words.

Posted by PandorasBox
Thing is we dont do things to gain. We do things for people to help.. And in turn when we ask for favors others cant say no because we have been there to help them. Perhaps not emotionally but physically. Let helpin with moral support or w/e Itd be hard to deny helpin someone who is so eager to help you in the first place. We make it hard for people to not like us haha!

Posted by domino_O
This thread is full of fail.

Posted by PandorasBoxPosted by LeGendary ViRGo
thats y we need to help vs wanting to help i dont know if that makes sense.
because need and want are 2 different things.
need is stronger and its very hard to understand those 2 terms for some people.
thats y people have to be clear with virgos because we are logical and we analyze and overthink 2 much.
yep. you make perfect-o sense-o. need is that internal yearnin; we dont feel happy or complete if we dont fulfill our needs.. wanting is just like an external superficial kind of feelin right?
lol, i make a fuss about things when people need somethin from me because I wanna do as they wish to a T and if possible surprise them with even more. lol. so explain it to me one more time or as many times as needed (usually just once, I have good aim 😛) but rest assured you'll get a job well done!!click to expand

Posted by OP3CRIMSINPosted by domino_O
This thread is full of fail.
What insight can you add to the thread then? Do you think the original poster's message has any validity?click to expand

Posted by OP3CRIMSIN
I've read once that we (Virgos) have the capacity for great love or great evil. Love because we understand the mechanics of giving selflessly, and evil because I do believe we could actually get together and plan a world domination, a bank heist, a murder etc. and think out all the details. I wouldn't though. Have you ever watched CSI? If you so much as fart at the crime scene they will find your ass, guaranteed!

Posted by OP3CRIMSIN
I've read once that we (Virgos) have the capacity for great love or great evil. Love because we understand the mechanics of giving selflessly, and evil because I do believe we could actually get together and plan a world domination, a bank heist, a murder etc. and think out all the details. I wouldn't though. Have you ever watched CSI? If you so much as fart at the crime scene they will find your ass, guaranteed!


Posted by OP3CRIMSIN
lol LV that's exactly where I read that. Good citing. And nice to meet you too. Why not post a pic or a sign instead of remaining in the shadows 😉




Posted by OP3CRIMSIN
Wow, now Lnana04 sound borderlining attacking. I don't know anything about Beyonce but at one time MJ stood for compassion the world over. Helping, donating, enthralling; some of his songs spread words of self-bettering and love for all races, also reminding us that our children are the future. Whether or not he actually did do some of the stuff he was accused of, at one time he was an icon.
I may have inner turmoil stirring always eating at me, but that is mine to share. You have to be worthy of seeing my core, but I can tell you my core is more love than manipulation. You're seriously going to label all of us because of what you saw in an episode of The Fake Housewives of Beverly Hills?!?
Posted by OP3CRIMSIN
Wow, now Lnana04 sound borderlining attacking. I don't know anything about Beyonce but at one time MJ stood for compassion the world over. Helping, donating, enthralling; some of his songs spread words of self-bettering and love for all races, also reminding us that our children are the future. Whether or not he actually did do some of the stuff he was accused of, at one time he was an icon.
I may have inner turmoil stirring always eating at me, but that is mine to share. You have to be worthy of seeing my core, but I can tell you my core is more love than manipulation. You're seriously going to label all of us because of what you saw in an episode of The Fake Housewives of Beverly Hills?!?
Posted by Lena282Posted by dayssunnyPosted by OP3CRIMSINPosted by domino_O
This thread is full of fail.
What insight can you add to the thread then? Do you think the original poster's message has any validity?
Thank you OP3. It's obvious that I meant the thread in a tongue and cheek fashion. Pointing out the flawed view that people have based on stereotypes of a sign, namely Virgo being fragile. Not all virgos are world leaders. But Domino if you aren't a Virgo then don't get your underwear in a bunch. If you think your sign is more capable of leading go start a thread on that. The thread is to uncover a different psychological aspect of the Virgo that I didn't know existed: evil genius, puppet masters, and cunning leaders vs. innocent virgins and mother teresas.
Trying to get Virgo to "compete" with the other signs by saying they're evil and manipulative...are you serious? Is that supposed to earn everyone's respect? Are we supposed to think they're cool now? wow please do not uglyfy this sign for me. I've always respects most Virgos for having enough courage to be honest and not put up with BS from people. They're no nonsense and straighforward/direct...that I respect. No one thinks they're fragile pushovers, and if you want an edge...well they do have that acid tongue😛click to expand


Posted by CarbonMonoxide
virgo ladies pretend be virgin but no are. no fool carbon
Posted by lnana04
All signs minus one.
I think Virgos have a tendency to hide from their truth. I don't think all Virgos are manipulative, but the manipulative Virgos are almost like Scorpios in the sense that they sting themselves horribly. They will play one person yet another person(usually their significant other) will end up playing them twice as hard. I don't think they look at their bad-luck as their karma, but that's what it seems to be.
On the outside, they will try to portray this happy care-free person, but in the inside it's the complete opposite. The more they go through, the more they try to hide it, not realizing that some folks, like myself, can tell something is going on. Virgos have a tendency to become extremely delusional if not careful.
Look at Micheal Jackson. Another example of doing what you want, yet playing the victim. Look at Beyonce too. She made that song "Survivor" then played the victim when people attacked her for the song.
Posted by lnana04
"I don't mean to imply that he was a bad person it's just that I have never met anyone who could get what he/she wanted/get others to respond to them in the way that Michael did.
That's exactly part of the manipulation imo.
Agreed but he did it with the intent to further his career. Not necessarily to hurt anyone.
"Some" virgos want people to respond to them a certain way. I don't find many Virgos to be accepting of naturally aggressive or abrasive personalities.
No, we're not...well at least I'm not.
A Virgo will break you down through manipulation by playing victim and labeling everything you say/do as harsh until that person is responding to that Virgo the way he/she is comfortable with.
I don't disagree with you here but that's not all of us. Some of us could care less and just walk away.
My sister does it all the time. She does whatever it is she pleases, and she make a lot of bad choices that we are left to pay and she NEVER apologizes for anything. When we start to yell she goes into victim mode and pretends as if her feelings are crushed, and before you know it, we are left feeling bad.
What do you mean by "left to pay". How old is she? Tell her to clean up her act and make her responsible for the consequences of her own decisions.
As far as Micheal, I love him, but I do think he manipulated people into feeling sorry for him so he could live life the way he wanted and always have an excuse to fall back on why he behaved the way he did, which was his childhood. I do think his childhood contributed to a lot of his behavior, but Micheal was no dummy. For example, He knew that inviting boys into his bedroom would get some type of attention, but it was what he wanted to do at the time. He did whatever he wanted to do, and he used that calm tone of voice and that perceived innocence to his advantage.
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And I need some objective views in no way is this an attack. It's kind of cool if it's true because everyone including me had you pegged as innocent and fragile.
So they of course told me of all the wild things or negative things about Libras (me) and all of the many flaws and mind games that we can play.
But we went to my other girlfriend, let's call her "Sue". She's a virgo. A friend blurted out that Sue was really an evil puppet master and that all Virgos seem kind but underneath they are masterful manipulators. Now Sue seems so innocent and fragile. And all of these years we've all taken turns being the protector when people tried to mess with her.
But the way she gave us, this I don't know, grin I am not so sure how far off my other friend was. If she's a puppet master, I'd laugh my ass off. And I'd be happy that there was another layer to her innocent mask. Lawd, after a few drinks they even referenced Beyonce as a puppet master virgo kicking out the rest of the Destiny Child group. This is supposed to be cool and fun post.
Do we have you all wrong? Lol