all the virgos i know are lonely and alone why is this
Virgo's will ALWAYS be ALONE
Maybe we choose to be-Alone. We don't have a problem being by ourselves. I know for myself being a Virgo that I really enjoy my time alone. It's easier to have a simple life but I do also want affection-but I want that to be very real.
Just want to comment on that topic. The reason we want to be alone is because we are shy and very independant. Althought we are earth signs and stay grounded we need that freedom to move about and think about things. This aloneness is just a way of coping with what life throws at us , without outside interference. We love and care for others but we respect our privacy as well.
You're HALF right - being alone isn't healthy. Everyone needs someone. When Virgos are alone, it's usually by choice. I'm a Virgo girl who would rather be alone than be with an a--h---!
yep well i agree its not healthy but sometimes theres nothing we can do about it..we are the loners of the zodiac..its hard to open up emotionally because we have been called all kinds of names even childish and so whats left but to be quiet and not say much..
I do make a point of keeping my mouth shut if I feel I can't say something intelligent, but if someone makes me angry, I blow up! Virgo is the sign with the most bachelors and bachelorettes, and I believe it's usually by choice because we're critical-minded perfectionists. I don't care if I don't get married until I'm 50. Gloria Steinem is almost 70 and got married for the first time a few years ago. She backed out of an engagement as a teenager believing marriage was prison. In reality, she wasn't ready until now.
198-165... I think you understand that Virgo's love with harsh criticism even though they honestly would like nothing in their lifetime other than to love another honest heart.
My ex boyfriend liked his time alone. He broked up with me (cancer). I hurt for a while - but realized it wasn't me. I was a very loving, patient, loyal and committed partner. Something you don't find too ofen in gay life. He is a free spirit and selfish. Sad to say, he probably won't change, and will be alone for a long time, unable to truly commit. Oh well.
very sad
NO WE WONT ALWAYS BE ALONE BUT WE NEED TIME TO GET TO KNOW YOU AND ANY SITUTION THAT WERE GETTING INTO WE ARE SHY PEOPLE WHO THINK MORE THAN WE NEED TO SOMETIMES BUT BEING ALONER IS ALWAYS A CHOICE FOR AVIRGO BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS ATTRACTED TOUS!
166-70. I also feel very passionately about my feelings and yes, I'm a Virgo. I would also like (love) to find and experience the touch of "true love." What is that? I, and many other's (Virgo's) have not found that- yet. (Just my dumb-ass Virgo response.) lol
True love is something that is something you have never felt about another person. It is different from loving your family, parents, children. To genuinely Love another person is the most awesome feeling. That's why it hurts so bad when things don't go well.
very true
do I know you 64? hmmmm.....
mybe you do 166!! am Taurus are you Virgo (smile)
mybe you do 166!! am Taurus are you Virgo (smile) I think virgo's love Taurus alot!!!!!!!!!!
back again*lol* just wanted to say that i don't think there is any particular sign that can't get along and all people have different personalities, its a matter of taste and choice i think. i agree with the other person its a matter of choice if we want to be alone.but i would rather not,this is a thought.. i have a problem ,its like i have a split personality i can be so shy yet the next moment so outgoing what is it ?alot of virgos are like it too! introverted-extroverted?
because we don't just settle for anyone or anything we go the distance or at lease I do. 21 male.
attn 64..
I am a cancer.
I am a cancer.
166 am marry to a cancer
166 am marry to a cancer
I dunno, I come up as 64 a lot so I get confused! lol
172.
i agree we do go the distance for the people we love but they love it at first but then reject it..it hurts..
seems no matter what we try to do ,it doesn't matter , it matters to me though cause i am a one on one person.
i agree we do go the distance for the people we love but they love it at first but then reject it..it hurts..
seems no matter what we try to do ,it doesn't matter , it matters to me though cause i am a one on one person.
I am also a "one on one" person. I feel deeply for my personal relationships, friendships, family relationships for whom is present in my life and my heart. I'm old fashioned even though I'm only 36. I have my morals about honesty and trusting. I would not be able to have my love split between two people at one time (talking about my personal relationships). I get attached to the person who loves and respects me the most. In turn, I love and appreciate them the same way. I don't think Virgo's will always be alone. I think they have patience to wait for the right person.
what do you mean when you say one-- on one—
I guess I could spell it out. I'm not into getting freaky. I care about- one- person- at- a- time. Anymore questions?
"one-on-one" to a Virgo means only careing about YOURSELF...
well now, that was just mean and ugly
I'm a Virgo who is NOT as selfish as I may sometimes act. It's true Virgos can sometimes act cold and even downright mean - it wasn't unusual for me - but they can also be warm and gentle, too. I'm only hostile if provoked.
I was having this convo with friends the other day. And being a virgo, with quite a few virgo friends we are all alone, ok periodically we get into relationships of some kind but fundamentally are usually known and expected to be on our own. I've been told I have an aura of untouchable about me. I'd say all my virgo friends fall into this category. hmmm But hey when the right one comes along, am sure we're all wise enough to know. And if it didn't work out. Well they obviously weren't.. the right one
Because they have difficulties to stand other people's stupidity. They can just not understand why other people are so unintelligent and so uncarrying and so selfish...Virgo's do not like arguing but if there is any argument you drive them into then you can expect a vulcanic thunder....the best thing to do is run as far as you can. They can kill you just with their wise and sharp tongue.Not talk about their eyes, they look like the devil itself...it is best to get Virgo's being alone. They like themselves.
I don't feel (being a virgo) that it's fair to say that however piercing our eye's might be, could be misconstrued as being like the devil "itself." In Chinese astrology, I'm also the year of the Snake. I'm a Virgo and the Snake with piercing eyes but yet, I'm harmless. As far as having a sharped tongue is concerned? Yep. I do have that. I'm not violent, just have an uncanny ability to cause pain verbally, when necessary. I dislike confrontation. I can handle my own thoughts and emotions in any given situation. I have been tested, many times. Being a Virgo, I would never cause a scene in public or any sort of public display. I choose to treat my relationships (as few as they are) with respect and mature reactions. As a Virgo, I wish more folks could handle themselves in a similar manner. Is that is a harsh statement? I have no regret for saying my peace about Virgo's. I catch and deflect a lot of crap on a regular basis. I think Virgo's are one of the most intellegent of all within the Zodiac. For "goooood" reason.
O, my, Good,!!! (if there is one)195.100.249.89 you see right through me!!!
And yes now that some of you mentiond sometimes I can't understand peope (they can't undrstand me eighter), why there rude, selfish, stupid (I'm no better sometime) but I don't show it, that probably one good thing about being a viro. It also make me feel better, when I'm alone and sad, knowing that I'm not the only one who f***'s up all the time and that there is people who are doing worse then me.
i to get called selfish and inconsiderate. i try not to be this way but it doesn't work out. anyways i find that i am trying to live my life and somehow i keep hurting my mate with my selfishness.
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