What are your thoughts on Libras?

*bats eyelashes*

We seem to be deemed too vain and lazy for your type.

Ummm... well for one... you're gorgeous.

My best friend is a Libra, and we are probably the closest you can get when you think of best friends. She's like my other half. I actually don't know too many libras, but recently I've been scoped out by libra men. As friends, I think they are just grand. We can have some good conversations and they are just wonderful people. Dating, I have not gone into that yet. There is a rather cute libra male I know, though...

Aw, thank you Candeh! You're quite striking, yourself.
As much as you don't know many Libras, I hardly know any Virgos.
For whatever reason, most of my friends tend to be Geminis, Aquarians,Leos and Scorpios.

And Shaka,I am being studied VERY closely. I feel like a science experiment.

Dumb and lazy.

Most Libra's that I know are immature little pricks.

Posted by dss_21
Dumb and lazy.

fucking smarter then you.

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Posted by dss_21
Dumb and lazy.

fucking smarter then you.

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Libras come in two flavours.

The arrogant smart ass know it alls with a condescending and judgemental tone.

Or the quiet, keep to themselves elegant sweet talkers.

However, they both are suckers for romance and chit chat. Extremely indecisive and almost always make the wrong decisions in love. They need to be in a relationship and once in it can be very demanding.

Libra women are train wrecks because of their poor choices and moral dilemma.

Libra men tend to be some of the top tier ladies men.

Though very attractive, faboulous hair and often well developed bodies, their pretentiousness irks me.

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Posted by dss_21
Dumb and lazy.

fucking smarter then you.

than*

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hahahaha!!!!

Libra\'s are cool, but i never took anything further than friendship...

ive had a very hit or miss thing going on with a libra girl for the past couple years. physically, shes pretty aggressive which is a turn on, but our failure to really break the ice communication wise drives me crazy. i think so far in life we have both relied on other people to bring our personalities out, so when we meet, its like we both tip toe around each other. like i said the physical attraction is high, and it seems far less risky for both of us to mess around than it is to reveal ourselves.

I just went on the libra board to try and find out why libra women are so f-n conceited. I know a lot of them and not one of them knows the meaning of the word humble or modest. I don't hate them or anything, it's just their self-centered attitudes are so off putting. I've always gotten along with libra males though; they're cool people.

So yeah, that pretty much sums up what I think about Libras.

Posted by Cajunspirit
Libras come in two flavours.

1. The arrogant smart ass know it alls with a condescending and judgemental tone.

Or the quiet, keep to themselves elegant sweet talkers.

However, they both are suckers for romance and chit chat. Extremely indecisive and almost always make the wrong decisions in love. They need to be in a relationship and once in it can be very demanding.

2. Libra women are train wrecks because of their poor choices and moral dilemma.

Libra men tend to be some of the top tier ladies men.

3. Though very attractive, faboulous hair and often well developed bodies, their pretentiousness irks me.

1. they're the same. the one you get depends on how worried they are about making a good impression. brash libra probably isn't interested in you. quiet libra likes you and wants you to like them back, so they keep quiet to avoid fucking that up.

2. poor choices and moral dilemma? i'm not very aware of this in myself or libra friends. could you provide some examples of how you've experienced these from libra?

3. guilty as charged. lol. the pretentious part too, unfortunately.

Posted by lesmon
ive had a very hit or miss thing going on with a libra girl for the past couple years. physically, shes pretty aggressive which is a turn on, but our failure to really break the ice communication wise drives me crazy. i think so far in life we have both relied on other people to bring our personalities out, so when we meet, its like we both tip toe around each other. like i said the physical attraction is high, and it seems far less risky for both of us to mess around than it is to reveal ourselves.

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that one hits way too close to home. minus the physical agression. though, if i got him alone someplace quiet, i'd surely pounce. the sexual tension is like whoa, but there's nothing to say, so nothing is ever going to happen. bummer too. i'm sure it would be amazing.

i should really force myself to say something, shouldn't i? but what, that's the problem.

Posted by DyTryin

My maternal grandparents were a Libra Man + Virgo Woman -- very successful relationship.

My First Wife of 20+ years was a Libra -- very content first half, and very disappointing second half.

We have lots in common mentally, BUT our emotional needs & means of expression are very different.

I definitely agree with the latter half of your statement.
We can connect on an intellectual level, but emotionally we couldn't be on further ends of the spectrum.

I don't intend to offend the Virgos, but expression in general seems to be a troublesome notion to a great deal of you.

I've only just become more in-tune with the Virgo I'm seeing, so I can tell when something's wrong or he disagrees with me,but he'll never bring it up himself. Sometimes he uses ME to articulate for HIM how he's feeling, because he absolutely refuses to do it on his own accord. I don't mind, but at the end of the day, I'm not a goddamn mind reader.

Just tell us what's on your mind!

Posted by 25thDecan
Prepare yourself for a book, then. And be sure you're ready to hear it without judging him for being weird or different or even twisted. That's the thing...virgo man=paragon as long as he keeps his humanity hidden from most women. Heyall that's the case with many women who have yet to realize that one's legitimacy to be quite independent and of one's own mind is less acceptable than a profile of traits and characteristics shopped around to people who wallow in the superficial and lament the lack of "passion and realness" they've always claimed to seek in others. Sigh...this will go unnoticed and unheeded even if replied too. So...like clockwork...any scorpion bitches wanna fight? Dat GUM scorpio women! Lmao

Oh, believe me, he couldn't out-weird me if he tried. Part of the reason we work is because he's very conventional and I'm quite eccentric. I push him to let his guard down and take risks, while he reels me in when I'm too "out there."
We balance one another quite nicely.

As far as being "hidden" goes, there has to come a time where you're ready to bare yourself; humanity and all.
But be wary Virgos, a lot of people's patience runs thin sooner than the Libra's!

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As far as being "hidden" goes, there has to come a time where you're ready to bare yourself; humanity and all.
But be wary Virgos, a lot of people's patience runs thin sooner than the Libra's!

that is why virgos are always left in the dust of their relationships...

They worship their women, they idolize their women, they tell their women, but they don't re-enforce their action with words, which leaves these same women to leave them to only find somebody better after they get a pedicure from the same men who took them in as Gods and put them on the pedestal rather than their girlfriends or wives...

Generally I tend to like them (shallowness aside). They strive for peace and harmony and tend to have refined tastes with excellent social graces. Physically, they are good to look at as they are almost always well-groomed. They can be a little over the top with the spending on the frivolous items but, if it works for them...

An unbalanced Libra is not a good thing to see. Too flighty and can't ever make up his/her mind. They are good people to take to a party because they can really get it started, be the life of it, and be the last ones walking out the door at the end of the night. All in all I find them fun to be around and they make for good lighthearted company.

The Libras i have encountered(in there hundreds) found them to be attractive, very smart, intelligent people. I don't click with them as they're simply too positive and popular.

From my experience they seem to make very loyal friends who can hold their own in intellectual conversations. I've never been interested in any on a romantic level though.

Posted by curious visitor

2. poor choices and moral dilemma? i'm not very aware of this in myself or libra friends. could you provide some examples of how you've experienced these from libra?

I dunno, sleeping with married men.
Throwing themselves at guys in relationships.
Thinking being the outside woman is fine.
Sleeping with your husband's family as a form of retribution.
Going for the guy they love but will totally treat them badly, leaving the guy who loves them in the dust.

Seen it happen time and time again.

Easily manipulated by superficial means.
Insanely volatile, ie willing to use your deepest secrets to trust you.
Act like idiots when around groups, as in value many over few.

Those top 3 are my main problems with them.
I feel like I can't trust Libra, unless they are absolutely in love with me, in which case...
It is probably based on superficiality, like, they fear they are uglier than me or I am better looking than them.

They have a great propensity for kindness and generosity, but cannot be expected to give it out of reciprocity only out of benevolence.

What I mean by this is, if you are down on your luck in whatever, you can ask them to help you, but they may shame you for it.

Yet, if you help them in a similar situation, and then come to them and ask that they reciprocate when you *need* they will refuse.

I had this experience alot when me and my Libra buddy were young and into 'hustling'... don't ask.

Intellectually we click. Emotionally only do on some axes. In the end, the Libra will disrespect the Virgo. The Virgo will lash out. The Libra will be not understand his anger and cruelty. The Libra will forgive and be clingy to get their loyal Virgo back. They will work it out once the Virgo explains. They will strengthen. The Libra will get lazy. The Libra will do the same ish again, and the Virgo will act harsher and more quickly. The Libra will once again not understand, they will use all in their arsenal, to hurt the Virgo, the Virgo will maintain themself. Because the Libra sees total war, and the Virgo sees it as holding their ground. They might make up. Rinse. Repeat. Rinse. Repeat.

In the end. The Libra will find the Virgo to be cold, unforgiving and stubborn, because everytime the Libra *fukcs up* the Virgo may pardon but never forgets and only half forgives, he simply adds it to the balance sheet. The Libra is hurt because they see the Virgo as one of the most *stable* people in their life, and only know how to adulate to get them back, which the Virgo will no longer trust and indeed be insulted by. The Libra wavers between blaming themself and blaming the Virgo, never decided.

The Virgo will find the Libra to be a Capricious and untrustworthy waste of affection and time. The Libra doesn't understand how much the Virgo cared for them and how hurt they made the Virgo. The Virgo freezes their heart, and when the Libra attempts at reconcilation the Virgo goes colder and more hurtful towards the Libra themself. The V

The Virgo will them dissapear from the Libra's life where as the will activate their clingy charge at the Virgo, which the Virgo will succumb to or abruptly evade. Then the Virgo will dissapear, and blame himself and the Libra fro the catastrophe and waste of time.

Also. The sex always seems to be missing something. There is some vital element between Virgo and Libra that always seems to have me, looking for the missing piece when I have sex with her.

A big fucking waste of hot.

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Posted by mr.crabby
A big fucking waste of hot.

lol, which side are you referring to? i'm assuming the virgo

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What are your thoughts on Libras?
-They're a big fucking waste of hot.


I have a Virgo moon, so perhaps I belong here a little.