What is your perception of VIRGOS?

I'm sure it's been covered before, but I'm too lazy to search through threads right now...
What is you perception of virgos? Virgo women in particular? I would love to do a question & answer session on us female virgos. I'm curious to know how others perceive me as a virgo woman verses how I actually intend to come across. Doesn't mean that I will change, but it would help to know others perceptions of us. I think we are the most misunderstood out of all the signs. People are so quick to loose patience with us but we are the most patient out of all the signs. Our patience benefits alot of people in our lives and I think some people take that for granted and don't realize they wouldnt be where they are today if it wasn't for the patience of a Virgo in their life. Just random thoughts....

oh yeah! and I really want to discuss in DETAIL what everyone thinks of the virgo woman's sexuality. Alot of misconceptions there as well....

Having been married to a Virg female, I am of the opinion that their sex drive leaves much to be desired. Very much. Maybe I'm just an oversexed Virgo male myself, who has yet to find his sexual peer in the bedroom. But regardless, my take is that they withold alot of their drive and sensuality.

Obvious

Predictable

Silent orgasms

promiscuous

Virgo's are great friends and quite secretive about their sexual side 😉. I never get juicy details about my best friend's love life! They seem to be quiet but are strong; they'll follow but only when they want too. Virgo's aren't flamboyant but their virtues do not go unnoticed to those smart enough to see them.

Hmm, I think there are different types of virgo's, which makes it hard to generalise. Also due to my moon placement i'm very different to what alot of virgo's are, but I do still have some of the well known traits of virgo. I personally quite liked this description of a virgo woman (below). As usual, I disagree with some of it but on the whole a majority of it is accurate enough. One clash i've noticed with virgo's is that they either seem to be very kinky little being with a large appetite for "it", or be the complete opposite. Doesn't seem to be much inbetween.

http://mizian.com.ne.kr/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/virgo.htm

Lol yeah, there were quite a few bits I didn't agree with in the virgo woman one, but the essentials were fairly accurate. Don't get me started on the bits I didn't agree with lol!

Yeah i'll get to it shaka, got sick a couple of days ago and am feeling pretty tired from work. Will probably do it tomorrow unless I get another random hit of energy and can't sleep tonight lol.

the ones i know at my school are all really quiet and don't really talk. i think they just don't want to be embarassed so they clam up.

I can only speak from my one experience with a Virgirl. Sex wise it was great. It was like dating someone that was always in the mood at the same time I was, wanted it as often, wanted it as long as I did.

Cappywench is right on about this:
"I think you have forgotten that virgals (and virguys) are usually very sociable and have a great earthy sense of humour. They also love to talk about anything and everything. That to me is a plus.

I think their downside is their propensity to criticise and nitpick."

Honestly thats me and the Virgirl I was with in a nutshell. It would explain whey we instantly clicked. Conversely, the same girl did the "Virgo sudden turn and bolt" on me.

Fond memories 🙂

The Gemini, was pretty accurate as it also nailed the virgo male as i have observed....

What's my perception of Virgos...Now this is just MY oppinion that comes from interacting and watching every Virgo on here, and in my own life, and here is the collective research....

The ones I know are people who are perfectly content with keeping to themselves becuase they SECRETLY feel and KNOW they need answer to no one: Although they have no desire to 'go against the grain to make a staement' they can be rebellious if the situation dosen't suite their particular ideas/beliefs, and find it quite easy to 'fly solo' or if they feel personally 'untrue/stagnant' they ditch it QUICK becuase they value their own ideas and independent thought which ususally is why they can ABHORE the more forceful/restrictive/conservative types.

However calm, cool, and collected they appear on the surface they enjoy conversation, and theories, and arguments (mentally lively individuals that just enjoy mental discoveries) These people are prone to change but use their ideas as a model for timing as WHEN to change, and as a result may be seen as opportunistic, manipulative ....normally stubborn, and somewhat inflexible when in a mood, but normally in terms of the mind, capable of a vast amounts of understanding, and open mindedness when NOT BEING FORCED....Virgoans don't like being forced, or being controlled; a good many Virgos KNOW that no one possesses them but themselves which can usually cause a great deal of confusion/upheaval and misunderstandings contrary to the signs aledged mutability. Let's face it: with these people it's just a theory to adapt!

Unlike the other more rational signs, Virgo possesses a DEEPLY veiled emotionality that is anything but superficial and helps them connect with others and share access to profound emotion....though if the Virgo is uncomfortable with their heart, and favors their head they will miss out on their 'synchronicity' and the blending/merging of their own being, and becoming the person they were meant to be leaving them often with an deeply ingrained sense of 'incompletion'....they aren't living up to their potential to be simply put.


Personally, I feel in order to be fully active and human, you should accept yourself.....accepting the self is the greatest lesson I think a person could learn, becuase it bridges the gap from all things selfish/self-involved (ego concerns, and individual petty worries) into the world/society at large. It helps us to be more outgoing, and more involved with the development of society

I think we could all learn a thing or two if we just made like Virgins and really took a new look at the way we see things both old and new....expanding our awareness is apart of our nature as humans....we all want to know what lies beyond ordinary sight, feel, and just ordinary experience and to do so, we have to drop preconcieved notions and ideas that are formed about the sign....

A Virgin feels Virginial only in the fact that it feels that it is still naive in someway and must search constantly for more information to be informed, to be whole, and to be at state of mind where they can give back and put their hungry mind at rest....when placed in that light, it seems like a person whom claims a great deal of responsibility and assumes a high position in life to engage it's destiny as a mentor, or someone of noble authority.

I think this teaches us through initiative, we engage our destiny, and transform mentally and thus spiritually...we change ourselves from the lesser person we were (and being modsest and meticulous dosen't ALWAYS imply a better way of being) be getting over the finer points, and start to look at what REALLY counts.



There is more going on than what one pair of eyes can see.....

But dont worry, my GF might be a Virgirl..my best female friend is still THAT Pisces in some ways I have a connection with her that I still dont have with my Virgirl, not romance-wise though, so Im not worried. Shes with a Libra now, seems like she digs Air types romantically too..(she has moon in aqua)

I have an Aqua moon! That's probably why we get along LOL.

My perception of Virgo males is that they are unsure about many things. Ir takes them a while to get balanced. They surely will not jump into anything if they aren't sure.

tac

fuck outta here with these ugly ass pics of women you insist on posting.

Whats up babe? where have you been all my life?

Oh..forgot you only dig guys 30+ will be a long wait I guess..

HAHAHAHAHA!!!! I don't favor older guys! Where did you get that idea —

So I'd like to see a pic of yours to decide if the waiting is worth

LMAO!!!

OMG, Strings is all that! 😛

Well, P-Angel... you're right. I've been promiscuous for decades. 😉

I am very anal(ytical) and I can be critical when I open that door. I will sit on my thoughts quite often. I like Strings explanation of needing to jump in (Sound off, Shiphorn... pretty much). Do I nitpick, when I am made annoyed I can become very annoying. Sometimes I annoy others for shits and giggles. 🙂

For the most part, I am nice, patient, misunderstood and very much so hated on. People call me self-righteous, miss goody-goody, I'm boring because I don't like heated drama, I'm ALWAYS wrong for holding a grudge or not forgviving (Seemingly) when I didn't even start the fire. 😢

Sexually, I love it, but I don't have it as often as a water sign would. I definitely agree an hour is a quickie. Sex is about making love and that can not be rushed. It's probably why I don't have as much as I would like,not big on the quickie thing. I talk and am noisy. I will get really freaky, short of licking someone's ass of course. Nothing sick or twisted though like animals or corpses. I can do it in public as long as I dont get caught by authorities. Call me boring for that but only a dumbass would want to go to jail for sex in public.

I think that most Virgo's are promiscuous (or potentially) and the more comfortable we get with that the closer we are to finding our inner freak and releasing it. We'll have brains, beauty and eroticism. Talk about a bad mutha... let me shut my mouth. 🙂

Sexually, I love it, but I don't have it as often as a water sign would. I definitely agree an hour is a quickie. Sex is about making love and that can not be rushed. It's probably why I don't have as much as I would like,not big on the quickie thing. I talk and am noisy. I will get really freaky, short of licking someone's ass of course. Nothing sick or twisted though like animals or corpses. I can do it in public as long as I dont get caught by authorities. Call me boring for that but only a dumbass would want to go to jail for sex in public.

Wait ... an hour is a quickie —? LOL

how is one hour a quickie? one hour is a long time. read the definition of quick.

quickie: a 'brief' act of sexual intercourse.

Zero ....

"A Virgin feels Virginial only in the fact that it feels that it is still naive in someway and must search constantly for more information to be informed, to be whole, and to be at state of mind where they can give back and put their hungry mind at rest."



Sexually speaking, VE .. this sounds about right. Sex (along with all things in life), is a service being provided according to what information has been obtained. With this information, the Virgo feels wholesome in being able to effectively perform. However, if "sex" gets mixed-up, spontaneously gets changed .. then the Virgo then becomes reserved, unresponsive .. appearing to be naive while he observes.

Often, people have come in here and said that once they started to have intimate relations with a male Virgo, he will halt in moving forward within the sexuality .. pulls back and appears shy.

This is because, like all things in life .. there has to be precision in order for him to perform, he has to finely-tune mentally what it is he thinks the other person wants .. so he can provide sexually within his mind, so his hungry thoughts can be put to rest, according to what his perception is of what the other person wants/desires.

Once in a sexual relationship and it has been established what his woman needs to orgasm .. he won't mix-it-up spontaneously, rather, diligently maintain the proven with intentions of making it accurate.

Virgos would probably make fantastic prostitutes ... for once a routine is down-pat, there's no varying off-course .. and when someone seeks the service of a whore, there is no desire for a passionate embrace or romance .. the only thing wanted is the quickest and most efficient way to orgasm.

Of course it depends on the individuals involved.

Getting your rocks off basically is 60mins OR LESS:

- 10mins of foreplay
- 10mins of oral for her
- 10mins of oral for him
- 10mins of missionary
- 10mins of her on top
- 10mins of doggy style

And that's 1hr where things are HOPEFULLY all squeezed in equally (usually not). Quickies are done strictly for your health because the body is needing to "release".

Love making in an hour to me is a drive-by. Plain and simple. Passionate love making is an EXPERIENCE! No one is done in an hour if you're really into it. You just pass out from exhaustion and wake up later in the day or the next day wondering what made BOTH of you STOP and SLEEP. When you remember it, your thoughts are "OH MY DAMNNNN that was good!!!" 😉

P-Angel said: "Once in a sexual relationship and it has been established what his woman needs to orgasm .. he won't mix-it-up spontaneously, rather, diligently maintain the proven with intentions of making it accurate."

For a quickie I see nothing wrong with this. I haven't been with enough Virgo men to recognize this. But, if I know Virgo's then I would say if this method is a problem just talk it over with your Virgo because we listen, ponder and try to improve so hopefully you can get what you want.

I know some may have a problem with having to tell your mate what you need sexually, takes away from it I guess... But, we are a goal focused people. The goal is to get/keep you sexually satisfied. That's what we want to do correctly. Yes, I do shy back sometimes during sex only because I don't want to appear to be running the show. Doubting that someone else can take the lead and make it perfect just as I would.

I also lay low a bit to see how far this can go without my wild passion guiding it. I've had men bring the devil out of me and I have had men bore the devil out of me. It depends on who you're with and what you're willing to do to make it a worthwhile experience. Some men can make you want to go Bonnie & Clyde while others just make you want to go Run & Hide.

It's all circumstantial.

"if this method is a problem just talk it over with your Virgo because we listen, ponder and try to improve so hopefully you can get what you want."


That's impossible .. sexual desire is in opposition .. sexual emotion isn't mental for me .. What I want is NOT to THINK of sex as a service to perform, and he cannot .. he's a Virgo.


"we are a goal focused people"

Yes, I know .. that is what I described already. The goal is apart of thinking sex.

There is no goal .. a goal means to find an end .. a goal means to follow a course to get you to the finish successfully .. to my Fishy self, this makes for a ZERO sexual compatibility, because there is no end, there is no absolute, there is no proper or right course, it has nothing to do with victory or success in reaching a point .. orgasms mean NOTHING to me ...

.. it's the road taken, the journey along the way ..

.. changing the scenery, the tone, the style ..

.. it's the complete opposite of reaching climax ..



There is no end or desire for orgasm, only the anticipation along the way that is the excitment, the thrill that hieghtens the desire ... Virgo's aim is to get to the end, the climax is their goal .. the effort they put forth is for purposes of placing a period. They then relish in wanting to know that they've succeeded, that they were good at performing and will ask the question afterwards .. it's in knowing that they were incredible in giving their partner the sexual gratification of an orgasm that they then lay back and cherish, to make them feel wholesome.


And .. to me .. there is no gratification so long as the aim is orgasm, for then it's not the path of desire or passion that was the motivation, not the journey at all .... it was the conclusion.

Male Virgos...The absolute best sex I've ever had before...other than with an Aqua guy...
The virgo was VERY secretive about us having a sexual relationship..he was very respectable while in my presence...Im not sure what he had to say about me behind my back though...He, that that time was my knight in shining armor..he came to my resuce and I didnt even know him..after that he had my friendship and loyalty right away...He was one of the only men who I would allow to give me any sort of advice...he nevr spoke down to me and his eyes lit up when I spoke about my goals and dreams(I've got many, im an Aqua gal)...I was the initator when it came to the bedroom action, but he most def. finished that sh*t!!...but around June he became very cold and distant towards me for no reason...I nevr nagged him, wasnt clingy nor desp...then we reunited and I was looking for a place for the two of us to move into..when I called him with my results he acted as if he had no idea what I was talking about....WTF...I eventually found out a few months later that his girlfriend had just given birth to their son....I wasnt hurt, hell...better he than me...Im 27 and still no kids...I've waited this long, when I do have kids I'll more than likely be married first.

lol



" .. June he became very cold and distant towards me for no reason..."

"...I eventually found out a few months later that his girlfriend had just given birth to their son.... "



This isn't saying you found out he HAD a girlfriend, rather, found out that she had just given birth to his child .. then went on to talk about how this didn't hurt you, so, it is assumed that you knew about the girlfriend.

What's so hilarious to me is the first quote above .. "distant towards me for no reason" ... funny shit, right there.

"Thaters" .... lol

What, why ... not just "that" he become distant. You are feeling dejected/rejected/confused/abandoned over "that" he pulled away. Look at "what" was going on and reason out, rather than just allowing your emotions to respond to "that" he did this.


Can only recognize "that" he was cold and distant which spurred an emotion, without any awareness of "what" had taken place to make him this way .. eventhough it was said.

Naw, I had NO idea he had a girlfriend...however the city that I live in the ratio is 21:1 which says that most men living in this city have a few "girlfirends"...

I dont prey on men with girlfriends nor wives...I can find my own dog.

And the reason I didnt feel hurt by the news, was because he was soo proud of his son and I guess I finally recieved some closure...and an answer to why he just started acting differently...I didnt feel as though he was my soul mate, he was a fun boy...thats about it. He looked out for me, and I really needed it at that time.

Some folks come into your life JUST for a SEASON...I wanted the season to be longer, but it lasted long enough. I do wish him and his new family very well. I just dont see me as "baby mama" material.

And your right about the whole "that" and "what" crap...

like I said once I found out that he indeed had a newborn baby, barely one month old...I understood his reason for distancing himself from me...I was ok with it. I'm still a free bird. I might want to go to London next week...and I can do that.

P-Angel said: "it has nothing to do with victory or success in reaching a point .. orgasms mean NOTHING to me ...

.. it's the road taken, the journey along the way .."

*****
Very profound. 🙂

I never thought about it the way you put it in this entire post. I knew that perhaps discussing some things takes the joy out of it for people (sex, fighting, adventure). I just never knew that anothers reasons for having sex could be such a PITA to someone else. Nothing's wrong with that, feelings are feelings. Just that it could "ruin" the experience befuddles me. I'm not talking about people who (without a doubt) show this kind of thoughtless motive in action and word. That is bold and rude and one should just get up and get dress and leave that person with a wake-up call.

I relate to this mainly because I don't appreciate when a man behaves like I'm not there during sex. I'm not a hole in the wall, he should know the difference. Talk to me, rub my hair, kiss my neck. Let me know that YOU know you're not the only one in the room. So, I agree love-making should feel like a journey, with no reason except to love, no rush because the time is now and being with your love should be enjoyed completely. Tune the rest of the world out.

starchild said: "I might want to go to London next week...and I can do that."

*****
That's hott!!! 😉

Always do you! I know how I desire to be when it comes to romance. Unfortunately, I can't control others so my plan doesn't always go as smoothly as hoped. None the less, knowing is half the battle.

Yeah Virgo being a Feminine sign I have had some relationships but there were serious quirks > 2 Virgo prostitutes one I gave her a 100 bucks and she didn't give me any sex she just baught cocaine this other girl was so umhh uhhh enigmatic but sexy I have had sex with her about 3 times but everytime she was virginal she would hurt so bad I could never penetrate her > Virgo is nice, very nice some humble variation of its opposition.

Yeah you wouldn't think it possible but Virgo is very sexual but its all so latent and waiting to be expressed I like its ok nice but that's my mixed vibration.

Yeah Virgo being a Feminine sign I have had some relationships but there were serious quirks > 2 Virgo prostitutes one I gave her a 100 bucks and she didn't give me any sex she just baught cocaine this other girl was so umhh uhhh enigmatic but sexy I have had sex with her about 3 times but everytime she was virginal she would hurt so bad I could never penetrate her > Virgo is nice, very nice some humble variation of its opposition.

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Virgo woman being born in a Feminine sign you have to tweak out all that potential its nice its all latent and unexpressed unlike the Aries but then Virgo just might turn out to be far more erotic > Aries woman is born in a Masculine sign and sometimes will refuse to comply to a demand but with Virgo you can do just about anything! I have had a few experiences with both Aries and Virgo and Virgo is more fun > this once, she just took of everything and she was sitting on the bed and I wanted to eat her so I says lay on your back and spread your legs but she din't taste or smell good besides she had problems I was hurting her couldn't penetrate her some virginal prostie from uhm I think Tennessee, I should have demanded that she bathe with me and I use some soap on her and then give her some rough sex break her in yeah? good for her but other than this she's Virgo like clean place and she sprayed the bed after we had sex heh heh I will never forget her.

Yeah I don't do it anymore I used to mess around and get into trouble but I was always asking around for the signs and feeling the vibe yup got into trouble (crabs and cops) but I used to be experimental like that not now though > I'm from ATL not like y'all uhhhh lilly ass suburbanites?

I think they're beautiful people who are often just misunderstood. But all it takes is one person to truly listen to what is on their mind and in their hearts and you'll have a friend or partner for life. They will not feed you what you want to hear but they will give you the reality of things holding your best interests at heart. They are very deep people that take forever to open up but once they do it is worth it! 🙂 But, they are often their own worst critic which isn't good at all..

Quiet, they hold back ALOT, confusing, reserved, precise, willing to please... submissive, cooperative.